History Main / DaterApe

* In ''Film/BasicInstinct'', the first scene of Nick and Beth in her flat qualifies as this. He aggressively comes on to her, and she enjoys it at first. By the end, he forces himself onto her, and she's clearly struggling against him. After they're done, she calls him out on the fact that he wasn't making ''love'' to her and angrily tells him to leave.

* ''Series/LawAndOrderSVU'': In "[[Recap/LawAndOrderSpecialVictimsUnitS7E2Design Desire]]" April went out with several men and drugged them with rohypnol. While they were unconscious, she used a device to rape them and get their sperm.

The term "roofied" is occasionally applied to the actual drugging of someone, and in fiction is often used to describe someone who is drugged and made to do something against their will -- but not always in the context of rape.

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* Happened to [[spoiler:Chizuru "Chizu" Honda]] in the ''Manga/{{Bokurano}}'' manga, when her boyfriend and teacher Hatagai led her to a love hotel room and had her gangraped by his friends. Even worse, [[TeenPregnancy she was impregnated]] and he didn't care. [[spoiler:[[BreakTheCutie No wonder Chizu SNAPPED afterwards]].]]

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* ''Fanfic/ISpokeAsAChild'' is a short ''Foster's Home For Imaginary Friends'' DarkFic themed around this. After Frankie is assaulted by her date, the rest of the fic deals with the next few days. In her stressed state, Frankie has an outburst at Mac and curses him out. The next day she apologizes to him and has to explain the situation in a way a nine year old would understand.
* In [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7RuuYOe8X14 this crossover fanvid]] between ''Cinderella'' and ''Sinbad: Legend of the Seven Seas''. Marina uses [[LovePotion magic to change every things]] so that Charming is in love with her, not Cinderella. Marina has sex with Charming but the potion wears off in the morning. It's treated as a rape and Marina is thrown in jail to rot.

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* In ''Film/BasicInstinct'', the first scene of Nick and Beth in her flat qualifies as this. He aggressively comes on to her, and she enjoys it at first. By the end, he forces himself onto her, and she's clearly struggling against him. After they're done, she calls him out on that fact that he wasn't making ''love'' to her, and angrily tells him to leave.

* The song Summer Nights in ''Film/{{Grease}}'' has a touch of it. "Tell me more, tell me more, ''did she put up a fight?''" Well, it ''is'' TheFifties...

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* ''Literature/{{Swordspoint}}'': In ''The Privilege of the Sword'', Artemisia Fitz Levi goes to a somewhat disreputable ball with her fiance, they end up in a secluded corner, and before she knows what's happening enough to protest, he's taking her virginity. He doesn't seem to consider this rape at all, and blames her for the fact that it even happened.

* The second book of the ''Literature/{{Nightrunner}}'' series has an unfortunately ambiguous example. The protagonist Alec, 16 years old and very virginal[[note]] Up to this point in the story, he was unusually shy about things like nudity and had literally zero sexual attraction to anyone, which is part of the reason readers often head-canon him as demisexual or as having SingleTargetSexuality for the friend he actually falls in love with. The author may have meant it as a sign of delayed puberty due to his [[spoiler: half-elven]] heritage - or just as a gender-flipped version of MyGirlIsNotASlut since this is an early m/m romance series.[[/note]], gets very drunk at a party. A seductive woman of his acquaintance (she's the kindly old mentor character's mistress as well as having regular sex with another male friend), who has a reputation of being a "virgin chaser" / "man-eater" and who also wants to perform some villainous, plot-relevant magic on Alec once she gets him alone and asleep, flirts with him while also putting a seduction spell on him, which could be interpreted as the magical equivalent of roofies. She asks if he wants to be let go, but she doesn't lift the spell for this and he's still drunk. He says no, and she teleports him away for a night of off-screen marathon sex. The next morning, Alec initially claims it was great when his best friend asks [[note]] Though said friend had a habit of laughing at him whenever he got groped or kissed against his will by a girl before, and generally had an attitude of "You need to get laid."[[/note]], but his internal narration afterwards is more ambivalent, stating that he feels used and in need of a bath, and later the friend briefly notices that Alec seems to avoid standing close to the woman at social gatherings. While Alec was in the woman's bed, several characters worried about what kind of magic the woman was using on him, but the only one seriously worried about the sexual consent issue was basically an old lady who'd been celibate all her life and who is described as "prim" in this scene. There's never really any indepth discussion about what happened and the main characters kind of joke about the woman using magic to get formerly celibate men into bed later on. Not even the kindly authority figure whose mistress she is [[note]] Their's is an open relationship, with the man already elderly and perfectly aware that she's just with him to learn magic from him. He's not in love with her either.[[/note]] actually seems to investigate what magic she was using on the boy, while he was sleeping or earlier. Which is why the woman's villain status is a surprise for the good guys later on in the plot. It's hard to say if this was meant to reflect the male characters' [[DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale double standards]] and that it comes back to bite them in the ass, or if the author genuinely thought this wasn't a big deal that needed to be clarified with regards to Alec's ability to give free consent. Especially since this was written in the early 1990s.

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* ''Series/VeronicaMars'': Part of the backstory told in flashbacks. Veronica is roofied during a high school party end of her sophomore year and wakes up partially unclothed the next morning. She tries to report what happens and Sheriff Lamb calls her a slut and kicks her out of the station. Which explains why she hates him so much. [[spoiler: At the end of season 1 she finds out she was drugged when Madison (who had just been drugged herself) spit in her drink. Duncan rescued her at first, getting her to a safe room. Then he was drugged and put in the same room. Duncan in his state thought she had consented. Logan was the one that brought the drugs to the party. Then at the end of the 2nd season she find out that mass murderer Beaver had raped her that night. In season 3 she can't understand why Logan goes as far as he does to protect her as she investigates a serial rapist, who targets her but is scared off by Logan.]]

* Of the "acquaintance" variety on ''Series/StrongMedicine''. A party is held to celebrate the promotion of one of the hospital's surgeons. Afterwards, he encounters one of his colleagues, Dr. Lu Delgado, in the parking lot and offers her a ride. She accepts. . .and the next scene is of her wandering into the ER, declaring that she's been raped. We never see what happened but her story is that after driving her home, he walked her to her apartment, made advances to her, and didn't listen when she told him "No".

* ''Series/{{Harrow}}'': In "Malum In Se" ("Evil in Itself"), Harrow and Grace uncover a case of date rape at WildTeenParty while investigating a decades old death. Although not directly connected to the death, it does result in the capture of a sexual predator.
* ''{{Series/Liar}}'': Laura accuses Andrew of this (after drugging her drink), and looks into his past, finding incidents making her think he did it to other women as well. [[spoiler:He's guilty of not only her rape, but ''many'' more.]]

* The MusicVideo for "E-Talking" by Music/{{Soulwax}} is about a club with each of party-goers under the effect of a drug for each letter of the alphabet. R and S corresponds to groggy looking girl under the effects of Rohypnol and a shifty-looking guy on Steroids that is claiming he is going to take her home.

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%% No real life examples on rape tropes. Seriously.

* Happens to Noelle in ''Film/{{MFA}}''. This happens to Noelle when she goes on a date with her classmate, then into his dorm room where he forces himself on her. Her attempts to find some kind of justice set in motion the events that will turn her into a {{vigilante}}, hunting and killing those who have got away with rape or sexual assault.

In RealLife, a perpetrator of date rape is less likely to be arrested, and even less likely than that to be convicted, for numerous reasons. (The victim may not ''want'' the attacker arrested, the attacker may be apologetic, and most of all, proving lack of consent can be very hard.) Sadly, this type of rape can often be ''harder'' for a victim to recover from than it is when inflicted by a stranger.

* Happens to Noelle in ''Film/{{MFA}}''. Her attempts to find some kind of justice set in motion the events that will turn her into a {{Vigilante}}; hunting a killing those who have got away with sexual assault.

* Subversion: while the song is merely a flirtatious woman teasing a potential lover by playing the ByNoIMeanYes card, Holly Dunn's 1991 single "Maybe I Mean Yes" was perceived by many listeners as a condonement of date rape (particularly the lyric "When I say 'no', I mean 'maybe', or maybe I mean 'yes'." Although Dunn stood by the song's more innocent meaning, she still withdrew it as a single anyway, and the ensuing controversy proved to be a CreatorKiller.

* ''Fanfic/ISpokeAsAChild'' is a short ''Foster's Home For Imaginary Friends'' DarkFic themed around this. After Frankie is assaulted by her date, the rest of the fic deals with the next few days. In her stressed statr, Frankie has an outburst at Mac and curses him out. The next day she apologizes to him and has to explain the situation in a way a nine year old would understand.

* There's a clearly meant-to-be-educational example in the novel ''Literature/Rule34'' by Charles Stross. Unusually, the moral is not a victim-blaming "Girls, beware of guys you don't know and don't drink", but rather "Only yes means yes." and "Rapists are violent psychopaths, not people who just made a mistake, or just [[ImAGuyICantHelpMyself 'boys being boys']].", and it seems specifically aimed at a young male readership, the ones who commonly make jokes about "surprise buttsex". What happens in the book is that one polyamorous female character, who likes to have one-night-stands when in a strange city, unknowingly gets into bed with the book's villain. She consented to rough sex, but not to anal. In the middle of the sex scene, he just turns her around and penetrates her anally, hurting her but finishing so fast that she doesn't even have time to really struggle. Then he tells her to leave, her purpose for him having been fulfilled. Later in the shower, she's very upset but unsure herself whether that qualified as rape. But when she tells the main character (a policewoman) what happened, she confirms that yes, of course it was rape. Later on in the book, the rapist is described as ''certifiably'' psychopathic several times and the reader gets to witness firsthand what exactly that means through his POV.

* A story arc about Paige on ''Series/{{Degrassi}}'' revolved around this trope. She goes to a party, flirts with a boy, gets raped, and has to testify.

* ''Series/VeronicaMars'': Part of the backstory told in flashbacks. Veronica is roofied during a high school party end of her sophomore year and wakes up partially unclothed the next morning. She tries to report what happens and Sheriff Lamb calls her a slut and kicks her out of the station. Which explains why she hates him so much. [[spoiler: At the end of season 1 she finds out she was drugged when Madison gave her a trip to the dentist. Duncan rescued her at first, getting her to a safe room. Then he was drugged and put in the same room. Duncan in his state thought she had consented. Logan was the one that brought the drugs to the party. Then at the end of the 2nd season she find out that mass murderer Beaver had raped her that night. In season 3 she can't understand why Logan goes as far as he does to protect her as she investigates a serial rapist, who targets her but is scared off by Logan.]]

* Subverted on ''Series/{{Sisters}}'' when Cat (daughter of second-oldest sister Teddy) meets a classmate in his dormitory for a ''study'' date rather than the typical romantic scenario. They start making out, but she nixes it because she doesn't feel ready to sleep with him yet. He's not pleased, but she doesn't realize just how angry he is until she goes for her run that evening. . . and he shows up at the track and assaults her.
** During her attacker's trial, her aunt Georgie (the middle sister) admits to having been date-raped herself while in high school.

* ''Fanfic/ISpokeAsAChild'' is a short ''Foster's Home For Imaginary Friends'' DarkFic themed around this. After Frankie is assaulted by her date, the rest of the fic deals with the next few days. In her stressed statr, Frankie has an outburst at Mac and curses him out. The next day she apologizes to him and has to explain the situation in a way an eight year old would understand.

* Happened to [[spoiler:Chizuru "Chizu" Honda]] in the Manga/{{Bokurano}} manga, when [[spoiler:her boyfriend and teacher Hatagai led her to a love hotel room and had her gangraped by his friends. Even worse, [[TeenPregnancy she was impregnated]] and he didn't care. [[BreakTheCutie No wonder Chizu SNAPPED afterwards]].]]

* The second book of the ''Literature/{{Nightrunners}}'' series has an unfortunately ambiguous example. The protagonist Alec, 16 years old and very virginal[[note]] Up to this point in the story, he was unusually shy about things like nudity and had literally zero sexual attraction to anyone, which is part of the reason readers often head-canon him as demisexual or as having SingleTargetSexuality for the friend he actually falls in love with. The author may have meant it as a sign of delayed puberty due to his [[spoiler: half-elven]] heritage - or just as a gender-flipped version of MyGirlIsNotASlut since this is an early m/m romance series.[[/note]], gets very drunk at a party. A seductive woman of his acquaintance (she's the kindly old mentor character's mistress as well as having regular sex with another male friend), who has a reputation of being a "virgin chaser" / "man-eater" and who also wants to perform some villainous, plot-relevant magic on Alec once she gets him alone and asleep, flirts with him while also putting a seduction spell on him, which could be interpreted as the magical equivalent of roofies. She asks if he wants to be let go, but she doesn't lift the spell for this and he's still drunk. He says no, and she teleports him away for a night of off-screen marathon sex. The next morning, Alec initially claims it was great when his best friend asks [[note]] Though said friend had a habit of laughing at him whenever he got groped or kissed against his will by a girl before, and generally had an attitude of "You need to get laid."[[/note]], but his internal narration afterwards is more ambivalent, stating that he feels used and in need of a bath, and later the friend briefly notices that Alec seems to avoid standing close to the woman at social gatherings. While Alec was in the woman's bed, several characters worried about what kind of magic the woman was using on him, but the only one seriously worried about the sexual consent issue was basically an old lady who'd been celibate all her life and who is described as "prim" in this scene. There's never really any indepth discussion about what happened and the main characters kind of joke about the woman using magic to get formerly celibate men into bed later on. Not even the kindly authority figure whose mistress she is [[note]] Their's is an open relationship, with the man already elderly and perfectly aware that she's just with him to learn magic from him. He's not in love with her either.[[/note]] actually seems to investigate what magic she was using on the boy, while he was sleeping or earlier. Which is why the woman's villain status is a surprise for the good guys later on in the plot. It's hard to say if this was meant to reflect the male characters' [[DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale double standards]] and that it comes back to bite them in the ass, or if the author genuinely thought this wasn't a big deal that needed to be clarified with regards to Alec's ability to give free consent. Especially since this was written in the early 1990s.

* The second book of the ''Literature/Nightrunners'' series has an unfortunately ambiguous example. The protagonist Alec, 16 years old and very virginal[[note]] Up to this point in the story, he was unusually shy about things like nudity and had literally zero sexual attraction to anyone, which is part of the reason readers often head-canon him as demisexual or as having SingleTargetSexuality for the friend he actually falls in love with. The author may have meant it as a sign of delayed puberty due to his [[spoiler: half-elven]] heritage - or just as a gender-flipped version of MyGirlIsNotASlut since this is an early m/m romance series.[[/note]], gets very drunk at a party. A seductive woman of his acquaintance (she's the kindly old mentor character's mistress as well as having regular sex with another male friend), who has a reputation of being a "virgin chaser" / "man-eater" and who also wants to perform some villainous, plot-relevant magic on Alec once she gets him alone and asleep, flirts with him while also putting a seduction spell on him, which could be interpreted as the magical equivalent of roofies. She asks if he wants to be let go, but she doesn't lift the spell for this and he's still drunk. He says no, and she teleports him away for a night of off-screen marathon sex. The next morning, Alec initially claims it was great when his best friend asks [[note]] Though said friend had a habit of laughing at him whenever he got groped or kissed against his will by a girl before, and generally had an attitude of "You need to get laid."[[/note]], but his internal narration afterwards is more ambivalent, stating that he feels used and in need of a bath, and later the friend briefly notices that Alec seems to avoid standing close to the woman at social gatherings. While Alec was in the woman's bed, several characters worried about what kind of magic the woman was using on him, but the only one seriously worried about the sexual consent issue was basically an old lady who'd been celibate all her life and who is described as "prim" in this scene. There's never really any indepth discussion about what happened and the main characters kind of joke about the woman using magic to get formerly celibate men into bed later on. Not even the kindly authority figure whose mistress she is [[note]] Their's is an open relationship, with the man already elderly and perfectly aware that she's just with him to learn magic from him. He's not in love with her either.[[/note]] actually seems to investigate what magic she was using on the boy, while he was sleeping or earlier. Which is why the woman's villain status is a surprise for the good guys later on in the plot. It's hard to say if this was meant to reflect the male characters' [[DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale double standards]] and that it comes back to bite them in the ass, or if the author genuinely thought this wasn't a big deal that needed to be clarified with regards to Alec's ability to give free consent. Especially since this was written in the early 1990s.

* The second book of the ''Literature/Nightrunner'' series has an unfortunately ambiguous example. The protagonist Alec, 16 years old and very virginal, gets very drunk at a party. A seductive woman of his acquaintance (she's the kindly old mentor character's mistress as well as having regular sex with another male friend), who has a reputation of being a "virgin chaser" / "man-eater" and who also wants to perform some villainous, plot-relevant magic on Alec once she gets him alone and asleep, flirts with him while also putting a seduction spell on him, which could be interpreted as the magical equivalent of roofies. She asks if he wants to be let go, but she doesn't lift the spell for this and he's still drunk. He says no, and she teleports him away for a night of off-screen marathon sex. The next morning, Alec initially claims it was great when his best friend and mentor asks [[note]] Though said friend had a habit about teasing him whenever he got groped or kissed against his will by a girl before, and generally had an attitude of "You need to get laid."[[/note]], but his internal narration afterwards is more ambivalent, stating that he feels used and in need of a bath, and later the friend briefly notices that Alec seems to avoid standing close to the woman at social gatherings. While Alec was in the woman's bed, several characters worried about what kind of magic the woman was using on him, but the only one seriously worried about the sexual consent issue was basically an old lady who'd been celibate all her life and who is described as "prim" in this scene. There's never really any indepth discussion about what happened and the main characters kind of joke about the woman using magic to get men into bed later on. Not even the kindly authority figure whose mistress she is [[note]] Their's is an open relationship, with the man already elderly and perfectly aware that she's just with him to learn magic from him. He's not in love with her either.[[/note]] actually seems to investigate what magic she was using on the boy, while he was sleeping or earlier. Which is why the woman's villain status is a surprise for the good guys later on in the plot. It's hard to say if this was meant to reflect the male characters' [[DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale double standards]] and that it comes to bite them in the ass, or if the author genuinely thought this wasn't a big deal that needed to be clarified with regards to Alec's ability to give free consent. Especially since this was written in the early to mid 1990s.

* There's a clearly meant-to-be-educational example in the novel ''Literature/Rule34'' by Charles Stross. Unusually, the moral is not a victim-blaming "Girls, beware of guys you don't know and don't drink", but rather "Only yes means yes." and "Rapists are violent psychopaths, not people who just made a mistake, or just [[ImAManICantHelpMyself 'boys being boys']].", and it seems specifically aimed at a young male readership, the ones who commonly make jokes about "surprise buttsex". What happens in the book is that one polyamorous female character, who likes to have one-night-stands when in a strange city, unknowingly gets into bed with the book's villain. She consented to rough sex, but not to anal. In the middle of the sex scene, he just turns her around and penetrates her anally, hurting her but finishing so fast that she doesn't even have time to really struggle. Then he tells her to leave, her purpose for him having been fulfilled. Later in the shower, she's very upset but unsure herself whether that qualified as rape. But when she tells the main character (a policewoman) what happened, she confirms that yes, of course it was rape. Later on in the book, the rapist is described as ''certifiably'' psychopathic several times and the reader gets to witness firsthand what exactly that means through his POV.

** The video is notable for TheCameo by Creator/RonJeremy.