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[[folder: Anime and Manga]]
* The trailers for the (as of early April 2017) about-to-be-released 21th ''Manga/CaseClosed'' movie, ''Crimson love letters'', state that a {{gender flip}}ped version of the trope will take place. [[spoiler: Both of Heiji's potential girlfriends, Kazuha and Momiji, are proficient in a card game called ''hyakunin issha garuta'', and will compete against one another and many other students in a ''karuta'' tournament. This coincides with Momiji being Heiji's SelfProclaimedLoveInterest, confronting both Heiji and Kazuha on their potential love triangle, and Kazuha deciding to challenge Momiji both in love and ''karuta''...]].
* Adapted for high school participants in an episode of ''Anime/YuGiOhGX'': A 3rd year JerkJock (tennis captain) who falls in LoveAtFirstSight with Alexis becomes [[GreenEyedMonster jealous]] when he sees [[MistakenForRomance she treats Jaden much friendlier than she does him]], so he challenges Jaden to a duel for the right to become her "fiancé." Jaden accepts because he never turns down a chance to duel (for her part, Alexis just finds the whole thing absurd). Jaden wins... and immediately asks [[ChasteHero what a fiancé is]].

* In ''Comicbook/SupermansPalJimmyOlsen2019'', an unnamed galactic warlord who believes Jimmy "stole" his bride, the space princess turned ClassyCatBurglar Jix, by marrying her first, challenges Jimmy to a fight to the death for her. Jimmy replies that he has no intention of fighting to the death for anything, and it's entirely Jix's decision anyway. (She doesn't want to be married to either of them, and Jimmy has already started divorce proceedings. But they're AmicableExes.)
* ''Franchise/WonderWoman'' [[ComicBook/WonderWoman1942 Vol 1]]: Kenyah imposes a challenge for ComicBook/{{Nubia}} expecting to fight other men for ownership of her more than anything resembling marriage, instead she furiously answers him with:

[[folder: Fan Works]]
* ''FanFic/{{Dangerverse}}'': When Luna catches Amanda Smythe flirting with Draco (whom she has been quasi-engaged to for several years), she proposes that they undertake essentially a challenge of flirting. Each of them will take turns flirting with Draco while the other stands back over alternating two-month periods, and whichever of them Draco likes better is the winner.
* Gender-Inverted in the ''WesternAnimation/CodenameKidsNextDoor'' fanfic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/6048521/1/ Weddings, Teams, and Fortune tellers]]'' where Lizzie and Numbuh 362 are competing for Numbuh 1's affections, with the added catch of him not actually knowing about it.

[[folder:Films]]
* This is ostensibly what it comes down to in the final jousting match in ''Film/AKnightsTale'', though for the villain, and to at least some extent the hero, it's really about pride.
* An InvokedTrope in ''Film/TheLifeAndDeathOfColonelBlimp''. A British officer and a German officer fight a duel over political issues, but as this could cause problems with their superiors they pretend they're doing it for the honor of a woman they both know.
* ''Film/ExtremePrejudice''. Texas Ranger Jack Benteen and former friend-turned drug kingpin Cash Bailey duel for Sarita, even though her own response to this is YoureInsane. Really though these two have been heading for a gunfight one way or another, so they may as well do it for the woman they love.
* In ''Film/HighSchoolUSA'', J.J. and Beau have a drag race to compete for the right to date Beth.
* ''Film/DeadOfNight'': In "The Golfer's Story", Parratt and Potter are in the love with the same woman, who cannot choose between them, so they play a round of golf for her hand, with the winner earning the right to marry her.

[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* ''{{Series/Kaamelott}}'': At the start of its CerebusSyndrome, Arthur starts courting Mevanwi, the wife of one of his knights, Karadoc of Vannes (Guenièvre having already run off with Lancelot by that point). When the latter is finally made aware of it, both reluctantly prepare to fight to the death for her (Karadoc wasn't that interested in her in the first place, while Arthur doesn't want to have to kill one of his own knights). Fortunately, he finds an old Vannes law where two people can exchange wives, averting the duel. Unfortunately, it turns out Mevanwi is a ManipulativeBitch and Guenievre isn't exactly living the dream either, so the exchange is later cancelled.
** In TheMovie, ''Film/KaamelottPremierVolet'', knight wannabe Kolaig wants the hand of Guenièvre (whom he wants to free from Lancelot) as he thinks it's part of his [[TheQuest quest]] to become a knight. He also thinks he has to kill Arthur to do so, despite Arthur not giving a damn anymore about Guenièvre ([[AwLookTheyReallyDoLoveEachOther at least at first]]). He's prevented from killing Arthur and gets explained what's really up now that Arthur is back.

* Jay Gatsby and Tom Buchanan in ''Literature/{{The Great Gatsby}}'' both vie for Daisy's love. The twist here is that Tom is already married to Daisy and Jay is attempting to steal Daisy away from him. The reason Jay thinks he's entitled is because they met and fell in love before Daisy met Tom. In the end, the decision rests on poor ol' Daisy.
* In ''The Knight's Tale'' from ''Literature/TheCanterburyTales'', Arcite and Palamon meet in Theseus' garden, intending to fight a duel to decide which of them will have the right to court Emily. When Theseus interrupts the duel and learns why they are fighting, he decides to [[EngagementChallenge organise a tournament with Emily's hand in marriage as the prize]].
* ''Literature/TimeWars'' series: After Andre joins the Corps, Lucas and Finn agree on a drinking contest to settle which of them gets to make a move on her. She learns about it and insists on being allowed to join the contest, wins it handily, and claims as her prize a night on the town at their expense without either of them.
* Mentioned by Creator/DaveBarry on the subject of elks mating: the two male will bash their heads in until the female wanders off, depressed at the idea of having to be with one of these two idiots, while the victorious and nearly brain-dead male will then attempt to mate with anything including nearby shrubbery.
* This happened in the backstory of Cullyn of Cerrmor in the ''Literature/{{Deverry}}'' novels. The only thing that kept him from being hung over killing his opponent was the fact that witnesses stated that the other guy started the fight. He ''did'' end up exiled from his home city and forced to become a mercenary, with the woman in question choosing to follow him and ending up a barmaid in the only tavern in a nothing village in the middle of nowhere. Cullyn would later swear an oath to never again kill over a woman - it doesn't do any good for any of the involved parties, a decision that allows him to break free of a four-hundred year old chain of wyrd.
* In the backstory for ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'', Catelyn Tully was betrothed to Brandon Stark, who was challenged by Catelyn's foster brother Petyr "Littlefinger" Baelish for her hand. The two dueled and Brandon gave Petyr severe injuries, including a cut from navel to collarbone. It turned out neither man would get her when Brandon and his father were executed by King Aerys "The Mad King" Targaryen and Catelyn married Brandon's brother Ned.
* Used as part of a BatmanGambit in ''Literature/TheLegendOfSunKnight''. Royal Knight Elijah loves the princess of his country, and while she returns his affections, she's bound to a political marriage with the head of the War God's religion. To help Elijah, Sun also proposes to the princess, and suggests that all three of them duel. However, the point of the duel wasn't to make Elijah win, but for [[EngineeredHeroics him to be in a position]] to publicly perform a DivingSave when the princess is attacked by a monster [[note]]Elijah did not know of this plan at all[[/note]]. Such an act of devotion cannot be denied by the gods, so both Sun Knight and the head recant their proposals.

* In ''Podcast/TrialsAndTrebuchets'', [[spoiler:[[ChildhoodFriendRomance Phillip]] challenges [[PrinceCharmless Prince Frederick]] to a duel for Serinepth's hand as a last-ditch effort to prevent her ArrangedMarriage to the prince from going through. Serinepth is able to call this duel off by confessing to the prince that she has no intention of marrying him as [[MarryForLove she does not love him]], though this does have the unfortunate side effect of the prince declaring both her and Phillip's families traitors to the crown as punishment for this BreachOfPromiseOfMarriage.]]

* ''VideoGame/AdventureQuestWorlds'' has the King's Tournament for the 2013 Heroes' Heart Day event. The winner of the tournament becomes Swordhaven's War General and wins the right to court Princess Brittany, the oldest of the Princesses of Swordhaven. Your character fights in the place of Lord Brentan, probably the most suitable candidate for both major conditions, after he is treacherously struck down by Sir Roderick of Grimreaver, who seeks to win the Tournament at any cost in order to seize the throne of Swordhaven from King Alteon.

[[folder:Western Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/AllStarSuperman'' turns this into a three-way when Superman has to compete against the time-travelling duo of Atlas and Samson in a contest of feats for Lois's hand after she flirts with them. They eventually settle this with a double arm-wrestling contest.
* The WesternAnimation/MickeyMouse cartoon ''Mickey's Rival Returns'' has his rival [[AuthorAvatar Mortimer Mouse]] challenge him to one-on-one beach volleyball for the right to date Minnie. Mickey wins, but Mortimer twists the events (with a handy QuoteMine) in Minnie's presence to make Mickey seem chauvinistic, and thus Mortimer actually winds up going out with Minnie. He blows his chance, natch.
* In the WesternAnimation/DaffyDuck short ''Muscle Tussle'', Daffy's girlfriend is wooed by a beach strongman; Daffy tries to prove he is the other guy's better but fails.
* In ''WesternAnimation/MoominsOnTheRiviera'' Moomin duels Clark after he thinks he sees him trying to kiss Snorkmaiden.
* ''WesternAnimation/AGentlemensDuel'' is about two men dueling over who has the right to court a lady... with steam-powered HumongousMecha. However, neither party bothered to ask what the lady's opinion of the matter was before initiating the duel.
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** If your character is in process of courting Aerie and you have Haer'Dalis on your party, he flirts on her and eventually challenges your character into a duel to compete for Aerie's hands. He can end up dead (because if he kills you, it's game over even if he wins her hand), or you forcefully back down so the two can be together. This will not happen if your romance has been solidified before Haer'Dalis would start flirting, wherein [[IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy he takes his tardiness' consequences with grace.]]

** There's also a gender-swapped version, with a guy seeing his girlfriend at the Copper Coronet back rooms while his wife is out looking for him in the main area. If you tell her where he is, she'll confront them, whereupon the girlfriend pulls a knife and they fight. If the girlfriend wins, she'll drag him off to be married properly, whereas if the wife wins, he'll be enamored with her for it and return home with her.

* At one point in ''VideoGame/BaldursGate2'', you can see two [=NPCs=] duel to the death of the affections of a lady, who, upon the duel's conclusion, points out that she wasn't really interested in either of them and walks away.

* At one point in ''VideoGame/BaldursGate2'', you can see two [=NPCs=] duel to the death of the affections of a lady, who, upon the duel's conclusion, points out that she wasn't really interested in either of them and walks away.

* This is the crux of the eleventh ''VideoGame/NewYankeeInKingArthursCourt'' game, ''Battle for the Bride''. Sir Lancaster, TheFriendNobodyLikes of the heroes, has a beautiful daughter, Olwen, who is in love with the king's nephew Sir Culhwch; however, Lancaster is holding a competition to see which of her many suitors is most deserving of his beloved daughter. Arthur tasks John and Mary with helping Culhwch succeed at Lancaster's increasingly bizarre {{Engagement Challenge}}s while outwitting his evil rival... and a goblin chieftain, and an irate genie, and...

* Adapted for high school participants in an episode of ''Anime/YuGiOhGX'': A 3rd year JerkJock (tennis captain) who falls in LoveAtFirstSight with Alexis becomes [[GreenEyedMonster jealous]] when he sees [[MistakenForCouple she treats Jaden much friendlier than she does him]], so he challenges Jaden to a duel for the right to become her "fiancé." Jaden accepts because he never turns down a chance to duel (for her part, Alexis just finds the whole thing absurd). Jaden wins... and immediately asks [[ChasteHero what a fiancé is]].

* The trailers for the (as of early April 2017) about-to-be-released 21th ''Manga/CaseClosed'' movie, ''Crimson love letters'', state that a {{gender flip}}ped version of the trope will take place. [[spoiler: Both of Heiji's potential girlfriends, Kazuha and Momiji, are proficient in a card game called ''hyakunin issha garuta'', and will compete against one another and many other students in a ''karuta'' tournament. This coincides with Momiji being Heiji's SelfProclaimedLoveInterest, confronting both Heiji and Kazuha on their potential love triangle, and Kazuha deciding to challenge Momiji both in love and ''karuta''...]]

* The MickeyMouse cartoon ''Mickey's Rival Returns'' has his rival [[AuthorAvatar Mortimer Mouse]] challenge him to one-on-one beach volleyball for the right to date Minnie. Mickey wins, but Mortimer twists the events (with a handy QuoteMine) in Minnie's presence to make Mickey seem chauvinistic, and thus Mortimer actually winds up going out with Minnie. He blows his chance, natch.

* Those romancing Josephine in ''VideoGame/DragonAgeInquisition'' will discover that she has been betrothed to a Lord Otrano. The Inquisitor can arrange to duel Otrano behind Josephine's back, but Josephine shows up to stop the duel. If the Inquisitor affirms their love for Josephine, Otrano will approve of their love and withdraw his engagement.

* ''WesternAnimation/AllStarSuperman'' turns this into a three-way when Superman has to compete against the time-travelling duo of Atlas and Samson in a contest of feats for Lois' hand after she flirts with them. They eventually settle this with a double arm-wrestling contest.

* In ''Podcast/TrialsAndTrebuchets'', [[spoiler:[[ChildhoodFriendRomance Phillip]] challenges [[PrinceCharmless Prince Frederick]] to a duel for Serinepth's hand as a last-ditch effort to prevent her ArrangedMarriage to the prince from going through. Serinepth is able to call this duel off by confessing to the prince that she has no intention of marrying him as [[MarryForLove she does not love him]], though this does have the unfortunate side effect of the prince declaring her and Phillip's families traitors for the BreachOfPromiseOfMarriage.]]

* ''WesternAnimation/AGentlemansDuel'' is about two men dueling over who has the right to court a lady... with steam-powered HumongousMecha.

* ''{{Series/Kaamelott}}'': At the start of its CerebusSyndrome, Arthur starts courting Mevanwi, the wife of one of his knights, Karadoc of Vannes (Guenievre having already run off with Lancelot by that point). When the latter is finally made aware of it, both reluctantly prepare to fight to the death for her (Karadoc wasn't that interested in her in the first place, while Arthur doesn't want to have to kill one of his own knights). Fortunately, he finds an old Vannes law where two people can exchange wives, averting the duel. Unfortunately, it turns out Mevanwi is a ManipulativeBitch and Guenievre isn't exactly living the dream either, so the exchange is later cancelled.

* The trailers for the (as of early April 2017) about-to-be-released 21th ''Manga/DetectiveConan'' movie, ''Crimson love letters'', state that a {{gender flip}}ped version of the trope will take place. [[spoiler: Both of Heiji's potential girlfriends, Kazuha and Momiji, are proficient in a card game called ''hyakunin issha garuta'', and will compete against one another and many other students in a ''karuta'' tournament. This coincides with Momiji being Heiji's SelfProclaimedLoveInterest, confronting both Heiji and Kazuha on their potential love triangle, and Kazuha deciding to challenge Momiji both in love and ''karuta''...]]

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* In ''Theatre/{{Romeo and Juliet}}'', Romeo and Paris are both competing for Juliet's hand--but neither of them know it. Paris thinks he's got the goods because of his title (a Prince no less) but the moment Juliet makes eye contact with Romeo at her father's ball, she's pretty much made up her 13 year old mind. And Paris never finds out. When Romeo ends up killing Paris outside Juliet's family's mausoleum, only then does Romeo acknowledge any sort of rivalry.

-->''"I claim the right right to name my champion, Kenyah! One who will meet you on equal ground to battle for possession of me! I [name] '''myself'''!"''

* ''ComicBook/WonderWoman'' [[ComicBook/WonderWoman1942 Vol 1]]: Kenyah imposes a challenge for Nubia expecting to fight other men for ownership of her more than anything resembling marriage, instead she furiously answers him with:

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* In the 2019 ''Comicbook/JimmyOlsen'' maxiseries, an unnamed galactic warlord who believes Jimmy "stole" his bride, the space princess turned ClassyCatBurglar Jix, by marrying her first, challenges Jimmy to a fight to the death for her. Jimmy replies that he has no intention of fighting to the death for anything, and it's entirely Jix's decision anyway. (She doesn't want to be married to either of them, and Jimmy has already started divorce proceedings. But they're AmicableExes.)

* In the 2019 ''Comicbook/JimmyOlsen'' maxiseries, an unnamed galactic warlord who believes Jimmy "stole" his bride, the space princess turned ClassyCatBurglar Jix, by marrying her first, challenges Jimmy to a fight to the death for her. Jimmy replies that he has no intention of fighting to the death for anything, and it's entirely Jix's decision anyway.