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* DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale: '''[[Main/{{Deconstruction}} Deconstructed]]'''. The film shows the negative effects it has on the husband being abused.
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* DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale: '''[[Main/{{Deconstruction}} Deconstructed]]'''.[[Main/{{Deconstruction}} Deconstructed]]. The film shows the negative effects it has on the husband being abused.
* '''EarnYourHappyEnding'''EarnYourHappyEnding: Ed is released after it's revealed that he was telling the truth about Laura being abusive to him and their daughter and, as an added bonus, Laura will face comeuppance for her behavior.



* HenpeckedHusband: Dear lord...
* LifetimeMovieOfTheWeek: One of the extremely rare {{Gender Flip}}s.
* MenAreTheExpendableGender: '''[[SubvertedTrope NOPE]].'''

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* HenpeckedHusband: Dear lord...
Deconstructed and PlayedForDrama. Ed hides his wife's abuse to him because it'd be unmanly for a grown man to be smacked around by a woman. Indeed, the one time he tried to get help he was laughed at by the phone operator.
* LifetimeMovieOfTheWeek: One of the extremely rare {{Gender Flip}}s.
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* MenAreTheExpendableGender: '''[[SubvertedTrope NOPE]].'''{{Subverted|Trope}}. Everyone, even Ed's own father, assume that Ed was in the wrong and Laura was the victim, when it was the other way around.



* TheUnfairSex: '''[[Main/{{Deconstruction}} MYTH]] [[Series/MythBusters BUSTED]].'''

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* TheUnfairSex: '''[[Main/{{Deconstruction}} MYTH]] [[Series/MythBusters BUSTED]].'''PlayedForDrama and ultimately [[Main/{{Deconstruction}} Deconstructed]]. Ed is arrested by the police and faces some serious jail time (and possibly losing custody of his daughter) because everyone assumes that he was the domestic abuser.



* WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou: Guess.
* WouldHurtAChild: Laura, who hit her own daughter when she asked her to stop yelling at Ed. The incident was enough to push [[PapaWolf Ed]], who was mostly passive up to this point, to try and restrain her. Her struggling lead them through a window where she got a concussion. The event also made the daughter turn against her and saves her father by telling the police everything meaning that Laura gets arrested.

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* WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou: Guess.
Laura displays this attitude whenever Ed says or does something with which she disagrees.
* WouldHurtAChild: Laura, who hit her own daughter when she asked her to stop yelling at Ed. The incident was enough to push [[PapaWolf Ed]], who was mostly passive up to this point, to try and restrain her. Her struggling lead them through a window where she got a concussion. The event also made the daughter turn against her and saves her father by telling the police everything meaning that Laura gets arrested.arrested.
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* UnderageCasting: Ed's father is played by James Gammon, who was only seven years older than Peter Strauss in real life.
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* CassandraTruth: No one buys the fact that Laura has been abusing Ed.

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* CassandraTruth: No one buys the fact that Laura has been abusing Ed. It's not until his daughter tells Ed's father about her mother is when they realize that Ed is innocent.



* WouldHurtAChild: Laura, who hit her own daughter when she asked her to stop yelling at Ed. The incident was enough to push [[PapaWolf Ed]], who was mostly passive up to this point, to try and restrain her. Her struggling lead them through a window where she got a concussion

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* WouldHurtAChild: Laura, who hit her own daughter when she asked her to stop yelling at Ed. The incident was enough to push [[PapaWolf Ed]], who was mostly passive up to this point, to try and restrain her. Her struggling lead them through a window where she got a concussionconcussion. The event also made the daughter turn against her and saves her father by telling the police everything meaning that Laura gets arrested.
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'''''Men Don't Tell''''' is a 1993 television drama film starring Peter Strauss and Judith Light. It was directed by Harry Winer. The film first aired on the Creator/{{CBS}} network on March 14, 1993, though it was never rebroadcast on over-the-air television, reportedly because it incurred the wrath of several women's groups. However, the film has since been shown a number of times on Creator/{{Lifetime}}.

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'''''Men ''Men Don't Tell''''' Tell'' is a 1993 television drama film starring Peter Strauss and Judith Light. It was directed by Harry Winer. The film first aired on the Creator/{{CBS}} network on March 14, 1993, though it was never rebroadcast on over-the-air television, reportedly because it incurred the wrath of several women's groups. However, the film has since been shown a number of times on Creator/{{Lifetime}}.
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* NotHelpingYourCase: When the cops interrogate Ed, he does have a bad case of putting his foot in his mouth, which doesn't do him any favors.
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* BirthdayHater: Ed is one. The first incident happened as he accused his wife of throwing a party at his birthday for herself and not to make him happy, especially considering he explicitly said he didn't want a party for his birthday.

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'''''Men Don't Tell''''' is a 1993 television drama film starring Peter Strauss and Judith Light. It was directed by Harry Winer. The film first aired on the CBS network on March 14, 1993.

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'''''Men Don't Tell''''' is a 1993 television drama film starring Peter Strauss and Judith Light. It was directed by Harry Winer. The film first aired on the CBS Creator/{{CBS}} network on March 14, 1993.
1993, though it was never rebroadcast on over-the-air television, reportedly because it incurred the wrath of several women's groups. However, the film has since been shown a number of times on Creator/{{Lifetime}}.



First telecast by CBS on May 14, 1993, Men Don't Tell was never rebroadcast on over-the-air television, reportedly because it incurred the wrath of several women's groups. However, the film has since been shown a number of times on cable's Lifetime channel.
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* LifetimeMovieOfTheWeek: One of the extremely rare {{Gender Flip}}s.
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* '''EarnYourHappyEnding'''
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* TruthInTelevision: Unfortunately, this type of domestic abuse happens quite often.

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* TruthInTelevision: Unfortunately, this type of domestic abuse happens quite often.does happen, and is sometimes met with just this much of an unhelpful response.
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* {{Irony}}: Ed wears a type of sleeveless shirt known as "wife-beater".
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* KeepCirculatingTheTapes: Due to not playing more on TV.
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Men Don't Tell is a 1993 television drama film starring Peter Strauss and Judith Light. It was directed by Harry Winer. The film first aired on the CBS network on March 14, 1993.

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Men '''''Men Don't Tell Tell''''' is a 1993 television drama film starring Peter Strauss and Judith Light. It was directed by Harry Winer. The film first aired on the CBS network on March 14, 1993.
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* {{Irony}}: Ed wears a type of sleeveless shirt known as "wife-beater".
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* SoftGlass: Averted. Laura gets a concussion from going head first through a glass window.
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* NeverMyFault: Laura. Like you can't believe. No matter how badly she acts or how violent she gets, she constantly makes excuses for her behavior, declaring that there's nothing wrong with her, and placing the blame for her actions on others.

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* ChildrenAreInnocent: What ultimately saves Ed is his daughter, not realizing he was the one getting in trouble, innocently asking Ed's father if her mother was going to get in trouble for what she did, which lead to him asking what she meant, and, after she explained what she witnessed with her own two eyes, to bring her to the police station to testify.



* MenDontCry: One of the reasons why Ed refused to ask for help during the years of abuse.

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* MenDontCry: One of the reasons why Ed refused to ask for help during the years of abuse. abuse.
* PapaWolf: Laura punches Ed in the face? He is shocked, but barely acknowledges it. She busts his truck? It can be fixed. She pummels him? He tries to push her away. But when she punched their daughter, that's when Ed reacted at his most brutal, and even then, he was only trying to restrain her... But her struggling lead them to go through a window, where Laura got a concussion and Ed got cuts from the glass.



* WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou: Guess.

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* WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou: Guess.Guess.
* WouldHurtAChild: Laura, who hit her own daughter when she asked her to stop yelling at Ed. The incident was enough to push [[PapaWolf Ed]], who was mostly passive up to this point, to try and restrain her. Her struggling lead them through a window where she got a concussion
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As he is interrogated, he tells his story of years of abuse, and how he even once sought help by calling a domestic violence hotline, only to get scorned and hung up on. This interrogation takes all night, by highly skeptical police. While this is going on, his children have been taken to their paternal grandfather-himself a retired police officer-to spend the night. In the morning his young daughter, who chose to remain silent through the years of abuse due to the humiliation and shame, asked the grandfather if her mother was in trouble. This surprised the grandfather, who then asked her why she thought her mother, whom he thought was the victim of his abusive son, would be in trouble? To this she said, "Because mommy hits daddy".

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As he is interrogated, he tells his story of years of abuse, and how he even once sought help by calling a domestic violence hotline, only to get scorned and hung up on. This interrogation takes all night, by highly skeptical police. While this is going on, his children have been taken to their paternal grandfather-himself a retired police officer-to spend the night. In the morning his young daughter, who chose to remain silent through the years of abuse due to the humiliation and shame, asked the grandfather if her mother was in trouble. This surprised the grandfather, who then asked her why she thought her mother, whom he thought was the victim of his abusive son, would be in trouble? To this she said, "Because mommy hits daddy". \n When this is brought to the attention of the police, Ed is finally let go while Laura is arrested.
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First telecast by CBS on May 14, 1993, Men Don't Tell was never rebroadcast on over-the-air television, reportedly because it incurred the wrath of several women's groups. However, the film has since been shown a number of times on cable's Lifetime channel. ~ Hal Erickson, Rovi

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First telecast by CBS on May 14, 1993, Men Don't Tell was never rebroadcast on over-the-air television, reportedly because it incurred the wrath of several women's groups. However, the film has since been shown a number of times on cable's Lifetime channel. ~ Hal Erickson, Rovi
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Ed [=MacAffrey=], a loving husband and father, is terrorized by the violent behavior of his wife, Laura. He tolerates this not only because he loves her and is concerned over the welfare of his daughter, but also because men are traditionally regarded as weaklings if they allow themselves to be battered by their wives. After one of Laura's destructive tantrums brings the attention of the police, Ed is suspected of being the aggressor. Finally, Laura goes too far and Ed tries to defend himself - whereupon Laura crashes through the front window of her home and is rendered comatose. Ed is arrested for Domestic Violence and Attempted Murder.

As he is interrogated, he tells his story of years of abuse, and how he even once sought help by calling a domestic violence hotline, only to get scorned and hung up on. This interrogation takes all night, by highly skeptical police. While this is going on, his children have been taken to their paternal grandfather, himself a retired police officer, to spend the night. In the morning, his young daughter, who chose to remain silent through the years of abuse due to the humiliation and shame, asked the grandfather if her mother was in trouble. This surprised the grandfather, who then asked her why she thought her mother, whom he thought was the victim of his abusive son, would be in trouble? To this she said, "Because mommy hits daddy".

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Ed [=MacAffrey=], a loving husband and father, is terrorized by the violent behavior of his wife, Laura. He tolerates this not only because he loves her and is concerned over the welfare of his daughter, but also because men are traditionally regarded as weaklings if they allow themselves to be battered by their wives. After one of Laura's destructive tantrums brings the attention of the police, Ed is suspected of being the aggressor. Finally, Laura goes too far and Ed tries to defend himself - whereupon Laura crashes through the front window of her home and is rendered comatose. Ed is arrested for Domestic Violence domestic violence and Attempted Murder.

attempted murder.

As he is interrogated, he tells his story of years of abuse, and how he even once sought help by calling a domestic violence hotline, only to get scorned and hung up on. This interrogation takes all night, by highly skeptical police. While this is going on, his children have been taken to their paternal grandfather, himself grandfather-himself a retired police officer, to officer-to spend the night. In the morning, morning his young daughter, who chose to remain silent through the years of abuse due to the humiliation and shame, asked the grandfather if her mother was in trouble. This surprised the grandfather, who then asked her why she thought her mother, whom he thought was the victim of his abusive son, would be in trouble? To this she said, "Because mommy hits daddy".
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Ed MacAffrey, a loving husband and father, is terrorized by the violent behavior of his wife, Laura. He tolerates this not only because he loves her and is concerned over the welfare of his daughter, but also because men are traditionally regarded as weaklings if they allow themselves to be battered by their wives. After one of Laura's destructive tantrums brings the attention of the police, Ed is suspected of being the aggressor. Finally, Laura goes too far and Ed tries to defend himself - whereupon Laura crashes through the front window of her home and is rendered comatose. Ed is arrested for Domestic Violence and Attempted Murder.

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Ed MacAffrey, [=MacAffrey=], a loving husband and father, is terrorized by the violent behavior of his wife, Laura. He tolerates this not only because he loves her and is concerned over the welfare of his daughter, but also because men are traditionally regarded as weaklings if they allow themselves to be battered by their wives. After one of Laura's destructive tantrums brings the attention of the police, Ed is suspected of being the aggressor. Finally, Laura goes too far and Ed tries to defend himself - whereupon Laura crashes through the front window of her home and is rendered comatose. Ed is arrested for Domestic Violence and Attempted Murder.
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* AllAbusersAreMale: The reason Ed is arrested by the police after Laura crashes through the window. He even calls a domestic abuse hotline for help, but the operator simply scoffs at him before hanging up.

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* AllAbusersAreMale: The reason why Ed is arrested by the police after Laura crashes crashed through the window. He even calls a domestic abuse hotline for help, but the operator simply scoffs at him before hanging up.
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* CassandraTruth: No one buys the fact that Laura has been abusing Ed.
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* TruthInTelevision: Unfortunately, this type of domestic abuse happens quite often.

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* TruthInTelevision: Unfortunately, this type of domestic abuse happens quite often.often.
* WhyDidYouMakeMeHitYou: Guess.
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* MenDon'tCry: One of the reasons why Ed refused to ask for help during the years of abuse.

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* MenDon'tCry: MenDontCry: One of the reasons why Ed refused to ask for help during the years of abuse.

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Unique among the many made-for-TV dramas about spousal abuse--most of which are about women victimized by men--Men Don't Tell dramatizes the true story of a loving husband who is terrorized by the violent behavior of his wife. Ed MacAffrey (Peter Strauss) has long endured the physical and emotional abuse heaped upon him by his neurotic wife Laura (Judith Light), not only because he loves her and is concerned over the welfare of his daughter, but also because men are traditionally regarded as weaklings if they allow themselves to be battered by their wives. Even worse, after one of Laura's destructive tantrums brings the attention of the police, Ed is suspected of being the aggressor!

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Unique among the many made-for-TV dramas about spousal abuse--most of which are about women victimized by men--Men Don't Tell dramatizes the true story of Ed MacAffrey, a loving husband who and father, is terrorized by the violent behavior of his wife. Ed MacAffrey (Peter Strauss) has long endured the physical and emotional abuse heaped upon him by his neurotic wife Laura (Judith Light), wife, Laura. He tolerates this not only because he loves her and is concerned over the welfare of his daughter, but also because men are traditionally regarded as weaklings if they allow themselves to be battered by their wives. Even worse, after After one of Laura's destructive tantrums brings the attention of the police, Ed is suspected of being the aggressor!
aggressor. Finally, Laura goes too far and Ed tries to defend himself - whereupon Laura crashes through the front window of her home and is rendered comatose. Ed is arrested for Domestic Violence and Attempted Murder.

As he is interrogated, he tells his story of years of abuse, and how he even once sought help by calling a domestic violence hotline, only to get scorned and hung up on. This interrogation takes all night, by highly skeptical police. While this is going on, his children have been taken to their paternal grandfather, himself a retired police officer, to spend the night. In the morning, his young daughter, who chose to remain silent through the years of abuse due to the humiliation and shame, asked the grandfather if her mother was in trouble. This surprised the grandfather, who then asked her why she thought her mother, whom he thought was the victim of his abusive son, would be in trouble? To this she said, "Because mommy hits daddy".



* AllAbusersAreMale: The reason Ed is arrested by the police after Laura crashes through the window. He even calls a domestic abuse hotline for help, but the operator simply scoffs at him before hanging up.



* MenAreTheExpendableGender: '''[[SubvertedTrope NOPE]].'''

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* HenpeckedHusband: Dear lord...
* MenAreTheExpendableGender: '''[[SubvertedTrope NOPE]].''''''
* MenDon'tCry: One of the reasons why Ed refused to ask for help during the years of abuse.
* TheUnfairSex: '''[[Main/{{Deconstruction}} MYTH]] [[Series/MythBusters BUSTED]].'''
* TruthInTelevision: Unfortunately, this type of domestic abuse happens quite often.
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* DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale: '''[[Main/{{Deconstruction Deconstructed]]'''. The film shows the negative effects it has on the husband being abused.

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* DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale: ''[[{{Deconstruction Deconstructed]]''.'''[[Main/{{Deconstruction Deconstructed]]'''. The film shows the negative effects it has on the husband being abused.



* MenAreTheExpendableGender: ''[[SubvertedTrope NOPE]].''

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Men Don't Tell is a 1993 television drama film starring Peter Strauss and Judith Light. It was directed by Harry Winer. The film first aired on the CBS network on March 14, 1993.

Unique among the many made-for-TV dramas about spousal abuse--most of which are about women victimized by men--Men Don't Tell dramatizes the true story of a loving husband who is terrorized by the violent behavior of his wife. Ed MacAffrey (Peter Strauss) has long endured the physical and emotional abuse heaped upon him by his neurotic wife Laura (Judith Light), not only because he loves her and is concerned over the welfare of his daughter, but also because men are traditionally regarded as weaklings if they allow themselves to be battered by their wives. Even worse, after one of Laura's destructive tantrums brings the attention of the police, Ed is suspected of being the aggressor!

First telecast by CBS on May 14, 1993, Men Don't Tell was never rebroadcast on over-the-air television, reportedly because it incurred the wrath of several women's groups. However, the film has since been shown a number of times on cable's Lifetime channel. ~ Hal Erickson, Rovi

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* DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale: ''[[{{Deconstruction Deconstructed]]''. The film shows the negative effects it has on the husband being abused.
* GenreDeconstruction: For the typical domestic abuse drama. Instead of the husband doing the beating its the other way around.
* MenAreTheExpendableGender: ''[[SubvertedTrope NOPE]].''

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