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* JerkWithAHeartOfGold: PlayedWith with Nora. At first, she is shown to be hard-nosed, hard hitting, and takes a few shots below the belt against Charlie when in court, but outside of that setting she is nothing but polite to him, even complimenting his work as a director, and everything she does is done seemingly because she begins to view Nicole as a friend and not just a client. But then [[spoiler:she goes against Nicole's wishes and gets her a 55/45 split in custody over Henry]], primarily so she could say she beat Jay.

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* JerkWithAHeartOfGold: PlayedWith with JerkWithAHeartOfJerk: Nora. At first, she is shown to be hard-nosed, hard hitting, and takes a few shots below the belt against Charlie when in court, but outside of that setting she is nothing but polite to him, even complimenting his work as a director, and everything she does is done seemingly because she begins to view Nicole as a friend and not just a client. But then [[spoiler:she goes against Nicole's wishes and gets her a 55/45 split in custody over Henry]], primarily so she could say she beat Jay.
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* IWishedYouWereDead: During their massive fight, Charlie basically says to Nicole that he wishes she would die. [[BrokenTears He immediately breaks down in remorse]].

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* IWishedYouWereDead: During their Charlie's massive fight, Charlie basically says to Nicole fight with Nicole, after some time of intensifying emotion and more aggressive insults, ends with him screaming that every day he wishes she would die. was dead, even going as far to describe how he wants it to happen (she gets an illness and is then hit by a car). [[BrokenTears He immediately breaks down down]] [[MyGodWhatHaveIDone in remorse]].
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* WhatTheHellHero: The blowout fight between Nicole and Charlie is essentially each of them delivering a barrage of these against the other.
* YourCheatingHeart: [[spoiler: Charlie had a short-lived affair with another woman when Nicole had stopped having sex with him for nearly a year]].

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* WhatTheHellHero: The blowout fight between Nicole and Charlie is essentially each of them delivering a barrage of these against the other.
* YourCheatingHeart: [[spoiler: Charlie had a short-lived affair with another woman when Nicole had stopped having sex with him for nearly a year]].
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* ExtremeDoormat: Nicole. She allowed her mother to control her life, she allowed her husband to control it from then on and ultimately ends up under the full control of her divorce lawyer. Under each of those "guidances" she does things she doesn't want, but doesn't protest or try to speak her mind, instead just going with the flow. Just watch her scenes with Nora.

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* ExtremeDoormat: Nicole. She allowed her mother to control her life, she allowed her husband to control it from then on and ultimately ends up under the full control of her divorce lawyer. Under each of those "guidances" she does things she doesn't want, but doesn't protest or try to speak her mind, instead just going with the flow. Just watch her scenes with Nora.



* InformedAbility: Henry is supposed to be a smart kid. He can't read, despite being 9 by the time the story wraps, an ability that's assumed to be a norm by that age.

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* InformedAbility: Henry is supposed to be a smart kid. He can't read, despite being 9 by the time the story wraps, an ability that's assumed age where most kids have that ability. While there is the possibility of a learning disability, this is never implied and Henry isn't shown to be a norm by that age.smart in other ways.
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* JerkWithAHeartOfGold: Nora is hard-nosed, hard hitting, and takes a few shots below the belt against Charlie when in court, but outside of that setting she is nothing but polite to him, even complimenting his work as a director, and everything she does, [[spoiler:including going against Nicole's wishes and getting her an extra day with Henry]], is done because she begins to view Nicole as a friend and not just a client.

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* JerkWithAHeartOfGold: Nora PlayedWith with Nora. At first, she is shown to be hard-nosed, hard hitting, and takes a few shots below the belt against Charlie when in court, but outside of that setting she is nothing but polite to him, even complimenting his work as a director, and everything she does, [[spoiler:including going against Nicole's wishes and getting her an extra day with Henry]], does is done seemingly because she begins to view Nicole as a friend and not just a client.client. But then [[spoiler:she goes against Nicole's wishes and gets her a 55/45 split in custody over Henry]], primarily so she could say she beat Jay.
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* JerkWithAHeartOfGold: Nora is hard-nosed, hard hitting, and takes a few shots below the belt against Charlie when in court, but outside of that setting she is nothing but polite to him, even complimenting his work as a director, and everything she does, [[spoiler:including going against Nicole's wishes and getting her an extra day with Henry]], is done because she begins to view Nicole as a friend and not just a client.
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* DivorceAssetsConflict: DoubleSubverted. Charlie and Nicole refuse to do this at first for the sake of trying to be AmicableExes for the sake of their son, but the moment [[AmoralAttorney Nora and Jay]] are hired, they both escalate the divorce proceedings into a full-blown war [[ItsAllAboutMe purely to prevent the other lawyer from winning]]. At the end of the film, Charlie and Nicole acknowledge that [[CouldHaveAvoidedThisPlot things would have been less painful]] if they had just done the divorce themselves.
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[[caption-width-right:350:''"Everything is everything in a relationship."'']]

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[[caption-width-right:350:''"Everything is like everything in a relationship."'']]
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''Marriage Story'' is a Netflix {{dramedy}} directed by Creator/NoahBaumbach, starring Creator/AdamDriver and Creator/ScarlettJohansson.

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''Marriage Story'' is a Netflix 2019 Creator/{{Netflix}} {{dramedy}} film directed by Creator/NoahBaumbach, starring Creator/AdamDriver and Creator/ScarlettJohansson.
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* RuleOfSymbolism: We see Charlie on Halloween twice: once, he's dressed as Film/TheInvisibleMan and once he's a BedsheetGhost. Neither bode well for his continued involvement in Henry's life.

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* RuleOfSymbolism: We see Charlie on Halloween twice: once, he's dressed as Film/TheInvisibleMan [[Film/TheInvisibleMan1933 The Invisible Man]] and once he's a BedsheetGhost. Neither bode well for his continued involvement in Henry's life.



* ShoutOut: On his first Halloween separate, Charlie dresses as ''Film/TheInvisibleMan'' and wants his son to dress as ''Film/Frankenstein1931''.

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* ShoutOut: On his first Halloween separate, Charlie dresses as ''Film/TheInvisibleMan'' [[Film/TheInvisibleMan1933 The Invisible Man]] and wants his son to dress as ''Film/Frankenstein1931''.Film/{{Frankenstein|1931}}.
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* SympatheticPOV: Shifts heavily to Charlie's hardship toward the middle and ending of the film, when most of the tension is building.

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* SympatheticPOV: Shifts heavily to Deliberately used: the first part of the movie is primarily seen from Nicole's perspective (emphasizing her unhappiness in the marriage and Charlie's hardship toward insensitivity), while the middle second part is primarily from Charlie's (emphasizing how he feels blindsided and ending of disadvantaged by the film, when most of the tension is building.legal proceedings).
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* SympatheticPOV: Shifts heavily to Charlie's hardship toward the middle and ending of the film, when most of the tension is building.

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* ItsAllAboutMe: ''Both'' Charlie and Nicole are painfully self-centered and narcissistic in their behaviour and decision-making. The only subject they are capable of making any sort of compromises is Henry - not due to ability to step down, but realisation of how destructive it could be for his well-being.

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* ItsAllAboutMe: ItsAllAboutMe:
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''Both'' Charlie and Nicole are painfully self-centered and narcissistic in their behaviour and decision-making. The only subject they are capable of making any sort of compromises is Henry - not due to ability to step down, but realisation of how destructive it could be for his well-being.well-being.
** Nora and Jay both make the divorce proceedings go FromBadToWorse simply because [[XMustNotWin they hate each other and don't want the other attorney to win]]. [[spoiler:Nora's final act before leaving the film (settling the shared custody so Nicole be the one who will have more time with Henry) is a massive KickTheDog event (it was done without Nicole's consent, because she wanted a 50/50 split, and strictly for bragging rights).]]
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* RecycledPremise: Much like ''Theatre/TheLastFiveYears'', it's an introspective and deeply personal look at the end of a relationship, inspired by the creator's own divorce. Both center around the marriage of two creative people, which eventually breaks down at least in part because of a professional mismatch in their careers sparks jealousy, and because one is too [[ItsAllAboutMe self-centered]].

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* RealityEnsues: Charlie's case for getting primary custody of Henry is that they were [[InsistentTerminology "a New York family"]], but Nicole and both of Charlie's lawyers repeatedly point out that there's little evidence to support this notion beyond Charlie's assumptions. [[spoiler:Ultimately, he does not receive primary custody for these oft-highlighted reasons.]]

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* RealityEnsues: RealityEnsues:
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Charlie's case for getting primary custody of Henry is that they were [[InsistentTerminology "a New York family"]], but Nicole and both of Charlie's lawyers repeatedly point out that there's little evidence to support this notion beyond Charlie's assumptions. [[spoiler:Ultimately, he does not receive primary custody for these oft-highlighted reasons.]]]]
** When Nora tries to manipulate the case in Nicole's favor by bringing up [[spoiler:Charlie's affair]], Jay actually allows it. Why? Because as wrong as Charlie's actions were, Nicole only found out about it by hacking Charlie's computer and reading his emails, which is a felony.
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* LonelyBachelorPad: Charlie's apartment in LA initially barely has furnishings. When he realizes the social worker will take it against him, he spruces it up.
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* SpiritualSuccessor: To ''Film/KramerVsKramer''.
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* ArtisticLicenseLaw: Though some liberties are taken for dramatic purposes, [[https://slate.com/culture/2019/12/marriage-story-celebrity-divorce-lawyer-interview.html several]] [[https://www.themarysue.com/marriage-story-divorce-law/ lawyers]] [[https://www.zieglerandzemsky.com/blog/2019/december/the-reality-of-a-marriage-story/ have]] complimented the film for its depiction of the legal process of divorce; the biggest departure from reality is that Nicole has not lived in California for nearly long enough to establish residency and actually be able to file for divorce (and custody) there.

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** Creator/ScarlettJohansson plays an actress who was previously very well known for her MsFanservice roles earlier in her career and who has now graduated into doing more serious work. While this isn't an exact reflection of Johansson's career, she has been for a long time typecast in MsFanservice roles, such as ''Film/MatchPoint'', ''Film/{{Lucy}}'', and ''Film/VickyCristinaBarcelona'', alongside less mainstream and more edgy work like ''Film/LostInTranslation'', ''Film/JojoRabbit'', and ''Film/UnderTheSkin'', with her career also starting as a teenager.

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** Creator/ScarlettJohansson plays an actress who was previously very well known for her MsFanservice roles earlier in her career and who has now graduated into doing more serious work. While this isn't an exact reflection of Johansson's career, she has been for a long time typecast in MsFanservice roles, such as ''Film/MatchPoint'', ''Film/{{Lucy}}'', and ''Film/VickyCristinaBarcelona'', and the earlier Franchise/MarvelCinematicUniverse movies, alongside less mainstream and more edgy work like ''Film/LostInTranslation'', ''Film/JojoRabbit'', and ''Film/UnderTheSkin'', with her career also starting as a teenager.


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* NotSoDifferent: Nora is kinder and more affable than Jay, but she's not averse to getting down and dirty in court to match his frivolous arguments with her own.
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* HateSink: While Nora is shown to be something of a JerkWithAHeartOfGold who has a genuine interest in helping Nicole in spite of her extreme methods, Jay is never shown to be anything other than a short-tempered and hard-nosed AmoralAttorney whose services bleed Charlie financially dry.


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* JerkassHasAPoint: Jay is quite furious when Charlie comes to him for out of court consultation, but justifies his stance by saying that Charlie is wasting money paying his expensive hourly rate for something that he could easily do with someone much cheaper.
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* NeverLiveItDown: While Nicole has gained great acclaim in some circles as a stage actress, she is still primarily known to the public as "that lady who showed her tits in that movie".

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* HappyMarriageCharade: [[InnocentlyInsensitive Charlie]] believed his and Nicole's life in New York to have been a good one until Nicole abruptly "decided" that she was unhappy with it. In reality, Nicole had made it clear countless times that she desired to live in Los Angeles rather than New York, and Charlie had just never seriously taken it into consideration.



* NeverLiveItDown: While Nicole has gained great acclaim in some circles as a stage actress, she is still primarily known to the public as "that lady who showed her tits in that movie".



* ParentalFavoritism: Henry is shown to generally favor Nicole over Charlie, though it's portrayed as simply being due to him being a little rather kid than anything deeper.

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* ParentalFavoritism: Henry is shown to generally favor Nicole over Charlie, though it's portrayed as simply being due to him being a little kid rather kid than anything deeper.

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* InnocentlyInsensitive: Charlie is actually a NiceGuy and loves Nicole very much. It's just that he assumes that she is happy with what makes him happy--for example, the fact that they live in New York and not Los Angeles. It's not until the divorce proceedings bring to the fore what Nicole wants out of life that Charlie realises that his assumptions may have been incorrect.

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* InnocentlyInsensitive: InnocentlyInsensitive:
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Charlie is actually a NiceGuy and loves Nicole very much. It's just that he assumes that she is happy with what makes him happy--for example, the fact that they live in New York and not Los Angeles. It's not until the divorce proceedings bring to the fore what Nicole wants out of life that Charlie realises that his assumptions may have been incorrect.incorrect.
** Henry says some very insensitive things to Charlie, and makes his situation needlessly harder several times, but it's hard to fault him for any of it since he's only a kid.


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* KiddieKid: An example that verges on being a case of AmbiguousDisorder; Henry is eight years old but nearly illiterate.


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* ParentalFavoritism: Henry is shown to generally favor Nicole over Charlie, though it's portrayed as simply being due to him being a little rather kid than anything deeper.


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* StylisticSuck: From what we see of both Nicole's StarMakingRole and the pilot she films, they're quite cheesy. In spite of this, Nicole does her best to [[TookTheBadFilmSeriously Take The Bad Roles Seriously]].


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* TomHanksSyndrome: In-universe. Nicole's most famous film role was a raunchy college sex comedy, but she went on to have a prolific career in various serious and artistically-driven stage performances.


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* TrueCompanions: Charlie's theater company is shown to be incredibly supportive and loyal to him.


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* WellIntentionedExtremist: Nora is needlessly ruthless to Charlie and acts outside of Nicole's own interest, but is shown to be genuinely sympathetic to her situation and is overall portrayed more favorably than her counterpart Jay.
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* BookEnds: The film opens with Charlie and Nicole explaining why they love each other via voiceover to the audience. This manifests as writings the two are to read to each other at marriage counseling; Nicole staunchly refuses to read hers, which forms a lack of unity that invalidates the whole process. [[spoiler:Towards the end, Charlie stumbles upon Nicole's writing when he sees Henry obliviously sounding his way through it, and slowly breaks down while reading it for the first time as Nicole watches from the doorway, in tears herself.]]

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* BookEnds: The film opens with Charlie and Nicole explaining why they love each other via voiceover to the audience. This manifests as writings the two are to read to each other at marriage counseling; in a mediator's office; Nicole staunchly refuses to read hers, which forms a lack of unity that invalidates the whole process. [[spoiler:Towards the end, Charlie stumbles upon Nicole's writing when he sees Henry obliviously sounding his way through it, and slowly breaks down while reading it for the first time as Nicole watches from the doorway, in tears herself.]]



* {{Foreshadowing}}: The opening features the two main characters reading lists they've written as an exercise for their marriage counselor in which they tell what they like best about each other. They each list being "competitive" as something good about the other person.

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* {{Foreshadowing}}: The opening features the two main characters reading lists they've written as an exercise for their marriage counselor mediator in which they tell what they like best about each other. They each list being "competitive" as something good about the other person.
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* KickTheDog: [[spoiler:Nora goes behind Nicole's back and gets her a 55/45 custody split instead of the 50/50 Nicole wanted just because ''she'' wanted it for bragging rights.]]
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* SarcasticTitle: The marriage is already over before the film begins; the film is about a divorce.

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* SarcasticTitle: PlayedWith. The marriage is already over before the film begins; begins- the film is about a divorce. divorce; but [[WordOfGod Baumbach]] describes it as "a movie about marriage as seen through divorce."
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* CrusadingLawyer: Nora has shades of this, seeming largely motivated by fighting against the double standard, and Nicole's tirade about Charlie's faults, while still remaining relatively restrained until he brings in Jay Motta.

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* CrusadingLawyer: Nora has shades of this, seeming largely motivated by fighting against the double standard, and by Nicole's tirade about Charlie's faults, while still remaining relatively restrained until he brings in Jay Motta.



* ExtremeDoormat: Nicole. She allowed her mother to control her life, she allowed her husband to control it from then on and ultimately ends up in full control of her divorce lawyer. Under each of those "guidances" she does things she doesn't want, but doesn't protest or try to speak her mind, instead just going with the flow. Just watch her scenes with Nora.

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* ExtremeDoormat: Nicole. She allowed her mother to control her life, she allowed her husband to control it from then on and ultimately ends up in under the full control of her divorce lawyer. Under each of those "guidances" she does things she doesn't want, but doesn't protest or try to speak her mind, instead just going with the flow. Just watch her scenes with Nora.



* MoodWhiplash: A tense argument about whether or not the family lives in New York abruptly breaks when a paralegal asks if they should order lunch and everyone discusses their orders, and Nora and Bret compliment Charlie's play before they get to arguing again.

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* MoodWhiplash: A tense argument about whether or not the family lives in New York abruptly breaks when a paralegal asks if they should order lunch and everyone discusses their orders, and Nora and Bret Bert compliment Charlie's play before they get to arguing again.



* UnwittingInstigatorOfDoom: The executive handling to Nicole the number to a divorce attorney. So far, the divorce was an internal affair going on its slow, gradual pace, with no hard feelings and not getting bankrupt (or robbing Henry's education funds). Everything goes to hell once Nicole gets in touch with Nora.

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* UnwittingInstigatorOfDoom: The executive handling to Nicole handing the number to a divorce attorney.attorney to Nicole. So far, the divorce was an internal affair going on its slow, gradual pace, with no hard feelings and not getting bankrupt (or robbing Henry's education funds). Everything goes to hell once Nicole gets in touch with Nora.

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* CouldHaveAvoidedThisPlot: Bert outright warns Charlie how the case is going to roll, including all the fine details ''and'' pointless expenses he's going to make if he tries to "win" the divorce, seeing is as a competition, along with harsh and anger-filling court process. By the end of the story, not only all the predictions became true, but Charlie and Nicole are both aware they could avoid all of this, if they just kept it to their original plan to settle things down on their own.



* ExtremeDoormat: Nicole. She allowed her mother to control her life, she allowed her husband to control it from then on and ultimately ends up in full control of her divorce lawyer. Under each of those "guidances" she does things she doesn't want, but doesn't protest or try to speak her mind, instead just going with the flow. Just watch her scenes with Nora.



* IWishedYouWereDead: During their massive fight, Charlie basically says to Nicole that he wishes she would die. [[BrokenTears He immediately breaks down in remorse]].



* IWishedYouWereDead: During their massive fight, Charlie basically says to Nicole that he wishes she would die. [[BrokenTears He immediately breaks down in remorse]].

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* IWishedYouWereDead: During their massive fight, ItsAllAboutMe: ''Both'' Charlie basically says to and Nicole that he wishes she would die. [[BrokenTears He immediately breaks down are painfully self-centered and narcissistic in remorse]].their behaviour and decision-making. The only subject they are capable of making any sort of compromises is Henry - not due to ability to step down, but realisation of how destructive it could be for his well-being.


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* UnwittingInstigatorOfDoom: The executive handling to Nicole the number to a divorce attorney. So far, the divorce was an internal affair going on its slow, gradual pace, with no hard feelings and not getting bankrupt (or robbing Henry's education funds). Everything goes to hell once Nicole gets in touch with Nora.
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* InformedAbility: Henry is supposed to be a smart kid. He can't read, despite being 9 by the time the story wraps, an ability that's assumed to be a norm by that age.

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