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To add to the confusion, there is a widespread assumption that one's sexual preferences must always line up with one's romantic preferences, which does not necessarily apply to bisexuals. A bisexual person may be ''sexually'' bisexual (as in, they are capable of being physically attracted to all genders) but they are ''romantically'' straight and thus only seek out romantic relationships with people of a different gender, or vice versa. This distinction, and the seeming disconnect between a bisexual person's physical needs and their romantic desires, can lead to the appearance that bisexuals "don't know what they want" or are just a "confused" straight or gay person.
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Surprisingly, this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community itself as well (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt for bisexuals, even ''hatred'', from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.

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Surprisingly, this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community itself as well (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt (even ''hatred'') for bisexuals, even ''hatred'', bisexuals from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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Surprisingly, this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community itself (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt for bisexuals, even ''hatred'', from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.

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Surprisingly, this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community itself as well (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt for bisexuals, even ''hatred'', from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt for bisexuals, even ''hatred'', from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.

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Surprisingly Surprisingly, this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community itself (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt for bisexuals, even ''hatred'', from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt and even ''hatred'' of bisexuals from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.

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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt and for bisexuals, even ''hatred'' of bisexuals ''hatred'', from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide ''hatred'' and contempt of bisexuals from some corners of the community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.

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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide contempt and even ''hatred'' and contempt of bisexuals from some corners of the LGBT community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide ''hatred'' of bisexuals from some corners of the community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.

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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide ''hatred'' and contempt of bisexuals from some corners of the community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway. There is also bona fide ''hatred'' of bisexuals from some corners of the community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.

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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented in the community anyway. There is also bona fide ''hatred'' of bisexuals from some corners of the community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway. There is also bona fide ''hatred'' of bisexuals from some corners of the community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.

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Surprisingly this trope is actually in effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that the fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway. There is also bona fide ''hatred'' of bisexuals from some corners of the community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist and aren't simply liars (to themselves and everyone else), they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with. Generally, monogamous people expect total commitment from their partner, and there's the idea that this is impossible if your partner admits to having a whole facet of desire you will ''never'' be able to fulfill (for the opposite sex in a same-sex relationship, or the same sex in an opposite-sex relationship).

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Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist and aren't simply liars (to themselves and everyone else), they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with. Generally, monogamous people expect total commitment from their partner, and there's the idea that this is impossible if your partner admits to having a whole facet of desire you will ''never'' be able to fulfill (for the opposite sex in a same-sex relationship, or for the same sex in an opposite-sex relationship).
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Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist and aren't simply liars (to themselves and everyone else), they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with. Generally, monogamous people generally expect total commitment from their partner, and there's the idea that this is impossible if your partner admits to having a whole facet of desire you will ''never'' be able to fulfill (for the opposite sex in a same-sex relationship, or the same sex in an opposite-sex relationship).

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Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist and aren't simply liars (to themselves and everyone else), they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with. Generally, monogamous people generally expect total commitment from their partner, and there's the idea that this is impossible if your partner admits to having a whole facet of desire you will ''never'' be able to fulfill (for the opposite sex in a same-sex relationship, or the same sex in an opposite-sex relationship).
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Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist and aren't simply liars (to themselves and everyone else), they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with.

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Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist and aren't simply liars (to themselves and everyone else), they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with. Generally, monogamous people generally expect total commitment from their partner, and there's the idea that this is impossible if your partner admits to having a whole facet of desire you will ''never'' be able to fulfill (for the opposite sex in a same-sex relationship, or the same sex in an opposite-sex relationship).

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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably have been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, this would probably have destroyed Hudson's career then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and it really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always looks hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist, they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with.

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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably have been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, this would probably have destroyed Hudson's career then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and it really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always looks hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist, exist and aren't simply liars (to themselves and everyone else), they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with.

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The reason for this trope, in general, may partly arise from confusion surrounding the behavior of real life bisexuals, who do not, as a rule, date males and females ''[[JustForFun/IThoughtItMeant simultaneously]]''. In addition, most bisexuals prefer one sex over another at any one time and some will only occasionally date those who are the opposite of their stated sexual preference. They may even deny being bisexual if one were to directly ask them, and given the wide spectrum of human sexual behavior -- and modern societal pressures -- it would be difficult to tell a true bisexual from someone who's deliberately trying to hide their own sexual preference by dating members of the opposing sex. Furthermore, most people in general are monogamous, and will eventually settle down with someone (usually) of one sex or the other; some will inevitably conclude from this that the person in question "wasn't really bi after all".

This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably have been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, this would probably have destroyed Hudson's career then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and it really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always looks hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

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The reason for this trope, in general, may partly arise from confusion surrounding the behavior of real life bisexuals, who do not, as a rule, date males and females ''[[JustForFun/IThoughtItMeant simultaneously]]''. In addition, most bisexuals prefer one sex over another at any one time and some will only occasionally date those who are the opposite of their stated sexual preference. They may even deny being bisexual if one were to directly ask them, and given the wide spectrum of human sexual behavior -- and modern societal pressures -- it would be difficult to tell a true bisexual from someone who's deliberately trying to hide their own sexual preference by dating members of the opposing sex. Furthermore, most people in general are monogamous, and will eventually settle down with someone (usually) of one sex or the other; some other. This will inevitably lead people to conclude from this that the person in question "wasn't they were "never really bi after all".

straight" if it's with the same sex, or "never really gay" if it's with the opposite sex.

This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably have been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, this would probably have destroyed Hudson's career then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and it really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always looks hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)
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Even if bisexuals are admitted to exist, they are generally perceived negatively - either as [[DepravedBisexual depraved]], greedy, or untrustworthy. After all, there's now twice as many people you need to worry about them cheating on you with.
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Surprisingly this trope is actually in an effect, to an extent, within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway.

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Surprisingly this trope is actually in an effect, to an extent, effect within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}), so bi people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway. There is also bona fide ''hatred'' of bisexuals from some corners of the community, who seem to think that bisexuals are "cheating" by liking both, that they need to "pick a side", that they're lying to themselves and everyone else (see above point), and/or that they "don't really count" as a member of the community anyway -- which ''also'' contributes to bisexuals avoiding community spaces.
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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, this would probably have destroyed Hudson's career then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and it really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always looks hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

Surprisingly this trope is actually in an effect, to an extent, within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has lead to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}) so bi-people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway.

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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably have been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, this would probably have destroyed Hudson's career then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and it really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always looks hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

Surprisingly this trope is actually in an effect, to an extent, within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many Many, many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has lead led to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that fact that a lot of bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}) {{Gayborhood}}), so bi-people bi people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway. anyway.
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The reason for this trope, in general, may partly arise from confusion surrounding the behavior of real life bisexuals, who do not, as a rule, date males and females ''[[IThoughtItMeant simultaneously]]''. In addition, most bisexuals prefer one sex over another at any one time and some will only occasionally date those who are the opposite of their stated sexual preference. They may even deny being bisexual if one were to directly ask them, and given the wide spectrum of human sexual behavior -- and modern societal pressures -- it would be difficult to tell a true bisexual from someone who's deliberately trying to hide their own sexual preference by dating members of the opposing sex. Furthermore, most people in general are monogamous, and will eventually settle down with someone (usually) of one sex or the other; some will inevitably conclude from this that the person in question "wasn't really bi after all".

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The reason for this trope, in general, may partly arise from confusion surrounding the behavior of real life bisexuals, who do not, as a rule, date males and females ''[[IThoughtItMeant ''[[JustForFun/IThoughtItMeant simultaneously]]''. In addition, most bisexuals prefer one sex over another at any one time and some will only occasionally date those who are the opposite of their stated sexual preference. They may even deny being bisexual if one were to directly ask them, and given the wide spectrum of human sexual behavior -- and modern societal pressures -- it would be difficult to tell a true bisexual from someone who's deliberately trying to hide their own sexual preference by dating members of the opposing sex. Furthermore, most people in general are monogamous, and will eventually settle down with someone (usually) of one sex or the other; some will inevitably conclude from this that the person in question "wasn't really bi after all".
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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

Surprisingly this trope is actually in an effect, to an extent, within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has lead to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that fact that a lot of bisexual's don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}) so bi-people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway.

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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, this would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, career then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and it really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look looks hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

Surprisingly this trope is actually in an effect, to an extent, within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has lead to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that fact that a lot of bisexual's bisexuals don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}) so bi-people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway.
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Surprisingly this trope is actually in an effect, to an extent, within the LGBT community (despite the B standing for Bisexual). Many many people initially come out as bi before identifying as homosexual. This has lead to a widely held perception that, in most cases, bisexuals are just people who don't want to admit to themselves that they aren't really attracted to the opposite gender at all. This belief is probably compounded by that fact that a lot of bisexual's don't feel a need to hang out at LGBT events (and certainly don't need to move into a {{Gayborhood}}) so bi-people tend to be underrepresented the community anyway.
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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Paul Lynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Paul Lynde, Creator/PaulLynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)
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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Paul Lynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Paul Lynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. MeganFox Creator/MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)
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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Paul Lynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

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This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Paul Lynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.))
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The reason for this trope, in general, may partly arise from confusion surrounding the behavior of real life bisexuals, who do not, as a rule, date males and females ''[[IThoughtItMeant simultaneously]]''. In addition, most bisexuals prefer one sex over another at any one time and some will only occasionally date those who are the opposite of their stated sexual preference. They may even deny being bisexual if one were to directly ask them, and given the wide spectrum of human sexual behavior -- and modern societal pressures -- it would be difficult to tell a true bisexual from someone who's deliberately trying to hide their own sexual preference by dating members of the opposing sex. Furthermore, most people in general are monogamous, and will eventually settle down with someone (usually) of one sex or the other; some will inevitably conclude from this that the person in question "wasn't really bi after all".

This can have to do with the particular times. The late Rock Hudson was reportedly bisexual, and from some reports was more interested in men than women, although for obvious reasons the climate of the time (1960s and 1970s) would have ruined his career if this was known to the public. It would probably been hard enough if he were reported as gay, or "turned" gay (this was a more-or-less open secret with Paul Lynde, but it still wasn't publicly stated he was gay until after he died). As being bisexual is considered by the general public as being "more weird" than being "merely" gay, would probably have destroyed Hudson's career, then. Today, the comic Andy Dick has publicly admitted he's bisexual, and apparently this has not hurt his career, although his career is mostly built around him being crazy. MeganFox is also open about being bisexual and really hasn't hurt her at all. But since GirlOnGirlIsHot, a woman who admits to bisexuality always look hotter to the average male viewer, unlike a man who does the same. (Then again, Fox has already admitted to blatantly lying to the media to shield off her private life, which appears to be working out just fine thus far.)

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