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Do remeber what channel you watched it on or years that it was on?
could it be Cold Case?
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0368479/
I recall there was an episode of Law and Order (SVU?) where a gay son of a preacher's boyfriend was murdered after they were caught in bed by his father; his father tries to use the gay panic defence and claim he thought it was rape, but they eventually prove he knew his son was gay all along (and all his preaching was passive aggressively aimed at his son).
Could that have been it?
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If it involves flashbacks, then it is more than likely Cold Case or Without a Trace
It was Law & Order SVU. The episode is called Sin and is Season 8, episode 18.
This has been bugging me for a while. I remember seeing a police drama type tv show. I know the show involves flashbacks. They show you what happened in the past to fill you in on the murder. The only episode I can remember involved what I think was a minister's son. I'm not sure if this is exactly what happened but, the church was involved in conversion and the minister's son was gay. I think his boyfriend was murdered