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Silasw A procrastination in of itself from A handcart to hell (4 Score & 7 Years Ago) Relationship Status: And they all lived happily ever after <3
A procrastination in of itself
#8526: Jul 12th 2015 at 3:08:39 PM

I'd point out that in Gossip Girl they are all liars and terrible people, it's far from just the women.

Still I get the wider point of it, the U.S. media and music industries often portray women as liars. This is then helped along by politicians and religious leaders (though that bit I didn't super get, but that may be due to the vicar I remember the best having been a divorced women) and resulting in kids just assuming that women lie and defences along the lines of "yes my client raped his daughter, but he didn't do it for very long and she's a liver if she says it was a thing over a long time period" not getting laughed out of court.

edited 13th Jul '15 5:11:24 AM by Silasw

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AmbarSonofDeshar Since: Jan, 2010
#8527: Jul 12th 2015 at 6:51:07 PM

the U.S. media and music industries often portray women as liners

Not as cargo ships?

Ninety Absolutely no relation to NLK from Land of Quakes and Hills Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: In Spades with myself
Absolutely no relation to NLK
#8528: Jul 12th 2015 at 7:05:56 PM

If that's true about the Tim Hunt situation, then that is really fucked up.

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Imca (Veteran)
#8529: Jul 12th 2015 at 7:51:10 PM

Which is kinda the key point if it is true, IMHO... if that was the case, this should have came up much sooner.

It seems like damage control at this point....

@ Article: Yay depression....

Iaculus Pronounced YAK-you-luss from England Since: May, 2010
Pronounced YAK-you-luss
#8530: Jul 12th 2015 at 8:20:59 PM

Here's the Times story. I read the physical version, and don't have a site subscription, so I'm afraid I can't quote in full to get past the paywall. The transcript was reportedly leaked by an EU official, so it's possible that either it took a while for them to hear about the mess due to living in a different country, or, more alarmingly, that it just took the British press this long to do some factchecking and confirm what Hunt had been saying from Day One. Either way, the Times is a reliable enough source (even if it is a Murdoch paper) that it faking an entire EU report is unlikely in the extreme.

What's precedent ever done for us?
vandro Shop Owner from The little shop that wasn't Since: Jul, 2009
Shop Owner
#8531: Jul 12th 2015 at 8:36:59 PM

I'd rather err on the side of good will and think he was misquoted, there.

probablyinsane Since: Oct, 2011 Relationship Status: I LOVE THIS DOCTOR!
#8532: Jul 12th 2015 at 10:41:04 PM

Doesn't this qualify for libel (or slander)?

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Sixthhokage1 Since: Feb, 2013
#8533: Jul 12th 2015 at 10:52:07 PM

Apologies for not putting any warnings on my last post, I just edited it to add them (yes it's a little late now but if anyone else comes across the post...)

AngelusNox The law in the night from somewhere around nothing Since: Dec, 2014 Relationship Status: Married to the job
The law in the night
#8534: Jul 12th 2015 at 11:22:37 PM

I never got the point of trigger warnings, what is the purpose? To shelter people from subjects that may make them uncomfortable?

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LeGarcon Blowout soon fellow Stalker from Skadovsk Since: Aug, 2013 Relationship Status: Gay for Big Boss
Blowout soon fellow Stalker
#8535: Jul 12th 2015 at 11:26:18 PM

Actually yeah. You think people who lived through severe trauma want to just casually find that kinda stuff without any warning?

Oh really when?
Quag15 Since: Mar, 2012
#8536: Jul 12th 2015 at 11:28:05 PM

[up][up]It used to be applied to people who suffer from things such as PTSD/shellshock or suffered a rape or a brutal assault.

Nowadays, the meaning seems to have changed through all kinds of uses.

[up][nja]'d

edited 12th Jul '15 11:28:27 PM by Quag15

Sixthhokage1 Since: Feb, 2013
#8537: Jul 12th 2015 at 11:30:32 PM

It gives you a chance to brace yourself instead of just jumping straight into something that will cause depression to hit you over the head like a sack of bricks.

AngelusNox The law in the night from somewhere around nothing Since: Dec, 2014 Relationship Status: Married to the job
The law in the night
#8538: Jul 12th 2015 at 11:49:16 PM

I don't really know, the first time I read about trigger warnings were over a the NYU student group wanting to force the college to put trigger warnings on history books and exempting students who might be triggered from seeing the content.

I don't have a very positive view of the trigger warnings and "triggering" concept.

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probablyinsane Since: Oct, 2011 Relationship Status: I LOVE THIS DOCTOR!
#8539: Jul 13th 2015 at 12:14:00 AM

Just think of it like smoking warnings and "this sundae has 1200 calories".

Being forewarned is preferable.

'Sides, it's far less intrusive than 99.99% of advertisements.

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LoniJay from Australia Since: Dec, 2009 Relationship Status: Pining for the fjords
#8540: Jul 13th 2015 at 2:22:04 AM

Well, being 'triggered' can have an extremely negative impact on your ability to function. Panic attacks are not really something you can just will yourself out of.

If it doesn't cause you much inconvenience and it potentially stops somebody from having their day ruined, or even just from feeling like shit for a few hours, then... why wouldn't you? It's not THAT onerous a request.

Be not afraid...
Greenmantle V from Greater Wessex, Britannia Since: Feb, 2010 Relationship Status: Hiding
V
#8541: Jul 13th 2015 at 4:04:16 AM

Although I do wonder if there's anyone where a Trigger Warning is a Trigger in of itself.

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PippingFool Eclipse the Moon from A Floridian Prison Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I get a feeling so complicated...
Eclipse the Moon
#8542: Jul 13th 2015 at 4:43:41 AM

Really. Its not that different from content/rating warnings before a TV show ie "This show contains Drug Use, Strong Language and Adult Themes" or if you want a more specific example: In Australia, documentaries/reports that involve Aboriginal Australians in a capacity will have "The following program may contain footage/IMAGES of deceased Indigenous persons. Viewer disgression is advised"

Adding a label doesnt take up much time. Really of all the things people complain about the "esjaywuus" "ruining/being too sensitive", trigger warnings are like the least effort to implement.

I mean, my Film class had warnings about triggering content (explosions, racial violence and sexual assult) specifically so any war vets and assult victims knew what content to expect before entering the course.

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Silasw A procrastination in of itself from A handcart to hell (4 Score & 7 Years Ago) Relationship Status: And they all lived happily ever after <3
A procrastination in of itself
#8543: Jul 13th 2015 at 5:17:38 AM

I think this discussion shows the depressing effect that certain parts of internet culture has had on on how the idea of a trigger warning is seen.

A trigger warning is about giving people a heads up about something that might cause a panic attack/flashback/other serious negative psychological reaction in someone for some reason. The stupid use of it by some folks online has morphed it into "a trigger warning is something someone asks for because they don't agree politically with what is written there and feel offended by someone disagreeing with them". The people behind the morph are responsible for a massive spread if misinformation and a lot of pain and suffering.

A trigger warning is a content warning, same as tagging something as NSFW it's polite to tag stuff if it deals with rape as such, especially if it's particularly detailed descriptions being given.

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PippingFool Eclipse the Moon from A Floridian Prison Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I get a feeling so complicated...
Eclipse the Moon
#8544: Jul 13th 2015 at 8:45:38 AM

TBH I've never seen "triggered/triggering" being used as a way of shutting down arguments that SJ minded people don't agree with outside of troll blogs that keep the festering heart of r/TumblerInAction pumping.

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AngelusNox The law in the night from somewhere around nothing Since: Dec, 2014 Relationship Status: Married to the job
The law in the night
#8545: Jul 13th 2015 at 10:10:53 AM

[up][up]Yeah, that. Most of the people I've seen using the term either use it to shut down discussions or as an substitute to annoyed, while hardly having any serious traumatic experience.

[up]I saw it being used outside Tumblr, on facebook, twitter and being unironically being used on a discussion over exercising and weight loss that admitting being fat isn't healthy is triggering.

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Ninety Absolutely no relation to NLK from Land of Quakes and Hills Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: In Spades with myself
Absolutely no relation to NLK
#8546: Jul 13th 2015 at 11:06:16 AM

It's really not at all limited to trolls, unfortunately.

Dopants: He meant what he said and he said what he meant, a Ninety is faithful 100%.
PippingFool Eclipse the Moon from A Floridian Prison Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I get a feeling so complicated...
Eclipse the Moon
#8547: Jul 13th 2015 at 11:08:04 AM

But it seems to be no-where near the commonplace variety most people tell me it is.

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unknowing from somewhere.. Since: Mar, 2014
#8548: Jul 13th 2015 at 11:17:18 AM

"trigger" like many other words(troll,white knight,etc) as become meanless in long term, in this cases trigger as become pretty much "you annoy me, get away"

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Ninety Absolutely no relation to NLK from Land of Quakes and Hills Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: In Spades with myself
Absolutely no relation to NLK
#8549: Jul 13th 2015 at 11:20:04 AM

[up][up] No, it definitely isn't. People just like to point and single out the worst proponents of their opponents' position. It's neither just trolling, nor common enough to be really influential.

Dopants: He meant what he said and he said what he meant, a Ninety is faithful 100%.
Polarstern from United States Since: Nov, 2011 Relationship Status: 700 wives and 300 concubines
#8550: Jul 13th 2015 at 11:20:27 AM

No. And again no.

Trigger is a mental health term with significant documentation and is most commonly used to help in shaping therapies from clinical documentation to the 504 plan you have for kids in school.

It is not just basic decency, but actual human grace to accompany certain materials with a trigger warning and if you see someone trying to use that term fraudulently or in an otherwise disrespectful manner, you should call them out for their bullshit, not just drop a perfectly safe medical term.

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