Not wanting to be *too* harsh, but...
You seem to not know very much about BSDM, rape fantasy, or actual rape. I can only say this in conjecture but I suspect that you keep confusing all of them because you think that they are all just a different name for the same thing. That's the only reason I can think of that would explain why you keep mixing elements of all the different ones together.
You cannot "force" someone to rape you, that would make your bigbad
a rapist and the hero the rape victim.
There isn't any mindscrew
to that at all.
as of the 2nd of Nov. has 6 weeks for a broken collar bone to heal and types 1 handed and slowly