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LeighSabio Mate Griffon To Mare from Love party! Since: Jan, 2001
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#1: Apr 9th 2011 at 7:50:06 PM

Well, I've just had an epiphany: I'm a vain person. Not wearing makeup makes me nervous to the point where I'm late to things because I'm putting it on. I shop at Kohl's, even though it may use sweatshop labor, just because it has cheap good clothes.

The thing is, I don't know what to do about my vanity. I don't see it as a good thing, but I haven't done much to stop myself from being vain. I guess I've just accepted it, but I'm not sure if that is the right response.

I see vanity as a form of perfectionism, namely "I must look/seem perfect or I'm not good enough." And perfectionism stems from insecurity. But strangely, I'm not insecure or perfectionist in other areas.

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Usht Lv. 3 Genasi Wizard from an arbitrary view point. Since: Feb, 2011
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#2: Apr 9th 2011 at 7:51:57 PM

Have you ever considered that trying to look good is just something you enjoy doing? Like a hobby of sorts, an unofficial model that only goes by what you have to say. If that's the case, feel free to enjoy, just don't let it dictate what you do.

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Ekuran Since: Feb, 2010 Relationship Status: watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
#3: Apr 9th 2011 at 7:57:53 PM

Vanity is a trait. Traits aren't bad or good. You make of it what you will.

edited 9th Apr '11 7:58:09 PM by Ekuran

Karalora Since: Jan, 2001
#4: Apr 9th 2011 at 8:06:46 PM

Our culture demands that women look their best at all times, and then mocks female vanity.

That's really all I have to say on the matter.

kashchei Since: May, 2010
#5: Apr 9th 2011 at 8:09:00 PM

I'm a perfectionist, but I'm hairy and smelly. I don't think there's a correlation.

And better than thy stroke; why swellest thou then?
Rottweiler Dog and Pony Show from Portland, Oregon Since: Dec, 2009
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#6: Apr 9th 2011 at 8:12:20 PM

Have you ever considered that trying to look good is just something you enjoy doing? Like a hobby of sorts, an unofficial model that only goes by what you have to say.

That's how it is for me. Some people collect coins; I buy dapper clothes.

Though with me, there's a clear subtext. Leigh! What social statement are you trying to make by focusing on looking good?

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Jackerel SURPRISE from ur sentry Since: Feb, 2011
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#7: Apr 9th 2011 at 8:16:15 PM

Our culture demands that women look their best at all times, and then mocks female vanity.

Or declares one side of it EVILLLLLLL.

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Counterclock Since: Feb, 2013
#8: Apr 9th 2011 at 8:17:26 PM

Yeah, It's kind of sad really ~nod~

inane242 Anwalt der Verdammten from A B-Movie Bildungsroman Since: Nov, 2010
Anwalt der Verdammten
#9: Apr 9th 2011 at 8:30:42 PM

Kohl's? SHAME ON YOU! Department stores sell boring overpriced crap.

Protip: If you pay more than $50 for an article of clothing that isn't sturdy boots, you're doing it wrong.

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Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
#10: Apr 9th 2011 at 9:54:34 PM

@Kashchei: Thanks for putting that mental image in my head.

kashchei Since: May, 2010
#11: Apr 9th 2011 at 10:00:15 PM

Can't handle your women sweaty and unshaven, Kino?

And better than thy stroke; why swellest thou then?
Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
#12: Apr 9th 2011 at 10:21:01 PM

[up]Well i've sparred with my ex, and there have been times when she didn't shave(winter), so I'd say yeah.

Whatever happened to the image of y'all being dainty, delicate flowers?

edited 9th Apr '11 10:21:32 PM by Kino

Karalora Since: Jan, 2001
#13: Apr 9th 2011 at 10:22:57 PM

It was only ever an image, not reality.

Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
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Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
Carciofus Is that cake frosting? from Alpha Tucanae I Since: May, 2010
Is that cake frosting?
#18: Apr 9th 2011 at 11:47:54 PM

Being hugged by a muffin sounds sticky, though.

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JosefBugman Since: Nov, 2009
#19: Apr 10th 2011 at 1:46:24 AM

Depends what sort of muffin.

Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
#20: Apr 10th 2011 at 7:21:43 AM

Annnnd JB with the save!

HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#21: Apr 10th 2011 at 8:02:46 AM

Is there any store that you know for a fact won't sell you a sweatshop's bill of goods?

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Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#23: Apr 10th 2011 at 8:07:10 AM

I doubt it.

I'm convinced most articles of clothing are insanely overpriced anyways, even at a lot of discount stores.

But I know less about fashion than some species of crab, so don't put too much stock in my opinions on the subject.

Charlie Tunoku is a lover and a fighter.
Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
#24: Apr 10th 2011 at 8:08:10 AM

You ain't shit if you don't have a pair of $190 True Religion jeans.

HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#25: Apr 10th 2011 at 8:21:51 AM

I'm not shit. Happy day!

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