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MrAHR Ahr river from ಠ_ಠ Since: Oct, 2010 Relationship Status: A cockroach, nothing can kill it.
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#18351: Nov 20th 2014 at 12:38:12 PM

Let's assume Sarah was in the wrong here.

She -spent the card game bantering and having a good time with Sam

-set it up as a platonic thing

-and when she realized it came off as date-ish SHE APOLOGIZED FOR MAKING HIM UNCOMFORTABLE

If Rich and Larry had done those steps, I don't think people would hate them as much, just pointing that out. Heck I would have been more sympathetic to them if their first reaction was sHIT sORRY i fUCKED uP

edited 20th Nov '14 12:46:14 PM by MrAHR

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TotemicHero No longer a forum herald from the next level Since: Dec, 2009
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#18352: Nov 20th 2014 at 2:55:55 PM

I'm pretty sympathetic to people who accidentally leave caps lock on and thus invert capital and lowercase letters, too.

edited 20th Nov '14 2:56:09 PM by TotemicHero

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Ninety Absolutely no relation to NLK from Land of Quakes and Hills Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: In Spades with myself
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#18353: Nov 20th 2014 at 3:03:44 PM

Tavros Nitram and overexcited Tumblr users?

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RaichuKFM Nine thousand nine hundred eighty-two reasons. from Where she's at Since: Jun, 2010 Relationship Status: Wishing you were here
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#18354: Nov 20th 2014 at 3:13:27 PM

Oh, is that what that weird capping on tumblr is about?

Why would they start the part in caps with a lowercase, though? Do they really hold down shift immediately after hitting caps lock?

On the topic of the comic, yeah, I can't at all see how Sarah was in the wrong at all. She apologized before being prompted to, for crying out loud!

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Elfive Since: May, 2009 Relationship Status: Non-Canon
#18355: Nov 20th 2014 at 3:15:31 PM

It's supposed to depict starting a sentence normally and then suddDENLY RAISING YOUR VOICE AT THE END.

TobiasDrake Queen of Good Things, Honest (Edited uphill both ways) Relationship Status: Arm chopping is not a love language!
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#18356: Nov 20th 2014 at 3:27:29 PM

I'm of the opinion that everywhere else on the internet needs to have potholes too.

It's way easier for telling someone's tone of voice WHEN THEY'RE SUDDENLY YELLING AT YOU ARGHBLHUDADRL, or for telling the difference between someone ironically saying something and when they genuinely mean it.

Potholes make communication on this forum much easier than on others.

edited 20th Nov '14 3:28:03 PM by TobiasDrake

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#18357: Nov 20th 2014 at 3:35:24 PM

Unsubtle, but efficient.

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TheyCallMeTomu Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Anime is my true love
#18358: Nov 20th 2014 at 6:21:17 PM

32 basically gets at the points I was making. I personally don't have an issue with hitting on people at cardgames. It's a bit obnoxious but as long as both people are on board it's fine, and if they're not, just take no to mean no. But "don't hit on your fellow players" wasn't just good social etiquette, it was an explicit rule. The idea that "Oh, but it's okay the moment you're no longer actively in a match" is patently ridiculous-to the extent that it feels like the rule is explicitly written in such a method as to make Sarah out to be A OK and Larry out to be, well, Larry.

Daremo Misanthrope Supreme from Parts Unknown Since: May, 2010 Relationship Status: If it's you, it's okay
#18359: Nov 20th 2014 at 6:29:13 PM

No, the reason for the rule is to keep you from harassing a captive audience. It's not just there for, "Don't try to hook up at tournaments", there are practical reasons, which don't apply once the gaming is over.

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MrAHR Ahr river from ಠ_ಠ Since: Oct, 2010 Relationship Status: A cockroach, nothing can kill it.
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#18360: Nov 20th 2014 at 6:40:59 PM

Also even if it WASN'T against the rules, the way Larry did it and the way Sarah did are completely different in strategy.

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TheyCallMeTomu Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Anime is my true love
#18361: Nov 20th 2014 at 7:06:00 PM

I didn't say that Sarah's strategy was wrong. All I said was that from an optics standpoint, it's ridiculous to say it's okay to hit on Sam after the match when it's not okay for Larry to hit on Sarah.

I get that I'm in the minority on this. But then again, everyone else is wrong~ <dance dance dance>

In all seriousness, it would have been less uncouth for Sarah to wait until the event was over. Yes, opponents in the game are a captive audience, but that was the objection to hitting on players raised by the people in this thread not the reasoning presented in the comic itself (feel free to link to the 278 panels wasted on explaining the reasoning that I somehow have immediately forgotten). In short, at least as far as EGS is concerned, that's post hoc reasoning.

In less seriousness, re: the "Sarah is trading her discomfort at dating a man who turns into a woman for dating a man who has a vagina" thing, I think it's simple.

Judging by her own fantasy sequences, it wasn't that she disliked Elliot turning into a woman, just that female Elliot had bigger breasts than her.

edited 20th Nov '14 7:55:22 PM by TheyCallMeTomu

RaichuKFM Nine thousand nine hundred eighty-two reasons. from Where she's at Since: Jun, 2010 Relationship Status: Wishing you were here
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#18362: Nov 20th 2014 at 9:20:35 PM

...I uh. Don't think that was Sarah's problem.

Also the reasoning about captive audiences was mentioned in The Rant so it's presumably the in-universe reason as well?

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Medinoc Chaotic Greedy from France Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: [TOP SECRET]
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#18363: Nov 20th 2014 at 9:39:45 PM

Even Rich and Larry know it's about captive audiences.

edited 20th Nov '14 9:41:34 PM by Medinoc

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#18365: Nov 21st 2014 at 5:54:40 AM

Get your mind out of the gutter, Mousa.

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MousaThe14 Writer, Artist, Ignored from Northern Virginia Since: Jan, 2011 Relationship Status: Showing feelings of an almost human nature
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#18366: Nov 21st 2014 at 5:55:51 AM

But the gutter has funnier jokes and I don't feel guilty when I make sexual comments about a sex I'm not attracted to.

edited 21st Nov '14 5:57:28 AM by MousaThe14

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#18367: Nov 21st 2014 at 6:20:13 AM

For once, I can finally say I understand Sarahs character

Mostly because a year of R Ping experience and having played a character who was just as poor at picking relationships.

Sarah is being fucking stupid right now. The only thing worse she could have done is latched on to someone already in a relationship.

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#18368: Nov 21st 2014 at 6:36:43 AM

That explains a lot.

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#18369: Nov 21st 2014 at 6:44:18 AM

[up][up]Wait, how is being friendly with someone stupid? I mean yes they just met but they seemed to have a good time during the game and it's not like they're vying for a committed relationship or anything, just a chance to hang out.

[up]It explains EVERYTHING!

Wait, what's being explained here?

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Ninety Absolutely no relation to NLK from Land of Quakes and Hills Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: In Spades with myself
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#18370: Nov 21st 2014 at 6:55:42 AM

Oh, I was referring to your previous post.

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MousaThe14 Writer, Artist, Ignored from Northern Virginia Since: Jan, 2011 Relationship Status: Showing feelings of an almost human nature
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#18371: Nov 21st 2014 at 6:57:00 AM

Oh, I see.

Wait, it does explain a lot? What does it explain?

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Medinoc Chaotic Greedy from France Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: [TOP SECRET]
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#18372: Nov 21st 2014 at 6:59:15 AM

You should add arrows to your message, Ninety.

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TobiasDrake Queen of Good Things, Honest (Edited uphill both ways) Relationship Status: Arm chopping is not a love language!
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#18373: Nov 21st 2014 at 6:59:19 AM

Sarah's making what may be a potentially disastrous mistake. I don't think she's being stupid, however. She doesn't appear to be aware of Sam's gender issues.

That being said, "hang out and see if we click" is not the same as "latching on". We have been given no indication that Sarah is especially invested in the idea of a relationship with Sam; only that she's willing to explore the possibility.

edited 21st Nov '14 7:00:09 AM by TobiasDrake

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MousaThe14 Writer, Artist, Ignored from Northern Virginia Since: Jan, 2011 Relationship Status: Showing feelings of an almost human nature
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#18374: Nov 21st 2014 at 7:01:00 AM

@Tobias, Yeah well, if they become friends it's the sort of thing she'll learn about. Ideally you're not exactly going to know or are about a person's gender identity issues on sight, they'll tell you when they're comfortable with you. Surah not knowing is hardly makes anything a stupid decision on her part besides making the whole thing sound like a date.

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#18375: Nov 21st 2014 at 7:10:18 AM

Why is it potentially disastrous? Transphobia or something?


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