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Idiot Ball: The Bastard Boyfriend who Would Hit a Girl, and who scared Gillian so much she telephoned across the states for help, stepped out of the car to take a leak. Do they drive away? No, they sit meekly in the car, Sally at the steering wheel, and wait for him to come back.