These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
YMMV: Adventures of a Demon-Hunting Soccer Mom
Real Women Don't Wear Dresses: Kate, being a mom of a toddler, tends toward sweats and jeans except for when she has to wear dresses for her political aspirant husband's dinner parties.
On the other hand, she's come to appreciate the piercing ability of a good set of stiletto heels applied to a demon container's eye.
Wangst: Kate spends a significant part of each book whining about how guilty she feels about lying to her husband, lying to her children, lying to PTA members, etc.