[[WarIsHell The atmosphere of a lot of war stories is generally saddening and depressing, if not outright horrifying]]. That said, when a writer thinks that enough is enough and that these poor characters need a bit of happiness in their lives without deviating from the somber war genre, then what better way to show that than to have two characters get married?

The Wartime Wedding is a great way to put a HopeSpot in a war story in order to lighten the mood. Among other things, a marriage symbolizes love and unity and can remind the characters that things such as happiness still exist. At the same time, the usual joy of the WeddingDay is undercut by the tragedy of war.

This can come in three types (but is not limited to them):
* Weddings right prior to war breaking out or right in the beginning of it: These marriages are usually rushed and can represent calm before the storm. It can be particularly ominous {{Foreshadowing}}. Often ends in the fresh husband going off to war. [[RedShirt These bridegrooms seem to have a fairly low chance of survival]], and if they do come back, [[ShellShockedVeteran they're not the fresh-faced soldiers who got married anymore]].
* Weddings during war: Most commonly used as a HopeSpot, especially when characters are "tired of all the fighting." This can also be done before the FinalBattle, as one last "I love you," and to ensure that the now-wife will be compensated if the hero dies in battle. In this case, his odds of survival are about 50/50.
* Weddings right after war: When the wartime sweethearts have HookedUpAfterwards, they're very likely to get married to show that, somehow, the characters are moving on with their lives. This type of wartime wedding generally symbolizes the beginning of recovery, especially if [[BabiesMakeEverythingBetter there's talk of children]]. Oftentimes used as a BittersweetEnding.

The StarcrossedLovers are subject to this a lot of the time in war stories. Expect the couple to AltarTheSpeed. Compare MarriedAtSea. Beware the possibly unmarked spoilers!



[[folder: Anime and Manga ]]

* ''Anime/TengenToppaGurrenLagann'' has [[spoiler:Simon and Nia]] marry right after the Anti-Spiral War, as an example of the third type.
* In ''Anime/RomeoXJuliet'', [[spoiler: Cordelia and Benvolio]], two members of LaResistance, get married during their revolution, shortly before the final battle.


[[folder:Comic Books]]

* The UsefulNotes/WorldWarI serial ''ComicBook/GoldenEyesAndHerHeroBill'' end with a type [=III=], between [[ExactlyWhatItSaysOnTheTin who else but]] Golden Eyes and Bill. Though Golden Eyes is an ambulance driver and a decorated veteran, she opts to wear a PimpedOutDress. Bill, who is also a decorated veteran, wears his dress uniform with spurs and a sword.


[[folder: Fan Fic ]]

* Susan Bones and Ernie Macmillan in ''Fanfic/DumbledoresArmyAndTheYearOfDarkness''. Professor [=McGonagall=] also told a backstory about herself marrying a wizard who joined the Muggle RAF in WWII and died shortly afterward.
* Buttercup and Ace have one in {{Fanfic/Pipeline}}. Kevin the UnreliableNarrator muses that they're too young and desperate. Soon after, Buttercup gets pregnant, and they live happily for a bit. Eventually, Buttercup experiences DeathByChildbirth as a result of fusion poisoning, and everyone wishes that "young and desperate" was half of their problems as more and more people die in battle.
* Type II for Jazz and Prowl in ''[[Fanfic/ThingsWeDontTellHumans Things We Don't Tell Humans]]''. Interesting because of the chances of survival element: Jazz has already died once.
* Captain Thomas Lynley and his [[NumberTwo first officer]] Commander Barbara Havers in the FusionFic ''FanFic/AndAllTheStarsBurnedBright'' take advantage of [[spoiler:their ship needing serious repairs]] to get married in the middle of the Dominion War, because they don't know if they'll be coming home alive and dammit, they want to marry each other. It's a small ceremony on the beach with only their senior staff. They later have a more formal wedding in a chapel with the rest of their friends and family as well, but only [[spoiler:after they've won the war]].


[[folder: Film ]]

* ''Film/PiratesOfTheCaribbeanAtWorldsEnd'': Will and Elizabeth not only get married in the middle of a war, but also in the middle of a ''battle''. [[MarriedAtSea On a pirate ship.]] PlayedForLaughs when they realize they need a minister, and decide to enlist the help of ship captain Barbossa (who, apparently, can still perform marriages despite being the captain of a ''pirate'' ship) - but when they ask him, he rightly protests that [[CasualDangerDialog he's a little busy at the moment]].
* ''Film/ThisIsTheArmy'': The soldier and his girlfriend nearly don't get married for fear of leaving her a single mother, but in the end she convinces him to marry her anyway.
* In the ''Franchise/StarWars'' prequels, Anakin and Padme secretly marry at the beginning of the clone wars.
* ''Film/TheAfricanQueen''. While attempting to blow up a German warship in the middle of UsefulNotes/WorldWarI, Rose and Charlie fall in love. They get captured by Germans, and just before they are to be hanged, they ask the captain of the ship to [[MarriedAtSea marry them]], so they can at least die as husband and wife.
-->'''Captain:''' I now pronounce you husband and wife--proceed with the execution.
* In ''Film/IndependenceDay'', Steve and Jasmine marry at Area 51 the morning before the FinalBattle. Her son Dylan acts as ring-bearer.
* One of the recruits that John Wayne trains in ''Film/TheSandsOfIwoJima'' marries a girl he met at the USO shortly before the unit is deployed.
* In ''Film/FatherGoose'', Cary Grant's character marries Leslie Caron's after some truly inspired SlapSlapKiss while being strafed by the Japanese. The wedding night isn't any better
* ''Film/InLoveAndWar'' (1958) centers on three Marines in UsefulNotes/WorldWarII, first on leave, then in battle. One, Nico, uses his leave to propose to and marry his pregnant girlfriend. It isn't a ShotgunWedding; they're genuinely in love and no one is making him. Perhaps predictably, [[spoiler: he's the one of the three who doesn't survive]].
* ''Series/KamenRiderKabuto'' has one in the DarkerAndEdgier alternate world of TheMovie, ''God Speed Love,'' where it's really more like all-out war than the MonsterOfTheWeek encounters of the series. Just before the final battle, Kagami and Hiyori are married [[spoiler: in the hospital as she is in her final minutes of life from the illness that was worsening throughout the film.]]
* The he German drama ''Film/TheMarriageOfMariaBraun'' opens with the eponymous heroine getting married during a bombing raid, no less. After the marriage, her husband leaves for the Eastern Front the day after and they don't see each others for years.


[[folder: Literature ]]

* Jerin's [[ExoticExtendedMarriage grandmothers and grandfather]] marry shortly after the war in ''Literature/ABrothersPrice''. This is the reason why [[spoiler: the bridegroom's ancestry is not mentioned in the papers, and only few know that he was actually a prince of the realm]]
* Happens to [[spoiler: Finnick and Annie]] in the third book of ''Literature/TheHungerGames'' trilogy, ''Mockingjay.'' They get married during the middle of the war, and the rebels broadcast it as propaganda, to show that they're not worried and in high spirits.
* ''Literature/HarryPotter'':
** [[spoiler:Bill's and Fleur's]] wedding in the [[Literature/HarryPotterAndTheDeathlyHallows seventh book]]. For added bonus, the reception eventually falls in the crossfire, too.
** While not shown, [[spoiler: Lupin and Tonks]] marry between the sixth and seventh books, more than a year after the Second Wizarding War officially commenced.
** Molly and Arthur Weasley got married during Voldemort's first reign of terror. This is brought up as HypocriticalHumor after Molly decries the tendency of the young to rush into marriage during his second reign of terror.
** James and Lily Potter also had both their wedding and the birth of their son during the last stages of the First Wizarding War. The last bit is especially important since Voldemort wouldn't fall (and the War wouldn't end) without Harry being born.
* There's a villainous twist to this in ''Literature/PhoenixAndAshes''. Alison intends to bespell Reggie into a Wartime Wedding to one of her daughters, magically ensure that an heir is conceived, then [[UriahGambit get Reggie back to the front to be killed]], leaving Alison controlling the Fenyx estate and its wealth through her daughter.
* ''Literature/GoneWithTheWind'' has quite a lot of engagements and weddings going on before, during, and after the war. It averts all three above.
** Ashley Wilkes and Melanie Hamilton are engaged during the very beginning of war. He ultimately survives the war, but refuses to be called a hero, depressed by the war horrors.
** Angry and humiliated with this (she had confessed to Ashley after hearing of the engagement plans), Scarlett married young Charles Hamilton a little later. He dies an unheroic death from measles a few weeks later, leaving Scarlett pregnant.
** Later on, Scarlett seduces her sister's fiancé Frank Kennedy for his money to be able to pay Tara's taxes. She gives birth to his daughter, and soon he's shot during a Ku Klux Klan raid.
* Roran and Katrina in the ''Literature/InheritanceCycle.'' They were already engaged before the war came to their home village, though.
* In ''[[Literature/AnneOfGreenGables Rilla of Ingleside]]'', Rilla's friend Miranda gets married to her fiancé Joe before the latter has to ship out in UsefulNotes/WorldWarI.
* This is part of Lori's {{Backstory}} in the ''Literature/AuntDimity'' series: her parents married during WWII. It's also averted by [[spoiler: Dimity, who broke off her engagement to Bobby [=MacLaren=]]]. Curiously, both couple's actions were prompted by the same risk of death due to the war.
* In ''Literature/DeepLove'' Granny and her husband married during [=WW2=]. Their marriage lasted one night.
* In ''The Emperors Winding Sheet'' by Jill Paton Walsh the last Byzantine Emperor visits a wedding party held during while the city is under siege. When one of his courtiers asks if this is the proper time, TheEmperor says "Tomorrow may be too late".
* If you count the seven-year Tribulation period as being a war, then the few weddings that took place during it of Tribulation Force members Rayford Steele and Amanda White, Buck Williams and Chloe Steele, and Ming Toy and Ree Woo would count in the Literature/LeftBehind series. (Judd Thompson Jr. and Vicki Byrnes of the Young Tribulation Force would also count.) Rayford's marriage to Amanda lasts for about three months at the most, as Amanda died in a plane crash during the Wrath Of The Lamb earthquake, and Buck's marriage to Chloe lasts until a year before Jesus Christ's glorious appearing at the Battle of Armageddon, when she is captured and put to death by the Global Community. The only bright spot of Buck and Chloe's wedding is that they have produced a son, Kenny Bruce, during the years they were married.
* A B-plot in the Literature/GauntsGhosts novel ''Salvation's Reach'' involves the marriage of Captain Ban Daur and his girlfriend Elodie Dutana. At first, she thinks he is having second thoughts [[GreenEyedMonster because of a new arrival]], an officer from his homeworld of Verghast that [[NewOldFlame he knew once upon a time]]. When confronted, he explains that he never felt anything for the other officer, aside from reminisces about his old home, but he was hesitant to go through with it because "a Guardsman who gets married before a mission only does it for one reason" (to provide for his wife in case he dies by ensuring she gets his pension) and he didn't want her to think that he wasn't coming back. He realizes [[PoorCommunicationKills he could just]] ''explain'' that, and they are married on the troopship by Gaunt, with the entire regiment as witnesses. [[spoiler: During the mission to Salvation's Reach, Daur ''is'' seriously wounded, but recovers.]]
* In Creator/KateSeredy's ''The Singing Tree'', they are at a wedding when the news of the assassination of Archduke Franz Ferdinand of Austria reaches them; the child's point-of-view doesn't even grasp its full significance but the reader knows UsefulNotes/WorldWarI is coming.
* Discussed and executed in Literature/{{Cryptonomicon}}. Notable because everyone is aware that love isn't ''exactly'' the reason for the union, and the resulting citizenship is an added perk.
* In Creator/PoulAnderson's ''Silent Victory'', when a Martian and two Earthlings, a man and a woman, are awaiting a final attack, the Martian genially informs the couple that with his office, he is authorized to perform wedding ceremonies. This reflects not only that the couple have fallen in love, but their friendship with the Martian.
* In Creator/JackCampbell's Literature/TheLostFleet series, when they face a LastStand, Captain Desjani leaves the bridge for a time. When she returns, she explains she was performing six weddings, probably breaking a lot of regulations in the process.
* ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'': A common occurrence, since {{Arranged Marriage}}s are used before and during wartime to secure alliances. In the backstory, [[PerfectlyArrangedMarriage Ned and Cat]], as well as Jon and Lysa, got married before the men shipped out to fight for Robert. In the story proper, several characters get married after the War of the Five Kings begins, but they are generally treated as standard procedure at best and horrifyingly bloody at worst instead of {{Hope Spot}}s.


[[folder: Live Action TV ]]

* Happened a time or two in ''Series/{{Mash}}''. One time it was a couple of Koreans getting married, and Father Mulcahey narrated the wedding for the benefit of those watching who weren't familiar with Korean wedding rites.
* Worf and Dax got married during the Dominion War in ''Series/StarTrekDeepSpaceNine''.
** [[BetaCouple Rom and Leeta]] have a first type wedding, immediately before the outbreak of the Dominion War.
* ''Series/DangerUXB'': The protagonist and his Love Interest get married despite him being a bomb disposal officer (he does survive the war, though in a psychologically damaged condition).
* There are several examples in ''Series/DowntonAbbey'', which takes place in part during WWI:
** [[spoiler:Matthew and Lavinia]] planned to marry once he came home from the war, but after he comes back crippled he decides that [[InsecureLoveInterest he isn't good enough for her anymore.]] Ultimately, [[spoiler: he renews the engagement at her insistence when he is found to be miraculously healed, but she dies of the Spanish flu just days before the wedding, in what's implied to be a DeathByDespair since she has just learned his heart now belongs to Mary.]]
** Before [[spoiler:William]] leaves to fight in the trenches, he asks [[spoiler:Daisy]], whom he has always loved, to marry him. She wants to turn him down because [[JustAFriend she doesn't love him in the same way]] (or at least she thinks she doesn't; Mrs Patmore, Mrs Hughes, and later the Dowager Countess are convinced that she didn't know what she felt was real love), but eventually accepts so he won't have to go to war heartbroken, intending to break off the engagement after it becomes appropriate. However, after [[spoiler:he is mortally wounded and brought back home, he insists that they marry before he dies so she can have a widow's pension. She concedes, and they are married for a few hours, but it takes her a while to come to terms with the shame she feels in believing she lied to him about her feelings.]]
** When [[spoiler:Branson]] proposes to [[spoiler:Sibyl]], she initially resists due to the fact that [[UptownGirl he is of a different social class]] and she would have to give up her lifestyle to be with him. However, she learns during the course of the war that she wants to do something different with her life, and tells him that she'll reconsider, but only after the war is over. [[spoiler: They eventually marry.]]
* Hikaru and Urara in ''Series/MahouSentaiMagiranger'', though the "war" is between the Magirangers and the Infershia.
* ''Series/MagnificentCentury'': When Süleyman invades Hungary, one of the ''many'' victims is the new husband of a beautiful woman named Victoria. As [[MeaningfulRename Sadika]] goes the CrusadingWidower way, becoming the LadyInWaiting to Süleyman's sister to achieve revenge.
* In ''Series/HoratioHornblower's'' third series, most of Horatio's crew seem to believe his hasty wedding to Maria is because they don't want to miss the opportunity with war freshly renewed. Bush alludes to it himself, but he's also more acquainted with the matter--which is that Horatio is only doing it because he can't figure out how to turn her down. At least everyone else enjoys the festivities.


[[folder: Theatre ]]

* In ''Theatre/{{Fiorello}}'', Thea agrees to marry Fiorello as soon as he returns from UsefulNotes/WorldWarI.
* ''Theatre/MissSaigon''. During the last days of UsefulNotes/TheVietnamWar, Chris and Kim fall madly in love after one night and quickly move in together. They celebrate with an unofficial wedding, with him making it clear that they will make it official once they return to the US. Unfortunately, they are separated during the chaos of the fall of Saigon. He's forced to leave without her, while she's left behind to give birth to their son.
* Eliza and Alexander's wedding in ''Theatre/{{Hamilton}}''. They meet when Alexander attends a ball hosted by the Schuylers (presumably near where the Continental Army is encamped), and are married not long after, with Alexander's war buddies serving as his groomsmen and [[CrowningMomentOfFunny Hercules Mulligan as the flower boy]].


[[folder: Video Games ]]

* A staple in the ''Franchise/FireEmblem'' games of all continuities and specially important in ''VideoGame/FireEmblemJugdral'' [[spoiler: (as it secures the appearance of the second generation characters who lead the second part's plot)]], ''VideoGame/FireEmblemAwakening'' [[spoiler: (because as soon as the first generation female characters plus Chrom and/or the Avatar of either gender marry, this unlocks the appearance of the [[KidFromTheFuture Kids From The]] BadFuture.)]] and ''VideoGame/FireEmblemFates'' [[spoiler: because when the Avatar of either gender, Azura and the non-Avatarsexual first generation guys marry, their children who have been raised in other dimensions also show up.)]]


[[folder: Real Life ]]

* The Baby Boom in all countries after UsefulNotes/WorldWarII was basically the result of this. American [=GIs=] were getting married and having kids because they were happy to be home after all those years; Europeans and Japanese were simply [[GladToBeAliveSex happy to be alive]]. Also, a not-insignificant number of Americans of several ethnicities contributed to the European boom, [[IChooseToStay electing to stay there]] rather than return (this was particularly common for black troops, who preferred the casual unofficial racism of Europe to the more virulent and structured Jim Crow).
** The inverse was also true with American [=GIs=] marrying foriegn women and bringing them back to the US with them.
** In addition, UsefulNotes/WorldWarII [[WarRefugees refugee]] camps apparently had the highest marriage rate of any place in the world at that time.
** A less heartwarming one: UsefulNotes/AdolfHitler and Eva Braun, Berlin, 1945.
** Read an account of (the author's) UsefulNotes/WorldWarII wedding in Jan Nowak-Jeziorański's memoir ''Literature/CourierFromWarsaw''.
* When the US still had a draft married men would be moved at the bottom of the preference list just above married men with children. When this policy was about to be rescinded during the Vietnam War there was a large rush of couples marrying at the last minute.
* While less prevalent in the present day, soldiers who marry immediately before a deployment often do so for the very pragmatic reason that spouses may be entitled to benefits if the soldier should die on duty, while girlfriends, boyfriends, sweethearts, FriendsWithBenefits, fiancé(e)s, and "live-in friends" get nothing.
* Another not-so-lovely example: [[OldManMarryingAChild child marriages]] [[https://www.girlsnotbrides.org/why-does-it-happen/ do become more prevalent during wars or natural disasters]]. Reasons for this vary, but usually have to do with feelings of insecurity: parents see arranging marriages for their underage daughters (and, less commonly, sons) as a way to escape from poverty or gain resources to rebuild their lives, or as a way of ensuring that their daughters will be safe and have a good place to live and food to eat, or to protect her from sexual violence that might leave her DefiledForever.