The Spider and the Fly may refer to:
- John Heywood's epic poem "The Spider and the Fly" (1556)
- The Spider and the Fly, an 1829 poem by Mary Howitt (also included in her book Sketches of Natural History, 1834)
- The Spider And The Fly, a 1949 Film Noir movie about a love triangle between two criminals and a policeman.
- "The Spider and the Fly", a short animated cartoon in Disney's Silly Symphonies series.
- "The Spider And The Fly", a popular song by The Rolling Stones.
If you are looking for the tropes that are common in the above stores, the applicable tropes would be Must Be Invited and Invited as Dinner.