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[[ThePromise A promise is a promise]]. (And an agreement is an agreement, and a contract is a contract.) [[IGaveMyWord It will bind for whatever term it stated or until whatever condition was required is fulfilled -- forever if neither was]] -- or leave a character TheOathBreaker forever.

Unless you're let off.

Normally, only the person you made it to can do it, though sometimes the person on whose behalf it was made can -- if Sir Jack promised Queen Alisandrine to protect Princess Esmeralda, either the queen or the princess might be able to let him off, provided he accepts it. Oaths made to a god -- or sometimes just on the god's name -- can be absolved by a religious authority, sometimes. A MagicallyBindingContract can mean that only the attempt can be made, though it still indicates CharacterDevelopment.

Usually this is a way to indicate development, and a shift from an almost contractual (if not actually contractual) relationship to an open-ended one powered by [[PowerOfLove love]], [[PowerOfFriendship friendship]], or [[PowerOfTrust trust.]] There is always drama inherent, particularly if it started out as a LeonineContract, in that this will demonstrate whether those things really have that power at this point. Or not.

Delicacy may be required to prevent hurt feelings, and if it's lacking, the promise-maker may feel insulted and even rejected. A powerful MoreHeroThanThou argument often ensues if the promise-receiver is trying to break the association for the other character's good. Honor may insist that he can not be freed even by the promise-receiver. And insult may be taken in some cultures, where being released from the oath carries the implication that the promise-maker was so flawed that the promise-receiver doesn't want to keep him on. (The DirtyCoward may show his true character by his cheerful indifference to the disgrace of receiving this; he may even ask for it, which all but amounts to being TheOathBreaker.)

On the other hand, if the promise-maker lacks scruples, or if it was a LeonineContract, he may be pretty earnest in efforts to convince the other to give up the promise. ExactWords may be used toward this end as well as evading the spirit of the oath.

Also, ExactWords may be wittingly used by both characters to allow the technical fulfillment of the vow that neither one wants. The noble who swore that Princess Alisandrine will enter the chapel where she is to be crowned only over his body may lie down on the steps and direct her to step over him.

If the character received things in return for the promise, things can get interesting. If the thing is no longer possible or applicable, it may merely be a gracious acknowledgement of the fact. However, if the character gets to keep the things anyway, he will often feel guilty. If he doesn't get to keep it, his reaction may vary from fury in high drama, or despair, to a HilarityEnsues attempt to weasel the promise-receiver out of freeing him.

An exchange of vows often requires mutual agreement, and is very ticklish to bring up. Betrothals are a special case; depending on the culture, it may be only by mutual agreement, only by some flaw, or only by the woman.



[[folder: Anime and Manga ]]
* Subverted in ''Manga/{{Naruto}}'': Sakura, out of guilt and shame of having hurt Naruto's feelings in the past and fearing that he will die, makes a [[BreakHisHeartToSaveHim painfully fake]] [[FalseConfession love confession]] to him in a desperate attempt to release him of his "Promise of a Lifetime" to her: [[IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy bringing back the guy she loves, Sasuke, to her]]. Naruto easily sees right through her fake confession, [[WhatTheHellHero calls her out for lying]], [[ShipSinking rejects her outright]] by telling her that he '''hates''' people who lie to themselves, and tells her that that promise is no longer the reason why he wants Sasuke back; ''he'' has [[TrueCompanions his own reasons]] for doing so now.

[[folder: Comic Books ]]
* In the end of ''ComicBook/AvatarTheLastAirbenderThePromise'', Zuko releases Aang from the eponymous promise to kill him if he fails to be a benevolent Fire Lord, realizing he was essentially asking Aang to be an escape from TheChainsOfCommanding.
* ''ComicBook/TheMightyThor'': Skurge the Executioner banishes Jane Foster to another dimension and tells Thor he'll only release her if he surrenders his hammer and promises to never try to take it back. Thor surrenders the hammmer and Skurge keeps his word and releases Jane. A few moments later, Amora the Enchantress, who was angry because she wanted Jane to be trapped forever, starts turning Skurge into a tree. Skurge begs Thor to save him and releases him from his promise so that he can pick the hammer up and stop Amora.

[[folder: Comic Strips ]]
* ''ComicStrip/PhoebeAndHerUnicorn'' opens with the unicorn Marigold granting one wish to Phoebe for freeing her. Phoebe wishes for Marigold to be her friend. Months later, Christmas approaches, and Phoebe stresses over what present to get for Marigold. In the process, she realizes that obligation isn't a good foundation for true friendship--so for her Christmas present, she frees Marigold from the terms of the wish. Marigold replies that she still ''wants'' to be Phoebe's friend.

[[folder: Fan Fic ]]
* There's an old ''Franchise/SonicTheHedgehog'' fanfic series by Robert Brown and Francis Tolbert (found [[http://proforcefanfictions.com/sonic/rbft/index.html here]]) which has an OC called Dorian Lexford. Snively (one of the villains of the story) saves Dorian's life. Being extremely honourable, Dorian chooses to serve Snively until his debt is repaid. Snively eventually chooses to release Dorian from his debt so that Dorian can be with the woman he loves.
* In ''Fanfic/TheBridge'', Destroyah swore to serve as Xenilla's [[TheDragon weapon]] because he previously saved her life. Later, when she expresses how she's finally happy by living as a pony in Equestria, he says she is no longer his nor anybody else's weapon.

[[folder: Films -- Animated ]]
* In ''Disney/{{Tangled}}'', Flynn presents his efforts to persuade Rapunzel to release him as a generous offer to release her -- she's feeling guilty about abandoning her mother, so he will bring her back without showing her what he promised, and she will give him back what he stole. When that doesn't work, he brings her to the Snuggly Duckling in an attempt to show her the thugs she fears and persuade her thus.
** Later, Rapunzel [[spoiler:does rescind it, giving him it back before he has completed his promised portion. Gothel intervenes to make her think that he abandoned her immediately.]]
* In ''Disney/BeautyAndTheBeast'', Beast lets Belle go of her TakeMeInstead promise when they find out her father could die if he doesn't get help.
* In ''WesternAnimation/CorpseBride'', at the end, [[spoiler:Emily frees Victor from his AccidentalMarriage to her, realizing that not only he ''does'' like Victoria... but that, if he keeps the promise, Emily will take Victoria's happiness away ''just like it happened to her''.]]
* In ''Disney/OliverAndCompany'' Faigan decides extort money from what he believes to be a rich man in order to pay off a relentless loan-shark named Sykes. He does so by kidnapping!....[[MinionWithAnFInEvil the rich man's cat.]]. It turns out that the cat belongs to a little girl named Jenny Foxworth. She arrives and overcome with guilt, he returns the kitten to her just as Sykes arrives (having been informed of the plan by Faigan). He kidnaps Jenny and tells Faigan to consider his debt paid in full.

[[folder: Films -- Live-Action ]]
* In ''Film/WildStrawberries'', Isak has leant his son Evald a significant sum of money, which he insists that he pay back (even though Isak does not need the money, Evald cannot really afford to pay him back and Evald's wife has attempted to dissuade Isak from asking for the money back), which Evald agrees to do. At the end of the film, after Isak's spiritual journey, he attempts to tell Evald to forget about the loan, only for Evald to cut him off and insist that he'll pay him back.
* ''Film/ConanTheDestroyer''. After Conan frees her, Zula asks to ride with him and serve him. At the end of the movie Princess Jehnna asks Zula to be the captain of her guard. Conan releases her from her oath to him (and grants her permission to take the post) with a nod.

[[folder: Literature ]]
* In ''Literature/TheLordOfTheRings'', Denethor releases Pippin, who refuses it and goes to get Gandalf to stop whatever madness Denethor is up to.
** This was explicit in the oath, the terms of which were "until my lord release me, or death take me, or the world end."
* In Creator/LMMontgomery's ''[[Literature/AnneOfGreenGables Rainbow Valley]]'', Rosemary and Ellen had promised to stay single together. Rosemary fell in love, and Ellen refused to free her. Later, Ellen fell in love; while she didn't even ask, she told her lover, who asked, and Rosemary nobly agreed to free her and declared she would not tell her love that she was free. Ellen, of course, could not accept her freedom under those conditions. (Fortunately the youngest daughter of Rosemary's love intervened.)
* In Creator/LMMontgomery's ''[[Literature/EmilyOfNewMoon Emily Climbs]]'', Emily goes to college after promising not to write any fiction when she is there. After two years, a rich relative took up paying the tuition, and the aunt she promised tells Emily that since it was in return for the tuition, she must release Emily from her promise.
* In a Creator/PGWodehouse ''Mr. Mulliner'' story, after discussion on escaping engagements, Mr. Mulliner recounts how Mulliners, being honorable, insist that only the woman can break it off, and recounts a story about a nephew trying to persuade his beloved to do so after he discovers what he thinks is evidence of insanity in his family.
* In E.D.E.N. Southworth's ''Ishmael'' Herman Brudenell told his secret wife, Nora, and her sister that whenever it was better to let the marriage be known, they could tell it. Nevertheless, Nora kept her tongue when his mother confronted her and pled the promise. Her sister berated her for it.
* In Creator/LJagiLamplighter's ''Literature/ProsperosDaughter'' trilogy, a MagicallyBindingContract holds the winds obedient to Miranda's flute for a millenium. Mab is always after her to break it and free them. Halfway through the trilogy, Miranda realizes that this sort of slavery may be keeping her from becoming a Sibyl and tells the major winds that if they can figure out a way to keep all the winds from wrecking havoc without it, she will free them from it. [[spoiler:At the end, she breaks it to free her brother. Astreus gets the winds to behave despite it.]]
** When Ferdinand appears, he offers Miranda a marriage in name only, so as to technically fulfill her promise to marry him or die a maid, and actually be released.
* ''Literature/TheHanSoloTrilogy'' has a young Han Solo ''attempt'' this with an annoying Wookie who won't leave him alone ever since he saved his life. When he attempts to absolve his new companion of any obligation to return the favor, the Wookie, by the name of Chewbacca, informs him that [[DefiedTrope he does not have the right]] to release the Wookie from his life debt. [[DoomedByCanon He decides to keep Chewbacca as a traveling companion]] after Chewie saves him from being shot to death in a bar.
* In Creator/LoisMcMasterBujold's ''Literature/VorkosiganSaga'', Miles explains to Elena and her husband that he can't technically free them from their oaths to him, but they can agree to mutually head off on their merry ways.
* In ''[[Literature/KnightAndRogueSeries The Last Knight]]'', Sir Michael releases Fisk from his obligation to stay with Michael only to have Fisk stay anyway to keep his employer-turned-friend out of trouble.
* In Creator/SeananMcGuire's ''Literature/OctoberDaye'' novels
** ''Rosemary and Rue'': Toby thinks how Sylvester would do this if she asked. So she never will, given changelings reputations as TheOathbreaker.
** ''One Salt Sea'': Toby tells Sylvester he's her liege, and he reminds her that she could have this for the asking, because she's a countess.
* Discussed and averted in ''Literature/TheSilmarillion''
-->'''Maglor:''' If Manwë and Varda themselves deny the fulfilment of an oath to which we named them in witness, is it not made void?
--> '''Maedhros:''' But how shall our voices reach to Ilúvatar beyond the Circles of the World? And by Ilúvatar we swore in our madness, and called the Everlasting Darkness upon us, if we kept not our word. Who shall release us?
* In Creator/JulieKagawa's ''Literature/TheIronQueen'', Puck explains to Meghan that offering to release Ash from a vow is like tearing his heart out: it means that she doesn't trust him and never wants to see him again. Even though he knows her actual motive-to protect him from a situation of grave danger to him.
* In the BackStory of Creator/DorothyLSayers' Literature/LordPeterWimsey stories, Lord Peter had been engaged before UsefulNotes/WorldWarI; he had wanted to have a WartimeWedding but was persuaded out of it on the grounds that he might end up crippled, which would be unfair to her. He released her from the engagement, just in case, and found that meant she was quickly snatched up by an unscrupulous wooer.
* In Creator/ConnieWillis's ''Literature/ToSayNothingOfTheDog'', much of Verity and Ned's angling is to get Tossie to do this to Terence-this being Victorian times, Terence can't break off himself.
* In Creator/CarolineStevermer and Creator/PatriciaCWrede's ''Literature/SorceryAndCecelia'', the Marquis begs Kate to release him from the engagement. Aware of the enchantment, she refuses. [[spoiler:She is very annoyed when she realizes he did it to convince that the enchantment was working on him.]]
* In ''Literature/{{Pact}}'', UndeadChild Evan Matthieu is bound to [[TheLegionsOfHell Diabolist]] Blake Thorburn by Blake's sworn oath to fight monsters like the one that left Evan a bodiless ghost running eternally through the forest, but he releases Blake from the oath after Blake is mauled by a RiddlingSphinx and nearly killed, deciding that it's better to worry about more immediate concerns. Of course, Blake, being afflicted with ChronicHeroSyndrome, still goes after the monsters, and [[spoiler:is made into an {{Unperson}} by a demon for his troubles.]]
* In ''Literature/TheDinosaurLords'', when Jaume draws the metaphorical LineInTheSand, he tells his men that if any choose to leave, they're forgiven and absolved of their oaths of loyalty.
* ''{{Literature/Stardust}}'': Victoria promises to marry Tristran before he goes off on his quest, not expecting him to succeed or even be gone very long. When he comes back triumphant a year and a day later, [[spoiler: she's fallen in love with someone else but is willing to meet her obligation anyway. However, the exact wording of the promise was that she'd give him his heart's desire, and he also loves someone else, so he tells her his heart's desire is for her to marry the other man and be very happy]].

[[folder: Live Action TV ]]
* In ''Series/ThirtyRock'', Tracy releases the [[spoiler: suddenly very successful]] Kenneth from his promise to always be there for Tracy. Tracy reveals that when he [[spoiler: got big]] everyone wanted something from him, and he doesn't want to be that person to Kenneth.
* In ''Series/BabylonFive'', when Londo rather abruptly tells Morden and [[BigBad his]] [[DidYouJustFlipOffCthulhu associates]] that he wishes to end their (implied contractual) relationship, Morden rather calmly accepts this, and does some final "settling up with him", demarcating areas of the galaxy where the Centauri were and were not allowed to conquer. Later he seeks [[spoiler: and finds]] a way to reel Londo back in, however.
* ''Series/DoctorWho'': In [[Recap/DoctorWhoS36E1ThePilot "The Pilot"]], [[TomboyishName Bill's]] crush Heather promises not to leave without her again. [[spoiler:While Bill is circling around to rejoin her, Heather is forcibly absorbed by a mysterious puddle of sentient alien fluid and becomes the titular entity, who starts [[StalkerWithACrush stalking Bill]] because of this promise. Bill has to do this trope to get Pilot!Heather to stop following her.]]
* In ''Series/MythQuest'', a mysterious knight challenges the court of Camelot to a test of their honor. If he lets one of them cut off his head, will they let him do the same? Caradoc accepts, and when Alex, who has taken his place in the story, willingly sets his head upon the bench, the knight is impressed at his courage and honor and releases him. This is based on an old [[KingArthur Arthurian]] story-Sir Gawain and the Green Knight.
* In ''Series/StarTrekEnterprise'', T'Pol has an ArrangedMarriage waiting for her back on Vulcan, as per Vulcan custom. However, Trip convinces her not to go through with it. Later, when the ''Enterprise'' goes to Vulcan to cure T'Pol's mind-meld-induced illness, her mother expects her to settle down with Koss, her husband-to-be. T'Pol is reluctant. However, when Koss promises to use his social standing to save her mother's career in return for T'Pol's hand in marriage, T'Pol agrees. Then [[spoiler:her mother dies]], and Koss, seeing that T'Pol doesn't want to be married to him and the original condition no longer applies, releases her from her obligation.

[[folder: Tabletop Games]]
* In ''TabletopGame/PrincessTheHopeful'', the Charm "Forced Vows Are No Vows" gives a Princess the authority to renegotiate or release someone from a MagicallyBindingContract. As the name implies, it's designed for dealing with a LeonineContract and other situations where a contract holder is unjustly abusing their power.

[[folder: Video Games ]]
* In ''VideoGame/NeverwinterNights2'' expansion pack ''Mask of the Betrayer'', two siblings offer to fight alongside you if you can find their older sister Kaelyn. When you bring Kaelyn to them, she asks you to release them from the promise as she doesn't want them being in unnecessary danger.
* [[DefiedTrope Defied]] in ''VideoGame/PlanescapeTorment'': Dak'kon took on a life debt that he since came to regret, but he refuses to be let out of it even if the person to whom he made the vow sincerely offers to release him unconditionally. [[spoiler: That person is the main character, and the life debt is a lifetime of service requested without mentioning the main character's immortality. Eventually the player can get Dak'kon out of it, but only by convincing him that the debt was never valid in the first place]].

[[folder: Visual Novels ]]
* ''VisualNovel/HatofulBoyfriend'': Years before the game, a dying [[spoiler: scientist]] asked Shuu to help out [[spoiler: the scientist's son]], Ryouta, in some way. Shuu decided to grant him a wish - [[spoiler: the wish was for a world in which humans and birds did not fight, which Shuu decided to fulfill by eliminating the human race, starting with Ryouta's best friend, using Ryouta himself as a [[PersonOfMassDestruction Bird of Mass Destruction]]]]. Near the end a [[BreakTheCutie half-broken]] Ryouta tells him
--> "Doctor... my wish ends today. [[spoiler: Father]] is no longer in this world... there is no reason for you to chase after his final will any more."

[[folder: Web Comics ]]
* In ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'', [[http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0139.html the team's contracts with Roy specifically stated that it lasted until Xykon was defeated]], and when they believed they had done so, Haley brought this up, though they stuck together anyway. [[http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0294.html When Roy learns Xykon is still alive, he carefully points this out before shredding the contracts in front of the team]] [[LineInTheSand and saying he doesn't want to coerce them]]. They [[{{Pun}} stick together]] still, having formed a team.
* ''Webcomic/GirlGenius'':
** [[http://www.girlgeniusonline.com/comic.php?date=20090824 Tarvek released Violetta from her obligations to him, his family, and the order so that he could send her into Lady Heterodyne's service.]]
** Later on, Tarvek releases Otilia/[[spoiler:Von Pinn]] from her responsibility to watch over Agatha so she can guard Gil instead. Technically he doesn't have the authority to do this yet, but she really wants to accept, so she decides he's close enough.
** An odd double example with The Boys, three of the Heterodynes' Jagermonsters. When the last of the Heterodynes vanished, the remaining Jagers were compelled to join up with Baron Wulfenbach for wages and protection. However, they felt an obligation to serve the Heterodynes and search for a successor. As a compromise, Maxim, Oggie, and Dino were "detached" from the Jagers, releasing them from their oath to Wulfenbach and leaving them free to hunt the lost Heterodynes. In turn, this meant the other Jagers were free of their commitment to the Heterodynes and could serve the Baron.

[[folder: Western Animation ]]
* In an episode of ''WesternAnimation/TheRealGhostbusters'', Egon's uncle visits the team and wants to take Egon with him, reminding Egon that he promised to help him with his own research, and he doesn't believe in ghosts. At the end of the episode they prove the existence of ghosts to him, and he directly tells Egon that he releases him from his promise.