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Ah, a romantic evening! Lighted candles, soft music, [[BreadEggsMilkSquick one person]] ([[DamselInDistress usually the woman]]) [[BoundAndGagged tied up and possibly gagged]]...

This trope normally follows these conventions:
# The forced date is [[AbductionIsLove an entirely innocent attempt]] by one party (with [[NoSocialSkills terrible social skills]]) to relate to someone he loves. In this case, the guy (and it is usually a guy doing the tying up) probably won't be able to put together what's wrong with that situation.
# The abductor turns violent if confronted, though may not harm his victim even if she attacks him.
# Conversely, the date may presage bad things for the tied-up partner, either death or rape (maybe [[SexSlave repeatedly]]).
# The date is simply a chance to toy with a mortal enemy.
# The victim's friends are racing to find her, and will teach the guy a violent lesson... even if the abductor genuinely means no harm, and a good sit down and chat (preferably with a good psychologist) would be far more effective in the long run.

Compare NoMrBondIExpectYouToDine for when a captor treats his victim in a more platonic manner. Not to be confused with ShotgunWedding.

'''Note''': The victim doesn't need to be tied up, but must be held captive.
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!!Examples:

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[[folder:Comics]]
* Creator/KateBeaton plays this for laughs in ''Strange Tales II'' #1: [[http://scans-daily.dreamwidth.org/2502133.html "A Distraction"]] (aka Kraven Goes to the Prom).
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[[folder:Film]]
* SelfDemonstrating/TheJoker and Vicki Vale, in ''Film/{{Batman}}''.
* ''[[http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0101026/ Tie Me Up! Tie Me Down!]]'': A recently released psychiatric patient kidnaps an actress in order to make her fall in love with him. He believes his destiny is to marry her and father her children.
* Type 4 in ''Film/VanHelsing'', in which {{Dracula}} takes Anna to his masquerade ball and forces her to dance with him while waiting for Van Helsing to arrive. No ropes used, but it's clear he's using some kind of mind control or muscle control.
* The premise of the film ''Film/{{P2}}'' revolves around this idea. After refusing to join a security guard named Thomas for a small Christmas dinner, Angela is kidnapped by him, chained to a chair, and forced to dine with him. She escapes shortly afterwards, and the action moves to the underground parking lot she's trapped in. [[spoiler:It is later revealed that Thomas had been watching and stalking Angela for some time and seems to have developed affections for her. He even goes so far as recording himself dressing her]].
* Happens in the Spanish film ''Film/TheLastCircus''.
* After Marion is kidnapped in ''Film/RaidersOfTheLostArk'', Belloq tries to be civil, bringing her a nice dress and then talking to her over wine; unfortunately, the far ''less'' civil Toht comes in and breaks this up.
* The Aussie horror film ''Film/TheLovedOnes'' is about a teenage girl, with help from her dad, kidnapping her high school crush so that she can have the perfect prom with him.
* Darkness has a coerced dinner with Lili in the 1985 film ''Film/{{Legend 1985}}''.
* Dr. Lecter does this with Clarice Starling in ''Film/{{Hannibal}}''. Clarice is free, but drugged. It doesn't help when Lecter starts cutting open the skull of his other guest and eating his brain.
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[[folder:Literature]]
* In ''Literature/TheMahabharata'', the naga princess Ulupi kidnaps Arjuna and drags him to her den at the bottom of the river, where she then propositions him. Even though she's a total stranger, Arjuna finds this sexy for some reason and acquiesces.
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[[folder:Live Action TV]]
* ''Series/CriminalMinds'':
** One episode focuses on a killer who treats his victims to a romantic evening complete with rose petals, though they're not tied down. He means no harm until they turn him down once they reach the bathtub part of the date. The rest fits to a T, though.
** In another episode, a guy was stalking a woman and ended up kidnapping her. One scene shows them sitting at a table and talking, until the woman raises her hands and it's revealed that she's tied up.
* ''Series/SosMiVida'' provides a male example. Incapable to get the love of Martín Quesada, and on the run from the law for attempting to kill Esperanza, Barbara kidnapped Martín and tied him to a bed... and attempted to begin a romantic setting. [[BadassInDistress Martín resists]] until Esperanza comes to the rescue.
* ''Series/BattlestarGalactica2003'': Starbuck is held captive by Leobin during New Caprica's occupation. It's a nice house and all, and she does kill her captor, but he's a Cylon and just comes back the next day (or earlier), but it doesn't really help her escape since it's still essentially a military prison on the other side of the door. He eventually convinces her to stop even violently murdering him by bringing in a child that she can't risk hurting or getting hurt in further violence.
* ''Series/{{Heroes}}'' has an incredibly creepy example between Eric (who can move other people like puppets) and Meredith.
* ''Series/FrontierCircus'': Don Diego does this to Naomi in "Naomi Champagne": staging a romantic dinner for her that she has no choice but to attend.
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[[folder:Music]]
* JonathanCoulton's "Skullcrusher Mountain": a MadScientist, having kidnapped the DamselInDistress and brought her back to his secret lair, is trying to have [[NoMrBondIExpectYouToDine a civilized dinner with her]] while wooing her with his mad science. It doesn't seem to be working.
* A variation, the narrator of "Collector" by [[JunTogawa YAPOOS]] kidnaps someone, shuts them in the trunk of her car and eventually brings them to her basement as "punishment" for rejecting her [[AllLoveIsUnrequited love]]. She says she'll give them anything they want except their freedom.
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[[folder: Theatre]]
* A creepy take on this can be found in Terrence [=McNally's=] ''Sweet Eros.'' The typical staging features soft candlelight, fine music ... and a young woman who's been bound to a chair and gagged, by a young man obsessively searching for his perfect lover. His bizarre efforts to win her affection, even as he's [[ShamefulStrip cutting her clothes off]] and preparing to rape her, create a surreal and uncomfortable atmosphere. [[spoiler:It's made even stranger as she appears to return the "affection" in the end, though it may be up to the director and audience to decide [[StockholmSyndrome how free her choice was.]]]]
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[[folder: Video Games]]
* In ''[[VideoGame/MarvelVsCapcom3 Marvel vs. Capcom 3: Fate of Two Worlds]]'', [[VideoGame/MegaManLegends Tron's]] ending shows she's brought a Sentinel back from the Marvel universe, which she uses to "persuade" Mega Man to join her for a bite to eat.
* ''VisualNovel/ZeroTimeDilemma'' clarifies that [[spoiler:Akane]]'s actions in the first game zigzagged this trope. She didn't kidnap Junpei for the ''express purpose'' of being with him, but she wanted to...capitalize...on the spare time they had while achieving her main goal. Junpei is upset with her because of this- especially given that she lied about not being his kidnapper- but they eventually reconcile [[spoiler:and get married]].
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* In ''XMenEvolution'', [[spoiler:Jean Grey]] is held captive by [[spoiler:the Blob]], who thinks she's his girlfriend. He falls into type 1, though ends up violent.
* In ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'', Patty and Selma have been known to engage in this (for example, a tech guy who was [[PizzaBoySpecialDelivery lured over to "fix" their television]]).
-->'''Patty''': We have a gentleman caller.
-->'''Tech Guy''': Hey, this TV ain't broke. It's just been unplugged. What th-
-->''[Patty slams the door shut.]''
** The same thing when they kidnapped Richard Dean Anderson.
* ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'': Meg does this to Brian when she falls for him.
* In ''WesternAnimation/TeenTitans'', Killer Moth threatens the city with destruction unless Robin takes Killer Moth's BrattyTeenageDaughter, Kitten, to the prom. Robin complies, much to his chagrin. (In truth, Kitten is doing this [[OperationJealousy to make her true boyfriend, Fang, jealous]]; while it partially works -- he comes crawling back to her apologizing for whatever fight they had -- both of them and her dad ''still'' wind up in jail.)
* One WesternAnimation/PepeLePew cartoon ends with Penelope shackled to him, desperately trying to saw herself free. All PlayedForLaughs, of course.
* In the ''WesternAnimation/BatmanTheAnimatedSeries'' episode "Mad as a Hatter", Jarvis Tetch tries to win his co-worker Alice's heart after her recent breakup. She is charmed by Jarvis but mistakes his romantic overtures as attempts to cheer her up and she later reconciles with her boyfriend. Jarvis then uses his MindControl technology on her and takes her on a "date" at a Wonderland-themed amusement park.
* Poor Lois got this twice in: ''WesternAnimation/SupermanTheAnimatedSeries''
** In the episode where Bizarro first appears, he asks Lois out before his body starts to suffer from clone degeneration (and thus still resembles Superman). When his body and mental capacities start badly degenerating, he remembers asking her out, so he decides to simply grab her, then break into a restaurant to keep the date. This technically makes it the type 1 example, as he honestly believes he's holding up a promise, even though Lois likely objects.
** She was also kidnapped and "invited" for dinner by Toyman, although this was neither Type 1 nor 2; her written hypothesis of his motivations in the ''Daily Planet'' was completely wrong, and he wanted to explain his ''actual'' motivations, possibly so she could print them later.
* On ''WesternAnimation/JimmyTwoShoes'', when Beezy is under the influence of a [[LovePotion Love Sweater]] meant for Jimmy, he drags Heloise on a date, and ends up wrapping her in a straitjacket to enjoy a candlelight dinner.
* The [[WesternAnimation/AdventureTime Ice King]] does this on occasion with a princess since he's trying to woo them, but [[FailureIsTheOnlyOption always fails.]]
* ''WesternAnimation/TheFairlyOddParents'': when Timmy's parents ignored his birthday for Chip Skylark, he wishes for the worst nonlethal thing to happen to him, which is: he is trapped by Vicky. But Timmy soon gets to know Chip, and realizes he's really an ok guy, and decided to free him from Vicky's clutches.
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[[folder:Webcomics]]
* In ''Webcomic/{{Threading}}'', it's not clear yet if Nina is one of the Good Goys or the Bad Guys, but she's got Deirdre handcuffed during their ReunionKiss.
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