Fair Weather Friend
Someone who\'s your buddy when things are going well, but isn\'t when things go poorly.
"A friend in need is a friend indeed."Someone who's your buddy when things are going well, but isn't when things go poorly. Friends are good, especially when they are True Companions who will stick with you through thick and thin. But not all of your "friends" are reliable people. Some of them are fickle sorts who will abandon you the moment you get into trouble and actually need a friend to help. That's a Fair Weather Friend. Sometimes a Fair Weather Friend will bookend a story, palling around with the protagonist at the beginning, disappearing when difficulties arise, then coming back as though nothing had happened when the trouble is over, attempting to regain their place. Often a part of an Ineffectual Loner's backstory. Inverse of Power of Friendship. Needs an Index.
Examples:Anime and Manga
- Haruo from History's Strongest Disciple Kenichi, a fair weather friend with an ever-present arrogant smirk on his face who enjoys getting Kenichi into trouble...
- Weasel could go help Deadpool save Vanessa, except, "I don't want to."
- Kaa accuses Mowgli's friends of this in the Disney version of The Jungle Book.
- Taken to the nth degree in Brazil, where Michael Palin's character is willing to perform Cold-Blooded Torture on longtime friend Sam when circumstances turn against Sam.
- In the book The Man in the Ceiling, the main character abandons his friends who need his help when the most popular boy in school takes an interest in him. He claims that all of them, being outcasts, would have done the same thing in his place.
- The Bartimaeus Trilogy: Nick Drew abandons his friends when the going gets tough.
- In Harriet the Spy, the titular character's inner thoughts are shared with her classmates when her diary is taken from her. Her close friends, offended by her unflattering (yet not intentionally harmful) thoughts, join a club devoted to ruining her life. (Unlike some other examples here, they learn better by the end.)
- Alluded to in the novel Joust. After a new Jouster screws up big time, Ari comments that the Jouster's noble friends won't be hanging around to console him.
- Spike in Buffythe Vampire Slayer during most of his chipped days. For example, when asked to help fight a troll, "Yeah, I could do that, but I'm paralyzed with not caring very much."
- Referenced in this strip.
Linus: It's fair weather today, Charlie Brown.Charlie Brown: So where are all my friends?
- In this one Snoopy bemoans the loss of his snowman to a bright, sunny (if cold) day. "There's one thing for sure...he was no 'fair weather friend.'"
- In the book I Need All the Friends I can Get Charlie Brown says "I need all the friends I can get. I'd even settle for a fair-weather friend."
- Referenced in this strip.
- In Misfile "Good" Angel Vashiel advises his semi-fallen brother to turn in one of his (Vashiel's) friends on suspicion of murder to win brownie points in heaven even though he (Vashiel) doesn't really think he is guilty. Fortunately his brother has some morals and points out that this makes Vashiel the ultimate in fair weather friends (and kinda a dick as well).
- The Mighty B!: Penelope is Bessie's closest human friend, but will abandon her whenever that seems advantageous. Good thing Bessie's very tolerant.
- In The Simpsons Rear Window episode Bart asks Milhouse to sign his leg cast but he just writes something like Mil..Pool and leaves for the swimming pool.
- And this cuts both ways; when not friends with Milhouse, Bart is usually ignoring or outright bullying him. He once somehow got him set up as America's Most Wanted and turned him into a fugitive, seemingly all just for a cruel prank.
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