History Main / TheSoftHeartedWarrior

** The episode "Tea and Empathy" gives us Maj. Ross, of the British Army. On his first visit to the 4077, he seems to be breathing fire and berating his injured men. So, when he returns, Hawkeye fears he's going to try to quick march the injured soldiers out of the hospital, only to find that he's delivering the mail to the men, and listening to them read their letters. He explains to Hawkeye that his first appearance at the camp was a sort of "Cruel to be Kind", stating that only a madman would lash out at a wounded man without cause, so if he's acting that way, his men believe they're going to be okay because he believes they're going to be okay.

** Samwise Gamgee, despite beginning as [[CaringGardener a gardener]] in the overwhelmingly peaceful {{Arcadia}} that is the Shire, adjusts to combat well, most famously driving off [[GiantSpider Shelob]] with a pair of swords, an Elvish lantern, and courage and luck. While he's [[HotBlooded passionate]] and can be somewhat vindictive, he's also incredibly gentle, serving as [[TheHero Frodo]]'s [[TheCaretaker caretaker]] and [[TheChampion champion]] with equal aplomb. Once the quest is over, he's happy to return to gardening and to settle down with his crush Rosie Cotton to raise a family.
* ''Literature/VioletEvergarden'': The eponymous heroine is a former ChildSoldier, who now serves as an "Auto-Memory Doll", someone who writes letters on behalf of a client. Rather than dictation, her duty is to figure out the essence of what a client is truly trying to say, and express that in the letters she writes. So intuitive is Violet at this task that she becomes the most requested "Doll" of her agency. But when danger threatens, she demonstrates that she can still hold her own in a combat situation, although she now tries to adhere strictly to ThouShallNotKill.

** Yang Wenli stands out the most on the Alliance side, wishing to a be a historian rather than get involved in politics.

* In every [[Franchise/TheTransformers Transformers show]], Optimus Prime is shown to be one of, if not the, greatest warrior the Autobots have ever seen, capable of fighting Megatron one-on-one and battling foes twice his size (which is saying something, seeing as how he's around forty feet tall). But, when not on the battle field, he's AFatherToHisMen and has a kind, gentle disposition. He makes it clear that he fights because he ''has'' to, not because he wants to.

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** Jon Snow is perhaps the clearest example. Although his swordsmanship is rarely matched by any opponent, by his own admission he takes no joy in feats of arms. When he draws a weapon, there’s always a purpose - usually protection - behind it, and it’s rarely his first choice. Also, despite growing up as a bastard and outsider in his own household, his sense of compassion for the downtrodden never waivered, and he embraces people that he trusts with unconditional affection.

* ''Series/{{MASH}}'': Gives us Colonel Sherman T. Potter. Regular Army, served since World War I. Potter served in combat in the first World War, then became a doctor afterwards. While he no longer serves in a combat role, there's no doubt about his ability to stay cool under fire. One time, Radar woke him to report that they were dealing with rocket fire, only for Potter to listen a moment, then announce, "It's ours" and attempt to go back to sleep. But he also has a soft side that shows through fairly regularly, particularly whenever he talks about his wife, Mildred. Or his horse, Sophie. He also knows how to allow his people to unwind from time to time without sacrificing their readiness.

* ''Literature/TheLordOfTheRings'': Faramir, while captain of the {{Ranger}}s of Ithilien, seeks only to defend his people from Sauron's forces, and has no love of violence.

* ''Anime/VioletEvergarden'': The eponymous heroine is a former ChildSoldier, who now serves as an "Auto Memories Doll", someone who writes letters for someone else. Rather than dictation, her duty is to figure out the essence of what a client is truly trying to say, and express that in the letters she writes. So intuitive is Violet at this task that she becomes the most requested "Doll" of her agency. But when danger threatens, she demonstrates that she can still hold her own in a combat situation, although she now tries to adhere strictly to ThouShallNotKill.

** ''Jack O'Niel:'' Lost his son before the series began, and throughout the entire series just wants to stargaze and fish when not on duty at the SGC. On top of that, any time the team is around children, his soft nature comes out. From giving Cassandra a Dog, to teaching a child destined to have their nanites removed how to be a child in the first place, Jack is an exceptionally caring officer. [[BerserkButton Just note that this love of children also means that if you threaten one, he will risk a life sentence in the deepest hole the US Government can find to bring you down.]]

Though a BruiserWithASoftCenter, a MartialPacifist or a ReluctantWarrior may fall under this trope, it is just as possible that they are a dedicated member of the armed forces who knows how to leave the violence of the battlefield behind when they're at home.

* ''Film/{{Troy}}'': Hector is the epitome of this. The greatest fighter amongst his people and a defender of his city to the very end, he also has arguably the most affectionate home life of any character. He values time spent with his wife and son more than anything, and despite his skill on the battlefield, admits that what he truly wants is to see his son grow up. Fighting may be his most sacred duty, but a duty is all it remains.

* ''Series/DoctorWho'': The Christmas special, "Twice Upon a Time", Captain Lethbridge-Stewart is calmly trying to explain to the German in the bomb crater with him that he has no desire to shoot him. He's also willing to lay down his life for a complete stranger.

War often demands a calm, cold exterior. And for some warriors, that exterior is something they carry with them the whole of the day. Not this person. The Soft-Hearted Warrior knows how to relax, off of the battlefield. When the helmet comes off, expect them to have smiles for loved ones, a hearty laugh for their fellows, and to be of good cheer to the people they've protected.

* ''WesternAnimation/CaptainPlanetAndThePlaneteers'': [[FieryRedhead Wheeler]] is unquestionably [[BruiserWithASoftCenter the most aggressive of the team]], and he is one of the only members to show any experience with fighting before being selected. However, in non-combat situations, he shows a significantly sweet and playful side. His focus in combat situations also seems to revolve around protecting the potential victim, and he understands the value of stopping once the attacker poses no threat; he even talks [[BewareTheNiceOnes Gi]] out of killing a gangster in revenge for shooting a friend.

* ''Anime/GalaxyExpress999'': Antares is carrying around bullets from various wars on various planets. But he also makes it a point to look after the orphans on Titan, and is friendly and jovial... once you prove you're not a machine man, that is.

* ''Series/DoctorWho'', the Christmas special, "Twice Upon a Time", Captain Lethbridge-Stewart is calmly trying to explain to the German in the bomb crater with him that he has no desire to shoot him. He's also willing to lay down his life for a complete stranger.
* ''Series/{{MASH}}'' gives us Colonel Sherman T. Potter. Regular Army, served since World War I. Potter served in combat in the first World War, then became a doctor afterwards. While he no longer serves in a combat role, there's no doubt about his ability to stay cool under fire. One time, Radar woke him to report that they were dealing with rocket fire, only for Potter to listen a moment, then announce, "It's ours" and attempt to go back to sleep. But he also has a soft side that shows through fairly regularly, particularly whenever he talks about his wife, Mildred. Or his horse, Sophie. He also knows how to allow his people to unwind from time to time without sacrificing their readiness.

* ''Series/StargateSG1'' gives us several...

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* Antares, from ''Anime/GalaxyExpress999''. He's carrying around bullets from various wars on various planets. But he also makes it a point to look after the orphans on Titan, and is friendly and jovial... once you prove you're not a machine man, that is.
* ''Anime/VioletEvergarden''. The eponymous heroine of the series is a former ChildSoldier, who now serves as an "Auto Memories Doll", someone who writes letters for someone else. Rather than dictation, her duty is to figure out the essence of what a client is truly trying to say, and express that in the letters she writes. So intuitive is Violet at this task that she becomes the most requested "Doll" of her agency. But when danger threatens, she demonstrates that she can still hold her own in a combat situation, although she now tries to adhere strictly to ThouShallNotKill.

* ''Franchise/{{Superman}}'': Superman is widely considered the WorldsStrongestMan and is both feared and renowned as the most ferocious protector of the Earth. Though he will never back down from a fight if one is necessary, Superman greatly prefers other methods of helping or defending others. Called the "Big Blue Boy Scout", he will even perform such mundane good deeds as helping the elderly cross the street, [[HeroDoesPublicService reading books to orphans]], delivering food or supplies across the world, and, of course, rescuing helpless kittens from trees.

* ''WebAnimation/{{RWBY}}'': Pyrrha Niko's is a powerful, competent fighter. She was also one of the friendliest, delightful people you could ever hope to meet.

* ''Franchise/{{Superman}}'': Superman is widely considered the WorldsStrongestMan and is both feared and renowned as the most ferocious protector of the Earth. Though he will never back down from a fight if one is necessary, Superman greatly prefers other methods of helping or defending others. Called the "Blue Boy Scout", he will even perform such mundane good deeds as helping the elderly cross the street, reading books to orphans, delivering food or supplies across the world, and, of course, rescuing helpless kittens from trees.

Though a BruiserWithASoftCenter, a MartialPacifist or ReluctantWarrior may fall under this trope, it is just as possible that they are a dedicated member of the armed forces who knows how to leave the violence of the battlefield behind when they're at home.

** Natsuki, in the heat of the first battle depicted in the work, is described as having an utterly bored look on her face when she's slaying enemy soldiers. But she's also shown fawning over puppies, and is delighted to receive a panther cub as a gift, who she dotes on like a mother. And Shizuru reflects on the fact that when she's had a hard day, Natsuki will hum songs to her to help her relax.

** The episode "Tea and Empathy" gives us Maj. Ross, of the British Army. On his first visit to the 4077, he seems to be breathing fire and berating his injured men. So, when he returns, Hawkeye fears he's going to try to quick march the injured soldiers out of the hospital, only to find that he's delivering the mail to the men, and listening to them read their letters. He explains to Hawkeye that his first appearance at the camp was a sort of "Cruel to be Kind", stating that only a madman would lash out at a wounded man without cause, so if he's acting that way, his men believe they're going to be okay, because he believes they're going to be okay.

** ''Major General George Hammond:'' Knows how to play the political game like a politician, is quick to reprimand his troops when they make a mistake, and just exudes authority with his very presence. But the most important people in his life are not the men and women under his command, and it's not the officers and politicians above him... It's his Grandkids. He took the job at the SGC before the program kicked back off because it was a fast track to retirement, and when the Goa'Uld invaded his SGC, he damn near took it personally, and has since been there every time a team steps through the gate.
** ''Samantha Carter:'' The woman that knows more about astrophysics than almost everyone in the SGC, wrote the current dialing program, can shoot the swinging rope hanging a heavy log from 70 yards away with a P90, can build Naquida Generators in her sleep, and can win a hand-to-hand fight with a Village Chieftain. Despite this, she never misses a birthday for Cassandra, goes to bat for a cadet that was about to be expelled, and relishes at every chance she has to do something new and exciting.
** ''Teal'c:'' Built like a brick outhouse, can crush a man's fist like it was nothing, and not afraid to shoot first and ask questions later as the need arises. But like O'Neil, he adores kids, especially his own Son, Rya'c. He also enjoys a round of golf, and watching television when not Kelnoriming.

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* ''Manga/{{Claymore}}''. Teresa of the Faint Smile exemplifies this after she meets Clare. She's tends to be light-hearted and gentle whenever she's with Clare, and her death impacts Clare to the point where she demands to become a Claymore.

* ''ComicBook/CaptainAmerica'' is a patriot, through and through. And a skilled fighter of no small measure. He's also been known to deliver many a YouAreBetterThanYouThinkYouAre speeches, and once brought Jubilee, a vampire at the time, to fight some Nazi Vampires. Not, as she initially believed, as an object lesson on what could happen to her if she went rogue, but instead as an example to the others as to how much better they can be.

** A veteran of combat, Shizuru is always kindly to her troops, even to the point where, when she has to discipline them, she makes it clear she believes them better than their transgressions. She once had to have two soldiers flogged for theft. After an impassioned speech by her, they were both begging tearfully for their punishment. She also serves as a member of the Senate at home, and will frequently buy gifts for her bodyguard/mistress. And when she learns that a corrupt governor is illegally selling citizenship, she does not inflict the standard penalty of flogging, particularly in cases where the newly minted citizens bought it for the ability to get grain discounts to feed their families. And for wealthier individuals, she simply resorts to land seizure, and not all of their land.

** ''Samantha Carter:'' The woman that knows more about astrophysics then almost everyone in the SGC, wrote the current dialing program, can shoot the swinging rope hanging a heavy log from 70 yards away with a P90, can build Naquida Generators in her sleep, and can win a hand-to-hand fight with a Village Chieftain. Despite this, she never misses a birthday for Cassandra, goes to bat for a cadet that was about to be expelled, and relishes at every chance she has to do something new and exciting.
** ''Teal'c:'' Built like a brick outhouse, can crush a mans fist like it was nothing, and not afraid to shoot first and ask questions later as the need arises. But like O'Neil, he adores kids, especially his own Son, Rya'c. He also enjoys a round of golf, and watching television when not Kelnoriming.

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** **Major General George Hammond:** Knows how to play the political game like a politician, is quick to reprimand his troops when they make a mistake, and just exudes authority with his very presence. But the most important people in his life are not the men and women under his command, and it's not the officers and politicians above him... It's his Grandkids. He took the job at the SGC before the program kicked back off because it was a fast track to retirement, and when the Goa'Uld invaded his SGC, he damn near took it personally, and has since been there every time a team steps through the gate.

* ''Manga/{{Claymore}}''. Teresa of the Faint Smile exemplifies this after she meets Clair. She's tends to be light-hearted and gentle whenever she's with Clair, and her death impacts Clair to the point where she demands to become a Claymore.
* In ''Manga/FullmetalAlchemist'', Mayes Hughes is an amicable man with a big heart and immense love for his family and strangers alike. He's almost always seen showing off pictures of his beloved wife and daughter--but he's also a decorated veteran of the Ishvalan war, a high-ranking member of the military, and spends his days at work investigating his fellow soldiers with an unwavering loyalty to bettering Amestris.

There is strong overlap with AFatherToHisMen, but this trope covers more than commanding officers, such as enlisted personnel and solitary warriors.

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* Antares, from ''Anime/GalaxyExpress999''. He's carrying around bullets from various wars on various planets. But he also makes it a point to look after the orphans on Titan, and is friendly and jovial...once you prove you're not a machine man, that is.

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* ''ComicBook/CaptainAmerica'' is a patriot, through and through. And a skilled fighter of no small measure. He's also been known to deliver many a YouAreBetterThanYouThinkYouAre speeches, and once brought Jubilee, a vampire at the time, to fight some Nazi Vampires. Not, as she initially believed, as an object lesson on what could happen to her if she went rogue, but instead as an example to the others as to how much better they can be.

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