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OperationJealousy. Compare IntentionalHeartbreaker.
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may december romance — misuse (Sink Hole)


** Averted by Lane Pryce and the literal PlayboyBunny Toni; it's clear that despite him being white and her black, to say nothing of the [[MayDecemberRomance age element]], ''and'' his being married (if separated), ''and'' the other chasms between them (e.g., he's a well-off business executive and named partner at an advertising agency, she's a working-class cocktail waitress; he's English, she's American) they actually have a legitimate relationship and aren't trying to shock anybody.

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** Averted by Lane Pryce and the literal PlayboyBunny Toni; it's clear that despite him being white and her black, to say nothing of the [[MayDecemberRomance age element]], element, ''and'' his being married (if separated), ''and'' the other chasms between them (e.g., he's a well-off business executive and named partner at an advertising agency, she's a working-class cocktail waitress; he's English, she's American) they actually have a legitimate relationship and aren't trying to shock anybody.
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Since when is that a popular belief outside of the manosphere? The popular belief is that women form stronger romantic bonds than men do.


This seems to mostly happen with girls, due to the popular belief that women form romantic bonds out of convenience while men do so only out of instinct. The character who's serious about the relationship will probably come across as TheWoobie for their [[AllLoveIsUnrequited one-sided affections]].

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This seems to mostly happen with girls, due to the popular belief idea that people (particularly [[OverprotectiveDad relatives]]) are more invested in [[UnableToSupportAWife who]] a women form romantic bonds out of convenience while men do so only out of instinct.is [[DatingWhatDaddyHates dating]] than who a man is dating. The character who's serious about the relationship will probably come across as TheWoobie for their [[AllLoveIsUnrequited one-sided affections]].
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* Series/MurphyBrown and her black boss at one point found it really amusing to "shock" people, especially by sending them kahlua and cream drinks. Eventually they figured out that the one thing they had in common was liking to screw with people.

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* Series/MurphyBrown ''Series/MurphyBrown'': Murphy and her black boss at one point found it really amusing to "shock" people, especially by sending them kahlua and cream drinks. Eventually they figured out that the one thing they had in common was liking to screw with people.



* Series/{{Frasier}}'s feud with his SitcomArchNemesis Cam Winston winds up their respective single parents to the point that they decide to play a prank on them by pretending to be going out. They succeed in getting their sons to make up, but hint that they're [[BecomingTheMask not planning on breaking up right away...]] (although they appear to have [[OffscreenBreakup done so by the next episode]], [[SnapBack of course]]).

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* Series/{{Frasier}}'s ''Series/{{Frasier}}'': Frasier's feud with his SitcomArchNemesis Cam Winston winds up their respective single parents to the point that they decide to play a prank on them by pretending to be going out. They succeed in getting their sons to make up, but hint that they're [[BecomingTheMask not planning on breaking up right away...]] (although they appear to have [[OffscreenBreakup done so by the next episode]], [[SnapBack of course]]).
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* ''Website/TheOnion'' did a couple of articles on this topic [[http://www.theonion.com/content/node/33858 here]] and [[http://www.theonion.com/content/node/38823 here]].

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* ''Website/TheOnion'' did a couple of articles on this topic [[http://www.[[https://www.theonion.com/content/node/33858 com/how-can-i-use-feminism-to-my-advantage-1819584072 here]] and [[http://www.[[https://local.theonion.com/content/node/38823 com/lesbian-identity-ends-abruptly-mid-junior-year-1819566302 here]].
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* In the last two episodes of ''Series/TheGoldenGirls'', Dorothy invoked this trope with Blanche's uncle, Lucas Hollingsworth, as revenge for how she tricked them into going out so she could have a one night fling. The following afternoon after the date, Lucas shows up and makes several grand declarations of how much he loves Dorothy before asking her to marry him. Dorothy "accepts" much to shock and/or horror of Blanche, Rose, and Sophia. The two spend the following week acting like SickeninglySweethearts to further mess with Blanche, but decide to end the joke when it looks like they've gone too far. However, [[spoiler: Lucas has genuinely fallen in love with Dorothy and proposes to her for real. She accepts.]]
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** Lady Rose then proceeds to avert this in Series 5, when she marries Atticus Aldridge, the son of Lord Sinderby; the Aldridges are Jewish, and the proposal causes quite a stir...among the Aldridges, particularly Lord Sinderby, as (1) Lady Rose's parents are getting divorced and (2) they want their grandchildren to be raised Jewish (as Judaism runs in the maternal line, the children would have to convert as adults to be considered Jewish under Jewish law). Lord Sinderby calls Rose everything but a [[ShiksaGoddess shiksa]]. (Mind you, it's not that there isn't some racism on Rose's side of the family, but the Crawleys--who are pretty much her main family by this point--have already had the much-more-shocking marriage to Branson and are relieved to see Rose marry a man of her own class.)

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** Lady Rose then proceeds to avert this in Series 5, when she marries Atticus Aldridge, the son of Lord Sinderby; the Aldridges are Jewish, and the proposal causes quite a stir...among the Aldridges, particularly Lord Sinderby, as (1) Lady Rose's parents are getting divorced and (2) they want their grandchildren to be raised Jewish (as Judaism runs in the maternal line, the children would have to convert as adults to be considered Jewish under Jewish law). Lord Sinderby calls Rose everything but a [[ShiksaGoddess shiksa]]. (Mind Mind you, it's not that there isn't some racism on Rose's side of the family, but the Crawleys--who are pretty much her main family by this point--have already had the much-more-shocking marriage to Branson and are relieved to see Rose marry a man of her own class.class. However, the Crawleys are already part-Jewish through Lady Grantham's father Isidore Levinson (a German Jewish immigrant--most likely a [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/48ers 48er]] who made his money in dry goods; he allowed his Episcopalian wife to raise the children as Protestants, but never made any bones about where he came from.)
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** Averted by Lane Pryce and the literal PlayboyBunny Toni; it's clear that despite him being white and her black, to say nothing of the [[MayDecemberRomance age element]], ''and'' his being married (if separated), ''and'' the other chasms between them, they actually have a legitimate relationship and aren't trying to shock anybody.

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** Averted by Lane Pryce and the literal PlayboyBunny Toni; it's clear that despite him being white and her black, to say nothing of the [[MayDecemberRomance age element]], ''and'' his being married (if separated), ''and'' the other chasms between them, them (e.g., he's a well-off business executive and named partner at an advertising agency, she's a working-class cocktail waitress; he's English, she's American) they actually have a legitimate relationship and aren't trying to shock anybody.
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* Subverted (kind of) on ''WesternAnimation/SouthPark'' when Craig and Tweek become a couple.
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* Phat and Vivisector from [[MarvelComics Marvel's]] ''[[ComicBook/XForce X-Statix]]'' comic pretend to be gay to steal the media spotlight back from their teammates. Phat breaks with the ruse, and eventually [[spoiler:he and Vivisector conclude that they are both gay, but not attracted to each other]].

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* Phat and Vivisector from [[MarvelComics Marvel's]] ''[[ComicBook/XForce X-Statix]]'' Creator/{{Marvel|Comics}}'s ''ComicBook/XStatix'' comic pretend to be gay to steal the media spotlight back from their teammates. Phat breaks with the ruse, and eventually [[spoiler:he and Vivisector conclude that they are both gay, but not attracted to each other]].
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* In ''Literature/TheQuantumThief'', Pixil openly admits that at least a part of why she's dating Isidore, from outside her weird high-tech enclave where people think of everything as a game to the point of wanting to keeping score in every activity, is because it upsets her relatives. He later realises it's only been a kind of game for him as well, though for different reasons.

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It's not, Dating What Daddy Hates doesn't say anything about motive.


SuperTrope of OperationJealousy and DatingWhatDaddyHates.

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* ''TheOnion'' did a couple of articles on this topic [[http://www.theonion.com/content/node/33858 here]] and [[http://www.theonion.com/content/node/38823 here]].

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* ''TheOnion'' ''Website/TheOnion'' did a couple of articles on this topic [[http://www.theonion.com/content/node/33858 here]] and [[http://www.theonion.com/content/node/38823 here]].
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** In Series 4, Lady Rose, daughter of the [[KnightFever Marquess of Flintshire]], secretly dates the Black American jazz singer Jack Ross (and of course, even in 1922, "American" and "singer" would be bad enough, but "Black" and "''jazz'' singer"...). While she does have ''some'' real attraction to Jack, a major factor in her decision to pursue him is simply the desire to spite her mother (Lord Grantham's cousin on his mother's side).

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** In Series 4, Lady Rose, daughter of the [[KnightFever [[UsefulNotes/KnightFever Marquess of Flintshire]], secretly dates the Black American jazz singer Jack Ross (and of course, even in 1922, "American" and "singer" would be bad enough, but "Black" and "''jazz'' singer"...). While she does have ''some'' real attraction to Jack, a major factor in her decision to pursue him is simply the desire to spite her mother (Lord Grantham's cousin on his mother's side).
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* MurphyBrown and her black boss at one point found it really amusing to "shock" people, especially by sending them kahlua and cream drinks. Eventually they figured out that the one thing they had in common was liking to screw with people.

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* MurphyBrown Series/MurphyBrown and her black boss at one point found it really amusing to "shock" people, especially by sending them kahlua and cream drinks. Eventually they figured out that the one thing they had in common was liking to screw with people.
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* A particularly nasty version of this is part of Dr. Mann's backstory in ''ComicBook/YTheLastMan''.

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* A particularly nasty version of this is part of Dr. Mann's backstory in ''ComicBook/YTheLastMan''. Namely, her college girlfriend turned out to be a [[FauxYay Lesbian Until Graduation]] who didn't even believe that homosexuality was ''real'', thinking that girls only ever date other girls [[DatingWhatDaddyHates to piss off their dads]]. She then suggested that Mann look for a more mature way of pissing off her dad... [[InsaneTrollLogic like dating a black man]].



** In another episode she tries to freak out her parents by suggesting that she might move to France and start a relationship with someone named "Simone." They remain stoic until she points out that that's a woman's name.

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** In another episode she tries to freak out her parents by suggesting that she might move to France and start having a relationship string of lovers, listing several French male names and ending with someone named "Simone." They remain stoic until she points out that that's the last one is a woman's name.
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* On ''MyWifeAndKids'', Claire breaks up with her Christian abstinence-practising boyfriend, who her father approves of, for a gang banger who goes by "1040 EZ".
* {{Frasier}}'s feud with his SitcomArchNemesis Cam Winston winds up their respective single parents to the point that they decide to play a prank on them by pretending to be going out. They succeed in getting their sons to make up, but hint that they're [[BecomingTheMask not planning on breaking up right away...]] (although they appear to have [[OffscreenBreakup done so by the next episode]], [[SnapBack of course]]).

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* On ''MyWifeAndKids'', ''Series/MyWifeAndKids'', Claire breaks up with her Christian abstinence-practising boyfriend, who her father approves of, for a gang banger who goes by "1040 EZ".
* {{Frasier}}'s Series/{{Frasier}}'s feud with his SitcomArchNemesis Cam Winston winds up their respective single parents to the point that they decide to play a prank on them by pretending to be going out. They succeed in getting their sons to make up, but hint that they're [[BecomingTheMask not planning on breaking up right away...]] (although they appear to have [[OffscreenBreakup done so by the next episode]], [[SnapBack of course]]).



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'''Note:''' This trope was recently expanded from dealing with only homosexual relationships, hence their predominance in the examples section. Please help add other examples.

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* Ja'maie King from ''SummerHeightsHigh'' does this ''twice'' over the course of an eight episode series: First by going out with a year 7 boy four years her junior, and again when she asks another girl to the year 11 Formal.

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* Ja'maie King from ''SummerHeightsHigh'' ''Series/SummerHeightsHigh'' does this ''twice'' over the course of an eight episode series: First by going out with a year 7 boy four years her junior, and again when she asks another girl to the year 11 Formal.
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* Played with in ''Series/BostonLegal'' - [[spoiler: it turned out that they were still seeing each other, and had ''faked the break-up'' and an ensuing court case to maintain the publicity]].

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* Played with in ''Series/BostonLegal'' - [[spoiler: at the end of a court case involving one, it turned out [[spoiler: that they were still seeing each other, and had ''faked the break-up'' and an the ensuing court case to maintain the publicity]].publicity.]]
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* A particularly nasty version of this is part of Dr. Mann's backstory in ''YTheLastMan''.

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* A particularly nasty version of this is part of Dr. Mann's backstory in ''YTheLastMan''.''ComicBook/YTheLastMan''.
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** In Series 4, Lady Rose, daughter of the [[KnightFever Marquess of Flintshire]], secretly dates the Black American jazz singer Jack Ross (and of course, even in 1922, "American" and "singer" would be bad enough, but "Black" and "''jazz'' singer"...). While she does have ''some'' real attraction to Jack, a major factor in her decision to pursue him is simply the desire to spite her mother (Lord Grantham's cousin on his mother's side).


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** In Series 4, Lady Rose, daughter of the [[KnightFever Marquess of Flintshire]], secretly dates the Black American jazz singer Jack Ross (and of course, even in 1922, "American" and "singer" would be bad enough, but "Black" and "''jazz'' singer"...). While she does have ''some'' real attraction to Jack, a major factor in her decision to pursue him is simply the desire to spite her mother (Lord Grantham's cousin on his mother's side).

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** Lady Rose then proceeds to avert this in Series 5, when she marries Atticus Aldridge, the son of Lord Sinderby; the Aldridges are Jewish, and the proposal causes quite a stir...among the Aldridges, particularly Lord Sinderby, as (1) Lady Rose's parents are getting divorced and (2) they want their grandchildren to be raised Jewish (as Judaism runs in the maternal line, the children would have to convert as adults to be considered Jewish under Jewish law). Lord Sinderby calls Rose everything but a [[ShiksaGoddess shiksa]]. (Mind you, it's not that there isn't some racism on Rose's side of the family, but the Crawleys--who are pretty much her main family by this point--have already had the much-more-shocking marriage to Branson and are relieved to see Rose marry a man of her own class.)

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* ''Webcomic/{{Shortpacked}}''. Poor, poor Leslie. Robin does eventually [[ThrowTheDogABone kiss her]], however. Eventually they become girlfriends for real.

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* ''Webcomic/{{Shortpacked}}''. Poor, poor Leslie. Robin does eventually [[ThrowTheDogABone kiss her]], however. Eventually develop feelings for her, and by series end, they become girlfriends for real.
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** In Series 4, Lady Rose, daughter of the [[KnightFever Marquess of Flintshire]], secretly dates the Black American jazz singer Jack Ross. While she does have ''some'' real attraction to Jack, a major factor in her decision to pursue him is simply the desire to spite her mother (Lord Grantham's cousin on his mother's side).


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** In Series 4, Lady Rose, daughter of the [[KnightFever Marquess of Flintshire]], secretly dates the Black American jazz singer Jack Ross.Ross (and of course, even in 1922, "American" and "singer" would be bad enough, but "Black" and "''jazz'' singer"...). While she does have ''some'' real attraction to Jack, a major factor in her decision to pursue him is simply the desire to spite her mother (Lord Grantham's cousin on his mother's side).

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\n* ''Series/DowntonAbbey'':
** This trope is strongly averted by Lady Sybil and Tom Branson--the daughter of the Earl of Grantham with an Irish socialist chauffeur? It is completely shocking when they announce their relationship, but Sybil in particular had given every indication that the shock to her father was a good argument ''not'' to go through with it. As for Branson, he recognised that his family considered him a damned fool, and although he did not care, he also did not particularly want that either.
** In Series 4, Lady Rose, daughter of the [[KnightFever Marquess of Flintshire]], secretly dates the Black American jazz singer Jack Ross. While she does have ''some'' real attraction to Jack, a major factor in her decision to pursue him is simply the desire to spite her mother (Lord Grantham's cousin on his mother's side).

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** Averted by Lane Pryce and the literal PlayboyBunny Toni; it's clear that despite him being white and her black, to say nothing of the [[MayDecemberRomance age element]], they actually have a legitimate relationship and aren't trying to shock anybody.

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** Averted by Lane Pryce and the literal PlayboyBunny Toni; it's clear that despite him being white and her black, to say nothing of the [[MayDecemberRomance age element]], ''and'' his being married (if separated), ''and'' the other chasms between them, they actually have a legitimate relationship and aren't trying to shock anybody.
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\n* Non-romantic example in ''Series/{{Community}}''. Britta befriends a lesbian for the sole purpose of getting progressive liberal hipster cred to lord over everyone and feel morally superior to them. [[spoiler:She was not happy to find out that the girl she befriended is straight, thought ''she'' was a lesbian, and was doing the same thing.]]

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* Andrew's relationship with Justin on ''DesperateHousewives''. Justin was in love, Andrew used him to drive his mother insane. Andrew's still gay, though.

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Andrew's relationship with Justin on ''DesperateHousewives''.Justin. Justin was in love, Andrew used him to drive his mother insane. Andrew's still gay, though.



* Miranda on ''SexAndTheCity'' pretends to date a lesbian in an early episode to curry favour with the boss at her law firm. Fun fact, Cynthia Nixon who played Miranda have later come out as a late-in-life lesbian.
** Oddly enough subverted with Samantha's short fling with a lesbian. At first it seemed like it would be a big shocking story line that would be played up, but it was oddly underplayed, with none of them treating it like a very shocking thing. Most likely because Samantha can't really surprise them anymore.
*** It was more shocking that Samantha was in a RELATIONSHIP than a lesbian one. Her friends were shocked by them waiting to have sex.

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Miranda on ''SexAndTheCity'' pretends to date a lesbian in an early episode to curry favour with the boss at her law firm. Fun fact, Cynthia Nixon who played Miranda have later come out as a late-in-life lesbian.
** Oddly enough subverted with Samantha's short fling with a lesbian. At first it seemed like it would be a big shocking story line that would be played up, but it was oddly underplayed, with none of them treating it like a very shocking thing. Most likely because Samantha can't really surprise them anymore.
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anymore. It was more shocking that Samantha was in a RELATIONSHIP than a lesbian one. Her friends were shocked by them waiting to have sex.



* On ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad,'' Hayley once dated an illegal immigrant just to tick off Stan. Stan winds up hiring her boyfriend for his factory, however, and Hayley, annoyed that he isn't spending any time with her anymore, calls immigration on him and his family.

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Hayley once dated an illegal immigrant just to tick off Stan. Stan winds up hiring her boyfriend for his factory, however, and Hayley, annoyed that he isn't spending any time with her anymore, calls immigration on him and his family.
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** Averted by [[spoiler:Lane Pryce and the literal PlayboyBunny Toni; it's clear that despite him being white and her black, to say nothing of the [[MayDecemberRomance age element]], they actually have a legitimate relationship and aren't trying to shock anybody]].

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** Averted by [[spoiler:Lane Lane Pryce and the literal PlayboyBunny Toni; it's clear that despite him being white and her black, to say nothing of the [[MayDecemberRomance age element]], they actually have a legitimate relationship and aren't trying to shock anybody]].anybody.

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