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* ''Film/IQ|1994'': Implied. When Catherine informs an incredulous James that she's [[DisposableFiance calling off their engagement]] because she's fallen in love with Ed, she noticeably is no longer wearing her [[EnormousEngagementRing engagement ring.]]

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* ''Film/IQ|1994'': ''{{Film/IQ|1994}}'': Implied. When Catherine informs an incredulous James that she's [[DisposableFiance calling off their engagement]] because she's fallen in love with Ed, she noticeably is no longer wearing her [[EnormousEngagementRing engagement ring.]]
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* ''Film/IQ|1994'': Implied. When Catherine informs an incredulous James that she's [[DisposableFiance calling off their engagement]] because she's fallen in love with Ed, she noticeably is no longer wearing her [[EnormousEngagementRing engagement ring.]]
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* In ''ReadyOrNot2019'', [[spoiler:newlyweds Grace and Alex are the last two surviving members of the [=LeDomas=] family, and Grace has had it. She takes off her ring, bounces it off his chest, and tells him she wants a divorce. He promptly explodes.]]

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* In ''ReadyOrNot2019'', ''Film/ReadyOrNot2019'', [[spoiler:newlyweds Grace and Alex are the last two surviving members of the [=LeDomas=] family, and Grace has had it. She takes off her ring, bounces it off his chest, and tells him she wants a divorce. He promptly explodes.]]
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* In ''ReadyOrNot2019'', [[spoiler:newlyweds Grace and Alex are the last two surviving members of the [=LeDomas=] family, and Grace has had it. She takes off her ring, bounces it off his chest, and tells him she wants a divorce. He promptly explodes.]]
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* In ''Anime/FlyMeToTheMoon'', [[spoiler:this briefly occurs in the storyline where Tsukasa disappears when she loses faith in Nasa's promise to her, given that he forgot he made it due to blood loss. After Tsukasa leaves it atop a bench in the church, Nasa tells her to stop and is able to remember again. The marriage is kept in tact when he reaffirms the promise to her]].

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* In ''Anime/FlyMeToTheMoon'', ''Manga/FlyMeToTheMoon'', [[spoiler:this briefly occurs in the storyline where Tsukasa disappears when she loses faith in Nasa's promise to her, given that he forgot he made it due to blood loss. After Tsukasa leaves it atop a bench in the church, Nasa tells her to stop and is able to remember again. The marriage is kept in tact when he reaffirms the promise to her]].
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* ''Webcomic/YumisCells'': Babi gives Yumi a ring as a gift in a BaitAndSwitch proposal. After they break up, Yumi discusses returning the ring with a friend and finds out the ring was part of an exclusive set of wedding rings. Yumi and Babi eventually get back together, and she asks him about the ring. He proposes to her, and she realizes she [[DeadSparks doesn't love him anymore]], giving back the ring before they part ways for good.
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* After the opening of ''VideoGame/{{Fallout 4}}'', you can recover your (murdered) spouse's ring from their corpse (your character's is still in your inventory). Neither really fulfills any purpose apart from this trope. It's even possible to later give the ring to any other character you begin a relationship with, though the game doesn't make any special note of this.

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* After the opening of ''VideoGame/{{Fallout 4}}'', ''VideoGame/Fallout4'', you can recover your (murdered) spouse's ring from their corpse (your character's is still in your inventory). Neither really fulfills any purpose apart from this trope. It's even possible to later give the ring to any other character you begin a relationship with, though the game doesn't make any special note of this.






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* In ''Anime/FlyMeToTheMoon'', [[spoiler:this briefly occurs in the storyline where Tsukasa disappears when she loses faith in Nasa's promise to her, given that he forgot he made it due to blood loss. After Tsukasa leaves it atop a bench in the church, Nasa tells her to stop and is able to remember again. The marriage is kept in tact when he reaffirms the promise to her]].

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* In the Creator/CarlHiaasen novel ''Lucky You'', a major character had been engaged six times, broke the engagement six times, and returned the ring five times. The time she kept the ring was because the breakup was over the man developing a disturbing fascination with body piercings, and she was afraid of what he'd do with it if it was returned.

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* In the Creator/CarlHiaasen novel ''Lucky You'', a major character ''Sick Puppy'', the female protagonist had been engaged six four times, broke the engagement six four times, and returned the ring five three times. The time fourth she kept the ring was kept, not out of sentimental reasons, but because the breakup was over the man her fiance developing a disturbing fascination with body piercings, and she was afraid of what he'd do with it if it was returned.returned.
** In the case of her first fiance, whom she caught cheating with a stripper, she didn't actually return the ring to him, instead she flushed it down the toilet in front of him.
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* In the Literature/{{Discworld}}, a married couple are contracted to assess applicants for assisted places at the Assassins' Guild School. Having whittled the applicants down to the outstanding very best, in the final assessment interview a candidate is challenged to work out whether his interviewer's rings are the Lady T'Malia sort, or not. He is invited to take his interviewer's wedding and engagement rings off her hand to study them more closely. Although only just eleven years old, the potential student Assassin wonders if a woman's wedding ring is meant to come off heer finger so easily. He looks at her husband, another member of the interview panel, and it dawns on him that she is making a point.

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* In the Literature/{{Discworld}}, Literature/{{Discworld}} redesigned by Creator/AAPessimal, a married couple are contracted to assess applicants for assisted places at the Assassins' Guild School. Having whittled the applicants down to the outstanding very best, in the final assessment interview a candidate is challenged to work out whether his interviewer's rings are the [[PoisonRing Lady T'Malia sort, sort]], or not. He is invited to take his interviewer's wedding and engagement rings off her hand to study them more closely. Although only just eleven years old, the potential student Assassin wonders if a woman's wedding ring is meant to come off heer finger so easily. He looks at her husband, another member of the interview panel, and it dawns on him that she is making a point.
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* In the Literature/{{Discworld}}, a married couple are contracted to assess applicants for assisted places at the Assassins' Guild School. Having whittled the applicants down to the outstanding very best, in the final assessment interview a candidate is challenged to work out whether his interviewer's rings are the Lady T'Malia sort, or not. He is invited to take his interviewer's wedding and engagement rings off her hand to study them more closely. Although only just eleven years old, the potential student Assassin wonders if a woman's wedding ring is meant to come off heer finger so easily. He looks at her husband, another member of the interview panel, and it dawns on him that she is making a point.
-->Do not assume this ring will remain on my finger. I can take it off very easily and never put it back on again.
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The symbolism of this trope is readily apparent to the point it's not necessary to verbally state a relationship has ended when it's used, making it a good example of ShowDontTell. Depending on the characters involved and the level of sympathy the audience is expected to feel for them the one doing the returning may be portrayed as either trying to be gentle or [[KickTheDog rubbing salt in the wound]], particularly if the ring is simply left for their partner to find, often accompanied by a WhamShot with or without a DearJohnLetter left with it to explain their reasoning for the breakup. In person versions may either be handed back gently, dropped on the ground or physically thrown at their partner.

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The symbolism of this trope is readily apparent to the point it's not necessary to verbally state a relationship has ended when it's used, making it a good example of ShowDontTell. Depending on the characters involved and the level of sympathy the audience is expected to feel for them them, the one doing the returning may be portrayed as either trying to be gentle or [[KickTheDog rubbing salt in the wound]], particularly if the ring is simply left for their partner to find, often accompanied by a WhamShot with or without a DearJohnLetter left with it to explain their reasoning for the breakup. In person versions may either be handed back gently, dropped on the ground or physically thrown at their partner.
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->'''Donna:''' Are you breaking up with me?
->'''Eric:''' Are you giving me back the ring?
->'''Donna:''' Yes.

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Are you giving me back the ring?
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* ''Film/ResidentEvil''. In the first film, Spence and Alice were pretending to be a married couple. Near the end of the movie Spence betrays Alice and is turned into a zombie. After she kills him, she drops her wedding ring next to his body.

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* ''Film/ResidentEvil''. In the first film, ''Film/ResidentEvil2002'', Spence and Alice were pretending to be a married couple. Near the end of the movie Spence betrays Alice and is turned into a zombie. After she kills him, she drops her wedding ring next to his body.

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* Inversion on verse two of Music/TheBeatles' "I'm Down":
-->Man buys ring, woman throws it away,\\
Same old thing happens every day.
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* ''Film/TheScentOfGreenPapaya'': The composer's girlfriend ends her room-wrecking tantrum, after they breakup, by leaving her engagement ring on a table and walking out.
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* ''Film/OneHundredFeet'': The protagonist finally gets the ghost of her abusive husband to pass on by throwing her wedding ring at him at the climax of the film after all of her other attempts to get rid of him failed.
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* ''Film/TheParentTrap1998'' The twins' father reveals his former fiancee returned the ring by throwing it at his head.
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* In the third season finale of ''Series/That70sShow'', Eric gives a promise ring to Donna, who takes as a statement that he wants her to be a HouseWife instead of having a career and seeing the world, so she gives the ring back. Taking it as she doesn't want to be with him, Eric breaks up with Donna.

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* In the third season finale of ''Series/That70sShow'', Eric gives a promise ring to Donna, who takes it as a statement that he wants her to be a HouseWife instead of having a career and seeing the world, so she gives the ring back. Taking it as she doesn't want to be with him, Eric breaks up with Donna.
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* ''Literature/VattasWar'': Kylara and her boyfriend at the military academy exchanged class rings as a token of affection. Kylara later went against regs to help a classmate from a religious minority meet with a priest from his religion, assuming he was having a rough time and felt in need of spiritual guidance. Said classmate used that meeting to leak highly sensitive information that landed several august members of the faculty in the cack, and Kylara was forced to leave the academy in disgrace. As part of this, her boyfriend not only returned her ring in his extremely harsh DearJohnLetter, but also defaced the academy seal on it.
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* In ''Film/FantasticFour2005'', Ben Grimm calls his fiancee, Debbie, and tries to talk to her about what had happened to him in space, but is too nervous to speak clearly about it. All he does is confuse and scare her. When she sees him in the light of day, despite him helping save the lives of a bunch of New Yorkers, she walks to the front of the crowd, shakes her head at him, takes off her engagement ring and leaves it on the blacktop -- adding insult to injury because Ben's giant stone Thing-fingers can't even pick the ring up.

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* In ''Film/FantasticFour2005'', Ben Grimm calls his fiancee, Debbie, and tries to talk to her about what had happened to him in space, but is too nervous to speak clearly about it. All he does is confuse and scare her. When she sees him in the light of day, despite him helping save the lives of a bunch of New Yorkers, she walks to the front of the crowd, shakes her head at him, takes off her engagement ring and leaves it on the blacktop -- adding insult to injury because Ben's giant stone Thing-fingers can't even pick the ring up. Reed Richards picks it up and places it in his hand.
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* On ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'', in the episode "Lisa's Future", Lisa returns her engagement ring to her wealthy English fiancé, just minutes before the wedding, upon finding out that not only does he not want to wear the "traditional" pig cufflinks Homer gave him, but that he plans to take her away from her family forever because (he feels) that they're just too [[DysfunctionalFamily dysfunctional]] and uncouth.

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* On ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'', in the episode "Lisa's Future", Wedding", Lisa returns her engagement ring to her wealthy English fiancé, just minutes before the wedding, upon finding out that not only does he not want to wear the "traditional" pig cufflinks Homer gave him, but that he plans to take her away from her family forever because (he feels) that they're just too [[DysfunctionalFamily dysfunctional]] and uncouth.

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* ''Film/TenCloverfieldLane'' opens with Michelle leaving town after having a fight with her fiance, and we see her leave her house keys and engagement ring behind.
* Several adaptations of Creator/CharlesDickens' ''Literature/AChristmasCarol'' have Belle do this when she ends her engagement to the young Scrooge (as shown by the Ghost of Christmas Past), although the original book never mentions it. The Albert Finney musical ''Film/Scrooge1970'' offers an especially memorable variation: Scrooge is updating his ledgers when Belle enters his office, and annuls their engagement by tossing her ring onto one side of a balance scale, and dropping a gold crown onto the other. Of course, the crown weighs more, signifying that Scrooge's love of money outweighs his love for Belle.



* ''Film/TenCloverfieldLane'' opens with Michelle leaving town after having a fight with her fiance, and we see her leave her house keys and engagement ring behind.

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* ''Film/TenCloverfieldLane'' opens with Michelle leaving town after having a fight with Invoked by Claudius, against Ophelia's will, in ''Film/{{Ophelia}}''. He forces her fiance, and we see her leave her house keys and engagement to give back tokens of Hamlet's affection, his ring behind.and the ribbon she wore it on, while he and Polonius secretly observe to determine Hamlet's reaction to her rejection. Hamlet is initially confused more than anything [[spoiler: because they were literally married only yesterday]], until Ophelia subtly tips him off as to what's really going on.
* ''Film/ResidentEvil''. In the first film, Spence and Alice were pretending to be a married couple. Near the end of the movie Spence betrays Alice and is turned into a zombie. After she kills him, she drops her wedding ring next to his body.



* ''Film/ResidentEvil''. In the first film, Spence and Alice were pretending to be a married couple. Near the end of the movie Spence betrays Alice and is turned into a zombie. After she kills him, she drops her wedding ring next to his body.
* Several adaptations of Creator/CharlesDickens' ''Literature/AChristmasCarol'' have Belle do this when she ends her engagement to the young Scrooge (as shown by the Ghost of Christmas Past), although the original book never mentions it. The Albert Finney musical ''Film/Scrooge1970'' offers an especially memorable variation: Scrooge is updating his ledgers when Belle enters his office, and annuls their engagement by tossing her ring onto one side of a balance scale, and dropping a gold crown onto the other. Of course, the crown weighs more, signifying that Scrooge's love of money outweighs his love for Belle.
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* In the cut beginning of Anime/PokemonTheFirstMovie, [[MadScientist Dr. Fuji's]] wife leaves him this way with a MatchCut.
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* A non-ring example occurs in the third ''Literature/EarthsChildren'' novel. When she decides to call off their impending marriage, Ayla returns the mutii (a carved figurine of the Great Earth Mother) that her Promised Ranec had made for their Matrimonial (the Mamutoi traditionally make a mutii to protect the new hearth they create once they're married). He keeps it as a reminder of her for years afterwards.
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** In ''{{Discworld/Wintersmith}}'', after Tiffany defeats the Wintersmith, he leaves behind an iron nail which she fashions into a ring. When the Morris dancers drop by for the year, she gives the ring back to a man with the Wintersmith's eyes as a way to say that it would never work out since she's a human and the Wintersmith is basically a force of nature.

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** In ''{{Discworld/Wintersmith}}'', ''{{Literature/Wintersmith}}'', after Tiffany defeats the Wintersmith, he leaves behind an iron nail which she fashions into a ring. When the Morris dancers drop by for the year, she gives the ring back to a man with the Wintersmith's eyes as a way to say that it would never work out since she's a human and the Wintersmith is basically a force of nature.
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* Subverted in ''WesternAnimation/YoungJustice: Outsiders''. In the beginning of the season, Conner asks M'gann to marry him and she agrees. By the final episode, it's been revealed that she's been secretly helping The Team and the Outsiders by acting like The Light and the two start arguing. As the episode ends, M'gann tries to return the ring back, but Conner instead apologizes for his asshattery and asks for M'gann forgive ''him''. She does and they reconcile.
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* ''Film/Venom2018'' has Anne remove her engagement ring and hand it back to Eddie after his betrayal of her trust costs her her job.

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* In a ''Literature/SweetValleyHigh'' book, a girl gives her fiancé back his engagement ring, realizing what a jerk he's become since they got engaged, that they are nowhere near ready for marriage, and that they're doing this mostly to stick it to their parents (who used to be friends, but had a falling out).


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* ''Series/GeneralHospital''. When Karen breaks up with Jason because she's fallen in love with Jagger, she removes the necklace he gave her only a few hours earlier and hands it back to him. She caps it off by showing up at his house the next day to return his letter jacket as well.
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* In ''Film/FantasticFour'', Ben Grimm calls his fiancee, Debbie, and tries to talk to her about what had happened to him in space, but is too nervous to speak clearly about it. All he does is confuse and scare her. When she sees him in the light of day, despite him helping save the lives of a bunch of New Yorkers, she walks to the front of the crowd, shakes her head at him, takes off her engagement ring and leaves it on the blacktop -- adding insult to injury because Ben's giant stone Thing-fingers can't even pick the ring up.

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* In ''Film/FantasticFour'', ''Film/FantasticFour2005'', Ben Grimm calls his fiancee, Debbie, and tries to talk to her about what had happened to him in space, but is too nervous to speak clearly about it. All he does is confuse and scare her. When she sees him in the light of day, despite him helping save the lives of a bunch of New Yorkers, she walks to the front of the crowd, shakes her head at him, takes off her engagement ring and leaves it on the blacktop -- adding insult to injury because Ben's giant stone Thing-fingers can't even pick the ring up.

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