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* JaneEyre. She is so desperate for love and affection that she tells Helen Burns she'd happily let herself be kicked in the chest by a horse if it meant Helen and the Headmistress would care for her. Helen then shushes Jane and tells her to put more faith in God than in human companions.
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** And as an example of Type A, Hermione easily makes friends with Harry and Ron after sharing one life-threatening experience with them. Despite the fact that she has nothing in common with the boys and they despised each other beforehand, they remain near-inseparable for all seven years.

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There are probably too many fanfics to list that appeal to this wish. The appeal of the BlackHoleSue and The PuritySue are arguably derived from this wish (as well as the specific desire to have certain characters as friends, including characters that in canon are normally distrustful).
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*[[spoiler:Greed]] from ''FullmetalAlchemist'', not that [[spoiler:he]] would admit it out loud.

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*In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.

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*In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish. wish.
* The new water type starter from the upcoming 5th Generation Pokémon has been the target of this (though it's starting to turn around) on a certain ImageBoard, with pictures ranging from the other two starters trolling him into thinking he's unliked to him being the last one to be picked (after a fairly long time after the others)...by a [[CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming trainer who likes and wears blue as well and asks him to be his friend.]]

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* [[spoiler:Starrk and Lilynette]] from ''{{Bleach}}''. That was their only reason for joining the Espada in the first place.


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* [[spoiler:Starrk and Lilynette]] from ''{{Bleach}}''. That was their only reason for joining the Espada in the first place.
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* [[spoiler:Starrk and Lilynette]] from ''{{Bleach}}''. That was their only reason for joining the Espada in the first place.
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If fighting a god damn troll is easy, I hate to see what jumping through hoops would be for you


*In ''HarryPotter'', this is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron and Hermione.

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*In ''HarryPotter'', this is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron and Hermione. Ron.
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* The eponymous main character from the horror movie ''May'' is a strange girl who doesn't have any friends, but ends up [[FrankensteinsMonster making some...]]
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* Usagi Tsuniko from {{SailorMoon}} as the ease she developed her relationships , plus all the attention is always to0wards her.

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* Usagi Tsuniko from {{SailorMoon}} as the ease she developed her relationships , plus all the attention in her Nakama is always to0wards towards her.
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* Usagi Tsuniko from {{SailorMoon}} as the ease she developed her relationships , plus all the attention is always to0wards her.
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IJustWantToHaveFriends, like IJustWantToBeLoved, is a form of WishFulfillment answering to the desire that some members of the audience have to form many close friendships. A probable reason this is so common in fictional media is the fact that a high amount of people consider themselves to have very few friends.[[hottip:*:[[http://www.cracked.com/article_15231_7-reasons-21st-century-making-you-miserable.html some studies]] have shown that most people have at most 2 friends while 1/4 of people don’t have anyone to trust.]] As this is not limited to real life however, many fictional [[ShrinkingViolet shy people]] and those with [[FriendlessBackground few or no friends]] look for the same fulfillment as the reader, leading to two variants of this trope:

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IJustWantToHaveFriends, like IJustWantToBeLoved, is a form of WishFulfillment answering to the desire that some members of the audience have to form many close friendships. A probable reason this is so common in fictional media is the fact that a high amount of people consider themselves to have very few friends.or no friends at all.[[hottip:*:[[http://www.cracked.com/article_15231_7-reasons-21st-century-making-you-miserable.html some studies]] have shown that most people have at most 2 friends while 1/4 of people don’t have anyone to trust.]] As this is not limited to real life however, many fictional [[ShrinkingViolet shy people]] and those with [[FriendlessBackground few or no friends]] look for the same fulfillment as the reader, leading to two variants of this trope:

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In {{Icarly}} Fredie and Sam entire lifes are centered towards[[EscapistCharacter Carly]] ,as a matter of fact without Carly , there wouldn't be a friendship between them as
Sam and Fredie dislike each other, however neither of the two will hesitate at once to please her.

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In *In {{Icarly}} Fredie and Sam entire lifes are centered towards[[EscapistCharacter Carly]] ,as a matter of fact without Carly , there wouldn't be a friendship between them as
as Sam and Fredie dislike each other, however neither of the two will hesitate at once to please her.
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In {{Icarly}} Fredie and Sam entire lifes are centered towards[[EscapistCharacter Carly]] ,as a matter of fact without Carly , there wouldn't be a friendship between them as
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** Both the Cullens and the werewolves look for her despite the risk she brought to them. They happily accept her in their {{Nakama}} as a friend without an effort on her part despite the fact that both factions are normally not very open to [[{{Muggle}} average humans]].

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** Both the Cullens and the werewolves look out for her despite the risk she brought to them. They happily accept her in their {{Nakama}} as a friend without an effort on her part despite the fact that both factions are normally not very open to [[{{Muggle}} average humans]].



* (Type A and B) Ron Stoppable from ''KimPossible'' wants to be popular (making him also Type B), though he doesn't have many friends. However, the ones he has are very close.

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* (Type A and B) Ron Stoppable from ''KimPossible'' is both Type A and B, in that he wants to be popular (making him also Type B), popular. However, though he doesn't have many friends. However, friends, the ones he has are ''are'' very close.



** Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall. This demostrates how lonely she must have been before meeting them, considering her and the gang weren't particularly close.

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** Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall. This demostrates demonstrates how lonely she must have been before meeting them, considering her and the gang weren't particularly close.



* In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to be overprotective and leads to him losing the few friends he has, making him fall into this.

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* In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to be overprotective and leads to him losing the few friends he has, making him fall into this.



*CasperTheFriendlyGhost desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.

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*CasperTheFriendlyGhost *The eponymous character of ''CasperTheFriendlyGhost'' desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.



*Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely, even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply as she isn't very fond of losing them.

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*Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' was very lonely before joining the team was very lonely, team, and still lonely even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply as she isn't very fond of losing them.friends.



*Randal from ''{{Recess}}'' had this coupled with a HeelFaceTurn; though at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he preferred being the teacher´s pet]], abandoned all his friends; and had a FaceHeelTurn.
* In ''AvatarTheLastAirbender'', we have three (type B) cases:

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*Randal from ''{{Recess}}'' had this coupled with a HeelFaceTurn; though at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he preferred being the teacher´s teacher's pet]], abandoned all his friends; and had a FaceHeelTurn.
* In ''AvatarTheLastAirbender'', we have three (type B) cases:

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WishFulfillment is an undeniable part of fiction, and there is nothing at all wrong with it, in and of itself, as fantasies help us to face Real life.

IJustWantToHaveFriends, like IJustWantToBeLoved, is a specific wish that some members of the audience would like to have [[WishFulfillment fulfilled]] by the fiction they consume. This trope also covers when fictional characters want this desire to be [[WishFulfillment fulfilled]]; as such, it can be divided in two types

'''Type A: When the wish is [[WishFulFillment fulfilled]] for real people'''

A probable reason people that this WishFulfillment is so common in fictional media is the fact that a high amount of people have little or no friends at all.[[http://www.cracked.com/article_15231_7-reasons-21st-century-making-you-miserable.html Some studies]] have shown that most people have at most 2 friends while 1/4 of people don’t have anyone to trust.

This wish is mostly (but not exclusively) expressed by [[ShrinkingViolet Shy people]] and people with [[FriendlessBackground few or no friends]].

While most fantasies certainly focus on ''doing something really cool'', fantasies often tend to focus as well on[[{{Nakama}} friendships]] the characters have. This fantasies often provide "idealized" friends, that the person, that enjoys the fantasy doesn’t have in RealLife.

The person enjoying the fantasy often will [[EscapistCharacter put themselves on the shoes]] of [[TheHero the leader]] of a [[{{Nakama}} group of friends]] or otherwise the center of attention of a duo or a group.

While in RealLife a true friendship needs time and investment, in this kind of fantasy settings often [[EscapistCharacter the protagonist]] will obtain deep bonds and friendships with little to no effort at all, this friends will often bend to the needs of the [[EscapistCharacter main character]] and without the hardships real friendship has in RealLife and be incredibly loyal to each other in very little time.

This [[WishFulfillment wish]] is not just limited to fictional characters. People [[FriendlessBackground with few relationships in RealLife]] will often look to supply said needs on the internet and with videogames.

Using electronic media, people will look to fulfill their desire of having people they can confide with, as this e-relationships eliminates most of the hardships of RealLife friendship and it helps shy people [[BeneathTheMask to open themselves and show how they really are]] without [[{{GIFT}} worrying about their self image]].

'''Type B: When a fictional character wants this desire to be fulfilled'''

This trope also applies to fictional characters who have are motivated by the need to have friends, as not every fictional [[{{Batman}} character]] [[IWorkAlone enjoys loneliness]]. They might or might not be [[ShrinkingViolet shy characters]], but one thing is for sure: they can't stand being alone.

The reasons for the loneliness of fictional character vary. Maybe [[WhatMeasureIsANonHUman the character is not human]], or is misunderstood, or had a DarkAndTroubledPast, or is a jerk or [[ShrinkingViolet too shy to make friends]]; see FriendlessBackground for more reasons.

Not all fictional characters that express this desire are necessarily [[LonersAreFreaks "different"]] {{Cool Loser}}s will often [[HeroicBSOD suffer a breakdown]] when they have to abandon their friends permanently or temporally take desperate measures not to lose them.

It’s not uncommon for people, loners or not, to try to improve their popularity or try to hang out with the popular kids.

More often than not, fictional characters will turn out to have been [[{{BeautifulAllAlong}} sociable all along]], especially for {{Shrinking Violet}}s, Hollywood nerds, CoolLoser(s), and {{Dark Magical Girl}}s, etc. In some instances, [[AcquiredSituationalNarcissism they treat their old friends badly]], albeit [[StatusQuoIsGod temporally]]; this is usually solved via {{The Power of Friendship}}.

Related to WishFulfillment, IJustWantToBeLoved, IJustWantToBeNormal, IJustWantToBeSpecial, FriendlessBackground, YouAreNotAlone, EtTuBrute. Compare BeneathTheMask, when this is hidden.

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WishFulfillment is an undeniable part of fiction, and there is nothing at all wrong with it, in and of itself, as fantasies help us to face Real life.

IJustWantToHaveFriends, like IJustWantToBeLoved, is a specific wish form of WishFulfillment answering to the desire that some members of the audience would like to have [[WishFulfillment fulfilled]] by the fiction they consume. This trope also covers when fictional characters want this desire to be [[WishFulfillment fulfilled]]; as such, it can be divided in two types

'''Type A: When the wish is [[WishFulFillment fulfilled]] for real people'''

form many close friendships. A probable reason people that this WishFulfillment is so common in fictional media is the fact that a high amount of people consider themselves to have little or no friends at all.[[http://www.very few friends.[[hottip:*:[[http://www.cracked.com/article_15231_7-reasons-21st-century-making-you-miserable.html Some some studies]] have shown that most people have at most 2 friends while 1/4 of people don’t have anyone to trust.

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trust.]] As this is mostly (but not exclusively) expressed by limited to real life however, many fictional [[ShrinkingViolet Shy shy people]] and people those with [[FriendlessBackground few or no friends]].

friends]] look for the same fulfillment as the reader, leading to two variants of this trope:

'''Type A'''

While most fantasies certainly focus on ''doing "[[RuleOfCool doing something really cool'', fantasies often cool]]" is the focus of most fantasies, they also tend to focus as well on[[{{Nakama}} on the [[{{Nakama}} friendships]] the characters have. This These fantasies often provide "idealized" friends, friends that the person, that enjoys the fantasy audience presumably doesn’t have in RealLife.

The person enjoying the fantasy often will [[EscapistCharacter put themselves on the shoes]] of [[TheHero the leader]] of a [[{{Nakama}} group of friends]] or otherwise the center of attention of a duo or a group.

have. While in RealLife a true friendship needs time and investment, in this kind of fantasy settings setting often [[EscapistCharacter the protagonist]] will obtain tailor-made deep bonds and friendships with little to no time or effort at all, this friends will often bend to the needs of the [[EscapistCharacter main character]] and without the hardships real friendship has all.

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in RealLife and be incredibly loyal to each other in very little time.

This [[WishFulfillment wish]] is not just limited to fictional characters. People [[FriendlessBackground with few relationships in RealLife]] will often look to supply said needs on the internet and with videogames.

Using electronic media, people will look to fulfill their desire of having people they can confide with, as this
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'''Type B: When a fictional character wants this desire to be fulfilled'''

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are lonely from the start and desperately looking to make and keep friends. The reasons for the their loneliness of fictional may vary but in the end a character vary. Maybe [[WhatMeasureIsANonHUman the character is not human]], or is misunderstood, or had a DarkAndTroubledPast, or is a jerk or [[ShrinkingViolet too shy to make friends]]; see FriendlessBackground for more reasons.

Not all fictional characters that express this desire are necessarily [[LonersAreFreaks "different"]] {{Cool Loser}}s will often [[HeroicBSOD suffer a breakdown]] when they have to abandon their
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wrong people, or secretly angst about it behind a diffident facade. If they end up successful more often than not, not these fictional characters will turn out to have been [[{{BeautifulAllAlong}} sociable all along]], especially for {{Shrinking Violet}}s, Hollywood nerds, CoolLoser(s), and {{Dark Magical Girl}}s, etc. In some instances, [[AcquiredSituationalNarcissism they treat their old friends badly]], albeit [[StatusQuoIsGod temporally]]; this is usually solved via {{The Power of Friendship}}.

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{{Hollywood Nerd}}s, {{Cool Loser}}s etc.

See also
WishFulfillment, IJustWantToBeLoved, IJustWantToBeNormal, IJustWantToBeSpecial, FriendlessBackground, YouAreNotAlone, EtTuBrute. Compare BeneathTheMask, when this is hidden.



There are probably too many fanfics to list that appeal to this wish. The appeal of the BlackHoleSue and The PuritySue are arguably derived from this wish (as well as the specific desire to have certain characters as friends, including characters that in canon are untrusting (ex Vegeta,Tinkerbell etc).

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There are probably too many fanfics to list that appeal to this wish. The appeal of the BlackHoleSue and The PuritySue are arguably derived from this wish (as well as the specific desire to have certain characters as friends, including characters that in canon are untrusting (ex Vegeta,Tinkerbell etc).normally distrustful).



* ''{{Twilight}}'' fulfills this wish. As Bella despite not lifting a finger to gain friends she being the [[AudienceSurrogate audience avatar]] gets friends in high school remarkably easy, even when she forgets her {{Muggle}} friends for Edward Cullen or Jacob Black, like in ''NewMoon'' where she ignored them for months. However her {{Muggle}} friends are always for her regardless of how she treats them.
** Both the Cullens and the werewolves look for her despite the risk she brought to them, They happily accept her in their {{Nakama}} as a friend without an effort on her part despite the fact that both factions are normally not very open to [[{{Muggle}} average humans]].
*In ''HarryPotter''. This is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron and Hermione.
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*In ''{{Smallville}}'', Clark himself fulfills this wish, as he easily befriends "exotic" people all the time, and his close friends are not just loyal to him but also his friend´s lives are centered towards him (Cloe Sullivan, Pete Ross, Lana Lang, etc.).

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* ''{{Twilight}}'' fulfills this wish. As Bella despite Despite not lifting a finger to gain friends she friends, Bella being the [[AudienceSurrogate audience avatar]] gets friends in high school remarkably easy, even easy. Even when she forgets her {{Muggle}} friends for Edward Cullen or Jacob Black, like in ''NewMoon'' where she ignored Black (ignoring them for months. However her {{Muggle}} months in ''NewMoon'') these friends are always there for her regardless of how she treats them.regardless.
** Both the Cullens and the werewolves look for her despite the risk she brought to them, them. They happily accept her in their {{Nakama}} as a friend without an effort on her part despite the fact that both factions are normally not very open to [[{{Muggle}} average humans]].
*In ''HarryPotter''. This ''HarryPotter'', this is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron and Hermione.
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*In ''{{Smallville}}'', Clark himself fulfills this wish, as he easily befriends "exotic" people all the time, and his close friends are not just loyal to him but also his friend´s lives are centered towards him (Cloe Sullivan, Pete Ross, Lana Lang, etc.).
Hermione.



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*In ''{{Smallville}}'', Clark himself fulfills this wish as he easily befriends "exotic" people all the time. Not only are his close friends loyal to him but also their lives are also centered towards him (Cloe Sullivan, Pete Ross, Lana Lang, etc.).
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* (Type A and B) Ron Stoppable from ''KimPossible'' wants to be popular, though he doesn't have many friends. The little ones he has are very close.

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* (Type A and B) Ron Stoppable from ''KimPossible'' wants to be popular, popular (making him also Type B), though he doesn't have many friends. The little However, the ones he has are very close.



* Misao Amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid, though she desires to be more social like her friend Sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy. She was ultimately very shy to even say hello at the end of the series she got more confident.

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* Misao Amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid, though she desires to be more social like her friend Sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy. She was ultimately very shy to even say hello but at the end of the series she got more confident.



* Toby from the film ''{{Shorts}}'' wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.

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* Toby from the film ''{{Shorts}}'' wants friends so badly, badly he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.



* In ''HarryPotter''.
**Lupin comes off a bit like this as well. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
** Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall.
* in ''[[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]]'' -- the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends -- even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]

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him, partly due to his ostracism over being a werewolf.
** Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall.
wall. This demostrates how lonely she must have been before meeting them, considering her and the gang weren't particularly close.
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* In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust in people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.
* Ned from ''{{Ned´s Declassified Survival Guide}}'' wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are. This is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}

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* In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust in people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to overprotect be overprotective and therefore lose leads to him losing the few friends he has, makes making him fall into this.
* Ned from ''{{Ned´s ''Ned´s Declassified Survival Guide}}'' Guide'' wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are. This is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}} CrowningMomentOfAwesome.



* (Type A and B) Ron Stoppable from ''KimPossible'' wants to be popular, though he doesn't have many friends. The little ones he has are very close.
*Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely, even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply -- she isn't very fond of losing them.
*Timmy Turner from ''TheFairlyOddpaents'' doesn't really have many friends (he has only two human friends). In one episode he pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in Trixie Tang's social group, only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.

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* (Type A and B) Ron Stoppable from ''KimPossible'' wants to be popular, though he doesn't have many friends. The little ones he has are very close.
*Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely, even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply -- as she isn't very fond of losing them.
*Timmy Turner from ''TheFairlyOddpaents'' ''TheFairlyOddparents'' doesn't really have many friends (he has only two human friends). In one episode he pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in Trixie Tang's social group, only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.

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*'''Type B when a fictional character wants this desire to be fulfilled'''

This Trope also applies to fictional characters who have are motivated by the need to have friends, as not every fictional [[{{Batman}} character]] [[IWorkAlone enjoys loneliness]].They might or might not be [[ShrinkingViolet shy characters]], but one thing is for sure: they can't stand being alone.

The reasons for the loneliness of fictional character are varied: maybe [[WhatMeasureIsANonHUman the character is not human]], is not understood, had a DarkAndTroubledPast, is a jerk, or is [[ShrinkingViolet too shy to make friends]]; More information on the causes can be found at {{FriendlessBackground}}.

Not all fictional characters that express this desire are necessarily [[LonersAreFreaks "different"]] {{CoolLoser}}s will often [[HeroicBSOD suffer a breakdown]] when they have to abandon their friends permanently or temporally take desperate measures not to lose them.

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*'''Type B when '''Type B: When a fictional character wants this desire to be fulfilled'''

This Trope trope also applies to fictional characters who have are motivated by the need to have friends, as not every fictional [[{{Batman}} character]] [[IWorkAlone enjoys loneliness]].loneliness]]. They might or might not be [[ShrinkingViolet shy characters]], but one thing is for sure: they can't stand being alone.

The reasons for the loneliness of fictional character are varied: maybe vary. Maybe [[WhatMeasureIsANonHUman the character is not human]], or is not understood, misunderstood, or had a DarkAndTroubledPast, is a jerk, or is a jerk or [[ShrinkingViolet too shy to make friends]]; More information on the causes can be found at {{FriendlessBackground}}.see FriendlessBackground for more reasons.

Not all fictional characters that express this desire are necessarily [[LonersAreFreaks "different"]] {{CoolLoser}}s {{Cool Loser}}s will often [[HeroicBSOD suffer a breakdown]] when they have to abandon their friends permanently or temporally take desperate measures not to lose them.



More often than not, fictional characters will turn out to have been [[{{BeautifulAllAlong}} sociable all along]], especially for {{Shrinking Violet}}s, Hollywood nerds, CoolLoser(s), and {{Dark Magical Girl}}s, etc. In some instances, they [[TheLibby treat their old friends badly]], albeit [[StatusQuoIsGod temporally]]; this is usually solved via {{The Power of Friendship}}.

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More often than not, fictional characters will turn out to have been [[{{BeautifulAllAlong}} sociable all along]], especially for {{Shrinking Violet}}s, Hollywood nerds, CoolLoser(s), and {{Dark Magical Girl}}s, etc. In some instances, [[AcquiredSituationalNarcissism they [[TheLibby treat their old friends badly]], albeit [[StatusQuoIsGod temporally]]; this is usually solved via {{The Power of Friendship}}. Friendship}}.

Related to WishFulfillment, IJustWantToBeLoved, IJustWantToBeNormal, IJustWantToBeSpecial, FriendlessBackground, YouAreNotAlone, EtTuBrute. Compare BeneathTheMask, when this is hidden.



Related to: WishFulfillment, IJustWantToBeLoved
IJustWantToBeNormal, IJustWantToBeSpecial, FriendlessBackground, YouAreNotAlone, EtTuBrute

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(type A)There are probably too many fanfics to list that appeal to this wish. The appeal of the BlackHoleSue and The PuritySue are arguably derived from this wish (as well as the specific desire to have certain characters as friends, including characters that in canon are untrusting (ex Vegeta,Tinkerbell etc).

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(type A)There There are probably too many fanfics to list that appeal to this wish. The appeal of the BlackHoleSue and The PuritySue are arguably derived from this wish (as well as the specific desire to have certain characters as friends, including characters that in canon are untrusting (ex Vegeta,Tinkerbell etc).



* (Type A) Gohan in ''DragonballZ''. In his first day of high school, he got friends very easily and even some dates.
* (Type A) This is the wish [[YuGiOh Yugi Mutou]] made on the Millenium Puzzle.

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* (Type A) Gohan in ''DragonballZ''. In his first day of high school, he got friends very easily and even some dates.
* (Type A) This is the wish [[YuGiOh Yugi Mutou]] made on the Millenium Puzzle.



* (Type A) ''{{Twilight}}'' fulfills this wish. As Bella despite not lifting a finger to gain friends she being the [[AudienceSurrogate audience avatar]] gets friends in high school remarkably easy, even when she forgets her {{Muggle}} friends for Edward Cullen or Jacob Black, like in ''NewMoon'' where she ignored them for months. However her {{Muggle}} friends are always for her regardless of how she treats them.

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* (Type A) ''{{Twilight}}'' fulfills this wish. As Bella despite not lifting a finger to gain friends she being the [[AudienceSurrogate audience avatar]] gets friends in high school remarkably easy, even when she forgets her {{Muggle}} friends for Edward Cullen or Jacob Black, like in ''NewMoon'' where she ignored them for months. However her {{Muggle}} friends are always for her regardless of how she treats them.



* (Type A) In ''HarryPotter''. This is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron and Hermione.

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* (Type A) In *In ''HarryPotter''. This is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron and Hermione.



** (Type A) {{In Smallville}} Clark himself fulfills this wish, as he easily befriends "exotic" people all the time, and his close friends are not just loyal to him but also his friend´s lives are centered towards him (Cloe Sullivan, Pete Ross, Lana Lang, etc.).


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** (Type A) {{In **{{In Smallville}} Clark himself fulfills this wish, as he easily befriends "exotic" people all the time, and his close friends are not just loyal to him but also his friend´s lives are centered towards him (Cloe Sullivan, Pete Ross, Lana Lang, etc.).





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* (Type B) Misao Amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid, though she desires to be more social like her friend Sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy. She was ultimately very shy to even say hello at the end of the series she got more confident.
* (Type B) Sailor Mercury and Sailor Jupiter from ''SailorMoon'' were both very timid and people (wrongfully) avoided them (Mercury because people thought she was arrogant, and Jupiter for being tall and strong) until they got deep true friends in their {{Nakama}}.

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* (Type B) Misao Amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid, though she desires to be more social like her friend Sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy. She was ultimately very shy to even say hello at the end of the series she got more confident.
* (Type B) Sailor Mercury and Sailor Jupiter from ''SailorMoon'' were both very timid and people (wrongfully) avoided them (Mercury because people thought she was arrogant, and Jupiter for being tall and strong) until they got deep true friends in their {{Nakama}}.



* (Type B) Toby from the film ''{{Shorts}}'' wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.

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* (Type B) Toby from the film ''{{Shorts}}'' wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.



* (Type B) The King in ''TheLittlePrince'' is implied to be this. Note how desperately he tries to get the Little Prince to stay.

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* (Type B) The *The King in ''TheLittlePrince'' is implied to be this. Note how desperately he tries to get the Little Prince to stay.



** (Type B) Lupin comes off a bit like this as well. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
** (Type B) Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall.
* (Type B) in ''[[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]]'' -- the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends -- even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]

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** (Type B) Lupin **Lupin comes off a bit like this as well. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
** (Type B) Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall.
* (Type B) in ''[[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]]'' -- the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends -- even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]



* (Type B) In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust in people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.
* (Type B) Ned from ''{{Ned´s Declassified Survival Guide}}'' wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are. This is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}

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* (Type B) In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust in people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.
* (Type B) Ned from ''{{Ned´s Declassified Survival Guide}}'' wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are. This is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}



* (Type B) IllGirl Marion from ''DragonQuestIX'' is like this.
* (Type B) In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.

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* (Type B) IllGirl *IllGirl Marion from ''DragonQuestIX'' is like this.
* (Type B) In *In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.



* (Type B) CasperTheFriendlyGhost desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.
* (Type B) The spider from ''BillyAndMandy''.

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* (Type B) CasperTheFriendlyGhost *CasperTheFriendlyGhost desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.
* (Type B) The *The spider from ''BillyAndMandy''.



* (Type B) Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely, even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply -- she isn't very fond of losing them.
* (Type B) Timmy Turner from ''TheFairlyOddpaents'' doesn't really have many friends (he has only two human friends). In one episode he pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in Trixie Tang's social group, only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.
* (Type B) Randal from ''{{Recess}}'' had this coupled with a HeelFaceTurn; though at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he preferred being the teacher´s pet]], abandoned all his friends; and had a FaceHeelTurn.

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* (Type B) Starfire *Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely, even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply -- she isn't very fond of losing them.
* (Type B) Timmy *Timmy Turner from ''TheFairlyOddpaents'' doesn't really have many friends (he has only two human friends). In one episode he pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in Trixie Tang's social group, only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.
* (Type B) Randal *Randal from ''{{Recess}}'' had this coupled with a HeelFaceTurn; though at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he preferred being the teacher´s pet]], abandoned all his friends; and had a FaceHeelTurn.

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* (Type B) Misao Amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid, though she desires to be more social like her friend Sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy. She was ultimately very shy to even say hello at the end of the series she got more confident.
* (Type B) Sailor Mercury and Sailor Jupiter from ''SailorMoon'' were both very timid and people (wrongfully) avoided them (Mercury because people thought she was arrogant, and Jupiter for being tall and strong) until they got deep true friends in their {{Nakama}}.



* (Type B) Toby from the film ''{{Shorts}}'' wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.

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* (Type B) Toby from the film ''{{Shorts}}'' wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.



* (Type B) The King in ''TheLittlePrince'' is implied to be this. Note how desperately he tries to get the Little Prince to stay.



** (Type B) Lupin comes off a bit like this as well. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
** (Type B) Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall.
* (Type B) in ''[[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]]'' -- the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends -- even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]

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** (Type B) Lupin comes off a bit like this as well. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
** (Type B) Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall.
* (Type B) in ''[[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]]'' -- the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends -- even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]
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* (Type B) In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust in people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.
** (Type A) Clark himself fulfills this wish, as he easily befriends "exotic" people all the time, and his close friends are not just loyal to him but also his friend´s lives are centered towards him (Cloe Sullivan, Pete Ross, Lana Lang, etc.).

* (Type B) Ned from ''{{Ned´s Declassified Survival Guide}}'' wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are. This is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}

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* (Type B) In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust in people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.

** (Type A) {{In Smallville}} Clark himself fulfills this wish, as he easily befriends "exotic" people all the time, and his close friends are not just loyal to him but also his friend´s lives are centered towards him (Cloe Sullivan, Pete Ross, Lana Lang, etc.).

* (Type B) Ned from ''{{Ned´s Declassified Survival Guide}}'' wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are. This is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}



* (Type B) IllGirl Marion from ''DragonQuestIX'' is like this.
* (Type B) In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.

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* (Type B) IllGirl Marion from ''DragonQuestIX'' is like this.
* (Type B) In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.
*The sims game
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* (Type B) CasperTheFriendlyGhost desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.
* (Type B) The spider from ''BillyAndMandy''.



* (Type B) Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely, even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply -- she isn't very fond of losing them.
* (Type B) Timmy Turner from ''TheFairlyOddpaents'' doesn't really have many friends (he has only two human friends). In one episode he pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in Trixie Tang's social group, only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.
* (Type B) Randal from ''{{Recess}}'' had this coupled with a HeelFaceTurn; though at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he preferred being the teacher´s pet]], abandoned all his friends; and had a FaceHeelTurn.
* In ''AvatarTheLastAirbender'', we have three (type B) cases:
** Toph. In her own words when she made her debut: "...I know you were just trying to protect me, but I'm twelve years old and I've never had a real friend."
** Aang himself had this, despite being among the most social member of the main cast. When Sokka and Katara were going to abandon him looking for their dad, Aang hid their map becuase he was scared of being alone.
** Azula thought she had friends, until "The Boiling Rock" where [[spoiler: her "friends" betrayed her. To be fair they were never her friends, they were just scared of her]]. In the last episode, she [[spoiler:went insane in part because she couldn't trust in anyone, because of that she beccame very paranoid]].

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* (Type B) Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely, even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply -- she isn't very fond of losing them.
* (Type B) Timmy Turner from ''TheFairlyOddpaents'' doesn't really have many friends (he has only two human friends). In one episode he pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in Trixie Tang's social group, only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.
* (Type B) Randal from ''{{Recess}}'' had this coupled with a HeelFaceTurn; though at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he preferred being the teacher´s pet]], abandoned all his friends; and had a FaceHeelTurn.
* In ''AvatarTheLastAirbender'', we have three (type B) cases:
** Toph. In her own words when she made her debut: "...I know you were just trying to protect me, but I'm twelve years old and I've never had a real friend."
** Aang himself had this, despite being among the most social member of the main cast. When Sokka and Katara were going to abandon him looking for their dad, Aang hid their map becuase he was scared of being alone.
** Azula thought she had friends, until "The Boiling Rock" where [[spoiler: her "friends" betrayed her. To be fair they were never her friends, they were just scared of her]]. In the last episode, she [[spoiler:went insane in part because she couldn't trust in anyone, because of that she beccame very paranoid]].


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* (Type B) Misao Amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid, though she desires to be more social like her friend Sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy. She was ultimately very shy to even say hello at the end of the series she got more confident.
* (Type B) Sailor Mercury and Sailor Jupiter from ''SailorMoon'' were both very timid and people (wrongfully) avoided them (Mercury because people thought she was arrogant, and Jupiter for being tall and strong) until they got deep true friends in their {{Nakama}}.

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* (Type B) Toby from the film ''{{Shorts}}'' wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.
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* (Type B) The King in ''TheLittlePrince'' is implied to be this. Note how desperately he tries to get the Little Prince to stay.
* In ''HarryPotter''.
** (Type B) Lupin comes off a bit like this as well. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
** (Type B) Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall.
* (Type B) in ''[[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]]'' -- the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends -- even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]
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* (Type B) In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor genuinely wants to trust in people, his position in power plus the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.
* (Type B) Ned from ''{{Ned´s Declassified Survival Guide}}'' wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are. This is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}
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* (Type B) IllGirl Marion from ''DragonQuestIX'' is like this.
* (Type B) In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.
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* (Type B) CasperTheFriendlyGhost desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.
* (Type B) The spider from ''BillyAndMandy''.
* (Type A and B) Ron Stoppable from ''KimPossible'' wants to be popular, though he doesn't have many friends. The little ones he has are very close.
* (Type B) Starfire from ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely, even after she joined. When she thought she was being replaced by her sister Blackfire, it affected her deeply -- she isn't very fond of losing them.
* (Type B) Timmy Turner from ''TheFairlyOddpaents'' doesn't really have many friends (he has only two human friends). In one episode he pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in Trixie Tang's social group, only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.
* (Type B) Randal from ''{{Recess}}'' had this coupled with a HeelFaceTurn; though at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he preferred being the teacher´s pet]], abandoned all his friends; and had a FaceHeelTurn.
* In ''AvatarTheLastAirbender'', we have three (type B) cases:
** Toph. In her own words when she made her debut: "...I know you were just trying to protect me, but I'm twelve years old and I've never had a real friend."
** Aang himself had this, despite being among the most social member of the main cast. When Sokka and Katara were going to abandon him looking for their dad, Aang hid their map becuase he was scared of being alone.
** Azula thought she had friends, until "The Boiling Rock" where [[spoiler: her "friends" betrayed her. To be fair they were never her friends, they were just scared of her]]. In the last episode, she [[spoiler:went insane in part because she couldn't trust in anyone, because of that she beccame very paranoid]].
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*(type B)Misao amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid tough she desires to be more social like her friend sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy , she was ultimately very shy to even say hello at the end of the series she got more confident.

*(Type B)Sailor mercury and Sailor Jupiter from {{Sailor Moon}} were both very timid and people ( wrongfully) avoided them ( mercury because people tough de was arrogant and Jupiter for being tall and strong) until they got deep true friends in their {{Nakama}}.

*(Type A)Gohan from "Dragonball Z" a Type 1 in his first day of school got friends very easily and even some dates.

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*(type B)Misao amano * (Type B) Misao Amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid tough timid, though she desires to be more social like her friend sasami Sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy , she boy. She was ultimately very shy to even say hello at the end of the series she got more confident.

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* (Type B) Sailor Mercury
and Sailor Jupiter from {{Sailor Moon}} ''SailorMoon'' were both very timid and people ( wrongfully) (wrongfully) avoided them ( mercury (Mercury because people tough de thought she was arrogant arrogant, and Jupiter for being tall and strong) until they got deep true friends in their {{Nakama}}.

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* (Type A) Gohan
in ''DragonballZ''. In his first day of school high school, he got friends very easily and even some dates. dates.
* (Type A) This is the wish [[YuGiOh Yugi Mutou]] made on the Millenium Puzzle.






*(Type B)Toby from the film {{Shorts}} wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.

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*(Type B)Toby * (Type B) Toby from the film {{Shorts}} ''{{Shorts}}'' wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.



* (Type A)''{{Twilight}}'' fulfills this wish. As Bella despite not lifting a finger to gain friends she being the [[AudienceSurrogate audience avatar]] gets friends in high school remarkably easy ,even when she forgets her {{Muggle}} friends For Edwards Cullen or Jacob Black, like in NewMoon where she ignored them for months however her {{Muggle}}friends are always for her regardless of how she treats them.
*Both the Cullens and the werewolves look for her despite the risk she brought to them, they happily accept her in their {{Nakama}} as a friend without an effort on her part despite the fact that both factions are normally not very open to [[{{Muggle}}average humans]].
*(Type B)The King in ''TheLittlePrince'' is implied to be this. Note how desperately he tries to get the Little Prince to stay.
*(Type A)In''HarryPotter''. This is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron Weasly and Hermaionie.
*(Type B)Lupin comes off a bit like this in the HarryPotter series. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
*(Type B) also from "HarryPotter":Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall

*(Type B) in [[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]] - the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends - even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]

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* (Type A)''{{Twilight}}'' A) ''{{Twilight}}'' fulfills this wish. As Bella despite not lifting a finger to gain friends she being the [[AudienceSurrogate audience avatar]] gets friends in high school remarkably easy ,even easy, even when she forgets her {{Muggle}} friends For Edwards for Edward Cullen or Jacob Black, like in NewMoon ''NewMoon'' where she ignored them for months however months. However her {{Muggle}}friends {{Muggle}} friends are always for her regardless of how she treats them.
*Both ** Both the Cullens and the werewolves look for her despite the risk she brought to them, they They happily accept her in their {{Nakama}} as a friend without an effort on her part despite the fact that both factions are normally not very open to [[{{Muggle}}average [[{{Muggle}} average humans]].
*(Type B)The * (Type B) The King in ''TheLittlePrince'' is implied to be this. Note how desperately he tries to get the Little Prince to stay.
*(Type A)In''HarryPotter''. * (Type A) In ''HarryPotter''. This is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron Weasly and Hermaionie.Hermione.
*(Type B)Lupin ** (Type B) Lupin comes off a bit like this in the HarryPotter series. as well. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
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** (Type
B) also from "HarryPotter":Luna Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall

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* (Type
B) in [[AgentPendergast ''[[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]] - Crows]]'' -- the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends - -- even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]



*(Type B)In {{Smallville}} while Lex Luthor Genuinely wants to trust in people , his position in power plus , the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.
**(Type A)Also from {{Smallville}} Clark himself fulfills this wish , as he easily befriends "exotic" people all time , and his close friends are not just loyal to hikm but also his friend´s lifes are centered towards him (Cloe sullivan ,Pete Ross , lana Lang etc)

*(Type B)Ned from Ned´s Declassified Survival guide" wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are , this is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}

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*(Type B)In {{Smallville}} * (Type B) In ''{{Smallville}}'' while Lex Luthor Genuinely genuinely wants to trust in people , people, his position in power plus , the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.
**(Type A)Also from {{Smallville}} ** (Type A) Clark himself fulfills this wish , wish, as he easily befriends "exotic" people all time , the time, and his close friends are not just loyal to hikm him but also his friend´s lifes lives are centered towards him (Cloe sullivan ,Pete Ross , lana Lang etc)

*(Type B)Ned
Sullivan, Pete Ross, Lana Lang, etc.).

* (Type B) Ned
from Ned´s ''{{Ned´s Declassified Survival guide" Guide}}'' wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are , this are. This is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}



*(Type B)IllGirl Marion from DragonQuestIX is like this.

*(Type B)In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.

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*(Type B)IllGirl * (Type B) IllGirl Marion from DragonQuestIX ''DragonQuestIX'' is like this.

*(Type B)In
this.
* (Type B) In
the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.



*(Type B)CasperTheFriendlyGhost Desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.

*(Type B)The spider from Billy and Mandy

*(Type A and B)Ron stoppable from "Kimpossible" wants to be popular tough he doesn't have many friends the little ones he has are very close.

*(Type B)Starfire from "{{TeenTitans}}" before joining the team was very lonely , even after she joined , when she tough she was being replaced by her sister blackfire it affected her deeply , she isn't very fond of losing them.

*(Type B)Timmy Turner from doesn't really have much friends ( he has only two human friends) and in one episode pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in trixie tang social group only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.

*(Type B)Randal from {{Recess}} had this ,coupled with a HeelFaceTurn , tough at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he prefered being the Teacher´s pet]] abandoned all his friends and had a FaceHeelTurn.

*In TheLastAirbender We have three (type B) cases:
#Toph In the episode the Blind Bandid in her own words:".....I know you were just trying to protect me, but I'm twelve years old and I've never had a real friend."
#Aang himself had this , despite being among the most social perons of the main cast , when Sokka and Katara were going to abandon him looking for their dad Aang hide their map becuase he was scared of being alone
#Azula she tough she had friends until the boliling rock were [[spoiler: her "friends" betraqyd her , but to be fair they were never her friends they were just scared of her]]at the last episode she [[spoiler:went insane in part becuase whe couldnt trust in anyone ,becuase of that she beccame very paranoic]].

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*(Type B)CasperTheFriendlyGhost Desperately * (Type B) CasperTheFriendlyGhost desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.

*(Type B)The
ghost.
* (Type B) The
spider from Billy and Mandy

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''BillyAndMandy''.
* (Type
A and B)Ron stoppable B) Ron Stoppable from "Kimpossible" ''KimPossible'' wants to be popular tough popular, though he doesn't have many friends the friends. The little ones he has are very close.

*(Type B)Starfire
close.
* (Type B) Starfire
from "{{TeenTitans}}" ''TeenTitans'' before joining the team was very lonely , lonely, even after she joined , when joined. When she tough thought she was being replaced by her sister blackfire Blackfire, it affected her deeply , -- she isn't very fond of losing them.

*(Type B)Timmy
them.
* (Type B) Timmy
Turner from ''TheFairlyOddpaents'' doesn't really have much many friends ( he (he has only two human friends) and in friends). In one episode he pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in trixie tang Trixie Tang's social group group, only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.

*(Type B)Randal
for.
* (Type B) Randal
from {{Recess}} ''{{Recess}}'' had this ,coupled coupled with a HeelFaceTurn , tough HeelFaceTurn; though at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he prefered preferred being the Teacher´s pet]] teacher´s pet]], abandoned all his friends friends; and had a FaceHeelTurn.

*In TheLastAirbender We
FaceHeelTurn.
* In ''AvatarTheLastAirbender'', we
have three (type B) cases:
#Toph ** Toph. In the episode the Blind Bandid in her own words:".....words when she made her debut: "...I know you were just trying to protect me, but I'm twelve years old and I've never had a real friend."
#Aang ** Aang himself had this , this, despite being among the most social perons member of the main cast , when cast. When Sokka and Katara were going to abandon him looking for their dad dad, Aang hide hid their map becuase he was scared of being alone
#Azula she tough
alone.
** Azula thought
she had friends friends, until the boliling rock were "The Boiling Rock" where [[spoiler: her "friends" betraqyd her , but to betrayed her. To be fair they were never her friends friends, they were just scared of her]]at her]]. In the last episode episode, she [[spoiler:went insane in part becuase whe couldnt because she couldn't trust in anyone ,becuase anyone, because of that she beccame very paranoic]].
paranoid]].
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[[caption-width:300:[[{{Batman}} Not everyone]] enjoys [[IWorkAlone being a loner....]]]]

->''Without friends no one would choose to live, though he had all other goods.''\\
'''{{Aristotle}}'''


->''Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival'''\\


->''Even a beautiful scenery , even a beautiful flower is meaningless when you see it alone...'''\\
'''[[{{MagicalprojectS}} Misaos song]]

->''Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival'''\\
'''C. S. Lewis'''


WishFulfillment is an undeniable part of fiction, and there is nothing at all wrong with it, in and of itself, as fantasies help us to face Real life.

IJustWantToHaveFriends, like IJustWantToBeLoved, is a specific wish that some members of
the edit button audience would like to start have [[WishFulfillment fulfilled]] by the fiction they consume. This trope also covers when fictional characters want this new page. desire to be [[WishFulfillment fulfilled]]; as such, it can be divided in two types


*'''Type A: when the Wish is [[WishFulFillment fulfilled]] for Real people'''

A probable reason people that this WishFulfillment is so common in fictional media is the fact that a high amount of people have little or no friends at all.[[http://www.cracked.com/article_15231_7-reasons-21st-century-making-you-miserable.html Some studies]] have shown that most people have at most 2 friends while 1/4 of people don’t have anyone to trust.

This wish is mostly (but not exclusively) expressed by [[ShrinkingViolet Shy people]] and people with [[FriendlessBackground few or no friends]].

While most fantasies certainly focus on ''doing something really cool'' ,fantasies often tend to focus as well on[[{{Nakama}} friendships]] the characters have .This fantasies often provide "idealized" friends ,that the person ,that enjoys the fantasy doesn’t have in RealLife.

The person enjoying the fantasy often will [[EscapistCharacter put themselves on the shoes]] of [[TheHero the leader]] of a [[{{Nakama}} group of friends]] or otherwise the center of attention of a duo or a group.

While in RealLife a true friendship needs time and investment, in this kind of fantasy settings often [[EscapistCharacter the protagonist]] will obtain deep bonds and friendships with little to no effort at all, this friends will often bend to the needs of the [[EscapistCharacter main character]] and without the hardships real friendship has in RealLife and be incredibly loyal to each other in very little time.

This [[WishFulfillment wish]] is not just limited to fictional characters. People [[FriendlessBackground with few relationships in RealLife]] will often look to supply said needs on the internet and with videogames.

Using electronic media, people will look to fulfill their desire of having people they can confide with, as this e-relationships eliminates most of the hardships of RealLife friendship and it helps shy people [[BeneathTheMask to open themselves and show how they really are]] without [[{{GIFT}} worrying about their self image]].

*'''Type B when a fictional character wants this desire to be fulfilled'''

This Trope also applies to fictional characters who have are motivated by the need to have friends, as not every fictional [[{{Batman}} character]] [[IWorkAlone enjoys loneliness]].They might or might not be [[ShrinkingViolet shy characters]], but one thing is for sure: they can't stand being alone.

The reasons for the loneliness of fictional character are varied: maybe [[WhatMeasureIsANonHUman the character is not human]], is not understood, had a DarkAndTroubledPast, is a jerk, or is [[ShrinkingViolet too shy to make friends]]; More information on the causes can be found at {{FriendlessBackground}}.

Not all fictional characters that express this desire are necessarily [[LonersAreFreaks "different"]] {{CoolLoser}}s will often [[HeroicBSOD suffer a breakdown]] when they have to abandon their friends permanently or temporally take desperate measures not to lose them.

It’s not uncommon for people, loners or not, to try to improve their popularity or try to hang out with the popular kids.

More often than not, fictional characters will turn out to have been [[{{BeautifulAllAlong}} sociable all along]], especially for {{Shrinking Violet}}s, Hollywood nerds, CoolLoser(s), and {{Dark Magical Girl}}s, etc. In some instances, they [[TheLibby treat their old friends badly]], albeit [[StatusQuoIsGod temporally]]; this is usually solved via {{The Power of Friendship}}.


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(type A)There are probably too many fanfics to list that appeal to this wish. The appeal of the BlackHoleSue and The PuritySue are arguably derived from this wish (as well as the specific desire to have certain characters as friends, including characters that in canon are untrusting (ex Vegeta,Tinkerbell etc).

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*(type B)Misao amano from ''MagicalProjectS'' is very timid tough she desires to be more social like her friend sasami and even tried in the first episode to befriend a boy , she was ultimately very shy to even say hello at the end of the series she got more confident.

*(Type B)Sailor mercury and Sailor Jupiter from {{Sailor Moon}} were both very timid and people ( wrongfully) avoided them ( mercury because people tough de was arrogant and Jupiter for being tall and strong) until they got deep true friends in their {{Nakama}}.

*(Type A)Gohan from "Dragonball Z" a Type 1 in his first day of school got friends very easily and even some dates.
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*(Type B)Toby from the film {{Shorts}} wants friends so badly, he makes a wish on a wishing stone for friends "as interesting and unique as I am" and gets a bunch of extraterrestrials for friends.
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* (Type A)''{{Twilight}}'' fulfills this wish. As Bella despite not lifting a finger to gain friends she being the [[AudienceSurrogate audience avatar]] gets friends in high school remarkably easy ,even when she forgets her {{Muggle}} friends For Edwards Cullen or Jacob Black, like in NewMoon where she ignored them for months however her {{Muggle}}friends are always for her regardless of how she treats them.
*Both the Cullens and the werewolves look for her despite the risk she brought to them, they happily accept her in their {{Nakama}} as a friend without an effort on her part despite the fact that both factions are normally not very open to [[{{Muggle}}average humans]].
*(Type B)The King in ''TheLittlePrince'' is implied to be this. Note how desperately he tries to get the Little Prince to stay.
*(Type A)In''HarryPotter''. This is the case for Harry as he easily gets friends in Ron Weasly and Hermaionie.
*(Type B)Lupin comes off a bit like this in the HarryPotter series. There are more than a few instances where he does the "wrong" thing (for lack of a better word) because he really likes to have people like him.
*(Type B) also from "HarryPotter":Luna Lovegood painted the main gang as her friends in a wall

*(Type B) in [[AgentPendergast Still Life with Crows]] - the real SerialKiller is a [[spoiler:PsychopathicManchild stemming from incest, hideously deformed from a broken back when he was little, monstrously strong thanks to a lifetime spent climbing a cave network. Since his only contact with the outside world was with his mother, all he wanted are some friends - even if that included "playing" with them with lethal results.]]
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*(Type B)In {{Smallville}} while Lex Luthor Genuinely wants to trust in people , his position in power plus , the fact that he tends to overprotect and therefore lose the few friends he has, makes him fall into this.
**(Type A)Also from {{Smallville}} Clark himself fulfills this wish , as he easily befriends "exotic" people all time , and his close friends are not just loyal to hikm but also his friend´s lifes are centered towards him (Cloe sullivan ,Pete Ross , lana Lang etc)

*(Type B)Ned from Ned´s Declassified Survival guide" wants to be a popular kid and manages to be in the popular table, but at the end he realizes that the popular table is where his friends are , this is of course a {{Crowning Moment of Awesome}}
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*(Type B)IllGirl Marion from DragonQuestIX is like this.

*(Type B)In the ''PuyoPuyo'' series, Seriri the Siren ''desperately'' want friends, but her paranoia that people may want to eat her flesh so they become immortal prevents her to achieve her wish.
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*(Type B)CasperTheFriendlyGhost Desperately wants to have friends, something hard for him as everyone is scared of him due to the fact he is a ghost.

*(Type B)The spider from Billy and Mandy

*(Type A and B)Ron stoppable from "Kimpossible" wants to be popular tough he doesn't have many friends the little ones he has are very close.

*(Type B)Starfire from "{{TeenTitans}}" before joining the team was very lonely , even after she joined , when she tough she was being replaced by her sister blackfire it affected her deeply , she isn't very fond of losing them.

*(Type B)Timmy Turner from doesn't really have much friends ( he has only two human friends) and in one episode pretended to be a cool rich kid to be accepted in trixie tang social group only to discover that he wasn't being loved for being himself but for the stuff he wished for.

*(Type B)Randal from {{Recess}} had this ,coupled with a HeelFaceTurn , tough at [[StatusQuoIsGod the end he prefered being the Teacher´s pet]] abandoned all his friends and had a FaceHeelTurn.

*In TheLastAirbender We have three (type B) cases:
#Toph In the episode the Blind Bandid in her own words:".....I know you were just trying to protect me, but I'm twelve years old and I've never had a real friend."
#Aang himself had this , despite being among the most social perons of the main cast , when Sokka and Katara were going to abandon him looking for their dad Aang hide their map becuase he was scared of being alone
#Azula she tough she had friends until the boliling rock were [[spoiler: her "friends" betraqyd her , but to be fair they were never her friends they were just scared of her]]at the last episode she [[spoiler:went insane in part becuase whe couldnt trust in anyone ,becuase of that she beccame very paranoic]].

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