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This includes parents who are emotionally abusive, physically abusive, mentally abusive, or who neglectfully allow their children to be abused by others if they don't abuse the child themselves. Sometimes the abuse at the hands of their parents or others end up as the FreudianExcuse for a villain. But sometimes the character manages to not grow up broken, bitter, and hateful, and ends up being [[CharacterDevelopment a different and better person]] than the upbringing would incline one to think.

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This includes parents who are emotionally abusive, physically abusive, mentally abusive, or who neglectfully allow their children to be abused by others if they don't abuse the child themselves.themselves; sexual abuse is typically treated as [[RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil a special kind of evil]] and thus not entirely in the same category as the other types of abuse. Sometimes the abuse at the hands of their parents or others end up as the FreudianExcuse for a villain. But sometimes the character manages to not grow up broken, bitter, and hateful, and ends up being [[CharacterDevelopment a different and better person]] than the upbringing would incline one to think.
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* TheFairlyOddParents: Arguably, Timmy Turner's parents. While they are mostly neglectful, they have occasionally crossed into emotional abuse by telling Timmy that their life was so much better when they didn't have a child. Or [[ItGotWorse worse]] they let him know they would have rather had a girl rather than him. Not to mention they, often, forget his name. Interestingly enough, they have accused Timmy of being selfish while being selfish themselves.

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* TheFairlyOddParents: Arguably, Timmy Turner's parents. While they are mostly neglectful, they have occasionally crossed into emotional abuse by telling Timmy that their life was so much better when they didn't have a child. Or [[ItGotWorse worse]] they let him know they would have rather had a girl rather than him. Not to mention they, often, forget his name. Interestingly enough, they have accused Timmy of being selfish while being selfish themselves.
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* [[MadMen Don Draper]]'s father abused him physically (partially explaining how he got so messed up). On the other hand, messed-up as he is, he isn't half as abusive to his children as Betty, whose ice-cold and often oblivious parenting has given way to physical abuse. Betty's second husband, Henry Francis, is more understanding, but he doesn't seem to be able to make Betty get that she's making things worse. We predict a ''very'' interesting 1965-75 for Sally Draper. Perhaps ''too'' interesting.

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* [[MadMen Don Draper]]'s father abused him physically (partially explaining how he got so messed up). On the other hand, messed-up as he is, he isn't half as abusive to his children as Betty, whose ice-cold and often oblivious parenting has given way to physical abuse.abuse (Don tends towards well-meaning cluelessness). Betty's second husband, Henry Francis, is more understanding, but he doesn't seem to be able to make Betty get that she's making things worse. We predict a ''very'' interesting 1965-75 for Sally Draper. Perhaps ''too'' interesting.
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* [[MadMen Don Draper]]'s father abused him physically (partially explaining how he got so messed up). On the other hand, messed-up as he is, he isn't half as abusive to his children as Betty, whose ice-cold and often oblivious parenting has given way to physical abuse. Betty's second husband, Henry Francis, is more understanding, but he doesn't seem to be able to make Betty get that she's making things worse. We predict a ''very'' interesting 1965-75 for Sally Draper. Perhaps ''too'' interesting.
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** In the episode "Airport 07" Peter briefly becomes a redneck and tries to have sex with Meg.
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*** In ''Legacy of Doom'', Howard is also physically abusive, but it's unclear whether or not Howard ever physically abused Tony in life. (Although Tony doesn't seem too surprised by Howard trying to kill him; but then again, Tony ''is'' in hell.)

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*** ** In ''Legacy of Doom'', Howard is also physically abusive, but it's unclear whether or not Howard ever physically abused Tony in life. (Although Tony doesn't seem too surprised by Howard trying to kill him; but then again, Tony ''is'' in hell.)

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* Character Aaron Echolls, father of Logan Echolls in {{Veronica Mars}}, is notably one of the worst dads in television - among other things he has been shown to physically abuse his son, hitting him and striking him with a belt. Logan's mother could be said to be neglectful, in the least, due to her drinking with the intention of ignoring her son being beaten in the next room.
** It should probably be said that Aaron's "among other things" includes [[spoiler:"having sex with his son's girlfriend and then murdering her with an ashtray."]]



* Logan in ''VeronicaMars'' was belt-whipped onscreen by his father, whilst his mother looked on.

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* Character Aaron Echolls, father of Logan Echolls in ''VeronicaMars'' was belt-whipped onscreen by {{Veronica Mars}}, is notably one of the worst dads in television - among other things he has been shown to physically abuse his father, whilst his son, hitting him and striking him with a belt. Logan's mother looked on.could be said to be neglectful, in the least, due to her drinking with the intention of ignoring her son being beaten in the next room.
** It should probably be said that Aaron's "among other things" includes [[spoiler:''having sex with his son's girlfriend and then murdering her with an ashtray.'']]
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** It should probably be said that Aaron's "among other things" includes [[spoiler:"having sex with his son's girlfriend and then murdering her with an ashtray."]]
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[[caption-width-right:250:And thus a horrible case of parental abuse became a [[DeadBabyComedy famous comedy routine]].]]
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* Poor, poor [[SlightlyDamned Kieri Suizahn]][[http://www.sdamned.com/2010/08/08212010/]]

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* Poor, poor [[SlightlyDamned Kieri Suizahn]][[http://www.Suizahn]]. The comic here shows that her mother was more than someone who simply chastised her (as seen in an earlier comic), although one can argue this also crosses over with Emotional Abuse in some areas. [[http://www.sdamned.com/2010/08/08212010/]]
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*Poor, poor [[SlightlyDamned Kieri Suizahn]][[http://www.sdamned.com/2010/08/08212010/]]
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* Marena from ''KeychainOfCreation'' had a mother with [[{{Understatement}} interesting ideas on parenting]]. Marena [[http://keychain.patternspider.net/archive/koc0317.html a long list]] of things to forgive her for.
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** As horrible of a parental figure Huey is, the award for abusive parenting goes to Fermet.


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** I think Kagura and Hiro are about the only ones who have reasonably normal parents. Much shorter list than naming the abusive ones
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* [[ShrinkingViolet Hinata Hyuuga]] from ''Naruto'' has shades of this, what with being so constantly berated for her mild nature and natural compassion to the point where she developed a severe inferiority complex and was veritably disowned by her father.

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* [[ShrinkingViolet Hinata Hyuuga]] from ''Naruto'' has shades of this, what with being so constantly berated for her mild nature and natural compassion to the point where that she developed a severe inferiority complex and was veritably disowned [[ParentalAbandonment disowned]] by her father.father and clan.
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*[[ShrinkingViolet Hinata Hyuuga]] from ''Naruto'' has shades of this, what with being so constantly berated for her mild nature and natural compassion to the point where she developed a severe inferiority complex and was veritably disowned by her father.
**[[BreakTheCutie Gaara]], however, is played VERY, VERY straight. Oh, where to begin. First, he was only conceived to imprison the [[SealedEvilInACan daemonic incarnate of sand]] in order to serve the express purpose of being a mindless tool. Hated and feared by all the villagers, he grew up lonely, confused, and suicidal - his only loved one and confidant being his uncle, Yashamaru. THEN, when he was six years old, [[spoiler: Yashamaru attempts to kill him on orders from the Kazekage, Gaara's father.]] This is not, however, a matter of duty, as Yashamaru tells Gaara he could of refused the Kazekage. THEN, as it to poor salt in the poor kid's wounds, [[spoiler: Yashamaru tells Gaara that he has always hated him, and is unable to think of him as his nephew, that Gaara killed his mother, and that his is nothing more than a monster that should carry out the ambitions of his mother's hatred for her village. Oh, and that Gaara's mother never loved him.]] And evidently since then, the Kazekage has been sending assassins for his own son's head - seven years, from the time Gaara was six. And we all know how Gaara [[AxeCrazy turns out]]. [[spoiler: [[IGotBetter He gets better]], though.]]
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* While {{fanon}} has expanded on it and treated it seriously, it was PlayedForLaughs and implied with both [[ThatGuyWithTheGlasses Ask That Guy and the Nostalgia Critic]] [[hottip:* : commonly portrayed to be [[{{Twincest}} very close twins]] ]]; Ask That Guy seems to think that he was never good enough ([[FridgeLogic hard to imagine him ever trying]]) and they told him that he would have go to back in the dumpster where they found him, while the Critic portrayed them as monsters ripping him apart in a kindergarten drawing. And Ask That Guy's response to "Why does Daddy hit Mommy?" and the Critic apparently hiding in the cupboard when he was scared seem pretty suspect.
** Also treated for [[HilariouslyAbusiveChildhood throwaway laughs]] (but not come up in {{fanon}}... yet) was the [[DistaffCounterpart Nostalgia Chick]]'s childhood. Her mother made her feel inadequate, her uncle sexually abused her and her father never gave her any love. [[TheWoobie Poor girl]].

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* While {{fanon}} has expanded on it and treated it seriously, it was PlayedForLaughs and implied with both [[ThatGuyWithTheGlasses Ask That Guy and the Nostalgia Critic]] [[hottip:* : commonly portrayed to be [[{{Twincest}} very close twins]] ]]; Ask That Guy seems to think that he was never good enough ([[FridgeLogic hard to imagine him ever trying]]) and they told him that he would have go to back in the dumpster where they found him, while the Critic [[TheNostalgiaCritic Critic]] portrayed them as monsters ripping him apart in a kindergarten drawing. And Ask That Guy's response to "Why does Daddy hit Mommy?" and the Critic apparently hiding in the cupboard when he was scared seem pretty suspect.
** Also treated for [[HilariouslyAbusiveChildhood throwaway laughs]] (but not come up in {{fanon}}... yet) was the [[DistaffCounterpart Nostalgia Chick]]'s TheNostalgiaChick's childhood. Her mother made her feel inadequate, her uncle sexually abused her and her father never gave her any love. [[TheWoobie Poor girl]].
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* The Mouse King from the 1990 animated movie, The Nutcracker Prince, is physically abused by his mother when she scolds him about her plan (along with some neglect she sometimes gives).
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* Margo Lanagan's ''Tender Morsels'' features the teenaged Lisa who is used as a replacement for her mother after her mother's death. Because of this, Lisa becomes pregnant by her father not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES. She later becomes pregnant a fourth time after she is [[spoiler: assulted by some boys from the village.]]
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* Gordie's father in {{Stand By Me}}
* In {{House of Games}} the main character Dr Margaret Ford has a patient whose father repeatedly called her a whore during her childhood


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* Brenda's parents in {{SixFeetUnder}} who during her childhood had sex in front of her, threw orgies with her in the house and sent her to a psychiatrist who scrutinized her and played mindgames with her for a book. In adulthood her mother also constantly puts her down and laughs at any attempts she makes to improve her life
* There are many abusive parents in {{Skins}}. Chris whose mother left him without even saying goodbye and whose father rarely bothers to see him, Jal whose mother abandoned her and Cassie whose parents neglect her and flaunt their sex life in front of her. Probably the worst is Cook whose mother has loud sex with strangers with him in the next room, drives at full speed with her kids in the car and has drunken rages in front of them and his father who walked out on him, makes a pass at his girlfriend and threatens to throw him in the river
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* TheFairlyOddParents: Arguably, Timmy Turner's parents. While they are mostly neglectful, they have occasionally crossed into emotional abuse by telling Timmy that their life was so much better when they didn't have a child. Or [[ItGotWorse worse]] they let him know they would have rather had a girl rather than him. Not to mention they, often, forget his name. Interestingly enough, they have accused Timmy of being selfish while being selfish themselves.
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* In the most recent episode of {{TheBoondocks}}, it's revealed Uncle Ruckus was beaten by his father on a fairly regular basis for even the littlest offenses and threw him out of the house at a young age, it caused severe psychological damage to him and was also responsible for his deformities and his hatred for other black people, it is later revealed that he beat him because he wanted to take out the stress of being beaten himself by his racist employers.
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*"Kristy, Are You Doing Okay?" by The Offspring. The song is meant to be an apology to a girl that lead singer Dexter Holland, as well as his friends, knew was sexually abused by her father yet no one ever brought it up.

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*"Kristy, Are You Doing Okay?" by The Offspring. The song is meant to be an apology to a girl that lead singer Dexter Holland, as well as his friends, knew was sexually abused during her youth by her father father, yet no one ever brought it up.
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*"Kristy, Are You Doing Okay?" by The Offspring. The song is meant to be an apology to a girl that lead singer Dexter Holland, as well as his friends, knew was sexually abused by her father yet no one ever brought it up.
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* Mayella Ewell in ''ToKillAMockingbird''. We know [[CompleteMonster her dad]] beats her, and it is hinted that he also abuses her sexually
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*DC comics Deathstroke/Slade Wilson. Even putting aside how [[spoiler:he was heavily involved in the deaths of both of his sons]] you could make a case for this solely on Slade's youngest child. Rose Wilson has spent most of her life since her dad discovered her existence trying to deal with his epic-scale emotional manipulations. [[spoiler:After rejecting her at first, he stormed back into her life by having her foster family killed and her kidnapped. Then he lured her into being his apprentice and injected her with the same super-soldier serum that gave him his meta-human fighting abilities (crossing over into Physical Abuse as such). Rose eventually had a psychotic break and carved out her own eye to prove her loyalty to him.]]

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*DC comics Deathstroke/Slade Wilson. Even putting aside how [[spoiler:he was heavily involved in the deaths of both of his sons]] you could make a case for this solely on Slade's youngest child. Rose Wilson has spent most of her life since her dad discovered her existence trying to deal with his epic-scale emotional manipulations. [[spoiler:After rejecting her at first, he stormed back into her life by having her foster family killed and her kidnapped. Then he lured her into being his apprentice and injected her with the same super-soldier serum that gave him his meta-human fighting abilities (crossing over into Physical Abuse as such). Rose eventually had a psychotic break and [[HighOctaneNightmareFuel carved out out]] [[EyeScream her own eye eye]] to prove her loyalty to him.]]
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*** In ''Legacy of Doom'', Howard is also physically abusive, but it's unclear whether or not Howard ever physically abused Tony in life. (Although Tony doesn't seem too surprised by Howard trying to kill him; but then again, Tony ''is'' in hell.)
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--> '''Howard:''' Brilliance isn't enough. You'll never reach your true potential worrying about ''consequences''. You're '''''weak.'''''. [...] You're no son of mine.

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--> '''Howard:''' Brilliance isn't enough. You'll never reach your true potential worrying about ''consequences''. You're '''''weak.'''''. [...] [[IHaveNoSon You're no son of mine.mine]].
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* [[{{Jerkass}} Howard Stark]], Tony Stark's father, was verbally and emotionally abusive. As a child, Tony respected his father greatly, and wanted to please him. However, in spite of Tony's genius, Tony's reluctance (and inability) to assimilate his father's "[[BlatantLies ethics]]" caused Howard to resent and despise his son. Howard's rejection hurt Tony deeply, and although Tony has long since lost all respect for his father, he's never entirely gotten over it, as shown in ''Iron Man: Legacy of Doom'':
---> (in Mephisto's Realm, Howard Stark's spirit appears before Tony)
--> '''Tony:''' Y-you?
--> '''Howard:''' Losing again, eh, boy? You always were a wimp. Never had the ''stones'' to do what had to be done.
--> '''Tony:''' I always tried to do what was ''right!''
--> '''Howard:''' Brilliance isn't enough. You'll never reach your true potential worrying about ''consequences''. You're '''''weak.'''''. [...] You're no son of mine.
--> '''Tony:''' ''I'd heard it all before. But the pain was still enough to distract me from the physical task at hand.''
--->(Howard lunges; Tony flees, unable to attack his own father)
--> '''Howard:''' '''''COWARD!''''' You were my greatest shame, but I'll make a man of you yet! I'll ''beat'' it into you!
---> (later, after Howard is defeated)
--> '''Tony:''' ''You can't kill something already dead. [[IronWoobie I'd been telling myself that for a long time]].''
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*Penny's mom on ''GoodTimes''. She hits Penny numerous times, breaks her arm, and in one of the most infamous scenes in the show, she burns Penny with a HOT IRON. This troper still will not watch the last 5 minutes of that episode.

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*Penny's mom on ''GoodTimes''. She hits Penny numerous times, breaks her arm, and in one of the most infamous scenes in the show, she burns Penny with a HOT IRON. This troper still will not watch the last 5 minutes of that episode. Thankfully, [[IGotBetter Penny's life changes]] when her mom abandons her and Willona adopts her.
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*Penny's mom on ''GoodTimes''. She hits Penny numerous times, breaks her arm, and in one of the most infamous scenes in the show, she burns Penny with a HOT IRON. This troper still will not watch the last 5 minutes of that episode.

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