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* Discussed in ''Series/TheJeremyKyleShow'' when a guest tells a story of his abusive girlfriend locking him up, forcing him to jump out a 3rd-story window, the audience laughs. Jeremy proceeds to call them out on their double standards.

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* Discussed in ''Series/TheJeremyKyleShow'' when a guest tells a story of his abusive girlfriend violently assaulting him before locking him up, in their apartment, forcing him to jump out from a 3rd-story window, third storey window and suffer additional injuries from the fall, the audience laughs.- a sizeable portion of which were female, though there were several men present as well - proceeds to laugh at him for several seconds. Jeremy proceeds to call them out on their double standards.

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I don't really think this counts as an example.


* In an episode of ''Series/TheSuiteLifeOfZackAndCody'''s spin-off show ''Suite Life on Deck'', played for laughs when a prank gone wrong makes a girl mad at Zack. She beats him up on-screen while he pleads for her to stop.



%%* ''Series/YoureTheWorst'': Lindsay stabs Paul in the flank with no remorse, and cuckolds him before Paul finally puts his foot down and divorces her. Lindsay manages to land on her feet and eventually Paul decides to remarry her, despite Lindsay not going through any character development that would imply she would treat Paul any better the second time around. While the series doesn't discredit Paul's misery, it also doesn't treat Lindsay as anything more than a lovable rascal despite her harmful behaviour.

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%%* ''Series/YoureTheWorst'': Lindsay stabs Paul in the flank with no remorse, and cuckolds him before Paul finally puts his foot down and divorces her. Lindsay manages to land on her feet and eventually Paul decides to remarry her, despite Lindsay not going through any character development that would imply she would treat Paul any better the second time around. While the series doesn't discredit Paul's misery, it also doesn't treat Lindsay as anything more than a lovable rascal despite her harmful behaviour.behavior.
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* For ''Series/EverybodyLovesRaymond'', Debra could practically be the embodiment - at least in the later seasons - with most times she attacks Ray [[PlayedForLaughs]].

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* For ''Series/EverybodyLovesRaymond'', Debra could practically be the embodiment - at least in the later seasons - with most times she attacks Ray [[PlayedForLaughs]].[[PlayedForLaughs played for humor]].
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* In ''Series/EverybodyLovesRaymond'' Debra attacks Ray played for humor.

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* In ''Series/EverybodyLovesRaymond'' For ''Series/EverybodyLovesRaymond'', Debra could practically be the embodiment - at least in the later seasons - with most times she attacks Ray played for humor.[[PlayedForLaughs]].
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* ''Series/TheMuppetShow'': Miss Piggy is a quintessential example of this trope, frequently sending co-stars Kermit, Gonzo, and others flying across the room with her trademark karate chops. That said, it should be noted that much (though not all) of the instances where she does this are in response to Kermit or someone else saying something insensitive or mean-spirited to her, usually about her weight or being a pig (i.e. Kermit's dig about her living in a pig sty and rolling around in the mud).
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* PlayedStraight in ''Series/Yellowstone''. Jamie is frequently physically and emotionally abused by his sister, Beth, and it is never called out. She even purposely pushes him towards suicide in the second season. She also calls him a coward for never hitting back, but when he ''does'' hit back once, she says that no real man would hit a woman. Their father, John, fully accepts this and only ever intervenes when ''Jamie'' defends himself... [[AbuseParents by kicking him off the ranch and threatening to kill him.]] Even when Beth's reason for hating Jamie is revealed, the fact that the show acts like she is ''entitled'' to abuse Jamie is a large point of criticism.

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* PlayedStraight in ''Series/Yellowstone''.''Series/{{Yellowstone}}''. Jamie is frequently physically and emotionally abused by his sister, Beth, and it is never called out. She even purposely pushes him towards suicide in the second season. She also calls him a coward for never hitting back, but when he ''does'' hit back once, she says that no real man would hit a woman. Their father, John, John, fully accepts this and only ever intervenes when ''Jamie'' defends himself... [[AbuseParents [[AbusiveParents by kicking him off the ranch and threatening to kill him.]] Even when Beth's reason for hating Jamie is revealed, the fact that the show acts like she is ''entitled'' to abuse Jamie is a large point of criticism.
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* PlayedStraight in ''Series/Yellowstone''. Jamie is frequently physically and emotionally abused by his sister, Beth, and it is never called out. She even purposely pushes him towards suicide in the second season. She also calls him a coward for never hitting back, but when he ''does'' hit back once, she says that no real man would hit a woman. Their father, John, fully accepts this and only ever intervenes when ''Jamie'' defends himself... [[AbuseParents by kicking him off the ranch and threatening to kill him.]] Even when Beth's reason for hating Jamie is revealed, the fact that the show acts like she is ''entitled'' to abuse Jamie is a large point of criticism.
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* The soap opera ''Series/{{Neighbours}}'' has Yashvi "[[SarcasmMode hilariously]]" punch Ben in the groin because she was annoyed with him. Steph shouts in her stepson Boyd's face and punches amputee Paul for jilting her mother at the altar. When Rhys angrily raises his voice to Susan, Vanessa is appalled that he thinks it's alright to "talk to women like that."

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* The soap opera ''Series/{{Neighbours}}'' has Yashvi "[[SarcasmMode hilariously]]" punch Ben in the groin because she was annoyed with him. Steph shouts in her stepson Boyd's face and punches amputee Paul for jilting her mother at the altar. When Rhys angrily raises his voice to Susan, Vanessa is appalled that he thinks it's alright to "talk to women like that."
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* Subverted in an episode of ''Series/{{Friends}}'' when Joey's new girlfriend hits him hard while trying to be playful. His friends laugh at him for being terrified of her. When Joey protests the hitting, she says "Oh, you're making fun of me! Stop making fun of me!" and hits him harder.

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* Subverted in an episode of ''Series/{{Friends}}'' when Joey's new girlfriend hits him hard while trying to be playful. His friends laugh at him for being terrified of her. When Joey protests the hitting, she says "Oh, you're making fun of me! Stop making fun of me!" and hits him harder. Rachel [[AnAesop realizes how wrong they were to joke about after experiencing it for herself]], and since Joey can't get away with hitting her back, Rachel does it for him.

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** Phoebe casually remarks "Are you kidding me? How many times has Piper blown up Leo?" Piper tries to blow him up out of anger for something he didn't do, but couldn't due to the magic disappearing. This is especially odd, as the first time she does it, it's a KickTheDog and a sign that she's turning into a Fury.

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** Phoebe casually remarks "Are you kidding me? How many times has Piper blown up Leo?" Piper tries to blow him up out of anger for something he didn't do, but couldn't due to the magic disappearing. This is especially odd, as the first time she does it, it's a KickTheDog and a sign that she's turning into a Fury. She only does it when under an evil spell but it's treated as a mild annoyance (although in one episode when she thinks he's really dead and comes out of the enchantment, she's horrified). Paige however gets in on this by testing a vanquishing spell she's intended for Cole on Leo. He's pissed but it's still shown as a light-hearted moment.
** Another Cole example. In "Happily Ever After", Phoebe is wrongfully convinced that he's responsible for the demon of the week coming after them. [[ItMakesSenseInContext When Paige is temporarily dead]], Phoebe punches him with visible force, although she is [[BreakTheHaughty forced to make a reluctant apology later]]. The double standard is highlighted when Cole under the Siren's spell tries to strangle Phoebe being presented as horrific, and him actually hitting her being shown as a MoralEventHorizon.
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The previous examples fall under Double Standard Rape Female On Male, but the Lady Crane example still qualifies. No justification was given for removing it.

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* ''Series/GameOfThrones'': The Season 6 character Lady Crane is portrayed as a good person who is being wrongly targeted by the Faceless Men, but she eventually reveals to an injured Arya that her medical experience comes from all the times she's ''stabbed her lovers out of jealousy''. She says this as casually as talking about the weather, as if stabbing her boyfriends was justified because they were men, and the narrative certainly doesn't disagree with her, and neither does Arya. It made a handful of viewers wonder if she really ''was'' deserving of death, and if Arya's decision to spare her was a mistake.
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* ''Series/{{The Office|US}}''

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* ''Series/{{The Office|US}}''Office|US}}'': The cantankerous relationship between Jan and Michael would probably never happen if the roles were reversed.

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** Phoebe casually remarks "Are you kidding me? How many times has Piper blown up Leo?" Piper tries to blow him up out of anger for something he didn't do, but couldn't due to the magic disappearing.

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** Phoebe, on being reunited with her demon ex-boyfriend Cole, gives him an unprovoked punch to the face for returning. Possibly hand-waved with Cole being stronger than a normal human, but unlikely to be played straight with the genders reversed.
** Phoebe and Cole's MeetCute is prompted when he approaches her from behind in the college courtyard, taps her on the shoulder, and she goes to give him a ''roundhouse kick''. It's presented as cute that her first instinct is to kick someone from behind.
** Invoked by the Source, when he tries to get Paige to use her powers for evil; convincing her to give a supposedly abusive father a heart attack, and that she'd only be [[PayEvilUntoEvil getting rid of an evildoer]]. The others however do their best to stop her, as it would be counted as an act of evil.
** Paige rescues her office lech from a magical mob of admirers, and he regains consciousness with her [[BreastExpansion magically enlarged breasts]] right in his face. When he says "ooh", Paige punches him in the head to knock him out. Phoebe ''does'' reprimand her for it, but it's still played for comedy because he was an AssholeVictim.
** Phoebe casually remarks "Are you kidding me? How many times has Piper blown up Leo?" Piper tries to blow him up out of anger for something he didn't do, but couldn't due to the magic disappearing. This is especially odd, as the first time she does it, it's a KickTheDog and a sign that she's turning into a Fury.
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** Subverted with Geoff Metcalfe's coercive abuse of his wife Yaseen Nazir. At a point when Geoff's abuse appears to be escalating to violence, Yasmeen defends herself by breaking a wine bottle over his head before stabbing him in the neck with its broken remains. The police are called, cue Yasmeen's arrest and detainment, and Geoff warping what really happened to present Yas as a violent alcoholic. [[spoiler=Yasmeen's name was eventually cleared.]]

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** Subverted {{Subverted}} with Geoff Metcalfe's coercive abuse of his wife Yaseen Nazir. At a point when Geoff's abuse appears to be escalating to violence, Yasmeen defends herself by breaking a wine bottle over his head before stabbing him in the neck with its broken remains. The police are called, cue Yasmeen's arrest and detainment, and Geoff warping what really happened to present Yas as a violent alcoholic. [[spoiler=Yasmeen's alcoholic, which many have no choice but to believe. Yasmeen's name was eventually cleared.]]
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** Subverted with Geoff Metcalfe's coercive abuse of his wife Yaseen Nazir. At a point when Geoff's abuse appears to be escalating to violence, Yasmeen defends herself by breaking a wine bottle over his head before stabbing him in the neck with its broken remains. The police are called, cue Yasmeen's arrest and detainment, and Geoff warping what really happened to present Yas as a violent alcoholic. [[spoiler=Yasmeen's name was eventually cleared.]]
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** PlayedStraight with Tyrone Dobbs' abuse at the hands of his fiancee Kirsty Soames, which briefly resulted in Tyrone being mistaken as the abuser by the other residents of the street and being taken into custody, before Kirsty finally came clean.
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** Prue (albeit accidentally) using her powers to nearly strangle her ex with his own tie is PlayedForLaughs.
** Due to a misunderstanding, Prue walks off in a huff and stops Andy from chasing after her by telekinetically moving a desert cart in front of him. He trips over it and could have easily broken his neck, but the narrative sides with Prue for being the injured party.
** Prue also discovers one of her boyfriends has a twin brother he's been lying about. When she finds out, she slaps him. Admittedly light and playfully, but then she slaps the twin with visible force "for thinking you wouldn't get slapped". Again, this is presented as empowering.
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* In''Series/{{Smallville}}'', Lois [[GroinAttack kicks a man]] for removing her from the premises.

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* In''Series/{{Smallville}}'', In ''Series/{{Smallville}}'', Lois [[GroinAttack kicks a man]] for removing her from the premises.
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** A customer makes verbally and sexually assaults Peggy's waitress friend. Peggy threatens him with a fork against a vital artery to tip her friend generously and never return to the diner again. The friend is seen smiling about this and it's treated as a badass heroic moment.

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** A customer makes verbally and sexually assaults Peggy's waitress friend. Peggy threatens him with a fork against a vital artery to tip her friend generously and never return to the diner again. The friend is seen smiling about this and it's treated as a badass heroic moment.

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The Rookie: word cruft, detail bloat. The Kyle Jeremy Show: removed external link, removed word cruft and detail bloat. Victorious: example removed, reason: no female-on-male violence. H 2 O Just Add Water: removed example, reason: no physical violence. Youre The Worst: commented out zero context example.


* Subverted rather horrifically in the pilot episode of ''Series/TheRookie''. Rookie Officer John Nolan and his Training Officer, Talia Bishop, respond to a domestic disturbance call. They find a [[HugeGuyTinyGirl Huge Guy, Tiny Girl]] couple. When Nolan talks to the guy, he hints that his wife is the abuser, but is vague enough that Nolan doesn’t bring it up to Bishop. Later that day, they get another call from the same address, and they find that the wife has brutally murdered the husband. Bishop calls Nolan out for not telling her about the guy hinting that his wife was abusive, and Nolan actually ends up going through a [[HeroicBSOD Heroic BSoD.]]
* Lampshaded in ''Series/TheJeremyKyleShow'' when a male guest [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4wQZUkibig tells a story]] of his abusive girlfriend locking him up, forcing him to jump out a 3rd-story window to get out while injuring himself, the audience laughs. Jeremy proceeds to call them out on their double standards, noting that if the genders were reversed, the same people would see the man as a monster.
* ZigZagged in Series/{{Victorious}}. While Jade's behavior towards Beck (being extremely jealous, controlling, and picking fights with him) is portrayed as unhealthy, it's still PlayedForLaughs in a way that it wouldn't if the genders were reversed. Eventually, Beck gets tired of this behavior and breaks up with Jade. This was portrayed as him standing up for himself. After they break up, Jade gets some character development and becomes less possessive of him, with the two getting back together. However, the episode after they get back together has Jade starting a fight with Beck over what to wear to a school dance. To make matters worse, he was in agreement with her. It seems that she might not have changed too much.
* Played straight in series 2 of ''Series/H2OJustAddWater'', with Lewis' relationship with Charlotte. Charlotte starts off seemingly pleasant and friendly enough, with some of Charlotte's hostility towards Cleo being the result of Cleo's [[GreenEyedMonster jealousy-fuelled coldness]] towards her, but by the time she gets mermaid powers, her behaviour has definitely become this as she works on alienating Lewis from the girls (despite him being the primary SecretKeeper for all four of them), taking up all his time and attention, [[GasLighting gaslighting]] him and, once he sees the light and breaks up with her, attempting to forcibly [[DePower depower]] the girls to convince him that [[EntitledToHaveYou she will be the only mermaid left and therefore the only one for him]]. [[note]] Completely ignoring the fact that Lewis liked Cleo way before she became a mermaid. [[/note]] [[NeverMyFault And all the while never considering that she might be the one at fault]].
* ''Series/YoureTheWorst'': Lindsay treats Paul ''terribly''. She guilts Paul into dumping a woman he has a better connection with, stabs him right in the flank with no remorse, and cuckolds him before Paul finally puts his foot down and divorces her. Lindsay manages to land on her feet and eventually Paul decides to remarry her, despite Lindsay not going through any character development that would imply she would treat Paul any better the second time around. While the series doesn't discredit Paul's misery, it also doesn't treat Lindsay as anything more than a lovable rascal despite her harmful behaviour.

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* Subverted rather horrifically in the pilot episode of ''Series/TheRookie''. Rookie Officer John Nolan and his Training Officer, Talia Bishop, respond to a domestic disturbance call. They find a [[HugeGuyTinyGirl Huge Guy, Tiny Girl]] couple. When Nolan talks to the guy, he hints that his wife is the abuser, but is vague enough that Nolan doesn’t bring it up to Bishop. Later that day, they get another call from the same address, and they find that the wife has brutally murdered the husband. Bishop calls Nolan out for not telling her about the guy hinting that his wife was abusive, and Nolan actually ends up going through a [[HeroicBSOD Heroic BSoD.]]
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* Lampshaded Discussed in ''Series/TheJeremyKyleShow'' when a male guest [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a4wQZUkibig tells a story]] story of his abusive girlfriend locking him up, forcing him to jump out a 3rd-story window to get out while injuring himself, window, the audience laughs. Jeremy proceeds to call them out on their double standards, noting that if the genders were reversed, the same people would see the man as a monster.
* ZigZagged in Series/{{Victorious}}. While Jade's behavior towards Beck (being extremely jealous, controlling, and picking fights with him) is portrayed as unhealthy, it's still PlayedForLaughs in a way that it wouldn't if the genders were reversed. Eventually, Beck gets tired of this behavior and breaks up with Jade. This was portrayed as him standing up for himself. After they break up, Jade gets some character development and becomes less possessive of him, with the two getting back together. However, the episode after they get back together has Jade starting a fight with Beck over what to wear to a school dance. To make matters worse, he was in agreement with her. It seems that she might not have changed too much.
* Played straight in series 2 of ''Series/H2OJustAddWater'', with Lewis' relationship with Charlotte. Charlotte starts off seemingly pleasant and friendly enough, with some of Charlotte's hostility towards Cleo being the result of Cleo's [[GreenEyedMonster jealousy-fuelled coldness]] towards her, but by the time she gets mermaid powers, her behaviour has definitely become this as she works on alienating Lewis from the girls (despite him being the primary SecretKeeper for all four of them), taking up all his time and attention, [[GasLighting gaslighting]] him and, once he sees the light and breaks up with her, attempting to forcibly [[DePower depower]] the girls to convince him that [[EntitledToHaveYou she will be the only mermaid left and therefore the only one for him]]. [[note]] Completely ignoring the fact that Lewis liked Cleo way before she became a mermaid. [[/note]] [[NeverMyFault And all the while never considering that she might be the one at fault]].
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''Series/YoureTheWorst'': Lindsay treats Paul ''terribly''. She guilts Paul into dumping a woman he has a better connection with, stabs him right Paul in the flank with no remorse, and cuckolds him before Paul finally puts his foot down and divorces her. Lindsay manages to land on her feet and eventually Paul decides to remarry her, despite Lindsay not going through any character development that would imply she would treat Paul any better the second time around. While the series doesn't discredit Paul's misery, it also doesn't treat Lindsay as anything more than a lovable rascal despite her harmful behaviour.

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