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** In ''Literature/WhereAreTheChildren'', [[spoiler:Nancy]]'s first husband [[spoiler:Carl]] psychologically, sexually and possibly physically abused her; he took advantage of her youth, naivety and grief for her parents to manipulate her into marrying him, isolated her from anyone who could've helped her free herself from his influence, and made her believe she was "sick" and needed to rely solely on him. He would get angry and threaten her if she did anything to defy him. [[spoiler:Nancy]] recalls disliking their twisted sexual encounters but feeling too afraid and guilty to stand up to [[spoiler:Carl]] about it. He also drugged her under the guise of providing her medication to make her more compliant.
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** ''Literature/DaddysLittleGirl'': It's all but stated outright that Rob was an abusive boyfriend towards Andrea even before he was arrested for beating her to death. He encouraged her to lie to and keep secrets from her family and friends when it came to him (especially as Andrea's father disapproved of Rob), and was jealous and controlling. The last time Ellie saw Andrea alive, she was in tears after a hostile phone call from Rob (prompted by Andrea having platonically agreed to go to a dance with another boy so her parents wouldn't find out she was still seeing Rob) and agreed to sneak out to meet him; Ellie says she was clearly frightened of Rob's temper and didn't dare refuse him. [[spoiler:Given it's confirmed Rob beat her to death with a tyre iron, she was right to be terrified]]. The fact Andrea was just fifteen while Rob was nineteen also raised eyebrows, with Ellie and her father being convinced Rob took advantage of Andrea's young age.


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** ''Literature/OnTheStreetWhereYouLive'':
*** When Natalie threatens to tell the police she suspects Bob of being the killer if he doesn't cough up enough cash in a divorce settlement, Bob grabs her arm hard enough that it's left bruised and swollen, and aggressively states that she should be more worried about herself. Natalie later confides in Will she's now genuinely afraid of her husband and what he might do to her. [[spoiler:When Natalie is murdered, Bob becomes the number one suspect after admitting they'd argued and even he can't be certain he didn't do it because of his black-outs (he didn't)]].
*** The police and Emily speculate that [[spoiler:Richard intentionally upped his first wife's laudanum doses and lied to her about things she'd seen or heard to hide his crimes from her]].
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** Brugar was very abusive towards his mate Attaroa, beating her, deliberately provoking arguments and possibly raping her. He even used their own child against her, trying to emotionally alienate Omel from Attaroa just to hurt her. He also encouraged the other men in his camp to use violence and threats to 'punish' and control women. It's widely believed Attaroa was behind Brugar's sudden illness and death; few people judge her for that specifically, but unfortunately Attaroa goes on to become [[CycleOfAbuse an abusive tyrant herself]].

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** Brugar was very abusive towards his mate Attaroa, beating her, deliberately provoking arguments and possibly raping her. He even used their own child against her, trying to emotionally alienate Omel from Attaroa just to hurt her. He also encouraged the other men in his camp to use violence and threats to 'punish' and control women. It's widely believed Attaroa was behind Brugar's sudden illness and death; few people judge her for that specifically, but unfortunately Attaroa goes on to become [[CycleOfAbuse [[TheChainOfHarm an abusive tyrant herself]].
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* ''Literature/EarthsChildren'':
** Iza's mate, whom she [[ArrangedMarriage had no choice in marrying]], was a cruel and insecure man who often beat her, particularly because he was envious of her status as a medicine woman. He was so horrible to her that Iza's brother Brun - their clan's leader - seriously considered dissolving their marriage, though ultimately he died in an earthquake; no one mourns him.
** Broud becomes increasingly physically and verbally abusive towards his mate Oga over time; he insults and talks down to her, hits her, tries to control who she can be friends with, and blows up on her if she does the slightest thing to set him off or tries to stand up to him. While the Clan do approve of using corporal punishment for wrong-doing, even by their standards Broud is excessively and unjustly violent towards Oga, with Brun intervening at one point.
** Brugar was very abusive towards his mate Attaroa, beating her, deliberately provoking arguments and possibly raping her. He even used their own child against her, trying to emotionally alienate Omel from Attaroa just to hurt her. He also encouraged the other men in his camp to use violence and threats to 'punish' and control women. It's widely believed Attaroa was behind Brugar's sudden illness and death; few people judge her for that specifically, but unfortunately Attaroa goes on to become [[CycleOfAbuse an abusive tyrant herself]].
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** ''Literature/StormFront'': Harry's client turns out to be a victim. [[spoiler:Her husband is a warlock with a drive to get more and more power. The client sought Harry when she caught her husband looking at their children not with love, but as tools and ingredients to his next projects]].

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** ''Literature/StormFront'': ''Literature/{{Storm Front|DresdenFiles}}'': Harry's client turns out to be a victim. [[spoiler:Her husband is a warlock with a drive to get more and more power. The client sought Harry when she caught her husband looking at their children not with love, but as tools and ingredients to his next projects]].
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** ''Literature/PieceOfMyHeart'':
*** Daniel's ex-wife Roseanne says she divorced him and got a restraining order because his brain injury resulted in him becoming cruel, resentful and dangerous towards her; he would have paranoid delusions that she was plotting against him and eventually became physically violent. After Roseanne first moved out, he tracked her down and broke into her house, drawing a knife on her and saying she'd poisoned their daughter against him. Roseanne genuinely feared he'd kill them both, pleading with him not to harm their daughter until he came to his senses and left. Some days, Daniel is remorseful for hurting and frightening Roseanne, but other days he blames her for 'abandoning' him.
*** [[spoiler:It's revealed Daniel drugged, tortured and murdered his ex-lover Michelle when she told him she'd given birth to their son and put the baby up for adoption, with Daniel being furious at her for 'stealing' his son from him; he wanted to know where to find Johnny as well as punish Michelle for hiding Johnny from him all these years]].
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* ''Literature/TheStorm'': The husband has beaten his wife, as well as neglected her and given her gifts to "make up for his mistakes" many times. She's sick of it, but she's more sick of herself for [[LoveMartyr continuing to love him regardless]].

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* ''Literature/TheStorm'': ''Literature/TheStormAravDagli'': The husband has beaten his wife, as well as neglected her and given her gifts to "make up for his mistakes" many times. She's sick of it, but she's more sick of herself for [[LoveMartyr continuing to love him regardless]].
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* ''Literature/TheStorm'': The husband has beaten his wife, as well as neglected her and given her gifts to "make up for his mistakes" many times. She's sick of it, but she's more sick of herself for [[LoveMartyr continuing to love him regardless]].

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* ''Literature/AcidRow'':
** Franek was physically, sexually and emotionally abusive towards Milosz' mother; when she eventually couldn't take it anymore and ran off, Franek insists she abandoned him and their son. [[spoiler:Sophie later realises based on some comments Franek makes that he probably murdered his wife in retaliation for her trying to leave him]].
** Laura Biddulph's ex-husband Martin wasn't physically abusive as far as anyone can tell, but he was emotionally abusive, being extremely controlling and manipulative towards her and trying to alienate their daughter from her out of spite (Martin never wanted to have a child, so he's mostly doing it to punish Laura for keeping the pregnancy). Their relationship also came off as predatory, given Laura is significantly younger than her ex and quite naive, which Martin knowingly took full advantage of to make her dependent on him.



* ''Literature/{{Under Suspicion|Series}}'':
** ''Literature/TheCinderellaMurder'':
*** Reverend Martin Collins' father was physically and psychologically abusive towards his mother, using beatings and threats to control her. He would also [[AbusiveParent beat Martin]], with his mother being too afraid and broken [[UselessBystanderParent to defend him]].
*** Martin himself was emotionally and psychologically abusive to his ex-girlfriend, taking advantage of her low confidence and desire to belong to manipulate her into doing anything he wanted, though she didn't initially realise it, especially as Martin was more subtle and calculating than his father. For starters, Martin was much older than his girlfriend [[spoiler:Nicole (who was only eighteen and rather naive)]] and he was [[UnequalPairing in a position of authority over her]] as her church leader. [[spoiler:Susan]] picked up on the power imbalance, asking [[spoiler:Nicole]] why someone like him would even be interested in a college sophomore. Martin also had [[spoiler:Nicole]] soliciting her friends for donations to the church and encouraged her to distance herself from her friends, telling her that those who questioned their relationship were "trying to corrupt [her]".[[spoiler:When Nicole discovered Martin was a paedophile, he threatened to kill her and everyone she loved, even saying he'd hunt down and kill her as-yet-unborn children and grandchildren, if she ever told anyone... and Nicole knew he meant it. Even twenty years later, she remains petrified he will follow through on his threats]].
** In ''Literature/TheSleepingBeautyKiller'', Casey's ex-boyfriend Jason claimed on the stand and in his memoir that she could be violent when angered, including recounting an incident where he had to lock himself in their bathroom because he was terrified she'd threaten him with a knife. She was also convicted of shooting her fiance Hunter dead when he allegedly broke up with her. However, when pressed about it in his interview, Jason admits that while he and Casey had a [[DestructiveRomance volatile relationship]], he exaggerated or made-up a lot of stuff to make her look worse. Casey has also continuously denied killing Hunter, insisting they had a loving, happy relationship. [[spoiler:She's [[SubvertedTrope telling the truth]]]].
** In ''Literature/YouDontOwnMe'', the [[AssholeVictim murder victim]] Martin Bell was emotionally and psychologically abusive towards his wife Kendra, being especially cunning in isolating and controlling her. When she had their first child and struggled with going back to work, he persuaded her that she was better off at home despite her ambition to become a pediatrician and treated her post-partum depression and grief for her mother by [[spoiler:feeding her drugs]] rather than getting her proper help, [[spoiler:then expected her to quit cold turkey when people got suspicious and shamed her for being a "junkie"]]. He hired a live-in nanny without consulting Kendra because he felt she wasn't capable of looking after the children herself, which was only the case because Martin had cut her off from everyone and wouldn't let her get support. He frequently made her feel guilty for her mental struggles, while also emotionally neglecting her to focus on his career [[spoiler:and cheating on her]]. Steven, Kendra and Caroline describe Martin as a domineering and manipulative husband, who cared little for Kendra's well-being.



* ''Literature/{{Under Suspicion|Series}}'':
** ''Literature/TheCinderellaMurder'':
*** Reverend Martin Collins' father was physically and psychologically abusive towards his mother, using beatings and threats to control her. He would also [[AbusiveParent beat Martin]], with his mother being too afraid and broken [[UselessBystanderParent to defend him]].
*** Martin himself was emotionally and psychologically abusive to his ex-girlfriend, taking advantage of her low confidence and desire to belong to manipulate her into doing anything he wanted, though she didn't initially realise it, especially as Martin was more subtle and calculating than his father. For starters, Martin was much older than his girlfriend [[spoiler:Nicole (who was only eighteen and rather naive)]] and he was [[UnequalPairing in a position of authority over her]] as her church leader. [[spoiler:Susan]] picked up on the power imbalance, asking [[spoiler:Nicole]] why someone like him would even be interested in a college sophomore. Martin also had [[spoiler:Nicole]] soliciting her friends for donations to the church and encouraged her to distance herself from her friends, telling her that those who questioned their relationship were "trying to corrupt [her]".[[spoiler:When Nicole discovered Martin was a paedophile, he threatened to kill her and everyone she loved, even saying he'd hunt down and kill her as-yet-unborn children and grandchildren, if she ever told anyone... and Nicole knew he meant it. Even twenty years later, she remains petrified he will follow through on his threats]].
** In ''Literature/TheSleepingBeautyKiller'', Casey's ex-boyfriend Jason claimed on the stand and in his memoir that she could be violent when angered, including recounting an incident where he had to lock himself in their bathroom because he was terrified she'd threaten him with a knife. She was also convicted of shooting her fiance Hunter dead when he allegedly broke up with her. However, when pressed about it in his interview, Jason admits that while he and Casey had a [[DestructiveRomance volatile relationship]], he exaggerated or made-up a lot of stuff to make her look worse. Casey has also continuously denied killing Hunter, insisting they had a loving, happy relationship. [[spoiler:She's [[SubvertedTrope telling the truth]]]].
** In ''Literature/YouDontOwnMe'', the [[AssholeVictim murder victim]] Martin Bell was emotionally and psychologically abusive towards his wife Kendra, being especially cunning in isolating and controlling her. When she had their first child and struggled with going back to work, he persuaded her that she was better off at home despite her ambition to become a pediatrician and treated her post-partum depression and grief for her mother by [[spoiler:feeding her drugs]] rather than getting her proper help, [[spoiler:then expected her to quit cold turkey when people got suspicious and shamed her for being a "junkie"]]. He hired a live-in nanny without consulting Kendra because he felt she wasn't capable of looking after the children herself, which was only the case because Martin had cut her off from everyone and wouldn't let her get support. He frequently made her feel guilty for her mental struggles, while also emotionally neglecting her to focus on his career [[spoiler:and cheating on her]]. Steven, Kendra and Caroline describe Martin as a domineering and manipulative husband, who cared little for Kendra's well-being.

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* In ''Literature/YouDontOwnMe'', the [[AssholeVictim murder victim]] Martin Bell was emotionally and psychologically abusive towards his wife Kendra, being especially cunning in isolating and controlling her. When she had their first child and struggled with going back to work, he persuaded her that she was better off at home despite her ambition to become a pediatrician and treated her post-partum depression and grief for her mother by [[spoiler:feeding her drugs]] rather than getting her proper help, [[spoiler:then expected her to quit cold turkey when people got suspicious and shamed her for being a "junkie"]]. He hired a live-in nanny without consulting Kendra because he felt she wasn't capable of looking after the children herself, which was only the case because Martin had cut her off from everyone and wouldn't let her get support. He frequently made her feel guilty for her mental struggles, while also emotionally neglecting her to focus on his career [[spoiler:and cheating on her]]. Steven, Kendra and Caroline describe Martin as a domineering and manipulative husband, who cared little for Kendra's well-being.

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* ''Literature/{{Under Suspicion|Series}}'':
** ''Literature/TheCinderellaMurder'':
*** Reverend Martin Collins' father was physically and psychologically abusive towards his mother, using beatings and threats to control her. He would also [[AbusiveParent beat Martin]], with his mother being too afraid and broken [[UselessBystanderParent to defend him]].
*** Martin himself was emotionally and psychologically abusive to his ex-girlfriend, taking advantage of her low confidence and desire to belong to manipulate her into doing anything he wanted, though she didn't initially realise it, especially as Martin was more subtle and calculating than his father. For starters, Martin was much older than his girlfriend [[spoiler:Nicole (who was only eighteen and rather naive)]] and he was [[UnequalPairing in a position of authority over her]] as her church leader. [[spoiler:Susan]] picked up on the power imbalance, asking [[spoiler:Nicole]] why someone like him would even be interested in a college sophomore. Martin also had [[spoiler:Nicole]] soliciting her friends for donations to the church and encouraged her to distance herself from her friends, telling her that those who questioned their relationship were "trying to corrupt [her]".[[spoiler:When Nicole discovered Martin was a paedophile, he threatened to kill her and everyone she loved, even saying he'd hunt down and kill her as-yet-unborn children and grandchildren, if she ever told anyone... and Nicole knew he meant it. Even twenty years later, she remains petrified he will follow through on his threats]].
** In ''Literature/TheSleepingBeautyKiller'', Casey's ex-boyfriend Jason claimed on the stand and in his memoir that she could be violent when angered, including recounting an incident where he had to lock himself in their bathroom because he was terrified she'd threaten him with a knife. She was also convicted of shooting her fiance Hunter dead when he allegedly broke up with her. However, when pressed about it in his interview, Jason admits that while he and Casey had a [[DestructiveRomance volatile relationship]], he exaggerated or made-up a lot of stuff to make her look worse. Casey has also continuously denied killing Hunter, insisting they had a loving, happy relationship. [[spoiler:She's [[SubvertedTrope telling the truth]]]].
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In ''Literature/YouDontOwnMe'', the [[AssholeVictim murder victim]] Martin Bell was emotionally and psychologically abusive towards his wife Kendra, being especially cunning in isolating and controlling her. When she had their first child and struggled with going back to work, he persuaded her that she was better off at home despite her ambition to become a pediatrician and treated her post-partum depression and grief for her mother by [[spoiler:feeding her drugs]] rather than getting her proper help, [[spoiler:then expected her to quit cold turkey when people got suspicious and shamed her for being a "junkie"]]. He hired a live-in nanny without consulting Kendra because he felt she wasn't capable of looking after the children herself, which was only the case because Martin had cut her off from everyone and wouldn't let her get support. He frequently made her feel guilty for her mental struggles, while also emotionally neglecting her to focus on his career [[spoiler:and cheating on her]]. Steven, Kendra and Caroline describe Martin as a domineering and manipulative husband, who cared little for Kendra's well-being.
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* Creator/JacquelineWilson often explores this trope from the perspective of children and teens (usually them having to cope with a parent being abused).
** In ''Literature/{{Cookie}}'', Gerry is abusive towards Dilly, though he is largely emotionally abusive rather than physically abusive (though he does slap his wife's face and roughly grabs her by the arm on one occasion). His horrible behaviour is presented as no less damaging, though, despite Auntie Avril downplaying it when Dilly tries to explain what has been happening. Gerry is extremely controlling of Dilly and he frequently mocks and insults her for being "stupid" or "useless", with Dilly having begun believing he's right. He throws screaming fits if she tries to stand up to him, often throwing it in her face that he provides for her as if that excuses him (the aforementioned slap was prompted when Dilly refused his demand to put on a diamond necklace, then claimed she'd lost it). Beauty points out that she's only dependent on him because [[FinancialAbuse he made her give up her job and she has to ask him for spending money]]. Gerry constantly belittles Dilly's attempts at cookie baking and smashes up the cookies she had made for Beauty's birthday party, insisting they're rubbish without even trying one.
** In ''Literature/TheDiamondGirls'', it's mentioned that Sue broke up with Dean, the father of her second daughter Jude, because he became violent towards her and her daughters, saying that she refused to let him slap her and her kids about. Consequently, Jude has no relationship with him and couldn't care less, saying he's a "violent nutter" who is probably in prison.
** At one point in ''Literature/{{Little Darlings|Literature}}'', Sunset overhears someone getting slapped whilst her parents are arguing, though she isn't sure who's slapping who, even stating that they could be slapping ''each other''. Destiny also says her mother broke up with her last boyfriend because he was violent towards her and Destiny, with them briefly ending up in a women's shelter.
** Jay from ''Literature/LolaRose'' provides one of the most prominent and disturbing examples of this trope in Jacqueline Wilson's novels. He is blatantly emotionally and physically abusive towards his wife Nikki and [[AbusiveParents terrorises his kids]] too ([[TheUnfavourite Jayni]] more so than Kenny). He has a habit of shouting at, threatening and insulting Nikki for doing the slightest thing to set him off (often if he [[CrazyJealousGuy thinks she's flirting with other men]]) and he regularly beats her bloody to "teach a lesson". Nikki has been to hospital a few times because of the injuries Jay has given her (though she never tells on him); on one occasion Jayni recalls Nikki 's face being so swollen she couldn't talk, she couldn't go out for weeks because of the bruises and that her breasts and stomach "were black". [[spoiler:Jay is even prepared to hit Nikki while she's bedridden following breast cancer surgery, due to finding out she'd been with another man]]. Jay also engages in the classic abusive tactic of love bombing, crying and apologising to Nikki once he's cooled down, promising he'll change and showering her with gifts. Jayni says that it never lasts long before he gets violent again.
** Lisa strongly implies in ''The Worry Website'' that her father is an alcoholic who physically abuses her mother, but she can't bring herself to write it on the website because it's so painful and confusing for her.

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* Creator/MaryHigginsClark:
** In ''Literature/ACryInTheNight'', Erich's behavior towards Jenny after they're married is textbook emotional/psychological abuse. He's not blatantly cruel to her but he's incredibly manipulative and controlling, and uses passive aggressive tactics to undermine her confidence or make her doubt herself. [[spoiler:It escalates to physical violence in the climax, with Erich [[IfICantHaveYou attempting to murder Jenny]] after his deceptions are [[VillainousBreakdown unravelled]]]].
** In ''Literature/IHeardThatSongBefore'', it's strongly implied that Gary Barr is abusive towards his wife, Jane. He is subtly controlling of her and she appears to feel intimidated by him; at one point, he shouts at her and throws a sandwich at her face when she brings up her concerns about something. [[spoiler:It's revealed in the epilogue that she has divorced him]].
** ''Literature/WhileMyPrettyOneSleeps'':
*** Seamus admits to attacking and threatening his ex-wife over alimony payments, and he soon becomes a prime suspect in her murder. He comes close to hitting his current wife Ruth during an argument and makes threatening remarks towards her as well. Seamus isn't usually a violent man and is shocked at his behaviour, with the immense amounts of stress he's under driving him over the edge.
*** When Seamus says he thinks they should keep paying Ethel alimony, Ruth loses it and slaps her husband hard across the face. She's shocked at herself and apologises immediately, though she still has a tendency to berate and insult Seamus over his failure to resolve their money issues. She later laments that the stress is turning her into a "shrew".



* In ''Literature/ACryInTheNight'', Erich's behavior towards Jenny after they're married is textbook emotional/psychological abuse. He's not blatantly cruel to her but he's incredibly manipulative and controlling, and uses passive aggressive tactics to undermine her confidence or make her doubt herself. [[spoiler:It escalates to physical violence in the climax, with Erich [[IfICantHaveYou attempting to murder Jenny]] after his deceptions are [[VillainousBreakdown unravelled]]]].

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* A short story dealt with a man who was a painter and was married to a woman who constantly verbally abused him, constantly belittling and insulting him. [[spoiler: It ends with it being revealed that he has the power to trap anything he paints into the painting -- and he has begun to paint his wife's picture.]]



* Sara's first foster-father in ''Literature/{{Relativity}}''. He never directly abused her or her sister but did beat [[spoiler:and eventually killed]] her foster mother.



* A short story dealt with a man who was a painter and was married to a woman who constantly verbally abused him, constantly belittling and insulting him. [[spoiler: It ends with it being revealed that he has the power to trap anything he paints into the painting -- and he has begun to paint his wife's picture.]]



* Sara's first foster-father in ''Literature/{{Relativity}}''. He never directly abused her or her sister but did beat [[spoiler:and eventually killed]] her foster mother.

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* ''Literature/BigLittleLies'': In both the book and the miniseries, Perry Wright/White is a WolfInSheepsClothing with wife [[StepfordSmiler Celeste]]. From the outside looking in, they have the perfect marriage, perfect family, and the fact that their sex life is so passionate is the envy of many characters. However, even those who've known them for years are unaware of this, [[spoiler: the only exception being Celeste's therapist who first brought this up to her in private]]. The abuse gets gradually worse and worse, but that passionate sex life everyone is jealous of? [[AwfulTruth Is the result of it.]]
* In Anna Quindlen's novel ''Black and Blue'', Fran is physically, emotionally, and sexually abused by her husband for years. Unable to go to the police for help, given that [[TheBadGuysAreCops her husband is a police officer]], she flees along with her son and attempts to hide from him by getting herself and her son fake identities. [[spoiler: It doesn't work.]]
* In the world of ''Literature/ABrothersPrice'' men are so rare that many gender roles are reversed. It's commonly known that some wives abuse their husbands, but it's not a flat subversion of DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale; there is one very high profile case where a man took advantage of his older wives' infatuation with him in order to abuse his younger wives without consequences.
* ''Literature/BrownGirlInTheRing'': Rudy is depicted to have hit his wife, [[spoiler:Gros-Jeanne]].
* ''Literature/TheCatWhoSeries'': In book #20 (''The Cat Who Sang for the Birds''), [[spoiler: this results in the death of the second victim, who fled to escape it, along with evidence that her boyfriend was up to something else dirty. But when she returned to retrieve her personal belongings, he was waiting there and killed her.]]
* ''Literature/ChocoholicMysteries'':
** Emotionally controlling version in the form of Richard Godfrey, Lee's ex-husband. Among other things, he actively tried to obstruct her efforts to get a degree and was furious when she not only succeeded, she made the dean's list in the process; in ''Cat Caper'', when he finds out she's in some trouble in Warner Pier, he tries to worm his way back into her life via paying her legal bills, but she recognizes this as another attempt to control her and rejects him again. ''Bear Burglary'' reveals that he was actually shocked out of his previous behavior by her blow-up at him, and changes for the better as a result.
** In ''Bear Burglary'', Nettie mentions a former employee of hers who ultimately had to move all the way across the country to get away from an abusive husband.
** ''Snowman Murders'' reveals that Nettie, along with Sarajane Harding and George Jenkins, is involved in a sort of UndergroundRailroad that helps battered women escape from worst-case situations of this.
* ''Literature/TheColdMoons'': Eldon's wife Scylla dislikes angering him for fear of being chastised and either bitten by him or cuffed by his heavy paws. Due to DeliberateValuesDissonance, the other badgers don't see this as abusive and the narrative doesn't depict it as negative. Eldon does care for his wife to a degree but the two only ended up together because it was expected from them, not because of actual affection.
* This is a reoccurring theme in ''Literature/TheColorPurple''. Domestic abuse is seen as the norm in Celie's family. Celie, in jealousy, even encourages her ex-husband to beat up his new girlfriend. ''He'' gets beat up the first time, which results in a cycle of abuse.



* In ''Literature/DaystarAndShadow'', Robin's father hits his mother for disobeying or arguing with him.



* Miranda's relationship with her much-older boyfriend in ''Literature/EighteenDaysToGraduation'' counts. He mocks her and makes her feel completely worthless. Luckily, [[spoiler: she breaks up with him at the end.]]
* ''Literature/EleanorAndPark'': Eleanor’s stepfather Richie yells at, throws things, and hits her mother Sabrina frequently. Eleanor usually finds herself comforting her siblings regularly when their fights break out when they're not sleeping through the noise.
* ''Literature/ForbiddenSea'': ''Shadow in the Sea'' has former AlphaBitch Cora as an adult married to the bully Marcus Stebbs, now a poor fisherman who beats her. Cora blames Adrianne for her awful life because Adrianne "stole" Cora's previous love from her.
* ''Literature/TheGreatDivorce'' depicts two not-very-good spouses in Hell. Robert's wife is a control freak who forced him into what ''she'' considered success, and Frank Smith emotionally manipulated his wife Sarah using pity. Both of them try their shtick with the Bright Ones, but it doesn't work.



* In the Creator/OHenry story ''A Harlem Tragedy'', Mrs. Cassidy makes light of her husband's sporadic abuse because she knows he'll spend the rest of the week trying to make up for it. In a case of ValuesDissonance, this actually makes her friend jealous. In RealLife, using the other partner's physical violence as a means of manipulation is unfortunately not unknown. One woman observed later that her part in her abusive marriage was a sick power game.



* ''Literature/{{Haze}}'': At night, Guzzle listens to his stepdad Angus beat his mum, who won't leave him because she "loves" him. Sometimes the noise keeps Guzzle up so late that he can't concentrate in school the next day.



* Patch's interactions with Nora in ''Literature/HushHush'' are almost directly lifted from the Abuser's Handbook. He stalks her, he mocks her, he enjoys making her uncomfortable, he humiliates her in front of her Biology class, he repeatedly forces her to engage in activities she's not comfortable doing (riding a wild roller coaster, accepting a lift on his motorcycle, etc), corners her in dark, abandoned places, tells her things like "A guy like me could take advantage of a girl like you", [[spoiler:lures her into a motel room, ''pins her on a bed and kisses her while she screams in protest'']], etc. We later find out that [[spoiler:he had every intention of murdering her at several points in the story.]] None of this is portrayed as [[RomanticizedAbuse less than romantic]].
* ''Literature/TheInheritanceGames'': Drake is Libby's on-again-off-again boyfriend who only just stayed on this line of being physically abusive at the start of the story. When he finds out Libby's ward/sister Avery inherited billions he, in this order: acts like an EntitledBastard making plans to spend the fortune, hits Libby when she explains the money is not theirs i.e. his to spend, then goes to the press and implies Avery had an inappropriate relationship with Tobias Hawthorne. [[spoiler:Then there's the matter of him trying to kill Avery (twice) on Skye Hawthorne's orders for money, only to be caught, arrested, and tries to pin the blame on Libby. Luckily plenty of evidence, including his own felony record, easily disproves this.]]



* In Creator/LoisMcMasterBujold's ''Literature/{{Komarr}}'', the best Ekaterin can say about her husband is "he never beat me". His behavior--including belittling her constantly, turning anything she says that can possibly be interpreted as criticism into an attack on her by calling her "selfish", and wall-punching tantrums--is severe emotional abuse.
* Creator/MercedesLackey's works:
** In ''Literature/BurningWater'', there's a scene where a patrol cop is telling the waitress at a diner (who volunteers at a domestic abuse support group) about recent domestic violence cases he's responded to so that she can contact the victims and get them help before things get out of hand.
** In ''Literature/{{Steadfast}}'', dancer and acrobat Katie Langford runs away from the circus she works at to escape her abusive and brutish husband Dick, the circus strongman.
* An emotional version of this happens in ''Literature/LeavingPoppy'', as the titular Poppy controls her mother and sister's lives with her tantrums and aggression, throwing fits, and guilt-tripping when she doesn't have her way.
* ''Literature/TheLoveAndLiesOfRukhsanaAli'': Rukhsana finds out that her grandmother suffered frequent beatings and once a burned hand by her mother-in-law or husband.
* ''Literature/PetaLyresRatingNormal'': Peta's dad used to beat his mom, until a few years ago when the neighbors called the cops. She refused to press charges, but the incident apparently spooked him enough that he never beats his wife anymore, only his kids.



* Beatrice from ''Literature/PurpleHibiscus'' loses at least two children because her husband beats her. [[spoiler:Eventually, she's driven to murder.]]



* In ''Literature/QueenOfTheTearling'', Andalie's husband abuses her and the children. She walks away from him, taking her children, when she's given the opportunity, but still protects him. She hints that she just suffers from irrational love, but since she [[spoiler: also has some supernatural abilities, it is not clear in the first book whether she knows of some role her husband has yet to play.]] There's also Kelsea's uncle, who insists that he never beat any of his female slaves ... except the one he keeps on a leash like a dog. It is very clear that he is abusive, though perhaps not often physically so.
* ''Literature/{{Ravensong}}'':
** Polly's father beats her mother.
** Jake, the "old snake" beats his wife.



* ''Literature/TheReluctantKing'': Vanora tells Jorian her lover Boso hits her sometimes, though she says it's partly her fault as she deliberately provokes him. Jorian sympathizes with Boso since she also provoked him (this all just seems pretty... ''[[UsefulNotes/VictimBlaming unfortunate]]'' now).



* Franchise/SherlockHolmes prefers the city to the countryside because this is more easily revealed.
-->''There is no lane so vile that the scream of [[AbusiveParents a tortured child]], or the thud of a drunkard's blow, does not beget sympathy and indignation among the neighbours, and then the whole machinery of justice is ever so close that a word of complaint can set it going, and there is but a step between the crime and the dock. But look at these lonely houses, each in its own fields, filled for the most part with poor ignorant folk who know little of the law. Think of the deeds of hellish cruelty, the hidden wickedness which may go on, year in, year out, in such places, and none the wiser.''
* ''Literature/TheSilerianTrilogy'': Ronall is a terrible husband to Elelar, beating or raping her multiple times when he's not cheating with other women. Unsurprisingly, she prefers he do that and ignore her most of the time.



* ''Literature/TheStormlightArchive'':
** Shallan's father, which gets explored in ''Literature/WordsOfRadiance'', was physically and emotionally abusive to everyone in his household ''but'' Shallan, and left all of his children with varying degrees of psychological trauma, including Shallan's StepfordSmiler tendencies (which she developed to try and make her brothers feel better). It's also commonly believed that he killed his first wife, Shallan's mother, but got away with it when Shallan refused to testify against him. [[spoiler: He didn't, ''Shallan'' did in self-defense, and he let everyone believe he was responsible to protect her. However, the stress of letting his country and children believe he was a murderer is what drove him to take out his anger on his remaining family, eventually killing his second wife for real, and forcing Shallan to [[SelfMadeOrphan kill him as well]]]].
** King Gavilar, loved by his brother, children, and nephews, turns out to be a terrible husband to Navani. He belittles his wife's scholarly pursuits and considers her a GoldDigger who can only leech fame from others. He doesn't even acknowledge the work she does for him; in the prologue to ''Literature/RhythmOfWar'', he expects her to do all the work running a diplomatic feast and party without bothering to consult with her and mocks her insistence that he show up and do his duty as king as nagging. When he is assassinated at the end of the party, Navani is unable to feel sad and instead regrets that their last conversation was an argument.
* In Elena Ferrante's ''The Story of a New Name'', Elena discovers that Stefano, Lila's new husband, is just as violent and abusive as his deceased loan shark father. She recalls the first time she saw Lila after her wedding, Lila had a massive black eye and her arms were bruised. No one dared to mention it because of Stefano's lineage and because ''every'' husband and father in their poor Naples village was violent and abusive towards their wives ''and'' their children. Elena herself ended up marrying and divorcing an emotionally abusive man.



* In the Creator/OHenry story ''A Harlem Tragedy'', Mrs. Cassidy makes light of her husband's sporadic abuse because she knows he'll spend the rest of the week trying to make up for it. In a case of ValuesDissonance, this actually makes her friend jealous. In RealLife, using the other partner's physical violence as a means of manipulation is unfortunately not unknown. One woman observed later that her part in her abusive marriage was a sick power game.
* In Creator/LoisMcMasterBujold's ''Literature/{{Komarr}}'', the best Ekaterin can say about her husband is "he never beat me". His behavior--including belittling her constantly, turning anything she says that can possibly be interpreted as criticism into an attack on her by calling her "selfish", and wall-punching tantrums--is severe emotional abuse.
* Beatrice from ''Literature/PurpleHibiscus'' loses at least two children because her husband beats her. [[spoiler: Eventually, she's driven to murder.]]



* Patch's interactions with Nora in ''Literature/HushHush'' are almost directly lifted from the Abuser's Handbook. He stalks her, he mocks her, he enjoys making her uncomfortable, he humiliates her in front of her Biology class, he repeatedly forces her to engage in activities she's not comfortable doing (riding a wild roller coaster, accepting a lift on his motorcycle, etc), corners her in dark, abandoned places, tells her things like "A guy like me could take advantage of a girl like you", [[spoiler:lures her into a motel room, ''pins her on a bed and kisses her while she screams in protest'']], etc. We later find out that [[spoiler:he had every intention of murdering her at several points in the story.]] None of this is portrayed as less than romantic.
* Franchise/SherlockHolmes prefers the city to the countryside because this is more easily revealed.
-->''There is no lane so vile that the scream of [[AbusiveParents a tortured child]], or the thud of a drunkard's blow, does not beget sympathy and indignation among the neighbours, and then the whole machinery of justice is ever so close that a word of complaint can set it going, and there is but a step between the crime and the dock. But look at these lonely houses, each in its own fields, filled for the most part with poor ignorant folk who know little of the law. Think of the deeds of hellish cruelty, the hidden wickedness which may go on, year in, year out, in such places, and none the wiser.''
* Creator/MercedesLackey's works:
** In ''Literature/BurningWater'', there's a scene where a patrol cop is telling the waitress at a diner (who volunteers at a domestic abuse support group) about recent domestic violence cases he's responded to so that she can contact the victims and get them help before things get out of hand.
** In ''Literature/{{Steadfast}}'', dancer and acrobat Katie Langford runs away from the circus she works at to escape her abusive and brutish husband Dick, the circus strongman.
* In the world of ''Literature/ABrothersPrice'' men are so rare that many gender roles are reversed. It's commonly known that some wives abuse their husbands, but it's not a flat subversion of DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale; there is one very high profile case where a man took advantage of his older wives' infatuation with him in order to abuse his younger wives without consequences.
* In Anna Quindlen's novel ''Black and Blue'', Fran is physically, emotionally, and sexually abused by her husband for years. Unable to go to the police for help, given that [[TheBadGuysAreCops her husband is a police officer]], she flees along with her son and attempts to hide from him by getting herself and her son fake identities. [[spoiler: It doesn't work.]]



* In Elena Ferrante's ''The Story of a New Name'', Elena discovers that Stefano, Lila's new husband, is just as violent and abusive as his deceased loan shark father. She recalls the first time she saw Lila after her wedding, Lila had a massive black eye and her arms were bruised. No one dared to mention it because of Stefano's lineage and because ''every'' husband and father in their poor Naples village was violent and abusive towards their wives ''and'' their children. Elena herself ended up marrying and divorcing an emotionally abusive man.
* Sara's first foster-father in ''Literature/{{Relativity}}''. He never abused her or her sister but did beat [[spoiler:and eventually killed]] her foster mother.
* In ''Literature/QueenOfTheTearling'', Andalie's husband abuses her and the children. She walks away from him, taking her children, when she's given the opportunity, but still protects him. She hints that she just suffers from irrational love, but since she [[spoiler: also has some supernatural abilities, it is not clear in the first book whether she knows of some role her husband has yet to play.]] There's also Kelsea's uncle, who insists that he never beat any of his female slaves ... except the one he keeps on a leash like a dog. It is very clear that he is abusive, though perhaps not often physically so.
* ''Literature/{{Ravensong}}'':
** Polly's father beats her mother.
** Jake, the "old snake" beats his wife.
* ''Literature/TheGreatDivorce'' depicts two not-very-good spouses in Hell. Robert's wife is a control freak who forced him into what ''she'' considered success, and Frank Smith emotionally manipulated his wife Sarah using pity. Both of them try their shtick with the Bright Ones, but it doesn't work.
* In the ''Literature/DreambloodDuology'', Lord Sanfi basically creates a world of horror and pain for the women around him.
* Occasionally, a subplot in a Creator/DanielleSteel novel. The one time it's the main plot, in the novel ''Journey'', she opts to depict the emotional/verbal variety.
* This is a reoccurring theme in ''Literature/TheColorPurple''. Domestic abuse is seen as the norm in Celie's family. Celie, in jealousy, even encourages her ex-husband to beat up his new girlfriend. ''He'' gets beat up the first time, which results in a cycle of abuse.
* An emotional version of this happens in ''Literature/LeavingPoppy'', as the titular Poppy controls her mother and sister's lives with her tantrums and aggression, throwing fits, and guilt-tripping when she doesn't have her way.
* ''Literature/TheColdMoons'': Eldon's wife Scylla dislikes angering him for fear of being chastised and either bitten by him or cuffed by his heavy paws. Due to DeliberateValuesDissonance, the other badgers don't see this as abusive and the narrative doesn't depict it as negative. Eldon does care for his wife to a degree but the two only ended up together because it was expected from them, not because of actual affection.
* Miranda's relationship with her much-older boyfriend in ''Literature/EighteenDaysToGraduation'' counts. He mocks her and makes her feel completely worthless. Luckily, [[spoiler: she breaks up with him at the end.]]
* ''Literature/TheStormlightArchive'':
** Shallan's father, which gets explored in ''Literature/WordsOfRadiance'', was physically and emotionally abusive to everyone in his household ''but'' Shallan, and left all of his children with varying degrees of psychological trauma, including Shallan's StepfordSmiler tendencies (which she developed to try and make her brothers feel better). It's also commonly believed that he killed his first wife, Shallan's mother, but got away with it when Shallan refused to testify against him. [[spoiler: He didn't, ''Shallan'' did in self-defense, and he let everyone believe he was responsible to protect her. However, the stress of letting his country and children believe he was a murderer is what drove him to take out his anger on his remaining family, eventually killing his second wife for real, and forcing Shallan to [[SelfMadeOrphan kill him as well]]]].
** King Gavilar, loved by his brother, children, and nephews, turns out to be a terrible husband to Navani. He belittles his wife's scholarly pursuits and considers her a GoldDigger who can only leech fame from others. He doesn't even acknowledge the work she does for him; in the prologue to ''Literature/RhythmOfWar'', he expects her to do all the work running a diplomatic feast and party without bothering to consult with her and mocks her insistence that he show up and do his duty as king as nagging. When he is assassinated at the end of the party, Navani is unable to feel sad and instead regrets that their last conversation was an argument.
* ''Literature/EleanorAndPark'': Eleanor’s stepfather Richie yells at, throws things, and hits her mother Sabrina frequently. Eleanor usually finds herself comforting her siblings regularly when their fights break out when they're not sleeping through the noise.
* ''Literature/ThereThere'': Blue suffers from an abusive partner, whom she eventually leaves.
* ''Literature/BigLittleLies'': In both the book and the miniseries, Perry Wright/White is a WolfInSheepsClothing with wife [[StepfordSmiler Celeste]]. From the outside looking in, they have the perfect marriage, perfect family, and the fact that their sex life is so passionate is the envy of many characters. However, even those who've known them for years are unaware of this, [[spoiler: the only exception being Celeste's therapist who first brought this up to her in private]]. The abuse gets gradually worse and worse, but that passionate sex life everyone is jealous of? [[AwfulTruth Is the result of it.]]
* ''Literature/BrownGirlInTheRing'': Rudy is depicted to have hit his wife, [[spoiler:Gros-Jeanne]].
* ''Literature/TheReluctantKing'': Vanora tells Jorian her lover Boso hits her sometimes, though she says it's partly her fault as she deliberately provokes him. Jorian sympathizes with Boso since she also provoked him (this all just seems pretty... ''[[UsefulNotes/VictimBlaming unfortunate]]'' now).

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* In Elena Ferrante's ''The Story of a New Name'', Elena discovers that Stefano, Lila's new husband, is just as violent and abusive as his deceased loan shark father. She recalls the first time she saw Lila after her wedding, Lila had a massive black eye and her arms were bruised. No one dared to mention it because of Stefano's lineage and because ''every'' husband and father in their poor Naples village was violent and abusive towards their wives ''and'' their children. Elena herself ended up marrying and divorcing an emotionally abusive man.
* Sara's first foster-father in ''Literature/{{Relativity}}''. He never directly abused her or her sister but did beat [[spoiler:and eventually killed]] her foster mother.
* In ''Literature/QueenOfTheTearling'', Andalie's husband abuses her and the children. She walks away from him, taking her children, when she's given the opportunity, but still protects him. She hints that she just suffers from irrational love, but since she [[spoiler: also has some supernatural abilities, it is not clear in the first book whether she knows of some role her husband has yet to play.]] There's also Kelsea's uncle, who insists that he never beat any of his female slaves ... except the one he keeps on a leash like a dog. It is very clear that he is abusive, though perhaps not often physically so.
* ''Literature/{{Ravensong}}'':
** Polly's father beats her mother.
** Jake, the "old snake" beats his wife.
* ''Literature/TheGreatDivorce'' depicts two not-very-good spouses in Hell. Robert's wife is a control freak who forced him into what ''she'' considered success, and Frank Smith emotionally manipulated his wife Sarah using pity. Both of them try their shtick with the Bright Ones, but it doesn't work.
%% Zero Context * In the ''Literature/DreambloodDuology'', Lord Sanfi basically creates a world of horror and pain for the women around him.
%% Zero Context * Occasionally, a subplot in a Creator/DanielleSteel novel. The one time it's the main plot, in the novel ''Journey'', she opts to depict the emotional/verbal variety.
* This is a reoccurring theme in ''Literature/TheColorPurple''. Domestic abuse is seen as the norm in Celie's family. Celie, in jealousy, even encourages her ex-husband to beat up his new girlfriend. ''He'' gets beat up the first time, which results in a cycle of abuse.
* An emotional version of this happens in ''Literature/LeavingPoppy'', as the titular Poppy controls her mother and sister's lives with her tantrums and aggression, throwing fits, and guilt-tripping when she doesn't have her way.
* ''Literature/TheColdMoons'': Eldon's wife Scylla dislikes angering him for fear of being chastised and either bitten by him or cuffed by his heavy paws. Due to DeliberateValuesDissonance, the other badgers don't see this as abusive and the narrative doesn't depict it as negative. Eldon does care for his wife to a degree but the two only ended up together because it was expected from them, not because of actual affection.
* Miranda's relationship with her much-older boyfriend in ''Literature/EighteenDaysToGraduation'' counts. He mocks her and makes her feel completely worthless. Luckily, [[spoiler: she breaks up with him at the end.]]
* ''Literature/TheStormlightArchive'':
** Shallan's father, which gets explored in ''Literature/WordsOfRadiance'', was physically and emotionally abusive to everyone in his household ''but'' Shallan, and left all of his children with varying degrees of psychological trauma, including Shallan's StepfordSmiler tendencies (which she developed to try and make her brothers feel better). It's also commonly believed that he killed his first wife, Shallan's mother, but got away with it when Shallan refused to testify against him. [[spoiler: He didn't, ''Shallan'' did in self-defense, and he let everyone believe he was responsible to protect her. However, the stress of letting his country and children believe he was a murderer is what drove him to take out his anger on his remaining family, eventually killing his second wife for real, and forcing Shallan to [[SelfMadeOrphan kill him as well]]]].
** King Gavilar, loved by his brother, children, and nephews, turns out to be a terrible husband to Navani. He belittles his wife's scholarly pursuits and considers her a GoldDigger who can only leech fame from others. He doesn't even acknowledge the work she does for him; in the prologue to ''Literature/RhythmOfWar'', he expects her to do all the work running a diplomatic feast and party without bothering to consult with her and mocks her insistence that he show up and do his duty as king as nagging. When he is assassinated at the end of the party, Navani is unable to feel sad and instead regrets that their last conversation was an argument.
* ''Literature/EleanorAndPark'': Eleanor’s stepfather Richie yells at, throws things, and hits her mother Sabrina frequently. Eleanor usually finds herself comforting her siblings regularly when their fights break out when they're not sleeping through the noise.
%% Zero Context * ''Literature/ThereThere'': Blue suffers from an abusive partner, whom she eventually leaves.
* ''Literature/BigLittleLies'': In both the book and the miniseries, Perry Wright/White is a WolfInSheepsClothing with wife [[StepfordSmiler Celeste]]. From the outside looking in, they have the perfect marriage, perfect family, and the fact that their sex life is so passionate is the envy of many characters. However, even those who've known them for years are unaware of this, [[spoiler: the only exception being Celeste's therapist who first brought this up to her in private]]. The abuse gets gradually worse and worse, but that passionate sex life everyone is jealous of? [[AwfulTruth Is the result of it.]]
* ''Literature/BrownGirlInTheRing'': Rudy is depicted to have hit his wife, [[spoiler:Gros-Jeanne]].
* ''Literature/TheReluctantKing'': Vanora tells Jorian her lover Boso hits her sometimes, though she says it's partly her fault as she deliberately provokes him. Jorian sympathizes with Boso since she also provoked him (this all just seems pretty... ''[[UsefulNotes/VictimBlaming unfortunate]]'' now).
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* In ''Literature/DaystarAndShadow'', Robin's father hits his mother for disobeying or arguing with him.
* ''Literature/TheCatWhoSeries'': In book #20 (''The Cat Who Sang for the Birds''), [[spoiler: this results in the death of the second victim, who fled to escape it, along with evidence that her boyfriend was up to something else dirty. But when she returned to retrieve her personal belongings, he was waiting there and killed her.]]
* ''Literature/ChocoholicMysteries'':
** Emotionally controlling version in the form of Richard Godfrey, Lee's ex-husband. Among other things, he actively tried to obstruct her efforts to get a degree and was furious when she not only succeeded, she made the dean's list in the process; in ''Cat Caper'', when he finds out she's in some trouble in Warner Pier, he tries to worm his way back into her life via paying her legal bills, but she recognizes this as another attempt to control her and rejects him again. ''Bear Burglary'' reveals that he was actually shocked out of his previous behavior by her blow-up at him, and changes for the better as a result.
** In ''Bear Burglary'', Nettie mentions a former employee of hers who ultimately had to move all the way across the country to get away from an abusive husband.
** ''Snowman Murders'' reveals that Nettie, along with Sarajane Harding and George Jenkins, is involved in a sort of UndergroundRailroad that helps battered women escape from worst-case situations of this.
* ''Literature/TheSilerianTrilogy'': Ronall is a terrible husband to Elelar, beating or raping her multiple times when he's not cheating with other women. Unsurprisingly, she prefers he do that and ignore her most of the time.
* ''Literature/PetaLyresRatingNormal'': Peta's dad used to beat his mom, until a few years ago when the neighbors called the cops. She refused to press charges, but the incident apparently spooked him enough that he never beats his wife anymore, only his kids.
* ''Literature/TheInheritanceGames'': Drake is Libby's on-again-off-again boyfriend who only just stayed on this line of being physically abusive at the start of the story. When he finds out Libby's ward/sister Avery inherited billions he, in this order: acts like an EntitledBastard making plans to spend the fortune, hits Libby when she explains the money is not theirs i.e. his to spend, then goes to the press and implies Avery had an inappropriate relationship with Tobias Hawthorne. [[spoiler:Then there's the matter of him trying to kill Avery (twice) on Skye Hawthorne's orders for money, only to be caught, arrested, and tries to pin the blame on Libby. Luckily plenty of evidence, including his own felony record, easily disproves this.]]
* ''Literature/TheLoveAndLiesOfRukhsanaAli'': Rukhsana finds out that her grandmother suffered frequent beatings and once a burned hand by her mother-in-law or husband.
* ''Literature/ForbiddenSea'': ''Shadow in the Sea'' has former AlphaBitch Cora as an adult married to the bully Marcus Stebbs, now a poor fisherman who beats her. Cora blames Adrianne for her awful life because Adrianne "stole" Cora's previous love from her.
* ''Literature/{{Haze}}'': At night, Guzzle listens to his stepdad Angus beat his mum, who won't leave him because she "loves" him. Sometimes the noise keeps Guzzle up so late that he can't concentrate in school the next day.

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* ''Literature/ACourtOfThornsAndRoses'': Suggested to occur behind closed doors between Beron and Lucien's mom.
* In ''Literature/{{Hurog}}'', the protagonist's father is known to have been violent against his wife, as well as their children. It is hinted that, when she began to take mind-altering herbs, he didn't [[MaritalRapeLicense "come to her bed as often"]], which encouraged her to continue the drug abuse.

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%% Zero Context * Dempsy towards Brina in Zane's "Addicted."
* In ''Literature/TheAnderssons'' by Solveig Olsson-Hultgren, Mandi ends up in an abusive marriage with Rutger Stjärnstedt, which she can only escape by signing herself into a mental asylum [[spoiler: (and later on, she decides to commit suicide)]]. And when her daughter Louise gets a Jewish boyfriend, she too is abused by Rutger.
* Occurs several times in the ''Literature/BekaCooper'' trilogy of the Literature/TortallUniverse. Child Beka got her first taste of policing when she tracked down her mother's latest boyfriend, who beat and then robbed her. During her time as a trainee guardswoman[[note]]i.e. a cop[[/note]] she witnesses Yates Noll beating his sister Gemma. Beka also arrests a woman who was threatening her husband [[AbusiveParents and kids]] with a knife; in court, multiple witnesses testify that she beat them regularly. It's treated very seriously, an aversion of DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale.
* ''Literature/ACourtOfThornsAndRoses'': Suggested This is suggested to occur behind closed doors between Beron and Lucien's mom.
* In ''Literature/{{Hurog}}'', the protagonist's father ''Literature/ACryInTheNight'', Erich's behavior towards Jenny after they're married is known to have been violent against his wife, as well as their children. It is hinted that, when she began to take mind-altering herbs, he didn't [[MaritalRapeLicense "come textbook emotional/psychological abuse. He's not blatantly cruel to her bed as often"]], which encouraged but he's incredibly manipulative and controlling, and uses passive aggressive tactics to undermine her confidence or make her doubt herself. [[spoiler:It escalates to continue physical violence in the drug abuse.climax, with Erich [[IfICantHaveYou attempting to murder Jenny]] after his deceptions are [[VillainousBreakdown unravelled]]]].



* Sybil Jester's husband in Fiona Buckley's ''Literature/QueenOfAmbition''. Thanks to DeliberateValuesDissonance (it is the late sixteenth century, after all), Sybil (who ran away and got work as a companion) is sacked when her employer finds out that she ran away from her husband.
* ''Literature/TheGreatGatsby'': Tom is possessive and verbally abusive towards his wife Daisy, and he's verbally and physically abusive towards his mistress Mrs. Wilson.
* Ken Follett's ''Literature/ThePillarsOfTheEarth'': Alfred beats Aliena, crossing the MoralEventHorizon in the process.



* Creator/AnneMcCaffrey's ''Literature/DragonridersOfPern'': In the first novel, ''Dragonflight'', F'lar and Lessa are effectively in an ArrangedMarriage once their [[OurDragonsAreDifferent dragons]] pair off; their first sexual encounter, triggered by the [[OurDragonsAreDifferent dragons]], was rougher than it should have been as a result. (F'lar, not being stupid, realized that this had driven a wedge between them but couldn't fix it.) He shakes her very hard sometimes when she frightens him.
** This shaking is not when she is deliberately scaring him, but typically is when he is frightened for her.
* John D. [=MacDonald=]'s Literature/TravisMcGee encountered this more than once.
** ''Bright Orange for the Shroud'': Arthur Wilkinson's wife married him as part of an elaborate scam to defraud him of all his money; she helped her partners in the scam by verbal abuse combined with the LysistrataGambit in order to push him into the investments they wanted him to make.
** ''Darker Than Amber'': Immediately prior to the opening of the story, [=McGee=] had been helping a woman get back on her feet after escaping from an emotionally (though not physically) abusive marriage.
** ''The Girl in the Plain Brown Wrapper'': That the local doctor suffered terrible verbal abuse for many years in his marriage, and was being {{blackmail}}ed because he had murdered her.
* ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'':
** The marriage of King Robert Baratheon and Cersei Lannister is a particularly hellish and complicated case. Robert overthrew the previous dynasty when its crown prince, Rhaegar, kidnapped (or perhaps secretly eloped with) his beloved fiancée Lyanna. Meanwhile, Cersei had her heart set on Rhaegar. Robert killed Rhaegar in battle and won the crown, but Lyanna died during the war. To ensure the loyalty of her powerful noble family, Robert married Cersei. As you might expect, the marriage of two strangers, one of whom is mourning his true love while the other is resentful of both the fact that her new husband killed her crush and that she had no say in the marriage doesn't go well. When the books start about 15 years into their marriage, they're both regularly cheating on the other, Cersei is a sociopath who verbally abuses Robert at every turn and threatens the lives of his bastard children, and BoisterousBruiser Robert doesn't know any way to respond to Cersei except by either drinking himself unconscious or hitting her. (Robert fully and regretfully admits afterward that being physically abusive isn't right, but he honestly has no clue on other ways to deal with Cersei.) He also used to extort to his MaritalRapeLicense once in a while in the early days of their marriage when he was drunk and pretended that 'it was all wine and he doesn't remember it anyway' in the mornings after. (Cersei recalls, however, Robert acting somewhat smug the morning after and suspects he was satisfied he'd ensured his dominance over her and was aware of what he was doing.) The happy marriage ends with Robert dying in a HuntingAccident that Cersei and a co-conspirator helped along by [[AlcoholInducedStupidity getting Robert enormously drunk]] right before he tried [[FullBoarAction facing off with a wild boar]].
** And that is ''nothing'' compared to the abuse of his predecessor King Aerys, who would not only verbally abuse his wife on a regular basis but would [[MaritalRapeLicense violently rape]] her whenever he was done burning people alive.
** There's also Ramsay Bolton and Gregor Clegane, both of whom are widowers. Guess who killed their wives. Go on, ''guess.''
** Ramsay's father, Roose Bolton, could be one. He has been married twice already, and both women have died. Given the reputation of House Bolton's cruelty and Roose Bolton being nowhere as open about it as Ramsay is, it is possible and might not even have been completely physical. However, bizarrely, he is fond of his third wife, Fat Walda Frey. Apparently, he enjoys how she shudders and moans...
** Joffrey Baratheon had all the hallmarks of becoming one. His treatment of Sansa Stark, a girl he was betrothed to, starts getting bad when he kills her father right in front of her and forces her to look at his mounted head. He has his Kingsguard beat her whenever her brother scores a victory against his grandfather's forces in a war he started, going so far as to have her stripped naked and beaten before the entire court at one point. Fear of this trope coming to pass is what drove [[spoiler:Olenna Tyrell to help kill Joffrey on the day he marries her granddaughter Margaery. Olenna also feared that Margaery's brother Loras, who is known for being close with/protective of Margaery and had recently become part of Joffrey's [[PraetorianGuard Kingsguard]], was almost guaranteed to try to kill Joffrey if Joffrey mistreated Margaery, and would do so openly, which would lead to disastrous consequences for both the realm and House Tyrell. As a result, she decided to preempt Loras by doing the deed first, and in a much more subtle manner.]]

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* Creator/AnneMcCaffrey's ''Literature/DragonridersOfPern'': In the first novel, ''Dragonflight'', F'lar and Lessa are effectively in an ArrangedMarriage once their [[OurDragonsAreDifferent dragons]] pair off; their first sexual encounter, triggered by the [[OurDragonsAreDifferent dragons]], was rougher than it should have been as a result. (F'lar, not being stupid, realized that this had driven a wedge between them but couldn't fix it.) He shakes her very hard sometimes when she frightens him.
**
him. This shaking is not when she is deliberately scaring him, but typically is when he is frightened for her.
* John D. [=MacDonald=]'s Literature/TravisMcGee encountered this more than once.
''Literature/TheDresdenFiles'':
** ''Bright Orange for the Shroud'': Arthur Wilkinson's wife married him as part of an elaborate scam ''Literature/StormFront'': Harry's client turns out to defraud him of all his money; she helped her partners in the scam by verbal abuse combined with the LysistrataGambit in order to push him into the investments they wanted him to make.
** ''Darker Than Amber'': Immediately prior to the opening of the story, [=McGee=] had been helping
be a woman get back on her feet after escaping from an emotionally (though not physically) abusive marriage.
** ''The Girl in the Plain Brown Wrapper'': That the local doctor suffered terrible verbal abuse for many years in his marriage, and was being {{blackmail}}ed because he had murdered her.
* ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'':
** The marriage of King Robert Baratheon and Cersei Lannister is a particularly hellish and complicated case. Robert overthrew the previous dynasty when its crown prince, Rhaegar, kidnapped (or perhaps secretly eloped with) his beloved fiancée Lyanna. Meanwhile, Cersei had her heart set on Rhaegar. Robert killed Rhaegar in battle and won the crown, but Lyanna died during the war. To ensure the loyalty of her powerful noble family, Robert married Cersei. As you might expect, the marriage of two strangers, one of whom is mourning his true love while the other is resentful of both the fact that her new
victim. [[spoiler:Her husband killed is a warlock with a drive to get more and more power. The client sought Harry when she caught her crush and that she had no say in the marriage doesn't go well. When the books start about 15 years into husband looking at their marriage, they're both regularly cheating on the other, Cersei children not with love, but as tools and ingredients to his next projects]].
** Harry
is a sociopath who victim of this too. He is abused by his guardian Justin Dumorne by him trying to enthrall Harry (magically strip him of his free will).
* ''Literature/TheGreatGatsby'': Tom is possessive and
verbally abuses Robert at every turn abusive towards his wife Daisy, and threatens the lives of his bastard children, he's verbally and BoisterousBruiser Robert doesn't know any way to respond to Cersei except by either drinking himself unconscious or hitting her. (Robert fully and regretfully admits afterward that being physically abusive isn't right, but he honestly has no clue on other ways to deal with Cersei.) He also used to extort to towards his MaritalRapeLicense once mistress Mrs. Wilson.
* It's heavily implied
in a while in the early days of their marriage when he was drunk and pretended ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheOrderOfThePhoenix'' that 'it Snape's father was all wine and he doesn't remember it anyway' in at the mornings after. (Cersei recalls, however, Robert acting somewhat smug the morning after and suspects he was satisfied he'd ensured his dominance over her and was aware of what he was doing.) The happy marriage ends with Robert dying in a HuntingAccident that Cersei and a co-conspirator helped along by [[AlcoholInducedStupidity getting Robert enormously drunk]] right before he tried [[FullBoarAction facing off with a wild boar]].
** And that is ''nothing'' compared to the abuse of his predecessor King Aerys, who would not only
very least verbally abuse abusive and likely physically abusive as well to Snape's mother, and that this was a large contributing factor in his wife on a regular basis but would anti-Muggle attitudes in his younger years.
* In ''Literature/{{Hurog}}'', the protagonist's father is known to have been violent against his wife, as well as their children. It is hinted that, when she began to take mind-altering herbs, he didn't
[[MaritalRapeLicense violently rape]] "come to her whenever he was done burning people alive.
** There's also Ramsay Bolton and Gregor Clegane, both of whom are widowers. Guess who killed their wives. Go on, ''guess.''
** Ramsay's father, Roose Bolton, could be one. He has been married twice already, and both women have died. Given the reputation of House Bolton's cruelty and Roose Bolton being nowhere
bed as open about it as Ramsay is, it is possible and might not even have been completely physical. However, bizarrely, he is fond of his third wife, Fat Walda Frey. Apparently, he enjoys how she shudders and moans...
** Joffrey Baratheon had all the hallmarks of becoming one. His treatment of Sansa Stark, a girl he was betrothed to, starts getting bad when he kills her father right in front of her and forces
often"]], which encouraged her to look at his mounted head. He has his Kingsguard beat her whenever her brother scores a victory against his grandfather's forces in a war he started, going so far as to have her stripped naked and beaten before continue the entire court at one point. Fear of this trope coming to pass is what drove [[spoiler:Olenna Tyrell to help kill Joffrey on the day he marries her granddaughter Margaery. Olenna also feared that Margaery's brother Loras, who is known for being close with/protective of Margaery and had recently become part of Joffrey's [[PraetorianGuard Kingsguard]], was almost guaranteed to try to kill Joffrey if Joffrey mistreated Margaery, and would do so openly, which would lead to disastrous consequences for both the realm and House Tyrell. As a result, she decided to preempt Loras by doing the deed first, and in a much more subtle manner.]]drug abuse.



* Dempsy towards Brina in Zane's "Addicted."
* A short story dealt with a man who was a painter and was married to a woman who constantly verbally abused him, constantly belittling and insulting him. [[spoiler: It ends with it being revealed that he has the power to trap anything he paints into the painting -- and he has begun to paint his wife's picture.]]
* It's heavily implied in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheOrderOfThePhoenix'' that Snape's father was at the very least verbally abusive and likely physically abusive as well to Snape's mother, and that this was a large contributing factor in his anti-Muggle attitudes in his younger years.
* In Ben Aaronovitch's ''Literature/RiversOfLondon'' (known as ''Midnight Riot'' in the US, getting a warrant for a ghost who murdered his wife and child is complicated by the ghostly magistrate asking whether the woman was a shrew because no man hits his wife without reason. The quick-thinking narrator tells him that she was a terrible shrew but the baby was innocent, which gets the warrant.
* In the Creator/OHenry story ''A Harlem Tragedy'', Mrs. Cassidy makes light of her husband's sporadic abuse because she knows he'll spend the rest of the week trying to make up for it. In a case of ValuesDissonance, this actually makes her friend jealous. In RealLife, using the other partner's physical violence as a means of manipulation is unfortunately not unknown. One woman observed later that her part in her abusive marriage was a sick power game.

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* Dempsy towards Brina in Zane's "Addicted."
* A short story dealt with a man who was a painter and was married to a woman who constantly verbally abused him, constantly belittling and insulting him. [[spoiler: It ends with it being revealed that he has
Ken Follett's ''Literature/ThePillarsOfTheEarth'': Alfred beats Aliena, crossing the power to trap anything he paints into the painting -- and he has begun to paint his wife's picture.]]
* It's heavily implied in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheOrderOfThePhoenix'' that Snape's father was at the very least verbally abusive and likely physically abusive as well to Snape's mother, and that this was a large contributing factor in his anti-Muggle attitudes in his younger years.
* In Ben Aaronovitch's ''Literature/RiversOfLondon'' (known as ''Midnight Riot''
MoralEventHorizon in the US, getting a warrant for a ghost who murdered his wife process.
* Sybil Jester's husband in Fiona Buckley's ''Literature/QueenOfAmbition''. Thanks to DeliberateValuesDissonance (it is the late sixteenth century, after all), Sybil (who ran away
and child got work as a companion) is complicated by the ghostly magistrate asking whether the woman was a shrew because no man hits his wife without reason. The quick-thinking narrator tells him sacked when her employer finds out that she was a terrible shrew but the baby was innocent, which gets the warrant.
* In the Creator/OHenry story ''A Harlem Tragedy'', Mrs. Cassidy makes light of
ran away from her husband's sporadic abuse because she knows he'll spend the rest of the week trying to make up for it. In a case of ValuesDissonance, this actually makes her friend jealous. In RealLife, using the other partner's physical violence as a means of manipulation is unfortunately not unknown. One woman observed later that her part in her abusive marriage was a sick power game.husband.



* In Creator/LoisMcMasterBujold's ''Literature/{{Komarr}}'', the best Ekaterin can say about her husband is "he never beat me". His behavior--including belittling her constantly, turning anything she says that can possibly be interpreted as criticism into an attack on her by calling her "selfish", and wall-punching tantrums--is severe emotional abuse.
* The film version of ''Film/RevengeOfTheSith'' has Anakin, at the end, choking his wife, though he'd been solicitous to her before. In the {{Novelization}} by Creator/MattStover, it has buildup. Throughout the novel, they're happy to see each other and in love... but when they first meet and Padme tries to tell him she's pregnant, he instantly assumes she has a lover and grabs her hard enough to hurt her. Over the course of the novel, she repeatedly tells him he's scaring her, and this starts mattering to him less and less. He even once looks down at her and thinks that he ''likes'' it when she's afraid. Any time she talks about the war or the Senate, he turns on her -- doesn't she understand that she should only talk about ''them'' and the baby? -- and he starts to resent her job and all that time she spends at it away from him, maybe traitorous time. For her part, Padme is largely in denial over this side of him but realizes at one point that there is one Jedi she ''does'' trust... and it's not him. The realization horrifies her, at least in part because if Anakin knew, he wouldn't be happy with her.
* Beatrice from ''Literature/PurpleHibiscus'' loses at least two children because her husband beats her. [[spoiler: Eventually, she's driven to murder.]]
* ''Literature/{{Twilight}}'':
** 99.9% of Edward and Jacob's actions (especially Edward's) are blatantly fit the criteria for domestic abuse. Try sitting with the list of "red flags" while reading the books. It's frightening. And it's played as ''romantic.'' UnfortunateImplications abound.
** Bella gets her own turn in ''Eclipse'' and the first part of ''Breaking Dawn'' when she repeatedly tries to force Edward to have sex with her, even though he states repeatedly that he doesn't want to. At one point, she actually tries to rip off his shirt, [[DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale which would be seen as horrifying if a man did it to a woman]] but is PlayedForLaughs in that scene.
* Similarly to ''Twilight'', Patch's interactions with Nora in ''Hush, Hush'' are almost directly lifted from the Abuser's Handbook. He stalks her, he mocks her, he enjoys making her uncomfortable, he humiliates her in front of her Biology class, he repeatedly forces her to engage in activities she's not comfortable doing (riding a wild roller coaster, accepting a lift on his motorcycle, etc), corners her in dark, abandoned places, tells her things like "A guy like me could take advantage of a girl like you", [[spoiler:lures her into a motel room, ''pins her on a bed and kisses her while she screams in protest'']], etc. We later find out that [[spoiler:he had every intention of murdering her at several points in the story.]] None of this is portrayed as less than romantic.

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* In Creator/LoisMcMasterBujold's ''Literature/{{Komarr}}'', the best Ekaterin can say about her husband is "he never beat me". His behavior--including belittling her constantly, turning anything she says that can possibly be interpreted as criticism into an attack on her by calling her "selfish", and wall-punching tantrums--is severe emotional abuse.
* The film version of ''Film/RevengeOfTheSith'' has Anakin, at the end, choking his wife, though he'd been solicitous and prior to her before. In the that there were hints of emotional abuse due to his possessiveness and deception of her. The {{Novelization}} by Creator/MattStover, it has buildup.Creator/MattStover gives the abuse more build-up. Throughout the novel, they're happy to see each other and in love... but when they first meet and Padme tries to tell him she's pregnant, he instantly assumes she has a lover and grabs her hard enough to hurt her. Over the course of the novel, she repeatedly tells him he's scaring her, and this starts mattering to him less and less. He even once looks down at her and thinks that he ''likes'' it when she's afraid. Any time she talks about the war or the Senate, he turns on her -- doesn't she understand that she should only talk about ''them'' and the baby? -- and he starts to resent her job and all that time she spends at it away from him, maybe traitorous time. For her part, Padme is largely in denial over this side of him but realizes at one point that there is one Jedi she ''does'' trust... and it's not him. The realization horrifies her, at least in part because if Anakin knew, he wouldn't be happy with her.
* Beatrice from ''Literature/PurpleHibiscus'' loses at least two children In Ben Aaronovitch's ''Literature/RiversOfLondon'' (known as ''Midnight Riot'' in the US, getting a warrant for a ghost who murdered his wife and child is complicated by the ghostly magistrate asking whether the woman was a shrew because no man hits his wife without reason. The quick-thinking narrator tells him that she was a terrible shrew but the baby was innocent, which gets the warrant.
* ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'':
** The marriage of King Robert Baratheon and Cersei Lannister is a particularly hellish and complicated case. Robert overthrew the previous dynasty when its crown prince, Rhaegar, kidnapped (or perhaps secretly eloped with) his beloved fiancée Lyanna. Meanwhile, Cersei had
her heart set on Rhaegar. Robert killed Rhaegar in battle and won the crown, but Lyanna died during the war. To ensure the loyalty of her powerful noble family, Robert married Cersei. As you might expect, the marriage of two strangers, one of whom is mourning his true love while the other is resentful of both the fact that her new husband beats killed her crush and that she had no say in the marriage doesn't go well. When the books start about 15 years into their marriage, they're both regularly cheating on the other, Cersei is a sociopath who verbally abuses Robert at every turn and threatens the lives of his bastard children, and BoisterousBruiser Robert doesn't know any way to respond to Cersei except by either drinking himself unconscious or hitting her. [[spoiler: Eventually, she's driven to murder.]]
* ''Literature/{{Twilight}}'':
** 99.9% of Edward
(Robert fully and Jacob's actions (especially Edward's) are blatantly fit the criteria for domestic abuse. Try sitting regretfully admits afterward that being physically abusive isn't right, but he honestly has no clue on other ways to deal with the list of "red flags" Cersei.) He also used to extort to his MaritalRapeLicense once in a while reading in the books. It's frightening. And it's played as ''romantic.'' UnfortunateImplications abound.
** Bella gets her own turn in ''Eclipse'' and the first part
early days of ''Breaking Dawn'' their marriage when she repeatedly tries to force Edward to have sex with her, even though he states repeatedly was drunk and pretended that 'it was all wine and he doesn't want to. At one point, she actually tries to rip remember it anyway' in the mornings after. (Cersei recalls, however, Robert acting somewhat smug the morning after and suspects he was satisfied he'd ensured his dominance over her and was aware of what he was doing.) The happy marriage ends with Robert dying in a HuntingAccident that Cersei and a co-conspirator helped along by [[AlcoholInducedStupidity getting Robert enormously drunk]] right before he tried [[FullBoarAction facing off with a wild boar]].
** And that is ''nothing'' compared to the abuse of
his shirt, [[DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale which predecessor King Aerys, who would be seen as horrifying if not only verbally abuse his wife on a man did it to a woman]] regular basis but is PlayedForLaughs in that scene.
* Similarly to ''Twilight'', Patch's interactions with Nora in ''Hush, Hush''
would [[MaritalRapeLicense violently rape]] her whenever he was done burning people alive.
** There's also Ramsay Bolton and Gregor Clegane, both of whom
are almost directly lifted from widowers. Guess who killed their wives. Go on, ''guess.''
** Ramsay's father, Roose Bolton, could be one. He has been married twice already, and both women have died. Given
the Abuser's Handbook. He stalks her, reputation of House Bolton's cruelty and Roose Bolton being nowhere as open about it as Ramsay is, it is possible and might not even have been completely physical. However, bizarrely, he mocks her, is fond of his third wife, Fat Walda Frey. Apparently, he enjoys making how she shudders and moans...
** Joffrey Baratheon had all the hallmarks of becoming one. His treatment of Sansa Stark, a girl he was betrothed to, starts getting bad when he kills
her uncomfortable, he humiliates her father right in front of her Biology class, he repeatedly and forces her to engage in activities she's not comfortable doing (riding a wild roller coaster, accepting a lift on look at his motorcycle, etc), corners mounted head. He has his Kingsguard beat her in dark, abandoned places, tells whenever her things like "A guy like me could take advantage of brother scores a girl like you", [[spoiler:lures victory against his grandfather's forces in a war he started, going so far as to have her into a motel room, ''pins her on a bed stripped naked and kisses her while she screams in protest'']], etc. We later find out that [[spoiler:he had every intention of murdering her at several points in beaten before the story.]] None entire court at one point. Fear of this trope coming to pass is portrayed as less than romantic.what drove [[spoiler:Olenna Tyrell to help kill Joffrey on the day he marries her granddaughter Margaery. Olenna also feared that Margaery's brother Loras, who is known for being close with/protective of Margaery and had recently become part of Joffrey's [[PraetorianGuard Kingsguard]], was almost guaranteed to try to kill Joffrey if Joffrey mistreated Margaery, and would do so openly, which would lead to disastrous consequences for both the realm and House Tyrell. As a result, she decided to preempt Loras by doing the deed first, and in a much more subtle manner.]]



* John D. [=MacDonald=]'s Literature/TravisMcGee encountered this more than once.
** ''Bright Orange for the Shroud'': Arthur Wilkinson's wife married him as part of an elaborate scam to defraud him of all his money; she helped her partners in the scam by verbal abuse combined with the LysistrataGambit in order to push him into the investments they wanted him to make.
** ''Darker Than Amber'': Immediately prior to the opening of the story, [=McGee=] had been helping a woman get back on her feet after escaping from an emotionally (though not physically) abusive marriage.
** ''The Girl in the Plain Brown Wrapper'': That the local doctor suffered terrible verbal abuse for many years in his marriage, and was being {{blackmail}}ed because he had murdered her.
* A short story dealt with a man who was a painter and was married to a woman who constantly verbally abused him, constantly belittling and insulting him. [[spoiler: It ends with it being revealed that he has the power to trap anything he paints into the painting -- and he has begun to paint his wife's picture.]]
* In the Creator/OHenry story ''A Harlem Tragedy'', Mrs. Cassidy makes light of her husband's sporadic abuse because she knows he'll spend the rest of the week trying to make up for it. In a case of ValuesDissonance, this actually makes her friend jealous. In RealLife, using the other partner's physical violence as a means of manipulation is unfortunately not unknown. One woman observed later that her part in her abusive marriage was a sick power game.
* In Creator/LoisMcMasterBujold's ''Literature/{{Komarr}}'', the best Ekaterin can say about her husband is "he never beat me". His behavior--including belittling her constantly, turning anything she says that can possibly be interpreted as criticism into an attack on her by calling her "selfish", and wall-punching tantrums--is severe emotional abuse.
* Beatrice from ''Literature/PurpleHibiscus'' loses at least two children because her husband beats her. [[spoiler: Eventually, she's driven to murder.]]
* ''Literature/TheTwilightSaga'':
** 99.9% of Edward and Jacob's actions (especially Edward's) are blatantly fit the criteria for domestic abuse. Try sitting with the list of "red flags" while reading the books. It's frightening. And it's played as ''romantic.'' UnfortunateImplications abound.
** Bella gets her own turn in ''Eclipse'' and the first part of ''Breaking Dawn'' when she repeatedly tries to force Edward to have sex with her, even though he states repeatedly that he doesn't want to. At one point, she actually tries to rip off his shirt, [[DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale which would be seen as horrifying if a man did it to a woman]] but is PlayedForLaughs in that scene.
* Patch's interactions with Nora in ''Literature/HushHush'' are almost directly lifted from the Abuser's Handbook. He stalks her, he mocks her, he enjoys making her uncomfortable, he humiliates her in front of her Biology class, he repeatedly forces her to engage in activities she's not comfortable doing (riding a wild roller coaster, accepting a lift on his motorcycle, etc), corners her in dark, abandoned places, tells her things like "A guy like me could take advantage of a girl like you", [[spoiler:lures her into a motel room, ''pins her on a bed and kisses her while she screams in protest'']], etc. We later find out that [[spoiler:he had every intention of murdering her at several points in the story.]] None of this is portrayed as less than romantic.



* ''Literature/TheDresdenFiles'':
** ''Literature/StormFront'': Harry's client turns out to be a victim. [[spoiler:Her husband is a warlock with a drive to get more and more power. The client sought Harry when she caught her husband looking at their children not with love, but as tools and ingredients to his next projects]].
** Harry is a victim of this too. He is abused by his guardian Justin Dumorne by him trying to enthrall Harry (magically strip him of his free will).



* Creator/MarianKeyes' novel ''This Charming Man'' centers around four women who have had their lives changed because of their relationship to the abusive politician Paddy de Courcy, the titular "charming man".
* ''Literature/FaultLine'' revolves around this and they focus on all the disturbing details.
* ''Literature/TheTenantOfWildfellHall'' is a thorough examination of it, to the horror and fascination of the Victorian reading public.
* Occurs several times in the ''Literature/BekaCooper'' trilogy of the Literature/TortallUniverse. Child Beka got her first taste of policing when she tracked down her mother's latest boyfriend, who beat and then robbed her. During her time as a trainee guardswoman[[note]]i.e. a cop[[/note]] she witnesses Yates Noll beating his sister Gemma. Beka also arrests a woman who was threatening her husband [[AbusiveParents and kids]] with a knife; in court, multiple witnesses testify that she beat them regularly. It's treated very seriously, an aversion of DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale.
* Every one of the DysfunctionalFamily groups in the novels of Creator/VCAndrews. In particular, the Dollanganger family from Literature/FlowersInTheAttic and Literature/PetalsOnTheWind.
* The Literature/JackReacher novel ''Echo Burning''.

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%% Zero Context * ''Literature/TheTenantOfWildfellHall'' is a thorough examination of it, to the horror and fascination of the Victorian reading public.
* Occurs several times in the ''Literature/BekaCooper'' trilogy of the Literature/TortallUniverse. Child Beka got her first taste of policing when she tracked down her mother's latest boyfriend, who beat and then robbed her. During her time as a trainee guardswoman[[note]]i.e. a cop[[/note]] she witnesses Yates Noll beating his sister Gemma. Beka also arrests a woman who was threatening her husband [[AbusiveParents and kids]] with a knife; in court, multiple witnesses testify that she beat them regularly. It's treated very seriously, an aversion of DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale.
%% Zero Context * Every one of the DysfunctionalFamily groups in the novels of Creator/VCAndrews. In particular, the Dollanganger family from Literature/FlowersInTheAttic and Literature/PetalsOnTheWind.
%% Zero Context * The Literature/JackReacher novel ''Echo Burning''.



* In ''Literature/TheAnderssons'' by Solveig Olsson-Hultgren, Mandi ends up in an abusive marriage with Rutger Stjärnstedt, which she can only escape by signing herself into a mental asylum [[spoiler: (and later on, she decides to commit suicide)]]. And when her daughter Louise gets a Jewish boyfriend, she too is abused by Rutger.



* In ''Literature/ACryInTheNight'', Erich's behavior towards Jenny after they're married is textbook emotional/psychological abuse. He's not blatantly cruel to her but he's incredibly manipulative and controlling, and uses passive aggressive tactics to undermine her confidence or make her doubt herself.


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* In ''Literature/DragonBones'', ''Literature/{{Hurog}}'', the protagonist's father is known to have been violent against his wife, as well as their children. It is hinted that, when she began to take mind-altering herbs, he didn't [[MaritalRapeLicense "come to her bed as often"]], which encouraged her to continue the drug abuse.
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** Joffrey Baratheon had all the hallmarks of becoming one. His treatment of Sansa Stark, a girl he was betrothed to, [[spoiler: starts getting bad when he kills her father right in front of her and forces her to look at his mounted head. He has his Kingsguard beat her whenever her brother scores a victory against his grandfather's forces in a war he started, going so far as to have her stripped naked and beaten before the entire court at one point. Fear of this is what drove Olenna Tyrell to help kill him on the day he marries Margery Tyrell, her granddaughter. Her brother being a Kingsguard also helped convince Olenna.]]

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** Joffrey Baratheon had all the hallmarks of becoming one. His treatment of Sansa Stark, a girl he was betrothed to, [[spoiler: starts getting bad when he kills her father right in front of her and forces her to look at his mounted head. He has his Kingsguard beat her whenever her brother scores a victory against his grandfather's forces in a war he started, going so far as to have her stripped naked and beaten before the entire court at one point. Fear of this trope coming to pass is what drove Olenna [[spoiler:Olenna Tyrell to help kill him Joffrey on the day he marries Margery Tyrell, her granddaughter. Her granddaughter Margaery. Olenna also feared that Margaery's brother Loras, who is known for being close with/protective of Margaery and had recently become part of Joffrey's [[PraetorianGuard Kingsguard]], was almost guaranteed to try to kill Joffrey if Joffrey mistreated Margaery, and would do so openly, which would lead to disastrous consequences for both the realm and House Tyrell. As a Kingsguard also helped convince Olenna.result, she decided to preempt Loras by doing the deed first, and in a much more subtle manner.]]
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* It's heavily implied in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheOrderOfThePhoenix'' that Snape's father was at the very least verbally abusive and likely physically abusive as well to Snape's mother, and that this was a large contributing factor in his anti-Muggle attitudes.

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* It's heavily implied in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheOrderOfThePhoenix'' that Snape's father was at the very least verbally abusive and likely physically abusive as well to Snape's mother, and that this was a large contributing factor in his anti-Muggle attitudes.attitudes in his younger years.

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