This issue is exactly my... hm, problem would be a too strong word... my issue? with transsexuality. I recognize of course everybody can cloth, style, behave etc. themselves like they want, and as a matter of basic politeness I'll adress everybody with the term they want.
However, I'm very much in favour not only of equality between the sexes/genders, but in fact in favour of social gender blindness. Male or female shouldn't matter at all in anything besides one's sexual preferences. I hate
, I absolutely, utterly loathe
it when people go "true men do" or "rediscovering femininity" or whatever crooked shit.
I am male no matter what I do. I reject notions of what "true men" should do. I'm male because I'm XY and because I have a penis.
However, then the obvious question is: If gender is not about that
, and not about such stereotypes, either, about what is