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J99908 The Lady of House Solari from The High Noon Universe (The New Guy) Relationship Status: Healthy, deeply-felt respect for this here Shotgun
The Lady of House Solari
#3251: Mar 12th 2024 at 6:25:21 AM

Survival? That’s not right, that’s just plain wrong. I’ve never had to act “normal”, and just no autistic person should. It’s stupid and sounds like something from a dystopian work.

I belong to neither Heaven nor Hell. I am a woman self-possessed.
BonsaiForest a collection of small trees from the woods (4 Score & 7 Years Ago) Relationship Status: Tongue-tied
a collection of small trees
#3252: Mar 12th 2024 at 6:28:36 AM

It depends very much on the area. One autistic woman said that in her working class town, she's had her house egged, and people don't seem to like her. She tries to force herself to greet people in a friendly way to be more liked, and that's just one small part of masking.

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CosmosAndChaos SEGA!Rockruff from Brazil Since: Feb, 2011 Relationship Status: Above such petty unnecessities
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#3253: Mar 12th 2024 at 7:27:59 AM

As an autistic person, my definition of "normal" is:

  • Good person = Normal
  • Bad person = Not normal

That's it.

Intended to embody the Beware of Vicious Dog trope plus Super-Speed. Yup.
BonsaiForest a collection of small trees from the woods (4 Score & 7 Years Ago) Relationship Status: Tongue-tied
a collection of small trees
#3254: Mar 12th 2024 at 7:36:17 AM

I wish the rest of the world saw it that way. Instead, most people think in terms of "acts like the majority" = "normal" and they have a problem with anything outside that.

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MagmaTeaMerry My Head Is On Fire from A forest somewhere Since: Sep, 2020
My Head Is On Fire
#3255: Mar 12th 2024 at 8:29:52 AM

There’s also the fact that mentioning that you’re autistic on a job interview might result in you not being hired, regardless of what your resume looks like or how you’ve otherwise behaved during the interview. Some autistic people have also been fired from their jobs just because somebody has discovered that they’re autistic, even if they’ve not done anything wrong otherwise. I recall reading an article like that not too long ago.

Ableist workplace discrimination is very much a thing, much like other kinds of ableism.

People shouldn’t have to ”mask”, but in the society we live in, the deck is still heavily stacked against people who aren’t considered ”normal”.

Edited by MagmaTeaMerry on Mar 12th 2024 at 4:32:36 PM

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J99908 The Lady of House Solari from The High Noon Universe (The New Guy) Relationship Status: Healthy, deeply-felt respect for this here Shotgun
The Lady of House Solari
#3256: Mar 12th 2024 at 10:46:27 AM

That’s sad. I’m gonna be straight with you, I’m still young, and I was always kinda sheltered to the real world, so hearing this kinda bull still goes down makes me feel bad. It’s dumb.

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#3257: Mar 12th 2024 at 11:09:02 AM

[up]x4 unfortunately, bad people are very normal

To pity someone is to tell them "I feel bad about being better than you."
wooden-ladybug93 Half-Kitsune from San Fransokyo (Green Sprout) Relationship Status: Dating Catwoman
Half-Kitsune
#3258: Mar 12th 2024 at 11:29:00 AM

IDK if I'm either aromantic or if it's my autism that's keeping me from having any desire for romance.

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CosmosAndChaos SEGA!Rockruff from Brazil Since: Feb, 2011 Relationship Status: Above such petty unnecessities
SEGA!Rockruff
#3259: Apr 2nd 2024 at 8:08:39 AM

Reminder that April 2nd is Autism Awareness Day!

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BonsaiForest a collection of small trees from the woods (4 Score & 7 Years Ago) Relationship Status: Tongue-tied
a collection of small trees
#3260: Apr 2nd 2024 at 8:51:15 AM

The day that allistics try to hijack the narrative and speak over us. Yup.

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Angry babby
#3261: Apr 2nd 2024 at 8:46:46 PM

Autism Acceptance Day has much better vibes.

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CosmosAndChaos SEGA!Rockruff from Brazil Since: Feb, 2011 Relationship Status: Above such petty unnecessities
SEGA!Rockruff
#3262: Apr 3rd 2024 at 5:56:29 AM

[up]Yeah, I know. Someone else told me the same thing through PM.

Intended to embody the Beware of Vicious Dog trope plus Super-Speed. Yup.
J99908 The Lady of House Solari from The High Noon Universe (The New Guy) Relationship Status: Healthy, deeply-felt respect for this here Shotgun
The Lady of House Solari
#3263: Apr 3rd 2024 at 4:14:28 PM

I don’t see the difference. Did that sound rude?

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BonsaiForest a collection of small trees from the woods (4 Score & 7 Years Ago) Relationship Status: Tongue-tied
a collection of small trees
#3264: Apr 14th 2024 at 4:46:46 PM

So the new PM of Ireland has an autistic brother, and co-founded an autism organization with him. The organization has both autistic and allistic board members and team members, and I'm impressed to see that.

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