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theoneguy theoneguy Since: Sep, 2010
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#1: Mar 14th 2011 at 4:19:29 PM

Maybe It Just Bugs Me!, but I just don't like how it seems something as random as gender determines so much of what's 'right' social behavior, and of course the ever-present Double Standards. Of course, its hard to tell how much of this is stereotypes, because practically from birth we're given roles based on our gender, and they're reinforced until almost second nature.

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#2: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:09:32 PM

Society loses out when gender roles are enforced, because forcing an individual into/out of a role they aren't skilled in/passionate about because of their gender causes society to lose a lot of talent.

That, and it's not just to deny an individual an opportunity because of an accident of birth.

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#3: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:11:00 PM

Gender roles won long ago, Leigh. I'm not saying it's good or bad, just that society clearly worked better with gender roles than those societies missing them.

Except for 4/1/2011. That day lingers in my memory like...metaphor here...I should go.
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#4: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:12:58 PM

[up] How can you say that gender roles won when a contest hasn't really been staged? There are no historical examples of societies where people are truly free to be individuals irrespective of gender.

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#5: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:15:09 PM

So this conflict was resolved way back in prehistory.

Note that I don't advocate the use of gender roles, I'm not making any kind of ethical statement, or even saying gender roles are the most efficient for our modern society. I'm simply stating that a tribe with gender roles was clearly better than a tribe without, and so it's not accurate to say society loses out. These societies are clearly getting something in return.

Except for 4/1/2011. That day lingers in my memory like...metaphor here...I should go.
LeighSabio Mate Griffon To Mare from Love party! Since: Jan, 2001
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#6: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:20:11 PM

So this conflict was resolved way back in prehistory.

Maybe...Citation needed.

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Ultrayellow Unchanging Avatar. Since: Dec, 2010
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#7: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:21:21 PM

What?

Wait...

Oh, you're joking!

...Are you?

Except for 4/1/2011. That day lingers in my memory like...metaphor here...I should go.
Usht Lv. 3 Genasi Wizard from an arbitrary view point. Since: Feb, 2011
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#8: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:22:41 PM

Actually, this is very true and it's directly related to the fact that women could get pregnant, men couldn't. Therefore, men ran off and hunted, fought, and did the general violent stuff. Women had stick and tend to each other and the children to make sure for a next generation. This is also why males impregnate and females get pregnant, you'll only need one male at a time to keep the species going, making men more disposable and thus better for fighting.

Modern day... not so much.

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LoveHappiness Nihilist Hippie Since: Dec, 2010
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#9: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:29:30 PM

"I'm not making any kind of ethical statement"

Seems kind of dubious.

"I'm simply stating that a tribe with gender roles was clearly better than a tribe without, and so it's not accurate to say society loses out. These societies are clearly getting something in return."

Aha, this sounds suspiciously normative. Also citations would be nice. Anyway, I think you are wrong. Take for example the agricultural revolution. Agricultural societies out-competed "primitives" because agriculture is just so vastly superior, right? Wrong. Agricultural societies had worse nutrition, more disease and starvation, more work, more social stratification... But it could support a larger population.

[down]

Did I say they didn't?

edited 14th Mar '11 5:35:01 PM by LoveHappiness

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#10: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:31:34 PM

[up] Agriculture did outcompete hunter-gatherers. You just proved that yourself.

What seems dubious?

Oh, and I said citations seems silly because prehistory, by definition, doesn't have a lot of proof written down. We don't know much about what was going on. Actually, that's what what I've been looking at confirmed. Look at it this way.

  • Evolution of man, no real society

  • Tribal Stage, gender roles emerge

  • Late Prehistory-Modern Day, gender roles exist

That seems pretty simple to me.

edited 14th Mar '11 5:35:46 PM by Ultrayellow

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#11: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:34:25 PM

[up][up] Where are you getting your numbers on agricultural societies having more disease and starvation?

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#12: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:39:45 PM

[up][up][up], I'm just going to start a new post.

I'm not sure what you're trying to get at. If agriculture outcompeted simpler methods, how is it not more successful? Sure, it's not necessarily as nice for the people who make it up, but the system is more efficient.

edited 14th Mar '11 5:42:04 PM by Ultrayellow

Except for 4/1/2011. That day lingers in my memory like...metaphor here...I should go.
LoveHappiness Nihilist Hippie Since: Dec, 2010
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#13: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:49:56 PM

[1]

"There are several reasons why early farmers paid a high price for their newfound food-getting strategy. First, foragers generally had a better balanced diet (composed of both plants and animal proteins) than did early farmers, who were often limited to one or several starchy crops. Second, if early farmers were dependent on a small number of crops, they ran the risk of serious malnutrition or even starvation if the crops should fail. And finally, the increased population densities caused by the neolithic revolution brought people into greater contact with one another and consequently made everyone more susceptible to both parasitic and infectious diseases."

Woo, lot of typing.

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Morven Nemesis from Seattle, WA, USA Since: Jan, 2001
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#14: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:50:05 PM

@Ultrayellow, that sounds like an oversimplified evo-psych explanation to me.

It also fails to show relevance to the present day.

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LoveHappiness Nihilist Hippie Since: Dec, 2010
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#15: Mar 14th 2011 at 5:54:02 PM

"I'm not sure what you're trying to get at. If agriculture outcompeted simpler methods, how is it not more successful? Sure, it's not necessarily as nice for the people who make it up, but the system is more efficient."

No. It was more successful only in that it could support a larger population. Population growth, that's it. It was not more efficient for meeting people's needs. Though it was more "efficient" in that it could support a larger if crappier population.

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"in that there aren't many hunter-gatherers left anymore"

smile You're forgetting how small the human population was before agriculture.

edited 14th Mar '11 6:10:55 PM by LoveHappiness

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HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
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#16: Mar 14th 2011 at 6:07:22 PM

They might not be better but they appear to have won. Plus the hunter gathere societies that survive, while they're not really like us in terms of Gender, do have clearly defined roles. Not as rigid as in the West, but they're there. And no, I can't cite it yet because A. This ain't wikipedia, and B. I'll need a minute to dig up the National Geographic article on them.

Man, a gender topic starting off with a statement of being bugged? This brings me back...

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#17: Mar 14th 2011 at 6:08:07 PM

[up][up]It was more successful, in that there aren't many hunter-gatherers left anymore.

@Morven: Well, that's not very specific. What sounds oversimplified to you? And no, it's not particularly relevant to the present day, unless anyone here is a hunter-gatherer (in which case oppress your women if you want to up your reproductive chances) but I felt it was worth pointing out. Sorry if you don't like where I took this discussion. Feel free to re-rail, though I think I'm still on-topic.

edited 14th Mar '11 6:12:08 PM by Ultrayellow

Except for 4/1/2011. That day lingers in my memory like...metaphor here...I should go.
HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
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#18: Mar 14th 2011 at 6:09:11 PM

[1]

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#19: Mar 14th 2011 at 6:13:48 PM

[up] Hey, I read that!

Except for 4/1/2011. That day lingers in my memory like...metaphor here...I should go.
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#20: Mar 14th 2011 at 6:15:07 PM

@Love Happiness: Stop that! I notice partway through, and have to edit or make a new post.

Then agriculture wins by percentages or ratios.

Except for 4/1/2011. That day lingers in my memory like...metaphor here...I should go.
HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
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#21: Mar 14th 2011 at 7:52:17 PM

Has a gender topic really died out this quickly? Back in my day...

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#22: Mar 14th 2011 at 8:03:07 PM

I guess the times they are a-changin' Joe. We tropers are just dust in the wind.

Except for 4/1/2011. That day lingers in my memory like...metaphor here...I should go.
HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
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#23: Mar 14th 2011 at 8:04:41 PM

Probably for the best. But I'll carry the memories, and regale the youth.

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#24: Mar 14th 2011 at 8:32:58 PM

Why are you acting disappointed about that? It's a good thing.

While I don't approve of gender roles occupationally, I do approve of them socially to a degree. On a scale of 1-10, I hate girly men on like a 12.

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edited 14th Mar '11 8:33:25 PM by Barkey

Beholderess from Moscow Since: Jun, 2010
#25: Mar 14th 2011 at 8:40:45 PM

Society loses out when gender roles are enforced, because forcing an individual into/out of a role they aren't skilled in/passionate about because of their gender causes society to lose a lot of talent.

That, and it's not just to deny an individual an opportunity because of an accident of birth.

So true!

[up]There are signs of OTC being deleted? (shudders)

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