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YMMV: Dream of the Red Chamber
Die for Our Ship: Critics and common readers have painted the "interfering characters" in a bad light, for hundreds of years.
Happens most frequently with Baochai's brother Xue Pan, although it's subverted once when he hits on an actor who's actually straight and gets beat up for his trouble.
Moreover, the relationship between Bao-yu's best friend Ching Chun is paricularly obvious. They are both attracted to the other's beauty, and it's strongly implied that Bao-yu blackmails Ching Chun into a tryst.
Who can forget the amorous antics of the boys at school?