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* ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'' has Kya, who never married and seemingly never wanted to, and is much beloved by her brother's children; unlike most examples, she's a CoolOldLady, described by WordOfGod as "kind of a hippie" and can [[NeverMessWithGranny kick butt]] if necessary. Given both [[WordOfGay certain other revelations the creators made about her]] and her CommitmentIssues, there's a pretty good reason she never married and never wanted to.

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'' has two examples.
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Kya, Tenzin's older sister, who never married and seemingly never wanted to, and is much beloved by her brother's children; unlike most examples, she's a CoolOldLady, described by WordOfGod as "kind of a hippie" and can [[NeverMessWithGranny kick butt]] if necessary. Given both [[WordOfGay certain other revelations the creators made about her]] and her CommitmentIssues, there's a pretty good reason she never married and never wanted to.
** Also on the butt-kicking end of the spectrum is Lin Beifong, whose younger sister has five children while she has none. A badass police chief, she has seemingly not had a serious relationship since she broke up with Tenzin. She's not the most thrilled with children, though she grows closer to her niece and nephews over time.
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* ''Film/DoctorInDistress1963'': On the topic of old folk remedies, Sir Lancelot tells Dr. Sparrow about his maiden aunt who always has garlic on her skin:
-->'''Sir Lancelot:''' You know... you're quite wrong to despise these old folk remedies. I've got a maiden aunt who ''swears'' by garlic. Never without a bit next to skin. I'm convinced that's why she's lived to be 92.
-->'''Dr. Sparrow:''' Perhaps that's why she's still a ''maiden'' at 92.
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* Mrs. Crumplebottom from ''VideoGame/TheSims'' Specifically, Miss Crumplebottom in ''VideoGame/TheSims1'', who is the unmarried aunt of Mortimer Goth and sister to Cornelia Goth, though she is never seen interacting with her family

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* Mrs. Crumplebottom from ''VideoGame/TheSims'' Specifically, Miss Crumplebottom ''VideoGame/TheSims'', specifically as she's seen in ''VideoGame/TheSims1'', who [[VideoGame/TheSims1 the first game]], where she is the unmarried aunt of Mortimer Goth and sister to Cornelia Goth, though she is never seen interacting with her familyfamily.
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* In ''Literature/FamilyTreeSeries'' Abby's youngest sister Adele never gets married or has children, unlike her older sisters. Instead she serves as the CoolAunt to Abby's daughter Dana--letting her move in after she wants to return to New York City--and later, grandniece, Francie. [[spoiler:[[TopicOfCancer She is diagnosed with breast cancer in the early 1980s]] and eventually dies of it.]]

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* In the ''Literature/FamilyTreeSeries'' Abby's youngest sister Adele never gets married or has children, unlike her older sisters.sisters Rose and Abby. Instead she serves as the CoolAunt to Abby's daughter Dana--letting her move in after she wants to return to New York City--and later, grandniece, Francie. [[spoiler:[[TopicOfCancer She is diagnosed with breast cancer in the early 1980s]] and eventually dies of it.]]
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* In ''Literature/FamilyTreeSeries'' Abby's youngest sister Adele never gets married or has children, unlike her older sisters. Instead she serves as the CoolAunt to Abby's daughter Dana--letting her move in after she wants to return to New York City--and later, grandniece, Francie. [[spoiler:[[TopicOfCancer She is diagnosed with breast cancer in the early 1980s]] and eventually dies of it.]]

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-->''"Am I to be the maiden aunt? Isn't this what they do? Arrange presents for their prettier relations?"''

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-->''"Am -->'''Edith:''' Am I to be the maiden aunt? Isn't this what they do? Arrange presents for their prettier relations?"''relations?



* ''Series/TheUpshaws'' has an updated version of the trope in Lucretia. When her little sister Regina got pregnant in high school, Lucretia dropped out of college and broke up with her world-traveling boyfriend to take care of her sister and new baby nephew. Lucretia has dated since then, but never seriously. She never married or had children of her own, and instead devoted herself to being the backstop keeping Regina's family safe. The resulting family dynamics can be messy. In a practical sense, this ''is'' Lucretia's family -- this is the family she's spent decades taking care of; she's their financial safety net; she practically raised her nephew Bernard. But it's not officially ''her family'', and this changes how her contributions are viewed. For example: Money. If this were ''her family'', providing financially would just be providing for her family, not worth commenting on. Because it's not, providing financially is alternatingly seen as very charitable, or a controlling-the-purse-strings power move. In a fight between the sisters, this gets pulled out:
-->'''Lucretia:''' I know that your family couldn't function without me.\\
'''Regina:''' Oh, is that right? You wouldn't have a life if I didn't have a family! We're your hobby.\\
'''Lucretia:''' [...] But maybe I would have a full life if I wasn't stuck raising ''your'' children and paying ''your'' bills.



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* Sialeeds in ''VideoGame/SuikodenV'' is this to the [[TheHero Prince]]. Very understandable considering what she, Arshtat, and Haswar had gone through. Come to think of it, Haswar does count for this trope as well.

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* Sialeeds and Haswar in ''VideoGame/SuikodenV'' is are this to the [[TheHero Prince]]. Very understandable considering what she, Arshtat, Prince]], swearing off getting married and having children to avoid the possibility of a repeat of the devastating SuccessionCrisis from just the last generation. After the events of the game, however, Haswar had gone through. Come to think goes and gets married after noting that she, the prince and Lymsleia are all that remains of it, Haswar does count for this trope as well.their family.
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* In the Colleen [=McCullough=] novel ''The Touch'', the protagonist looks back over her 20-year loveless marriage and decides it was still better than being a maiden aunt in her native Scotland.

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* In the Colleen [=McCullough=] novel ''The Touch'', ''Literature/TheTouch'', the protagonist looks back over her 20-year loveless marriage and decides it was still better than being a maiden aunt in her native Scotland.

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A [[{{subtrope}} type]] of OldMaid. May be a MoralGuardian or a NosyNeighbor (or both). Compare LittleOldLadyInvestigates, and ChristmasCake. Comic book maiden aunts may be susceptible to {{Nephewism}}.

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A [[{{subtrope}} type]] of OldMaid. May be a MoralGuardian or a NosyNeighbor (or both). Compare LittleOldLadyInvestigates, and ChristmasCake.LittleOldLadyInvestigates. Comic book maiden aunts may be susceptible to {{Nephewism}}.



* Folk singer Judy Small has a song called "Family Maiden Aunt" about a woman who is [[ChristmasCake nearly 30 and still unmarried]]. It describes how her family fears she is in danger of becoming this, and how much she is looking forward to it; discussing the advantages of her childless, partnerless life.

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* Folk singer Judy Small has a song called "Family Maiden Aunt" about a woman who is [[ChristmasCake [[OldMaid nearly 30 and still unmarried]]. It describes how her family fears she is in danger of becoming this, and how much she is looking forward to it; discussing the advantages of her childless, partnerless life.
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* Aunt Ellen on ''BrendonChase''.

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* In ''Literature/TheSorrowsOfSatan'', Lady Sibyl's aunt Charlotte never married, and instead lives with the family to help care for Sibyl's mother, who was paralyzed by strokes.






* Aunt Harriet on the 1960s ''Batman'' live-action program.
* Nugie on ''The Gale Storm Show''.

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* Aunt Harriet on the 1960s ''Batman'' ''Series/Batman1966'' live-action program.
* Nugie on ''The Gale Storm Show''.''Series/TheGaleStormShow''.
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Of course, many real-life women remained unmarried for reasons other than the one stated above. Some were lesbians, some were UsefulNotes/{{asexual}} or UsefulNotes/{{Aromantic}}, some preferred a career to marriage, some gave up the chance of marriage to look after aging parents, and some simply didn't want the bother of a husband and family. Some are kindly and sweet, some are bitter and angry, some are in a {{Cloudcuckooland}}. Often played straight in mysteries and for laughs in comedies. There aren't many subversions out there--younger audiences are usually {{squick}}ed by any hint of sexuality in an older woman.

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Of course, many real-life women remained unmarried for reasons other than the one stated above. Some were lesbians, some were UsefulNotes/{{asexual}} or UsefulNotes/{{Aromantic}}, UsefulNotes/{{aromantic}}, some preferred a career to marriage, some gave up the chance of marriage to look after aging parents, and some simply didn't want the bother of a husband and family. Some are kindly and sweet, some are bitter and angry, some are in a {{Cloudcuckooland}}. Often played straight in mysteries and for laughs in comedies. There aren't many subversions out there--younger audiences are usually {{squick}}ed by any hint of sexuality in an older woman.

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* Averted with Amy in ''VisualNovel/{{Melody}}''. While she is an important mother figure for the title character, she is decidedly not old; she celebrates her 31st birthday during the course of the story.
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* The protagonist of Patricia Wentworth's ''Maud Silver mysteries'': a [[LittleOldLadyInvestigates governess who became a private investigator]]. She plays this trope straight -- most of the stories show her writing letters to her nieces in her spare time, and she is at least an Edwardian (if not Victorian) throwback in terms of hairstyle, taste in interior decoration, and her love for Tennyson's poetry.

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* The protagonist of Patricia Wentworth's ''Maud Silver mysteries'': ''Literature/MaudSilver'': a [[LittleOldLadyInvestigates governess who became a private investigator]]. She plays this trope straight -- most of the stories show her writing letters to her nieces in her spare time, and she is at least an Edwardian (if not Victorian) throwback in terms of hairstyle, taste in interior decoration, and her love for Tennyson's poetry.

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* Aunts Jane and Abigail Prim of ''ComicStrip/TheAdventuresOfPrudencePrim'' are the dowdy, straight-laced chaperones of the titular Prudence. They wear frumpy old gowns and frown on anything modern or risqué (especially the fun and fashion that Prudence delights in) -- but they do love their niece dearly. When Prudence moves in with her aunts to get a taste of big-city life they pay her way financially, allowing her to use their "charge account" to purchase new clothes and bringing her along on vacations to the sea shore and the mountains. As described in their introduction:
-->Miss Prudy Prim's ancestors had been stern and stalwart men.\\
No sort of gay frivolity was was ever in their ken.\\
They never saw a motor, they never heard of jazz;\\
They hadn't half the wisdom that a modern infant has.\\
And Prudy's Aunts, who lived in town, were likewise of that ilk;\\
They wore old-fashioned collars, and rustling, stiff black silk.\\
They walked with mincing footsteps; they were formal as could be;\\
And crooked out their little fingers when they sipped their China tea.
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Of course, many real-life women remained unmarried for reasons other than the one stated above. Some were lesbians, some were UsefulNotes{{asexual}} or UsefulNotes/{{Aromantic}}, some preferred a career to marriage, some gave up the chance of marriage to look after aging parents, and some simply didn't want the bother of a husband and family. Some are kindly and sweet, some are bitter and angry, some are in a {{Cloudcuckooland}}. Often played straight in mysteries and for laughs in comedies. There aren't many subversions out there--younger audiences are usually {{squick}}ed by any hint of sexuality in an older woman.

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Of course, many real-life women remained unmarried for reasons other than the one stated above. Some were lesbians, some were {{asexual}}, some preferred a career to marriage, some gave up the chance of marriage to look after aging parents, and some simply didn't want the bother of a husband and family. Some are kindly and sweet, some are bitter and angry, some are in a {{Cloudcuckooland}}. Often played straight in mysteries and for laughs in comedies. There aren't many subversions out there--younger audiences are usually {{squick}}ed by any hint of sexuality in an older woman.

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Of course, many real-life women remained unmarried for reasons other than the one stated above. Some were lesbians, some were {{asexual}}, UsefulNotes{{asexual}} or UsefulNotes/{{Aromantic}}, some preferred a career to marriage, some gave up the chance of marriage to look after aging parents, and some simply didn't want the bother of a husband and family. Some are kindly and sweet, some are bitter and angry, some are in a {{Cloudcuckooland}}. Often played straight in mysteries and for laughs in comedies. There aren't many subversions out there--younger audiences are usually {{squick}}ed by any hint of sexuality in an older woman.
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* ''Literature/AnneOfGreenGables'' features a few of these, including Diana's aunt Josephine (who seems at first austere and aloof but eventually dotes on Anne) and Priscilla's aunt Josephina. The characters of Lavender Lewis and Janet Sweet first appear to be more examples of this trope but eventually subvert it by marrying late in life.

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* ''Literature/AnneOfGreenGables'' features a few of these, including Diana's aunt Josephine (who seems at first austere and aloof but eventually dotes on Anne) and Priscilla's aunt Josephina.Jamesina. The characters of Lavender Lewis and Janet Sweet first appear to be more examples of this trope but eventually subvert it by marrying late in life.
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* Averted with Amy in ''VisualNovel/{{Melody}}''. While she is an important mother figure for the title character, she is decidedly not old; she celebrates her 31st birthday during the course of the story.
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* In ''Fanfic/TheLadyOfRiversAndStorms'', Celia Tully became this to Hoster Tully and his brother Brynden. After Prince Jaehaerys Targaryen (later King Jaehaerys II) scorned his betrothed Celia by [[BrotherSisterIncest marrying his sister Shaera]], Celia wound up never finding another man to marry and bore the brunt of the blame from her father. Her fate casts a long shadow over Lysa and her main focus in life is not winding up like her.
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A [[{{subtrope}} type]] of OldMaid. May be a MoralGuardian or a NosyNeighbor (or both). Compare LittleOldLadyInvestigates, and ChristmasCake. Comic book maiden aunts may be susceptible to {{nephewism}}.

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A [[{{subtrope}} type]] of OldMaid. May be a MoralGuardian or a NosyNeighbor (or both). Compare LittleOldLadyInvestigates, and ChristmasCake. Comic book maiden aunts may be susceptible to {{nephewism}}.
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A [[{{subtrope}} type]] of OldMaid. May be a MoralGuardian or a NosyNeighbor (or both). Compare LittleOldLadyInvestigates, and ChristmasCake. Comic book maiden aunts may be susceptible to {{newphewism}}.

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A [[{{subtrope}} type]] of OldMaid. May be a MoralGuardian or a NosyNeighbor (or both). Compare LittleOldLadyInvestigates, and ChristmasCake. Comic book maiden aunts may be susceptible to {{newphewism}}.
{{nephewism}}.
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A [[{{subtrope}} type]] of OldMaid. May be a MoralGuardian or a NosyNeighbor (or both). Compare LittleOldLadyInvestigates, and ChristmasCake.

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A [[{{subtrope}} type]] of OldMaid. May be a MoralGuardian or a NosyNeighbor (or both). Compare LittleOldLadyInvestigates, and ChristmasCake.
ChristmasCake. Comic book maiden aunts may be susceptible to {{newphewism}}.
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Although unmarried elderly women have always existed, the Maiden Aunt as a trope first arose in the 1880s. Historically, women had shorter lifespans than men because of [[DeathByChildbirth the dangers of childbirth]]; many men married more than once, meaning that any woman who didn't marry at a young age had a good chance of marrying later on. But in the mid-[[UsefulNotes/VictorianBritain Victorian era]] women's life expectancies increased due to advances in modern medicine while men's lifespans decreased, partly due to civilian conscription during wartime and--as we know now--partly due to increasing use of [[TheSmokingSection tobacco]]. Suddenly there were myriads, even millions of women who had no chance of marrying and, unlike unmarried men, had little chance of immigrating to a place where they could find a spouse. Decades later, these women reached old age and became known as maiden aunts.

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Although unmarried elderly women have always existed, the Maiden Aunt as a trope first arose in the 1880s. Historically, women had shorter lifespans than men because of [[DeathByChildbirth the dangers of childbirth]]; many men married more than once, meaning that any woman who didn't marry at a young age had a good chance of marrying later on. But in the mid-[[UsefulNotes/VictorianBritain Victorian era]] women's life expectancies increased due to advances in modern medicine while men's lifespans decreased, decreased (or at least didn’t go up as quickly), partly due to civilian conscription during wartime and--as we know now--partly due to increasing use of [[TheSmokingSection tobacco]]. Suddenly there were myriads, even millions of women who had no chance of marrying and, unlike unmarried men, had little chance of immigrating to a place where they could find a spouse. Decades later, these women reached old age and became known as maiden aunts.

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