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Parents are involved in their children's lives (well, good parents are). Parents love and support their children (well, good parents do). When children move out of the home and on to college, parents miss them terribly (well, you get where this is going). It's more than missing the child; there's a sense that the parent has lost something important in her life (it's somewhat more prevalent in women). Something similar happens when the child gets married.

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Parents are involved in their children's lives (well, good parents are). Parents love and support their children (well, good parents do). When children move out of the home and on to college, parents miss them terribly (well, you get where this is going). It's more than missing the child; there's a sense that the parent has lost something important in his or her life (it's somewhat more prevalent in women).women than in men). Something similar happens when the child gets married.
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* In ''WesternAnimation/TheLoudHouse'' Season 5 premiere "Schooled!", Mr. Loud is hit with this pretty hard since his and Mrs. Loud's oldest child, Lori, moves out to leave for college while their youngest child, Lily, is finally old enough to go to preschool (and thus be in school for a large part of the day).

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* In ''WesternAnimation/TheLoudHouse'' Season 5 premiere "Schooled!", Mr. Loud is hit with this pretty hard since his and Mrs. Loud's oldest child, Lori, moves out to leave for college while their youngest child, Lily, is finally old enough to go to preschool (and thus preschool. But they quickly get over it once they realize that, with Lily finally old enough to be a in school for a large part of the day).day just like her older siblings, they finally have some time to themselves for the first time since before they had Lori.
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* The [[VideoGame/MagiaRecordPuellaMagiMadokaMagicaSideStory Magia Record]] fanfic [[https://archiveofourown.org/works/55240900/chapters/140120788?show_comments=true&view_full_work=false#comment_764302816 Growing Pains]] has Yachiyo, who was already fearing this in canon, facing down it hard as the girls under her start going off to college, and even having Felicia go biking cross-country for Golden Week is hard on her because of it. She does work through it, and even manages to not freak out when Felicia comes back with piercings.
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* ''Series/TheThundermans'': Hank and Barb's subplot during ''The Thundermans Return'' is about their angst over their kids growing up. Max and Phoebe are now adults with their own jobs, and Billy and Nora run off to experience high school, causing them to start helicoptering (literally, with an actual helicopter) over the now tweenage Chloe.
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* In ''Manga/BoardingSchoolJuliet'', Mrs. Percia visits her daughter during the school festival as a surprise, and is a little hurt (though understanding) when she finds out that Juliet already made plans with her boyfriend.

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* In ''Manga/BoardingSchoolJuliet'', Mrs. Percia visits her daughter during the school festival as a surprise, surprise and is a little hurt (though understanding) when she finds out that Juliet already made plans with her boyfriend.



* In ''Manga/AsteroidInLove'', Shiori's initial objection for Ao [[spoiler:to stay in town]] is partly due to this; she specifically notes that no parent would like to part with their children.

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* In ''Manga/AsteroidInLove'', Shiori's initial objection for to Ao [[spoiler:to stay [[spoiler:staying in town]] is partly due to this; she specifically notes that no parent would like to part with their children.



* ''Fanfic/TheDimensionalDrifter'': After her husband Yusho disappeared, Yoko started picking up all sorts of strays, including people. That's how Judai got dragged in the family, and later Sora and Johan. Other characters have noticed this tendency, but they keep quiet about it.

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* ''Fanfic/TheDimensionalDrifter'': After her husband Yusho disappeared, Yoko started picking up all sorts of strays, including people. That's how Judai got dragged in into the family, and later Sora and Johan. Other characters have noticed this tendency, but they keep quiet about it.



* In ''WesternAnimation/{{Cinderella}}'', this is why the King is so eager for his son to marry and [[IWantGrandkids give him grandchildren.]] Now that the Prince is grown up and often away from home (and his mother the Queen is presumably [[MissingMom dead]]), the King is lonely, and misses having a child to dote on and play with.
* ''WesternAnimation/AnExtremelyGoofyMovie'' has Goofy suffering from this bad. He's so distracted by his son, Max, leaving for college that he ends up fired from his job, and has to go back to school to get a degree to get a better job... the same school Max is attending. Once there, Goofy promptly keeps trying to baby Max, losing focus on his studies, [[ParentalHypocrisy something he warned Max to avoid.]]

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* In ''WesternAnimation/{{Cinderella}}'', this is why the King is so eager for his son to marry and [[IWantGrandkids give him grandchildren.]] Now that the Prince is grown up and often away from home (and his mother the Queen is presumably [[MissingMom dead]]), the King is lonely, lonely and misses having a child to dote on and play with.
* ''WesternAnimation/AnExtremelyGoofyMovie'' has Goofy suffering from this bad. He's so distracted by his son, Max, son Max leaving for college that he ends up fired from his job, and has to go back to school to get a degree to get a better job... the same school Max is attending. Once there, Goofy promptly keeps trying to baby Max, losing focus on his studies, [[ParentalHypocrisy something he warned Max to avoid.]]



* ''WesternAnimation/StevenUniverseTheMovie'' has the Diamonds suffer from this. Having become attached to Steven during the TimeSkip, and since he is Pink Diamond's son and therefore Yellow and Blue's nephew and White's grandson he is the closest thing they have to [[ReplacementGoldfish remember her by]]. When Steven announces he is returning to Earth at the beginning of the film they beg him to stay so they can continue adoring him. Towards the ending, about one day later, they show up on Earth unannounced declaring they have come to live with ''him'' instead.

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* ''WesternAnimation/StevenUniverseTheMovie'' has the Diamonds suffer from this. Having become attached to Steven during the TimeSkip, and since he is Pink Diamond's son and therefore Yellow and Blue's nephew and White's grandson he is the closest thing they have to [[ReplacementGoldfish remember her by]]. When Steven announces he is returning to Earth at the beginning of the film they beg him to stay so they can continue adoring him. Towards the ending, end, about one day later, they show up on Earth unannounced declaring they have come to live with ''him'' instead.



* Inverted in ''Literature/PocketMonstersTheAnimation''. 29 year old Delia had her son Ash at [[TeenPregnancy age 19]]. He leaves to go on a Pokemon journey at age 10. While she loves him, she holds a slight level of resentment towards him and is glad to have him out the house so that she can live her youth.

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* Inverted in ''Literature/PocketMonstersTheAnimation''. 29 year old 29-year-old Delia had her son Ash at [[TeenPregnancy age 19]]. He leaves to go on a Pokemon journey at age 10. While she loves him, she holds a slight level of resentment towards him and is glad to have him out of the house so that she can live her youth.



* ''Series/RumpoleOfTheBailey'': Rumpole and Hilda are going through this in "Rumpole and the Married Lady" with their son having graduated college, gotten married and emigrated to America. Hilda worries about the state of their marriage, even lamenting that without their son around then what did that make them? Rumpole has slumped into depression at the start, having not gone to work at chambers for some time and just sitting around in his dressing gown all day. It is a bitter divorce case that Rumpole has to deal with in court that manages to break them out of it, making them realize their own troubles are not so bad.

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* ''Series/RumpoleOfTheBailey'': Rumpole and Hilda are going through this in "Rumpole and the Married Lady" with their son having graduated college, gotten married married, and emigrated to America. Hilda worries about the state of their marriage, even lamenting that without their son around then what did that make them? Rumpole has slumped into depression at the start, having not gone to work at chambers for some time and just sitting around in his dressing gown all day. It is a bitter divorce case that Rumpole has to deal with in court that manages to break them out of it, making them realize their own troubles are not so bad.



* ''ComicStrip/ForBetterOrForWorse'': Twice. But not for April, [[TheUnfavorite because she's a c***]]. Also, she doesn't manage to get old enough in time.

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* ''ComicStrip/ForBetterOrForWorse'': Twice. But not for April, [[TheUnfavorite April because she's a c***]]. Also, she doesn't manage to get old enough in time.was younger than Mike and Elizabeth.



* Linda begins to suffer this in the 13th season ''WesternAnimation/BobsBurgers'' episode "Mother Author Laser Pointer." The thought of her kids eventually going to college drives Linda to despair. When author Bea Cromwell is forced to wait for a tow truck at the restaurant, Linda tries to badger her into writing more of the "Snail & Newt" children's books so she can relive reading them to the kids when they were younger. Linda's zealousness on pushing this results in her cancelling Bea's tow behind her back, and when the woman finds out she grows scared for her wellbeing. As Linda grows more unhinged and desperate to prove she doesn't mean Bea any harm she takes her car keys. It escalates to Bea delivering a lecture on how kids are supposed to grow up and leave while keeping Linda in a headlock until the tow arrives.

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* Linda begins to suffer this in the 13th season ''WesternAnimation/BobsBurgers'' episode "Mother Author Laser Pointer." The thought of her kids eventually going to college drives Linda to despair. When author Bea Cromwell is forced to wait for a tow truck at the restaurant, Linda tries to badger her into writing more of the "Snail & Newt" children's books so she can relive reading them to the kids when they were younger. Linda's zealousness on in pushing this results in her cancelling Bea's tow behind her back, and when the woman finds out she grows scared for her wellbeing. As Linda grows more unhinged and desperate to prove she doesn't mean Bea any harm she takes her car keys. It escalates to Bea delivering a lecture on how kids are supposed to grow up and leave while keeping Linda in a headlock until the tow arrives.
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* ''WesternAnimation/MollyOfDenali'': In "[[Recap/MollyOfDenaliS2E2BunnyBabiesEveryMeowAndAgain Butterflies and Bunny Babies]]," a family of snowshoe hares makes a habitat in Trini's garden, and she grows attached to them. Then she gets a taste of parenthood when she watches the grown leverets move out of the garden and into the woods.
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-->'''Marge:''' Oh, my God. Lisa and Maggie! It's going to happen with all of them! Bart is just the beginning. One by one...all my babies will leave the nest. I'm going to lose all of them. [...] My time as a mom will eventually come to an end. I'll have to fill my days with a bunch of stupid hobbies. ''I don't want an Etsy storefront!''

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-->'''Marge:''' Oh, Oh my God. Lisa and Maggie! It's going to happen with all of them! Bart is just the beginning. One by one...all my babies will leave the nest. I'm going to lose all of them. [...] My time as a mom will eventually come to an end. I'll have to fill my days with a bunch of stupid hobbies. ''I don't want an Etsy storefront!''
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-->'''Marge:''' My time as a mom will eventually come to an end. I'll have to fill my days with a bunch of stupid hobbies. ''I don't want an Etsy storefront!''

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-->'''Marge:''' Oh, my God. Lisa and Maggie! It's going to happen with all of them! Bart is just the beginning. One by one...all my babies will leave the nest. I'm going to lose all of them. [...] My time as a mom will eventually come to an end. I'll have to fill my days with a bunch of stupid hobbies. ''I don't want an Etsy storefront!''
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' deals with this in the episode "A Mid-Childhood Night's Dream," in which [[AdventuresInComaland Marge's subconscious grapples with the recent problem of realizing that Bart is growing up]]. This being a DreamEpisode, this is at one point literally depicted by Marge standing in the ruins of the crumbling family home, which resembles a bird's nest.

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' deals with this in the episode "A Mid-Childhood Night's Dream," in which [[AdventuresInComaland Marge's subconscious grapples with the recent problem of realizing that Bart is growing up]]. This being a DreamEpisode, this is at one point literally depicted by Marge standing in the ruins of the crumbling family home, which resembles resembles, you guessed it, [[RuleOfSymbolism a bird's nest.nest]].
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' deals with this in the episode "A Mid-Childhood Night's Dream," in which [[AdventuresInComaland Marge's subconscious grapples with the recent problem of realizing that Bart is growing up]]. This being a DreamEpisode, this is at one point literally depicted by Marge standing in the ruins of the crumbling family home, which resembles a bird's nest.
-->'''Marge:''' My time as a mom will eventually come to an end. I'll have to fill my days with a bunch of stupid hobbies. ''I don't want an Etsy storefront!''
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* In ''WesternAnimation/{{Cinderella}}'', this is why the King is so eager for his son to marry and [[IWantGrandchildren give him grandchildren.]] Now that the Prince is grown up and often away from home (and his mother the Queen is presumably [[MissingMom dead]]), the King is lonely, and misses having a child to dote on and play with.

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* In ''WesternAnimation/{{Cinderella}}'', this is why the King is so eager for his son to marry and [[IWantGrandchildren [[IWantGrandkids give him grandchildren.]] Now that the Prince is grown up and often away from home (and his mother the Queen is presumably [[MissingMom dead]]), the King is lonely, and misses having a child to dote on and play with.
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* In ''WesternAnimation/{{Cinderella}}'', this is why the King is so eager for his son to marry and [[IWantGrandchildren give him grandchildren.]] Now that the Prince is grown up and often away from home (and his mother the Queen is presumably [[MissingMom dead]]), the King is lonely, and misses having a child to dote on and play with.
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* Linda begins to suffer this in the 13th season ''WesternAnimation/BobsBurgers'' episode "Mother Author Laser Pointer." The thought of her kids eventually going to college drives Linda to despair. When author Bea Cromwell is forced to wait for a tow truck at the restaurant, Linda tries to badger her into writing more of the "Snail & Newt" children's books so she can relive reading them to the kids when they were younger. Linda's zealousness on pushing this results in her cancelling Bea's tow behind her back, and when the woman finds out she grows scared for her wellbeing. As Linda grows more unhinged and desperate to prove she doesn't mean Bea any harm she takes her car keys. It escalates to Bea delivering a lecture on how kids are supposed to grow up and leave while keeping Linda in a headlock until the tow arrives.
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Parents are involved in their children's lives (well, good parents are). Parents love and support their children (well, good parents do). When children move out of the home and on to college, parents miss them terribly (well, you get where this is going). It's more than missing the child, there's a sense that the parent has lost something important in her life (it's somewhat more prevalent in women). Something similar happens when the child gets married.

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Parents are involved in their children's lives (well, good parents are). Parents love and support their children (well, good parents do). When children move out of the home and on to college, parents miss them terribly (well, you get where this is going). It's more than missing the child, child; there's a sense that the parent has lost something important in her life (it's somewhat more prevalent in women). Something similar happens when the child gets married.
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* A lot of ''{{Anime/Pokemon}}'' fics depict Ash's mother Delia as undergoing this after her son leaves for his Pokémon journey.
** ''Fanfic/TilDeathDoUsPart'' starts with Delia feeling depressed after her son Ash leaves on a Pokemon journey. She's spent the last ten years revolving around him, so having him absent in her life causes a hole.

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* A lot of ''{{Anime/Pokemon}}'' ''Anime/PokemonTheSeries'' fics depict Ash's mother Delia as undergoing this after her son leaves for his Pokémon journey.
** ''Fanfic/TilDeathDoUsPart'' starts with Delia feeling depressed after her son Ash leaves on a Pokemon Pokémon journey. She's spent the last ten years revolving around him, so having him absent in her life causes a hole.



** ''Fanfic/PokemonResetBloodlines'': Delia (again) has a mild case of this, even though Ash has only been away for a few months. She seems to handle it well, all things considered, and she's very happy to have him and his female companions for a few months for a a few reasons.

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** ''Fanfic/PokemonResetBloodlines'': Delia (again) has a mild case of this, even though Ash has only been away for a few months. She seems to handle it well, all things considered, and she's very happy to have him and his female companions for a few months for a a few reasons.

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* ''Fanfic/TilDeathDoUsPart'' starts with Delia feeling depressed after her son Ash leaves on a Pokemon journey. She's spent the last ten years revolving around him, so having him absent in her life causes a hole.



* In the ''Pokemon'' fic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/6922714/1/The-Evolution-of-Delia-Ketchum-Aide The Evolution of Delia Ketchum, Aide]]'', Ash's mother Delia suffers from this. Ash left a few years ago and she still doesn't know what to do with herself. She decides to go back to doing what she did before having her son: being a Pokémon Researcher assistant.

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* In A lot of ''{{Anime/Pokemon}}'' fics depict Ash's mother Delia as undergoing this after her son leaves for his Pokémon journey.
** ''Fanfic/TilDeathDoUsPart'' starts with Delia feeling depressed after her son Ash leaves on a Pokemon journey. She's spent
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''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/6922714/1/The-Evolution-of-Delia-Ketchum-Aide The Evolution of Delia Ketchum, Aide]]'', Ash's mother Delia suffers from this. Aide]]'': Ash left a few years ago and she Delia still doesn't know what to do with herself. She decides to go back to doing what she did before having her son: being a Pokémon Researcher assistant.assistant.
** ''Fanfic/PokemonResetBloodlines'': Delia (again) has a mild case of this, even though Ash has only been away for a few months. She seems to handle it well, all things considered, and she's very happy to have him and his female companions for a few months for a a few reasons.



* ''Fanfic/PokemonResetBloodlines'': Delia (again) has a mild case of this, even though Ash has only been away for a few months. She seems to handle it well, all things considered, and she's very happy to have him and his female companions for a few months for a a few reasons.
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* Inverted in ''LightNovel/PocketMonstersTheAnimation''. 29 year old Delia had her son Ash at [[TeenPregnancy age 19]]. He leaves to go on a Pokemon journey at age 10. While she loves him, she holds a slight level of resentment towards him and is glad to have him out the house so that she can live her youth.

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* Inverted in ''LightNovel/PocketMonstersTheAnimation''.''Literature/PocketMonstersTheAnimation''. 29 year old Delia had her son Ash at [[TeenPregnancy age 19]]. He leaves to go on a Pokemon journey at age 10. While she loves him, she holds a slight level of resentment towards him and is glad to have him out the house so that she can live her youth.
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* ''Fanfic/IHopeYourePreparedForAnUnforgettableWedding'': [[WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons Agnes Skinner]], [[MyBelovedSmother naturally]], gets hit ''hard'' with this after her son moves away to live with his husband. She spends most of the reception crying over not getting to have her little boy around her house anymore, and after he moves away, she loses the motivation to do anything other than "[[DrowningMySorrows drink alcohol]], watch TV, and [[ProneToTears cry]]".
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* ''Machinima/RedVsBlue'': In the PSA about moving out, Sarge suffers from this after Simmons, Grif, and Lopez move out of Red Base. As a result, he starts talking to himself in the way Grif and Simmons would in order to cope with the loneliness. Luckily for him, they come back after realizing they're far from prepared to live on their own.

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* ''Machinima/RedVsBlue'': ''WebAnimation/RedVsBlue'': In the PSA about moving out, Sarge suffers from this after Simmons, Grif, and Lopez move out of Red Base. As a result, he starts talking to himself in the way Grif and Simmons would in order to cope with the loneliness. Luckily for him, they come back after realizing they're far from prepared to live on their own.
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* ''Series/YoungSheldon'': In "The Sin of Greed and a Chimichanga from Chi-Chi's", Mary starts experiencing this after Sheldon considers going to college full-time, and Georgie gets a job at Dale's store and starts making money.
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheOwlHouse''
** When Eda and King are tasked with watching the Bat Queen's babies in "Lost in Language", they initially only do it for the money, especially when the babies turn out to be near-impossible to manage. Once they get the kids to settle down though, they get hopelessly attached, to the point that Luz finds them asleep on the couch with Eda cradling the babies in her arms. After the Bat Queen picks her kids back up, Eda dejectedly tells Luz that [[BlatantLies she only did it for the money]]. Luz promptly gives her a book titled "Coping with Empty Nest Syndrome".
** Played for significantly more drama in "Eda's Requiem". Eda realizes that with Luz trying to find a way back to the human world, and King [[spoiler:looking for his birth father]], both of them are eventually going to leave her. This results in her pushing them away and throwing herself fully into Raine's rebellion to avoid what she thinks is King trying to tell her he's leaving. [[spoiler:She almost convinces Raine to let her go through with a suicide attack against two of the other Coven Heads, but Raine calls the whole thing off when they realize she has children, and tells her that her kids need her more than she realizes -- something that's proven true when King reveals that, despite still wanting to find his dad, he's legally changing his surname to Clawthorne to honor the woman who raised him.]]
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* In ''Manga/ShiNiAruki'', Tokimune Kurosu is an old man whose children have all grown up and moved out. Since he's feeling lonely, he adopts Tokiko, a girl young enough to be one of his grandchildren.
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Contrast BasementDweller, where a grown-up child overstays his welcome, although it doesn't always guarantee this trope won't happen when the day finally comes.

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Compare with EmptyBedroomGrieving, which usually involves the death of a loved one instead of them just leaving their childhood home. Contrast BasementDweller, where a grown-up child overstays his welcome, although it doesn't always guarantee this trope won't happen when the day finally comes.
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* The mother in ''ComicStrip/{{Zits}}'' has been preparing for this forever, although in one strip when Jeremy is out for the weekend and she and her husband get some "alone time"] she admits any Empty Nest Syndrome she may get when Jeremy leaves for college will probably be short-lived.

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* The mother in ''ComicStrip/{{Zits}}'' has been preparing for this forever, although in one strip when Jeremy is out for the weekend and she and her husband get some "alone time"] time", she admits any Empty Nest Syndrome she may get when Jeremy leaves for college will probably be short-lived.
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* In ''Series/FullerHouse'', Aunt Becky starts fawning over DJ's infant son after her own two twins go off to college.

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* In ''Series/FullerHouse'', Aunt Becky starts fawning over DJ's infant son after her own two twins go and Jesse's twin sons are off to at college.



* In ''WesternAnimation/TheLoudHouse'' Season 5 premiere "Schooled!", Mr. Loud is hit with this pretty hard since his oldest child, Lori, leaves for college, and his youngest child, Lily, is attending preschool.

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* In ''WesternAnimation/TheLoudHouse'' Season 5 premiere "Schooled!", Mr. Loud is hit with this pretty hard since his and Mrs. Loud's oldest child, Lori, leaves moves out to leave for college, and his college while their youngest child, Lily, is attending preschool.finally old enough to go to preschool (and thus be in school for a large part of the day).

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