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Well *that* was anti-climactic.

Some characters just happen to be bisexual. They aren't sociopaths or polymorphously perverse incarnations of uninhibited slutdom; they're just folks who can be attracted to both men and women. Since being capable of being attracted to men and women is not the same thing as dating/sleeping with/married to both at the same time, these bisexuals do not get sudden uncontrollable urges to sleep with someone of the opposite gender of their current lover, any more than straight or gay people do with someone of the same. That is not to say such is unheard of, but that's the human condition and thus not strictly limited to bisexuality (it is also known as "being a jerk.")

Bi The Way is almost nonexistent in mainstream media (though almost a logical necessity in others) in part because a lot of both straight and gay people appear to believe that bisexuals are somehow 'cheating' by playing both sides of the field. All may be fair in love and war but there's something about the idea of losing someone to the opposing team that makes the "betrayal" worse because that's the one level where people who are exclusively straight or gay are either unwilling or unable to compete. Add in the fact that people tend to be paranoid and have low self esteem and there's a lot of hostility out there. If Bi The Way is common anywhere it tends to be in Biography.

"Outing" a bisexual can be convoluted. Some pass for straight or gay or allow others to make their own assumptions. Bisexuals are not portrayed so much for their mannerisms as their supposed habits. As a result, a het-seeming bisexual reads as Straight Gay, whereas a bisexual that acts Camp Gay is likely to be seen as subverting the stereotypes associated with a camp persona. Actual bisexual stereotypes are generally limited to glam rockers, hippies, swingers and other flamboyant presentations of alternative sexuality. So in the end it's likely that Bob or Alice Bisexual will be outed in passing.

Compare If Its You Its Okay, where someone who has shown interest in a certain gender in the past has one exception, Depraved Bisexual, where liking both genders makes you crazy (or conversely, being crazy makes you indiscriminate), or Suddenly Sexuality, where someone decides to play for the other team.


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