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* '''Lampshaded''': "You know, normal people would accept people's pity, not try to make them stop."

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* '''Lampshaded''': "You know, normal people would accept people's pity, not try to make them stop. But hey, you do you, asshole."



* '''Discussed''': "Wow, Bob really doesn't want pity does he?"
* '''Conversed''': "You think Bob would take well my pity?" "No! He's insanely stoic, he wouldn't take pity even if his life depended on it..."

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* '''Discussed''': "Wow, Bob really doesn't want pity does he?"
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"You think Bob would take well my pity?" "No! He's insanely stoic, he wouldn't take pity even if his life depended on it...""
* '''Conversed''': "I think they should just respect Bob's wishes against pity and, y'know, not give him some?"
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** Bob seems like he's being genuinely compassionate to Alice, but people can tell that he is actually mocking her from the context of the situation and his wording.

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** Bob Alice seems like he's she's being genuinely compassionate to Alice, Bob, but people everyone can tell that he is actually mocking her from her wording and the context of the situation and his wording.that she is actually mocking him.
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** Bob seems like he's genuinely compassionate to Alice, but is secretly mocking her, which can be sensed if one reads between the lines.

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** Bob seems like he's being genuinely compassionate to Alice, but people can tell that he is secretly actually mocking her, which can be sensed if one reads between her from the lines. context of the situation and his wording.
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** Bob seems like he's genuinely compassionate to Alice, but is secretly mocking her, which can be sensed if one reads between the lines.
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** Bob is a high-profile celebrity who is currently in a turbulent state due to his brother's death. He desires to be left alone and grieve alongside his loved ones. Unfortunately for him, Bob is bombarded left and right by the media and other anonymous people giving him unwanted attention. He is forced to play the role of a NiceGuy appreciating their concern, while [[BeneathTheMask in fact]] he secretly resents those people for being nosy and obtrusive. Cue angst.

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** Bob is a high-profile celebrity who is currently in a turbulent state due to his brother's death. He desires to be left alone and grieve alongside his loved ones. Unfortunately for him, Bob is bombarded left and right by the media and other anonymous people giving him unwanted attention. He is forced to play the role of a NiceGuy appreciating their concern, while [[BeneathTheMask in fact]] he secretly resents those people for being nosy and obtrusive. Cue angst.{{angst}}.
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** Bob would be okay with getting pity from any other person on the planet, but Alice is his SitcomArchNemesis and she has exploited other moments he's been hurt to deliver further insults disguised as compassion, so Bob refuses to take a chance that ''this'' is the one time Alice will actually behave.
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** Alice's attempt at being kind to Bob, unfortunately, makes him [[SanitySlippage completely snap]] and goon to commit brutal atrocities on the alleged "two-faced phonies" who wanted to "butt in on his privacy".

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** Alice's attempt at being kind to Bob, unfortunately, makes him [[SanitySlippage completely snap]] and goon go on to commit brutal atrocities on the alleged "two-faced phonies" who wanted to "butt in on his privacy".
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* '''Played For Horror''':
** Alice's attempt at being kind to Bob, unfortunately, makes him [[SanitySlippage completely snap]] and goon to commit brutal atrocities on the alleged "two-faced phonies" who wanted to "butt in on his privacy".
** Alice is TheSociopath and her attempt at cheering up Bob [[PetTheDog was a very rare moment of her showing actual kindness to a fellow human]]. She [[DisproportionateRetribution really does not takes it well]] when Bob tosses it back to her face.
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** Bob is a high-profile celebrity who is currently in a turbulent state due to his brother's death. He desires to be left alone and grieve alongside his loved ones. Unfortunately for him, Bob is bombarded left and right by the media and other anonymous people giving him unwanted attention. He is forced to play the role of a NiceGuy appreciating their concern, while in fact he secretly resents those people for being nosy and obtrusive. Cue angst.

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** Bob is a high-profile celebrity who is currently in a turbulent state due to his brother's death. He desires to be left alone and grieve alongside his loved ones. Unfortunately for him, Bob is bombarded left and right by the media and other anonymous people giving him unwanted attention. He is forced to play the role of a NiceGuy appreciating their concern, while [[BeneathTheMask in fact fact]] he secretly resents those people for being nosy and obtrusive. Cue angst.
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** Bob is a high-profile celebrity who is currently in a turbulent state due to his brother's death. He desires to be left alone and grieve alongside his loved ones. Unfortunately for him, Bob is bombarded left and right by the media and other anonymous people giving him unwanted attention. He is forced to play the role of a NiceGuy appreciating their concern, while in fact he secretly resents those people for being nosy and obtrusive. Cue angst.
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** Culture is a major factor that determines how people react to pity. Culture A values personal dignity and "saving face", so the people there generally reject any form of pity. By contrast, culture B values solidarity, so the people there generally frown upon rejecting pity, while encouraging the acceptance of sympathy.
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** Bob's reaction to another person showing sympathy for him depends on who that person is. Al is a paparazzo that Bob finds to be annoying, so he snaps angrily at him; Alice is one of Bob's loved ones, so he appreciates her concern.


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** Bob simply dislikes excess attention.
** Bob is genuinely fine, yet other wrongly believe that he's currently suffering a FateWorseThanDeath.

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* '''Played For Drama''': Bob hates being pitied... because he thinks he is not worth it.

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* '''Played For Drama''': Drama''':
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Bob hates being pitied... because he thinks he is not worth it.


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** Bob suffered a CareerEndingInjury that left him in a wheelchair and his newfound limitations resulted in a severe inferiority complex; he correllates the people who give him pity with those who think DisabledMeansHelpless and who keep offering him UnwantedAssistance. As a result, Bob feels the need to prove he is more than a victim, with everyone who pities his situation being InnocentlyInsensitive who keep feeding Bob's feelings of inadequacy.

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