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15th Feb '18 7:44:13 PM HighCrate
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** Tyrion himself suffers from some entitlement issues because Sansa isn't warming up to him after they're married (against her will). He only mildly considers the fact that his family is directly responsible for the deaths of her parents, one of her brothers, and many of the people from her home, and doesn't seem to consider at all the fact that their marriage only exists to steal her home away from her family and give it to their enemies. But, she should give him special consideration for being a NiceGuy!
15th Feb '18 11:53:00 AM lluewhyn
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** Tyrion himself suffers from some entitlement issues because Sansa isn't warming up to him after they're married (against her will). He only mildly considers the fact that his family is directly responsible for the deaths of her parents, one of her brothers, and many of the people from her home, and doesn't seem to consider at all the fact that their marriage only exists to steal her home away from her family and give it to their enemies. But, she should give him special consideration for being a NiceGuy!
12th Feb '18 1:54:50 PM AceMerrill
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* {{Discussed}} in ''Anime/PuellaMagiMadokaMagica.'' When [[TheBigGirl Sayaka]] thinks about using [[BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor a wish from Kyubey]] to heal her [[ChildhoodFriendRomance childhood friend/crush]] [[ChildProdigy Kyosuke]] of his CareerEndingInjury, [[BigSisterMentor Mami]] spots whiffs of this trope and, via an ArmorPiercingQuestion, warns her that she better make sure this is really a SelflessWish ''and not a subconscious desire to make him eternally grateful and bound to her''. Sayaka goes through with the wish when Kyosuke's depression gets increasingly bad, believing that it would still be WorthIt, and a pre-CharacterDevelopment!Kyouko even says her that she should've broken his limbs and made her completely reliant on him instead. How much this is PlayedStraight afterwards is open to debate, given what happens: [[spoiler:Sayaka ''still'' doesn't confess to Kyosuke and keeps quietly loving him from afar due to the fact that she fears this trope, so he remains ObliviousToLove and winds up dating Sayaka and Madoka's friend [[YamatoNadeshiko Hitomi]], who actually was completely honest with her feelings towards him. Sayaka falls past the DespairEventHorizon and, after a notably bitter rant to some guys who were being assholes to their girlfriends, [[AndThenJohnWasAZombie turns into a Witch]]]].

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* {{Discussed}} in ''Anime/PuellaMagiMadokaMagica.'' When [[TheBigGirl Sayaka]] thinks about using [[BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor a wish from Kyubey]] to heal her [[ChildhoodFriendRomance childhood friend/crush]] [[ChildProdigy Kyosuke]] of his CareerEndingInjury, [[BigSisterMentor Mami]] spots whiffs of this trope and, via an ArmorPiercingQuestion, warns her that she better make sure this is really a SelflessWish ''and not a subconscious desire to make him eternally grateful and bound to her''. Sayaka goes through with the wish when Kyosuke's depression gets increasingly bad, believing that it would still be WorthIt, and a pre-CharacterDevelopment!Kyouko even says her that she should've broken his limbs and made her completely reliant on him instead. How much this is PlayedStraight afterwards is open to debate, given what happens: [[spoiler:Sayaka ''still'' doesn't confess to Kyosuke and keeps quietly loving him from afar due to the fact that partly because she fears this trope, trope and partly because she feels like she must leave her old life behind, so he remains ObliviousToLove and winds up dating Sayaka and Madoka's friend [[YamatoNadeshiko Hitomi]], who actually was completely honest with her feelings towards him. Sayaka falls past the DespairEventHorizon and, after a notably bitter rant to some guys who were being assholes to their girlfriends, [[AndThenJohnWasAZombie turns into a Witch]]]].
10th Feb '18 11:37:03 PM randomtroper89
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* There is a ''very'' subtle case of this in ''Series/{{Merlin}}'' between Arthur and Guinevere. After he impulsively kisses her at her house, he tells her that there's no chance for them to ever have a relationship. Okay, fair enough. But later, when she's kidnapped by a local warlord and held for ransom, Arthur defies his father and rushes out to rescue her, telling Merlin all the way there that he and Gwen can't ever be a couple and it's useless to dwell on what can never be. Thing is, he's completely unaware that Lancelot is currently staging his own rescue attempt, and when it becomes obvious that Gwen rather fancies his competition, he immediately gets huffy and tries to save face by saying that he only turned up because Morgana begged him to. So despite what he told Gwen, he actually ''did'' expect her to return his feelings, and gets sulky when she takes his words to heart and searches for love elsewhere.

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* There is a ''very'' subtle case of this in ''Series/{{Merlin}}'' between Arthur and Guinevere. After he impulsively kisses her at her house, he tells her that there's no chance for them to ever have a relationship. Okay, fair enough. But later, Later, when she's kidnapped by a local warlord and held for ransom, Arthur defies his father and rushes out to rescue her, telling Merlin all the way there that he and Gwen can't ever be a couple and it's useless to dwell on what can never be. Thing is, he's completely unaware that Lancelot is currently staging his own rescue attempt, and when it becomes obvious that Gwen rather fancies his competition, he immediately gets huffy and tries to save face by saying that he only turned up because Morgana begged him to. So despite what he told Gwen, he actually ''did'' did expect her to return his feelings, and gets sulky when she takes his words to heart and searches for love elsewhere.
9th Feb '18 12:17:59 AM dbdude01
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* In an episode of ''Series/{{Coach}}'', Luther moves into a retirement community and suddenly every available widow is cooking for him. Christine thinks Luther should stop accepting this treatment because the women may expect a relationship from him. Hayden points out that if a man prepared dinner for a woman she would be free to accept it and the man would have no right to expect anything in return. Rather than acknowledge that she was wrong, Christine invoked another DoubleStandard and let Hayden know they [[LysistrataGambit wouldn't be having sex that night]].
6th Feb '18 7:32:37 AM AceMerrill
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* {{Discussed}} in ''Anime/PuellaMagiMadokaMagica.'' When [[TheBigGirl Sayaka]] thinks about using [[BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor a wish from Kyubey]] to heal her [[ChildhoodFriendRomance childhood friend/crush]] [[ChildProdigy Kyosuke]] of his CareerEndingInjury, [[BigSisterMentor Mami]] spots whiffs of this trope and, via an ArmorPiercingQuestion, warns her that she better make sure this is really a SelflessWish ''and not a subconscious desire to make him eternally grateful and bound to her''. Sayaka goes through with the wish when Kyosuke's depression gets increasingly bad, believing that it would still be WorthIt, and a pre-CharacterDevelopment!Kyouko even says her that she should've broken his limbs and made her completely reliant on him instead. How much this is PlayedStraight afterwards is open to debate, given what happens: [[spoiler:Sayaka ''still'' doesn't confess to Kyosuke and keeps quietly loving him from afar, so he remains ObliviousToLove and winds up dating Sayaka and Madoka's friend [[YamatoNadeshiko Hitomi]], who actually was completely honest with her feelings towards him. Sayaka falls past the DespairEventHorizon and, after a notably bitter rant to some guys who were being assholes to their girlfriends, [[AndThenJohnWasAZombie turns into a Witch]]]].

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* {{Discussed}} in ''Anime/PuellaMagiMadokaMagica.'' When [[TheBigGirl Sayaka]] thinks about using [[BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor a wish from Kyubey]] to heal her [[ChildhoodFriendRomance childhood friend/crush]] [[ChildProdigy Kyosuke]] of his CareerEndingInjury, [[BigSisterMentor Mami]] spots whiffs of this trope and, via an ArmorPiercingQuestion, warns her that she better make sure this is really a SelflessWish ''and not a subconscious desire to make him eternally grateful and bound to her''. Sayaka goes through with the wish when Kyosuke's depression gets increasingly bad, believing that it would still be WorthIt, and a pre-CharacterDevelopment!Kyouko even says her that she should've broken his limbs and made her completely reliant on him instead. How much this is PlayedStraight afterwards is open to debate, given what happens: [[spoiler:Sayaka ''still'' doesn't confess to Kyosuke and keeps quietly loving him from afar, afar due to the fact that she fears this trope, so he remains ObliviousToLove and winds up dating Sayaka and Madoka's friend [[YamatoNadeshiko Hitomi]], who actually was completely honest with her feelings towards him. Sayaka falls past the DespairEventHorizon and, after a notably bitter rant to some guys who were being assholes to their girlfriends, [[AndThenJohnWasAZombie turns into a Witch]]]].
30th Jan '18 7:28:57 AM Tiggerific
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** Riley Finn has a few tendancies of this when it comes to Buffy. The entirely of the season four episode "Doomed" is basically him telling Buffy over and over that they'd work amazingly together because they both hunt demons, as if this is a great relationship starting point, and mostly ignores her reasonable arguments against the idea. By the end of the episode she gives in and dates him, but since they're not very compatible outside of their jobs, it's really not a surprise when their relationship blows up in their faces a year later.
14th Dec '17 3:29:26 PM CerotechOmega
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* Noboyuki Sugou from ''WebVideo/SwordArtOnlineAbridged'' serves a double dealing of this trope in his intro episode by stating that, as he convinced Shouzou Yuuki to buy the Sword Art Online servers from its developers in Argus before they went under, he is entitled to both have Asuna as his wife and to push around Kirito as he wishes, up to and including having him back off of Asuna.



--> '''Mala:''' "You actually ''care'' for that... ''twig?"''
--> '''Superman:''' "I care for ''[[AllLovingHero everybody]].'' [[DeadpanSnarker Although you're pushing it right now."]]

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--> '''Mala:''' "You actually ''care'' for that... ''twig?"''
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''twig?"''\\
'''Superman:''' "I care for ''[[AllLovingHero everybody]].'' [[DeadpanSnarker Although you're pushing it right now."]]
28th Nov '17 1:06:00 PM angie710
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Compare EntitledBastard, ItsAllAboutMe, and PrinceCharmingWannabe. Contrast SexualExtortion, where the creep backs her demands with threats/"offers" rather than moralizing and guilt-tripping, and WantsAPrizeForBasicDecency where Bob/Alice expects a reward for acting like a decent person.

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Compare EntitledBastard, ItsAllAboutMe, and PrinceCharmingWannabe. Contrast SexualExtortion, where the creep backs her demands with threats/"offers" rather than moralizing and guilt-tripping, and WantsAPrizeForBasicDecency where Bob/Alice expects a reward for acting like a decent person.
person. MaritalRapeLicense is when the person feels s/he is entitled to sex with his/her spouse simply because of that person's status as his/her spouse.
15th Nov '17 5:49:19 AM GlitteringFlowers
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* {{Discussed}} in ''Anime/PuellaMagiMadokaMagica.'' When [[TheBigGirl Sayaka]] thinks about using [[BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor a wish from Kyubey]] to heal her [[ChildhoodFriendRomance childhood friend/crush]] [[ChildProdigy Kyosuke]] of his CareerEndingInjury, [[BigSisterMentor Mami]] warns her that she better make sure this is really a SelflessWish and not a subconscious desire to make him eternally grateful. Sayaka actually takes this to heart, but goes through with the wish when Kyosuke's depression gets increasingly bad. How much this is PlayedStraight afterwards is open to debate, given what happens: [[spoiler:Kyosuke remains ObliviousToLove and winds up dating [[LovableAlphaBitch Hitomi]]. Sayaka falls past the DespairEventHorizon and, after a notably bitter rant to some guys who were being assholes to their girlfriends, [[AndThenJohnWasAZombie turns into a Witch]]]].

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* {{Discussed}} in ''Anime/PuellaMagiMadokaMagica.'' When [[TheBigGirl Sayaka]] thinks about using [[BeCarefulWhatYouWishFor a wish from Kyubey]] to heal her [[ChildhoodFriendRomance childhood friend/crush]] [[ChildProdigy Kyosuke]] of his CareerEndingInjury, [[BigSisterMentor Mami]] spots whiffs of this trope and, via an ArmorPiercingQuestion, warns her that she better make sure this is really a SelflessWish and ''and not a subconscious desire to make him eternally grateful. grateful and bound to her''. Sayaka actually takes this to heart, but goes through with the wish when Kyosuke's depression gets increasingly bad. bad, believing that it would still be WorthIt, and a pre-CharacterDevelopment!Kyouko even says her that she should've broken his limbs and made her completely reliant on him instead. How much this is PlayedStraight afterwards is open to debate, given what happens: [[spoiler:Kyosuke [[spoiler:Sayaka ''still'' doesn't confess to Kyosuke and keeps quietly loving him from afar, so he remains ObliviousToLove and winds up dating [[LovableAlphaBitch Hitomi]].Sayaka and Madoka's friend [[YamatoNadeshiko Hitomi]], who actually was completely honest with her feelings towards him. Sayaka falls past the DespairEventHorizon and, after a notably bitter rant to some guys who were being assholes to their girlfriends, [[AndThenJohnWasAZombie turns into a Witch]]]].
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