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21st Jul '17 2:54:26 PM WriterGirl2015
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* ''Manga/TokyoGhoul'': Mutsuki is a trans male with scars and biologically female which attracts a sexual interest from Torso who is attracted to women with scars. He eventually captures and marries him while misgendering him and objectifying Tooru like a LustObject. Once when Tooru rejected him Torso responded by beating him in anger and saying "it's just me a man and you a woman here alone together so you've got no choice but to love me!"
** Mutsuki adopts the "force your love in a twisted fashion on your special someone" aspect from Torso and develops these feelings for Sasaki/Kaneki especially after getting jealous when seeing him interact with Touka.
25th Jun '17 8:44:50 PM Kogarashi
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* Similarly, country group Old Dominion's "Break Up With Him" is about a guy trying to convince a girl to leave her current boyfriend for him, with such lines as:
--> ''I know you say you're taken, but I say girl you're taking too long to tell him that it's over''
--> ''(...)''
--> ''C'mon you can't deny that you and I kinda fit like a glove''
--> ''(...)''
--> ''You would've hung up by now if you weren't thinking it too''
18th May '17 9:59:24 AM PrincessGwen
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** Merope in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheHalfBloodPrince'' [[TroubledAbuser was a unhappy woman]] who was abused by her father and brother. In her unhappiness, Merope projected her dreams of happiness onto the wealthy and handsome young noble, Tom Riddle, Sr., who already had a girlfriend. Using a LovePotion to force Tom to abandon his parents and girlfriend to run off with her, Merope had a [[ChildByRape child with him]]. After enough time had passed, Merope simply expected Tom to love her and thus ended the spell, unsurprisingly Tom ran off in terror rather then return the affection of the witch who had enslaved him.

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** Merope in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheHalfBloodPrince'' [[TroubledAbuser was a an unhappy woman]] who was abused by her father and brother. In her unhappiness, Merope projected her dreams of happiness onto the wealthy and handsome young noble, Tom Riddle, Sr., who already had a girlfriend. Using a LovePotion to force Tom to abandon his parents and girlfriend to run off with her, Merope had a [[ChildByRape child with him]]. After enough time had passed, Merope simply expected Tom to love her and thus ended the spell, unsurprisingly spell. Unsurprisingly, Tom ran off in terror rather then than return the affection of the witch who had enslaved him.



* Music/AvrilLavigne: The infamous "Girlfriend" song is about a JerkAss "punk girl" who hounds a boy who's already taken, insists that his much more homely girlfriend is "like whatever" and tells him that she's a better lay so he should date her instead (while said girlfriend [[TheChewToy is constantly punished for being upset due to that]]). Lavigne says that she intended to either poke fun or call out girls who do such shit, but the video to the song plays this trope ''infamously'' straight.

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* Music/AvrilLavigne: The infamous "Girlfriend" song is about a JerkAss {{Jerkass}} "punk girl" who hounds a boy who's already taken, insists that his much more homely girlfriend is "like whatever" and tells him that she's a better lay so he should date her instead (while said girlfriend [[TheChewToy is constantly punished for being upset due to that]]). Lavigne says that she intended to either poke fun or call out girls who do such shit, but the video to the song plays this trope ''infamously'' straight.
18th May '17 6:30:08 AM PastaCow
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* Both fans and haters of [[PsychoSoldier Sie]] [[VideoGame/TheKingOfFighters Kensou]] say that he thinks Athena Asamiya owes him sex since he's had a massive crush on her from early times in the franchise. The haters insist that he's an entitled shit who wants a pityfuck and would rape Athena if he could, the fans reply that he ''does'' deserve Athena's affections better for supporting her and call her UngratefulBitch. In reality, Kensou ''[[DownplayedTrope very]]'' [[DownplayedTrope rarely]] falls into this: he's shown as being [[ButtMonkey comically]] [[CrazyJealousGuy jealous]] when it seems Athena may not like him -- but in the counted times when she ''does'' need help, [[UndyingLoyalty he helps her out WITHOUT any second intentions.]]

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* Both fans and haters of [[PsychoSoldier Sie]] [[VideoGame/TheKingOfFighters Kensou]] say that he thinks Athena Asamiya owes him sex since he's had a massive crush on her from early times in the franchise. The haters insist that he's an entitled shit bastard who wants a pityfuck pity sex and would rape Athena if he could, the fans reply that he ''does'' deserve Athena's affections better for supporting her and call her UngratefulBitch. In reality, Kensou ''[[DownplayedTrope very]]'' [[DownplayedTrope rarely]] falls into this: he's shown as being [[ButtMonkey comically]] [[CrazyJealousGuy jealous]] when it seems Athena may not like him -- but in the counted times when she ''does'' need help, [[UndyingLoyalty he helps her out WITHOUT any second intentions.]]
17th May '17 8:35:29 AM ShorinBJ
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* In ''Literature/{{Twilight}}'', Jacob starts to develop this view towards Bella. He argues that he was there for her when Edward was not, and thus she should dump Edward and switch to him. This leads to him forcibly kissing her twice to show her what she's missing, a tactic which works on her. This trope also is implied to be how imprinting operates. When a werewolf imprints on a girl, everyone - from the werewolf himself to the rest of his pack to ''everyone'' who knows about imprinting - expects the girl to come to terms with what's going on and hook up with the werewolf. Jacob even says that while the girl technically has a choice in the matter, he doesn't see why she would choose to turn down the werewolf.

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* In ''Literature/{{Twilight}}'', Jacob starts to develop this view towards Bella. He argues that he was there for her when Edward was not, and thus she should dump Edward and switch to him. This leads to him forcibly kissing her twice to show her what she's missing, a tactic which works on her. This trope also is implied to be how imprinting operates. When a werewolf imprints on a girl, everyone - from the werewolf himself to the rest of his pack to ''everyone'' who knows about imprinting - expects the girl to come to terms with what's going on and hook up with the werewolf. Jacob even says that while the girl technically has a choice in the matter, he doesn't see why she would choose to turn down the werewolf.werewolf, because he would make himself into whatever she needs.



** Snape seems to have had at least a degree of this in regards to [[spoiler: Lily Evans. They were childhood friends who bonded over being magical kids in a world of muggles, and Snape loved her since the beginning. She ended her friendship (and any potential romance) in their fifth year, when he became more and more invested in the dark arts and publicly called her a slur, but he never stopped loving her. A good portion of his bullying of Harry was due to him being Lily's son to a man he hated.]]
** Merope in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheHalfBloodPrince'' [[TroubledAbuser was a unhappy woman]] who was abused by her father and brother. In her unhappiness, Merope projected her dreams of happiness onto the wealthy and handsome young noble, Tom Riddle Sr who already had a girlfriend. Using a LovePotion to force Tom to abandon his parents and girlfriend to run off with her, Merope had a [[ChildByRape child with him]]. After enough time had passed, Merope simply expected Tom to love her and thus ended the spell, unsurprisingly Tom ran off in terror rather then return the affection of the witch who had enslaved him.

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** Snape seems to have had at least a degree of this in regards to [[spoiler: Lily Evans. They were childhood friends who bonded over being magical kids in a world of muggles, and Snape loved her since the beginning. She ended her friendship (and any potential romance) in their fifth year, when he became more and more invested in the dark arts and publicly called her a slur, but he never stopped loving her. A good portion of his bullying of Harry was due to him being Lily's son to by a man he hated.]]
** Merope in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheHalfBloodPrince'' [[TroubledAbuser was a unhappy woman]] who was abused by her father and brother. In her unhappiness, Merope projected her dreams of happiness onto the wealthy and handsome young noble, Tom Riddle Sr Riddle, Sr., who already had a girlfriend. Using a LovePotion to force Tom to abandon his parents and girlfriend to run off with her, Merope had a [[ChildByRape child with him]]. After enough time had passed, Merope simply expected Tom to love her and thus ended the spell, unsurprisingly Tom ran off in terror rather then return the affection of the witch who had enslaved him.
25th Apr '17 4:58:40 PM Pteryx
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The ''what they do'' type is usually more passive-aggressive, and one of the big reasons why being a self-defined "NiceGuy" might mean something entirely different from actually being good or even nice. (See also NiceGuysFinishLast; contrast DoggedNiceGuy and AllGirlsWantBadBoys, where the nice guy actually ''is'' nice, or at least [[TheScrappy expected to be seen as such according to the narrative]].) However, this behavior is not limited to guys who consider themselves nice. A straight {{Jerkass}} character might buy a woman a drinků without informing her that he considers her a very cheap hooker whom he has now bought and is entitled to use.

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The ''what they do'' type is usually more passive-aggressive, and one of the big reasons why being a self-defined "NiceGuy" "[[WantsAPrizeForBasicDecency Nice Guy]]" might mean something entirely different from actually being good or even nice. (See also NiceGuysFinishLast; contrast DoggedNiceGuy and AllGirlsWantBadBoys, where the nice guy actually ''is'' nice, or at least [[TheScrappy expected to be seen as such according to the narrative]].) However, this behavior is not limited to guys who consider themselves nice. A straight {{Jerkass}} character might buy a woman a drinků without informing her that he considers her a very cheap hooker whom he has now bought and is entitled to use.
25th Apr '17 12:26:00 PM isoycrazy
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* In ''Series/BabylonFive'' "[[Recap/BabylonFiveS02E12ActsOfSacrifice Acts of Sacrifice]]" Commander Ivanova is tasked with getting the Lumati, a new race they have encountered, to sign a treaty with Earth. After a misunderstanding results in their representative to be impressed by Earth's culture, he agrees to sign the treaty. The catch is, as tradition is very important to his people, they must sign the accord as is customary with his people: they will have sex. Ivanova, guessing the person is as ignorant of Earth culture as she was of his, tricks him into agreeing to have sex "human style" and [[spoiler:does a fun dance around him saying some pick-up lines and screaming a fake orgasm]] and gets him to leave. It is noted by the series creator had her commanding officer been the one meeting this representative, he too would have been expected by the Lumati to put out.
4th Apr '17 8:45:05 PM Monsund
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* Snape from ''Literature/HarryPotter'' seems to have had at least a degree of this in regards to [[spoiler: Lily Evans. They were childhood friends who bonded over being magical kids in a world of muggles, and Snape loved her since the beginning. She ended her friendship (and any potential romance) in their fifth year, when he became more and more invested in the dark arts and publicly called her a slur, but he never stopped loving her. A good portion of his bullying of Harry was due to him being Lily's son to a man he hated.]]

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Snape from ''Literature/HarryPotter'' seems to have had at least a degree of this in regards to [[spoiler: Lily Evans. They were childhood friends who bonded over being magical kids in a world of muggles, and Snape loved her since the beginning. She ended her friendship (and any potential romance) in their fifth year, when he became more and more invested in the dark arts and publicly called her a slur, but he never stopped loving her. A good portion of his bullying of Harry was due to him being Lily's son to a man he hated.]]]]
** Merope in ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheHalfBloodPrince'' [[TroubledAbuser was a unhappy woman]] who was abused by her father and brother. In her unhappiness, Merope projected her dreams of happiness onto the wealthy and handsome young noble, Tom Riddle Sr who already had a girlfriend. Using a LovePotion to force Tom to abandon his parents and girlfriend to run off with her, Merope had a [[ChildByRape child with him]]. After enough time had passed, Merope simply expected Tom to love her and thus ended the spell, unsurprisingly Tom ran off in terror rather then return the affection of the witch who had enslaved him.
20th Mar '17 12:17:26 PM Lightysnake
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[[AliceAndBob Bob]] identifies himself with a community, a nationality, a religion, a subculture or whatever. As such Bob feels Alice is obligated to be with him, one way or another. Perhaps, given that they identify with the same construct, she will be a [[CategoryTraitor "traitor" to "their kind"]] if she does not date or marry within it. Or maybe he just feels that by belonging to the category he "deserves" her more than someone that does not. The former justification often goes hand-in-hand with the latter. If Alice complies, she might even discover that Bob is willing to take his sense of entitlement further still.

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[[AliceAndBob Bob]] identifies himself with a community, a nationality, a religion, a subculture or whatever. As such Bob feels Alice is obligated to be with him, one way or another. Perhaps, given that they identify with the same construct, she will be a [[CategoryTraitor "traitor" to "their kind"]] if she does not date or marry within it. Or maybe he just feels that by belonging to the category he "deserves" her more than someone that does not. The former justification often goes hand-in-hand with the latter. If Alice complies, she might even discover that Bob is willing to take his sense of entitlement [[MaritalRapeLicense further still.
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14th Mar '17 1:02:52 PM HighCrate
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* Happens more than a few times in ''ComicBook/TexWiller'', the most notable being a "Who They Are" a Navajo (and rejected suitor) used to justify his kidnapping of Lilyth, Tex' wife, shortly after their wedding-resulting in the Navajo being shot by ''his accomplice'' (a man from another tribe who had a beef with Tex and manipulated him into bringing him a hostage). [[RoaringRampageOfRevenge Considering what Tex does to anyone who threatens or hurts his family]] and [[FateWorseThanDeath what he did to the accomplice]], he got off easy.

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* %%* Happens more than a few times in ''ComicBook/TexWiller'', the most notable being a "Who They Are" a Navajo (and rejected suitor) used to justify his kidnapping of Lilyth, Tex' wife, shortly after their wedding-resulting in the Navajo being shot by ''his accomplice'' (a man from another tribe who had a beef with Tex and manipulated him into bringing him a hostage). [[RoaringRampageOfRevenge Considering what Tex does to anyone who threatens or hurts his family]] and [[FateWorseThanDeath what he did to the accomplice]], he got off easy.
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