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Vorthon from a pale blue dot Since: Feb, 2010
#1: Sep 30th 2010 at 9:58:21 AM

I'm a little over ten months away from being legally considered an adult (here in Canada, anyways), and I've been looking at who I am lately. I can't help but be a little disturbed. I've developed a masochistic streak, to the point where my ideal relationship would be a total power exchange where I'm the one who is essentially stripped of their freedom. The reason I find this disturbing is that I'm normally the kind of person who doesn't like to be controlled, yet I find the idea of being reduced to a slave... well, 'exciting' (IYKWIM). I'm confused about who I am, really.

Help please?

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Kino Since: Aug, 2010 Relationship Status: Californicating
#2: Sep 30th 2010 at 10:10:26 AM

We all have our kinks; you should come to the Fetishes page.

BalloonFleet MASTER-DEBATER from Chicago, IL, USA Since: Jun, 2010
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#3: Sep 30th 2010 at 11:17:09 AM

You like being humiliated and forced to do things you 'normally' wouldn't want to....

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FeoTakahari Fuzzy Orange Doomsayer from Looking out at the city Since: Sep, 2009
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#4: Sep 30th 2010 at 4:39:16 PM

What are the laws in your region? I know some places (such as Britain and Italy) have a possibility of arrest for even consensual BDSM if the authorities discover it.

Also, I would probably recommend against any full-time contracts, for the simple reason that there's more to life than sex.

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ChristopherAlgoo Red Oni from New York City Since: Jan, 2001
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#5: Oct 4th 2010 at 9:05:52 AM

If you're going to give all of your agency to another person, you should be entirely sure that they'll always have your best interests at heart. Somehow I don't think such a person is easy to find. If you give someone else your control you'll have none for yourself.

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jaimeastorga2000 Indeed Since: May, 2011
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#6: Oct 4th 2010 at 9:16:54 AM

I think Fetishes might be more qualified to help you with this issue than On-Topic Conversations.

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Ettina Since: Apr, 2009
#7: Oct 5th 2010 at 10:51:41 AM

If this bothers you, look into counseling. They might be able to change this, by figuring out the underlying reasons for it.

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