Insecurity, Sadness, Anxiety, and such matters II:

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This is Troper Counseling Services and Support Group: round two because the old one broke.

In this thread, you can talk about any problems or stress you are experiencing without fear of judgement or condescension. No problem is too small for you to talk about. Do not worry that your problems are annoying or petty or what have you; we're here to help and we're here to listen.

Carry on.

edited 25th Jan '13 3:16:33 PM by Willbyr

40426 TrollPost6th Oct 2012 09:51:24 AM from troll post crusher
40427 SlendidSuit6th Oct 2012 09:57:44 AM from Probably a Pub
UNIVERSITY IS NEARLY OVER PANIC EVERYONE
I really wish I had some answers.
I remember you talking about your wife before, she got you that book right? From the sounds of things, I think she understands. I mean, she can't know what it's like to go what you're going through but love stands stronger than that kind of shit.
It's not about "what good you are" to her. You're you and you're there, and that's enough.

That sounded a lot less crap in my head. Sorry, I hope the meaning's understandable.
Gimme yer lunch money, dweeb.
40428 TrollPost6th Oct 2012 09:58:48 AM from troll post crusher
40429 SlendidSuit6th Oct 2012 10:01:03 AM from Probably a Pub
UNIVERSITY IS NEARLY OVER PANIC EVERYONE
Nothing to be sorry for, man.
Wish I could be more helpful though :L
Gimme yer lunch money, dweeb.
There's no need to apologize, Jones. But Slendy is right, your wife might not fully understand what you're going through, but I'm sure she's doing her best and, more importantly, she has not given up on you. You're going through a hard phase and she knows that.
40431 TrollPost6th Oct 2012 10:10:51 AM from troll post crusher
40432 SlendidSuit6th Oct 2012 10:16:24 AM from Probably a Pub
UNIVERSITY IS NEARLY OVER PANIC EVERYONE
Ah, everyone gets that way every now and then. There'll always be someone here for when it gets too much from my understanding. Sympathetic internet people are amazing.

Well you mentioned going for the Fire Department interview tomorrow, that should help shouldn't it?
Gimme yer lunch money, dweeb.
40433 TrollPost6th Oct 2012 10:18:38 AM from troll post crusher
Good luck Jones. I'm hoping you'll get better.
40435 SlendidSuit6th Oct 2012 10:24:46 AM from Probably a Pub
UNIVERSITY IS NEARLY OVER PANIC EVERYONE
[up] Seconded. I hope things get better for you Jones.
Gimme yer lunch money, dweeb.
Ally of Justice
@Inverurie Jones

I don't think you need to apologize, considering everyone could just ignore your posts as well. Remember that people choose to answer you. Nobody here is obliged to do so.
Give light, and the darkness will disappear of itself.
40437 lordGacek6th Oct 2012 01:30:57 PM from Kansas of Europe
KVLFON
So I see, a couple of pages ago, ATC saw self as sort of The Artifact of old TVT, I have to say I feel the same once in a while. But, the thread moved on, so that's all from me here.

edited 6th Oct '12 2:58:42 PM by lordGacek

"Atheism is the religion whose followers are easiest to troll"
I've lost prety much all motivation, I'm just soscared and depressed that I don't feel like I can do anyting but lie on the couch and watch tv.

edited 6th Oct '12 3:26:32 PM by JudeDismas

40439 Haldo6th Oct 2012 05:39:32 PM from Never never land , Relationship Status: Coming soon to theaters
Indecisive pumpkin
Ugh, I'm drifting apart from the person I've been best friends with since Freshman year.

Thankfully, I still have other good friends, but this still really sucks.
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^These are interrobangs. Love them. Learn them. Use them.
40440 Indigo12ash6th Oct 2012 05:43:24 PM from Aperture Science
Ouch, that sucks, Haldo. Like, you said, it's nice that you have other good friends.
Momentum, a function of mass and velocity, is conserved between portals. In layman's terms: speedy thing goes in, speedy thing comes out.
My parents think I should see a therapist due to my extremely accurate self-esteem and general wangstiness. I said I didn't think that would help at all "why should I pay someone to say the things you've already said to me?" and that it would be too expensive. I'm really ashamed that I fought with my parents. I was feeling really depressed last night, but I had resolved not to complain about it to anyone in real life or online. Didn't take me long to break both of those resolutions.

edited 6th Oct '12 6:55:21 PM by apathetice

Journey before destination.
40442 imojee6th Oct 2012 06:59:39 PM from The Desert , Relationship Status: In bed with a green-skinned space babe
Be evil
@apathetice: It does sound like you could benefit from seeing a therapist. What you need to remember is that your parents are not mental health professionals, so seeing an actual mental health professional could actually greatly help you, if you can let them. The biggest step to improvement is wanting to get better, so give it a chance.

And don't feel bad about "complaining" to others. It is remarkably difficult bordering on impossible to face off against any issue related to mental health and prevail on your own. There are other people willing to help you, as long as you let them
Through the eyes I have known you.
40443 DrunkGirlfriend6th Oct 2012 07:19:43 PM from Castle Geekhaven
[up][up] Yeah, seeing a therapist is probably a good idea. They have an outside perspective on the situation, and might have better suggestions than your parents.
"I don't know how I do it. I'm like the Mr. Bean of sex." -Drunkscriblerian
[up],[up][up] Thanks.

edited 6th Oct '12 7:42:56 PM by apathetice

Journey before destination.
40445 Wheezy6th Oct 2012 07:59:14 PM from Tampa, FL. Again.
(That Guy You Met Once)
I want to die, but I can't get professional help at the moment.
40446 imojee6th Oct 2012 08:11:58 PM from The Desert , Relationship Status: In bed with a green-skinned space babe
Be evil
@Wheezy: What's preventing you from getting professional help?
Through the eyes I have known you.
40447 Wheezy6th Oct 2012 08:20:07 PM from Tampa, FL. Again.
(That Guy You Met Once)
[up] No money for a psychiatrist, just hung up while waiting for Crisis Center because they were taking 15+ minutes to answer.
40448 Sharysa6th Oct 2012 08:25:41 PM from Alameda, CA , Relationship Status: Dancing with Captain Jack Harkness
The local bard
Well, turns out all those inconveniently-timed phone calls that were always around my class times were from my hospital trying to follow up on the therapy thing.

And so they sent a letter, and then Mom found it.

Thankfully I really DID have no idea that I couldn't just call up the mental health department and then see a therapist for consultation (which explains the hell I went through trying to call people), so I was mostly truthful when I gave that as the reason I didn't tell her first.

And now Mom completely fails to understand that I can't talk to her about things because she will inevitably say, "going to church/believing in god/faith will solve everything." Regardless of her being Catholic, "faith will solve everything" is NOT how I see things.

Unfortunately, my doctor is on medical leave and aside from going to her co-workers, I can't actually talk to HER until next year.

I just managed to get Mom to let me make my own decisions about my mental health.

edited 6th Oct '12 8:30:18 PM by Sharysa

40449 DrunkGirlfriend6th Oct 2012 08:40:04 PM from Castle Geekhaven
[up][up] Anything you need to get off your chest?

[up] Well, that's a good first step, telling your mom to let you decide your mental health options. smile
"I don't know how I do it. I'm like the Mr. Bean of sex." -Drunkscriblerian
40450 Sharysa6th Oct 2012 08:59:17 PM from Alameda, CA , Relationship Status: Dancing with Captain Jack Harkness
The local bard
And I reaaaaally couldn't tell Mom that a lot of my issues have been alleviated by my work with a Native medicine woman. Mostly because I need answers to all the stuff that's been happening, and seeing as she's very experienced, she has a lot of answers.

I still need a normal therapist because there's a lot of issues that really have no spiritual cause at all.

Mainly concerning child abuse, and my mom's refusal to accept my choice in career.

edited 6th Oct '12 9:02:09 PM by Sharysa


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