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HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#51: Mar 15th 2011 at 2:51:02 PM

The problem is, there's not much of a way to test this. We can't just put a bunch of babies on an island and see what sort of society they develop.

And we can't have volunteers try to set up communities that entirely genderless, because they're not free from a societal imprint.

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feotakahari Fuzzy Orange Doomsayer from Looking out at the city Since: Sep, 2009
Fuzzy Orange Doomsayer
#52: Mar 15th 2011 at 4:37:49 PM

If we assume that gender roles primarily exist for biological reasons, then our best approach would be to promote general tolerance of "unusual" people, so as to increase acceptance of people who for one reason or another have traits that are uncommon in their gender. If gender roles are primarily cultural, this increased acceptance may actually lead to their slow dissolution. The problem, then, would seem to be finding the best way to promote tolerance.

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HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#53: Mar 15th 2011 at 4:56:37 PM

The problem is we don't have a way to determine which is the case.

And if they are cultural there's no reason why they would eventually be dissolved.

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theoneguy theoneguy Since: Sep, 2010
theoneguy
#54: Mar 16th 2011 at 5:40:37 PM

Holy Crap 53 posts?! I'm so proud!

But yes, gender roles are obsolete in our post-industrial society where sex really doesn't make much difference in what a person can or can't do anymore, but their so embedded in our cultural mind-views that it would be very difficult to try and remove or change them. Perhaps the best we can do is lessen their effect of ostracizing those who don't fit within 'normal' boundaries.

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#55: Mar 16th 2011 at 5:42:00 PM

... I'm staying out of this thread. Not only am I more worried about the situation in Japan right now. This is blatant Evo Psych bait.

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HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#56: Mar 16th 2011 at 5:44:40 PM

No, what I'm saying is, if it's cultural and not biological (which I don't think is the case), than culture determines what happens. You can say what culture should do, but it will likely have no bearing on what it will do.

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Rottweiler Dog and Pony Show from Portland, Oregon Since: Dec, 2009
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#57: Mar 16th 2011 at 8:41:32 PM

But yes, gender roles are obsolete in our post-industrial society where sex really doesn't make much difference in what a person can or can't do anymore,

Can males have babies?

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Aondeug Oh My from Our Dreams Since: Jun, 2009
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#58: Mar 16th 2011 at 8:43:09 PM

We're working on it, Rott.

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Jordan Azor Ahai from Westeros Since: Jan, 2001
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#59: Mar 16th 2011 at 8:44:49 PM

Insert fanfiction here.

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Kolikeos Just Me from Israel Since: Jan, 2001
Just Me
#60: Mar 17th 2011 at 7:35:57 AM

Can males have babies?

And that justifies everything?

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Chalkos Sidequest Proliferator from The Internets Since: Oct, 2010
Sidequest Proliferator
#61: Mar 17th 2011 at 11:13:43 AM

Mmm, the joys of SCIENCE!

Rottweiler Dog and Pony Show from Portland, Oregon Since: Dec, 2009
Dog and Pony Show
#62: Mar 17th 2011 at 11:18:04 AM

And that justifies everything?

Define what you mean by "everything". A particular set of sex roles may be oppressive, but sex roles themselves are in no way unjust a priori. Maybe they would be if males and females were physiologically identical, but we're not. Different natures make different behavior proper.

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Kolikeos Just Me from Israel Since: Jan, 2001
Just Me
#63: Mar 17th 2011 at 11:51:37 AM

The differences are minor. Most sex roles are not the result of any physical or psychological differences between males and females. Therefore, yes, I do think that all sex roles are unjust. We are being confined to a particular set of behaviors for no good reason.

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Rottweiler Dog and Pony Show from Portland, Oregon Since: Dec, 2009
Dog and Pony Show
#64: Mar 17th 2011 at 11:58:36 AM

The differences are minor.

So males can have babies, then?

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HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#65: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:04:30 PM

Why couldn't we have an estrous cycle? Than we wouldn't even think about this stuff except for one month a year.

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Meeble likes the cheeses. from the ruins of Granseal Since: Aug, 2009
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#66: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:09:59 PM

Maybe they would be if males and females were physiologically identical, but we're not. Different natures make different behavior proper.

Using the same argument, no two men are psychologically identical to each other, nor are any two randomly selected women. So why should we force all of a particular gender to conform to roles they are not psychologically suited for?

And no, I'm not saying that this means men can give birth if they wish really hard. However I am saying that if a man is more suited to staying at home to raise the kids, and a woman is more suited to pursuing a career, there should be no restrictions that prevent either from doing so to the best of their abilities.

edited 17th Mar '11 12:10:43 PM by Meeble

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Rottweiler Dog and Pony Show from Portland, Oregon Since: Dec, 2009
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#67: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:13:19 PM

However I am saying that if a man is more suited to staying at home to raise the kids, and a woman is more suited to pursuing a career, there should be no restrictions that prevent either from doing so to the best of their abilities.

A male's abilities here are inferior, since he doesn't lactate.

Infant formula leads to lower immune function and IQ, so is totally unacceptable if you accept the premise that giving your children the best trumps ideology.

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HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#68: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:17:20 PM

^But after breast feeding?

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Kolikeos Just Me from Israel Since: Jan, 2001
Just Me
#69: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:24:34 PM

As Meeble's example shows, the ability (or lack) to give birth does not mean a person must behave a certain way or another. The ability to give birth is not what causes women to stay home and men to work.

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HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#70: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:27:22 PM

^No, but the ability to care for that child immediately after giving birth does.

Neither of you are considering the whole of a child's existance.

Or the fact that in many house holds both parents work, making the question kind of immaterial.

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#71: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:28:00 PM

The invention of breast pumps allow for a baby to feed off of breast milk for as long as the mother wishes to produce it without the mother actually being present.

Even without that, a child commonly only breast-feeds for a limited time period. After that, there is no reason a capable father could not fill the role of household caregiver while the mother pursues outside career options.

This isn't even considering the fact that many men and women (more and more every year, in fact) are not even interested in having children to begin with, and their career and life goals should not be limited by the fact that they are biologically capable/incapable of having children they don't want in the first place.

edited 17th Mar '11 12:36:50 PM by Meeble

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HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#72: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:32:15 PM

@Meeble: Hasn't the actual act of breastfeeding been shown to be an important thing in child development?

But yeah, you do have a point, that the main biological arguments for gender roles pretain to child rearing, and outside of that they lose some credence.

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randomtropeloser Since: Jan, 2001
#73: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:34:44 PM

@Rott: I'm a bit late, but yes, men can indeed have babies. Edit: Or at least they could, if the link worked.

edited 17th Mar '11 12:35:16 PM by randomtropeloser

HungryJoe Gristknife from Under the Tree Since: Dec, 2009
Gristknife
#74: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:42:37 PM

No, a man can have his life threatend by a likely doomed fetus.

Plus he would likely be unable to breast feed afterwards.

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http://www.science20.com/challenging_nature/a_real_pregnant_man_almost_certainly_possible_but_it_might_kill_him

edited 17th Mar '11 12:43:45 PM by HungryJoe

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randomtropeloser Since: Jan, 2001
#75: Mar 17th 2011 at 12:44:30 PM

[up]The internet seems to really hate that link, for some reason... Anyway yeah, medicine would have to come a long way for it to work safely, I just thought it was interesting that the answer is technically yes. As for the breastfeeding thing, men can lactate under certain conditions, though probably not enough to feed a baby.

edited 17th Mar '11 12:44:37 PM by randomtropeloser


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