Tropers / Mazz

I keep coming back to the site in hopes of maybe making good changes but then I run into certain posts and remember why I keep wanting to leave for good. Selective memory has never been more infuriating.

I am female, btw. People keep assuming I'm male (because of the androgynous name, I guess?)
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Tropers/Mazz