Line #25 PlayingWith/ObliviousToLove


1	'''Basic Trope''': A character who is completely unaware of any romantic intentions.
2	* '''Straight''': Alice has a thing for Bob. She repeatedly hints that she'd like to ask him out on a date, but he either doesn't understand or ignores her hints.
3	* '''Exaggerated''':
4	** Alice goes the whole nine yards -- she writes songs for Bob and buys him gifts. But at the end of the day, Bob still doesn't realize that she likes him.
5	** Bob doesn't just notice Alice's crush on him. He also didn't notice Charlotte's crush on Danny neither Ethan's crush on Francine.
6	** Bob noticed everyone else’s crushes, only he never notices Alice's crush on him.
7	** Alice outright tells Bob she loves him, and even proposes to him. He still doesn't get the hint.
8	** Not only is Bob completely unaware of Alice's feelings for him, he also doesn't realize [[UnknowinglyInLove that they're reciprocated]].
9	* '''Downplayed''': Bob is not sure whether Alice is flirting with him or not.
10	* '''Justified''':
11	** Bob is completely unaware of things like love and romance, so Alice has her work cut out for her.
12	** Bob is LiteralMinded and Alice was coming onto him with idioms.
13	** Bob knows that LoveHurts, so he protects himself with SelectiveObliviousness.
14	** Bob has NoSocialSkills (can go hand-in-hand with being autistic).
15	** Bob is ShellShockedVeteran, hiding himself as StepfordSmiler. He's completely aware of this problem and doesn't believe that Alice would accept the mental wreckage he is underneath.
16	** Bob is TheMatchmaker, and he never sees love as something for himself.
17	** Bob is a poor relative, taken in by his cousins after his parents -- a mesalliance -- died; he's aware that [[UnableToSupportAWife he has no money]] by the standards of the women he meets, and that they consider him below their class; he can't believe any woman would throw away her life to be with him.
18	** Bob is considerably older than Alice and the normal age of marriage in their culture; he can accept being doomed to bachelorhood by his age and does not realize that she would accept it.
19	** Alice ThinksLikeARomanceNovel and doesn't notice Bob's feelings for her because things aren't playing out like they did in the novels she read.
20	** Bob is afraid of making the wrong assumption about how Alice feels about him and making himself look like an ass.
21	** Bob was abused as a child, so love and romance is an alien concept to him.
22	** Bob wasn't taught about romance and hasn't had Sex-Ed since his youth so he usually thinks familial love is as the same as romantic love.
23	** Bob is aromantic and does not even understand Alice's romantic advances, maybe even finding them weird or creepy.
24	** Alice is a MasterOfTheMixedMessage.
25	** Alice gives a [[ObliviousToHisOwnDescription description of the man she loves]], describing Bob in dreamy ways he would never describe himself with.
26	* '''Inverted''':
27	** Alice [[WhatIsThisFeeling has a strange feeling and is oblivious to her own feelings]].
28	** Bob [[MistakenForFlirting thinks everything that Alice says is a come-on]] -- even when it's not.
29	* '''Subverted''':
30	** Alice is able to get through to Bob -- he agrees to go out on a date with her.
31	** It turns out that Alice is an UnreliableNarrator, and never really got enough courage to give any good hint.
32	** Alice did drop hints, but ended up getting rejected multiple times by Bob.
33	** Bob knew along. He just [[ObfuscatingStupidity played dumb]] instead of rejecting her because he didn't want to hurt her feelings or make things awkward between them.
34	** Bob pretended not to notice Alice's feelings because he sees her as beneath him. The thought of her having a crush on him gives him an ego boost, but he would never reciprocate it.
35	* '''Double Subverted''':
36	** However, he had a vastly different understanding of what a "date" is.
37	** Alice sends out a truly good hint and Bob still doesn't get it.
38	** Bob was rejecting her for other things, not the date itself. For instance, Alice says, "Do you want to see Movie X with me?" and Bob says, "No" [[ComicallyMissingThePoint because he doesn't want to see Movie X]]. He had no idea it would be a date.
39	** Then Charlie hits on Alice and Bob has a GreenEyedEpiphany. He was oblivious to his own feelings, not hers.
40	** Alice ultimately gives up on Bob and moves on to someone else. Bob misses her more than he expects but she doesn't believe it, thus provoking an UnrequitedLoveSwitcheroo.
41	* '''Parodied''':
42	** "What a strange thing for a woman who's not interested in me to do!"
43	** Bob makes every effort he can to be around Alice, but when [[EveryoneCanSeeIt anyone tells him it's obvious he's in love with her]], [[{{Tsundere}} he has no idea what they're talking about]] (and indeed, maybe he ''doesn't''). Alice meanwhile, doesn't seem to think his advances are romantic, even though Bob [[WithThisRing told her he wanted to get her a ring]]. In other words, they're ''both'' oblivious, and Bob is a failure of a {{tsundere}}.
44	** Bob does a SherlockScan of two random strangers, picking up from subtle body language cues that they are in love, yet fails to notice Alice practically throwing herself at him.
45	** Bob is a LivingLieDetector, able to tell when people are lying, [[MetaphoricallyTrue telling half truths]], and often can tell their motivation from lying. Despite this he takes Alice's stammering "It's...not...like...I...like...you" to heart completely.
46	** Bob is a CasanovaWannabe who shamelessly flirts with every female character in the cast ''except'' Alice, but is constantly shot down.
47	* '''Zig-Zagged''': Alice ignores Bob's advances, but then blushes towards small flirts, which she forgets, and then he moves on. Alice becomes jealous and takes Bob back for herself, but then forgets why the next day. Essentially, GreenEyedEpiphany meets GroundhogDayLoop.
48	* '''Averted''': Bob understands what Alice means the entire time.
49	* '''Enforced''': The creator wants to write a romance but has no idea how to actually write a couple and wants to avoid ShippingBedDeath, and so uses this to drive the romance plot until it's time for the LastMinuteHookup.
50	* '''Lampshaded''':
51	** "I don't get it, Maria. I keep trying to ask him out, but he keeps giving me these vague answers."
52	**
53	-->'''Bob''': How do you think I can find love?\
54	'''Charlie''': Well, getting rid of your Alice-shaped blind spot would help.
55	* '''Invoked''': Bob is very aware of Alice's interest in him but doesn't want her as a girlfriend, so he hopes that by invoking this trope and feigning obliviousness she'll eventually stop trying to woo him.
56	* '''Exploited''': Charlie manages to temp Alice away by pointing out that Bob will never reciprocate.
57	* '''Defied''': Alice decides to sit Bob down and clearly enunciate her feelings for him.
58	* '''Discussed''': "I don't understand it. How can Bob be a whiz at picking up non-verbal cues from everyone around him but fail to notice I'm crushing on him? He can't be faking it... right?"
59	* '''Conversed''': "It's a wonder Bob is so clueless.", "Don't forget Alice, she could always just ask outright and see what happens."
60	* '''Implied''': Bob complains that no one loves him. Alice gets uncomfortable and says, "I know for a fact that's not true." [[AbortedArc We never find out what she really meant]].
61	* '''Deconstructed''':
62	** Alice gives up on Bob because he never gets the hint. He misses out on what might have been an incredibly fulfilling relationship.
63	** Bob grew up in a troubled environment, so while he can love, the idea of someone loving him is something he finds shocking. He doesn't know how love is and it's a hassle for both parties.
64	* '''Reconstructed''':
65	** Alice eventually succeeds in letting Bob know how she feels.
66	** Alice leaves Bob and uses her experience to find fulfillment with Sam, who she didn't realize was attracted to her.
67	* '''Played For Laughs''':
68	** Alice tries to get Bob's attention to the point that she kisses him, but Bob, as clueless as he is, wonders why Alice kissed him in the first place, causing MoodWhiplash to her and the audience in the most hilarious way.
69	** Alice goes to absurd lengths to let Bob realize her feelings, including holding a giant neon sign and numerous {{Zany Scheme}}s.
70	* '''Played For Drama''':
71	** Alice's inability to get through to Bob sends her into a deep depression.
72	** Bob DesperatelyCravesAffection, but also does not realize that Alice loves him. {{Angst}} ensues.
73	** Bob has [[HeroicSelfDeprecation severe self-esteem issues]] and cannot fathom the possibility that Alice would like him, especially if Alice [[UnequalPairing seems superior in some way]]. He’s not oblivious to her flirtation so much as fundamentally unable to [[DramaticallyMissingThePoint realize what it means]].
74	** Bob is autistic or aromantic and quite frankly [[BerserkButton it's starting to make him angry]] that Alice is all over him on a constant basis. Alice is going to have to learn the hard way that some people just are not capable of feeling the very specific kind of "love" that she is trying to force them to feel.
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