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6	A common ShipTease device and an occasional form of MeetCute and/or SamaritanRelationshipStarter, a Returning the Handkerchief scenario usually plays out according to the following script:
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8	1. Bob has somehow dirtied/bloodied/soaked himself.
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10	2. Alice walks by and, seeing Bob's plight, lends him a handkerchief.
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12	3. The two might talk for a while, but Alice usually leaves before Bob has managed to clean himself up.
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14	4. Left with just a dirty/bloody/soaked and borrowed handkerchief, Bob sets off to clean it and return it to Alice. [[ContrivedCoincidence Coincidence usually contrives]] to make this as awkward as possible, or Bob is already incredibly self-conscious about the whole affair, either because '''a.''' Alice is his crush, or '''b.''' he's [[GenreSavvy aware]] of the trope's romantic implications.
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16	Note that the scenario need not be StrictlyFormula to count as a ReturningTheHandkerchief plot: the core of the trope is that Alice has lost something, and Bob has it. The lost item serves to remind Bob of Alice and/or encourage him to seek another encounter with her. It is not altogether uncommon for the handkerchief to go entirely unmentioned upon their second meeting; in which case, the handkerchief is a MacGuffin that [[LawOfConservationOfDetail disappears from the story once it is no longer needed]].
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18	For returning the handkerchief to make any sense, it has to be a washable cloth one (and it usually tends to be a fancy, decorated one at that), which is slightly peculiar considering the prevalence of simple paper tissues in modern society -- especially Japan. This might contribute to the fact that the trope is largely [[DiscreditedTrope discredited]] these days; if a literal handkerchief does appear in the story, the setup is likely to be parodied or not played entirely straight.
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20	Western audiences might be more familiar with a similar comedy trope, in which Bob immediately offers the handkerchief back after being done with his business, and Alice politely rejects the sopping mess with a "keep it". The two forms likely evolved independently, however, and the classic gag is not this trope. Neither is a gentleman stooping to give back a hankie "accidentally" dropped by a Victorian lady, or a medieval knight being given one as a symbol of TheLadysFavour.
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22	Compare GlassSlipper. Not related to BitingTheHandkerchief.
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25	!!Examples:
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29	* The {{hentai}} anime ''Aneimo'' is an example of the handkerchief-as-MacGuffin variant: it isn't seen after that last screenshot, but the encounter quite firmly cements the relationship between the two characters.
30	%%* Inverted, subverted and combined with an IndulgentFantasySegue in ''Literature/BludgeoningAngelDokuroChan''.
31	* [[GenderInvertedTrope Gender-inverted]] in ''Manga/BlueExorcist'' -- [[{{Tsundere}} Izumo]] and her friend are attacked in the changing room, and [[AntiAntiChrist Rin]] is the first one to hear and come help. Since Izumo is in her underwear and freaked out by her inability to fight off the threat, Rin [[YouMustBeCold gives her his shirt]] so that she can quickly leave before anyone else sees her. She later returns it, freshly laundried, along with some complaints about how hard it was to clean.
32	* In ''Manga/DNAngel'', Satoshi lends his handkerchief to Daisuke in the first volume; Daisuke gives it back in the second volume during a chapter that begins to explore Satoshi's character more. This is definitely played for the HoYay.
33	* There's a mutant, and averted, version of this in ''Manga/EmmaAVictorianRomance''. Realizing that a well-to-do caller on her mistress has genuinely forgotten his gloves, she rushes out to return them. Initially, she fails, but manages to actually do so later. A further mutation of this occurs when she and the man in question begin to start up a friendship, which looks to be very quickly heading for romantic territory when Emma tells him she's always wanted a silk handkerchief for her own. He buys it for her on the spot.
34	* Parodied in a ''Manga/FullmetalAlchemist'' OVA, where Sig returns the bear carcass (!) that Izumi drops.
35	* In the ''Manga/GachaGacha'' manga by Tamakoshi, this occurs between Clara and Kouhei, although Clara is not the sweet type, the Kouhei got dirtied because she insisted on him fixing her bike.
36	* {{Averted\|Trope}} in the [[AnachronicOrder chronologically last]] episode of ''Literature/HaruhiSuzumiya'', ''Someday in the Rain'': Kyon returns soaking wet from a walk in the rain and Tsuruya cheerfully lends him a handkerchief in passing, but neither of the two thinks anything of it, and the handkerchief is never mentioned again.
37	* In ''Manga/HekikaiNoAiOn'', Tatsuya starts to weep when he believes he'll never be a "man of high caliber" and Seine gives him a handkerchief. Later, he tries to invoke this trope just to talk to her because she says to him to stay out of her way.
38	* In ''Manga/{{Imadoki}}'', Tanpopo ended up cutting her leg when she [[CrashIntoHello raced her bike over the closed school gate and crashed into Kouki]] and Kouki ties his handkerchief around the wound. She later washes the handkerchief and thinks of returning it, with Kouki telling her that he's surprised she made such a big deal out of that.
39	* {{Defied\|Trope}} in ''Manga/JojosBizarreAdventureStardustCrusaders''. When Alessi is defeated, Malèna attempts to return [[Characters/JoJosBizarreAdventureJeanpierrePolnareff Polnareff]]'s heart earring to him that he had lost during the battle, with her coming to the realization that he was the child who saved her life. Polnareff, attempting to show to [[Characters/JoJosBizarreAdventureJotaroKujo Jotaro]] how he's matured past being a ChivalrousPervert, refuses to take the earring back and [[SuspiciouslySpecificDenial denies that he was the one who saved her]], leaving Malèna to keep the earring.
40	* Played with in ''Manga/KenganAshura'', where Kaede goes to meet Wakatsuki after the latter's first match and offers him a handkerchief to clean the injuries he sustained from the match, after which he promises to clean it up and return it. The scene is played less as a ShipTease moment between the two, but to establish them as old acquaintances despite working for different companies. Wakatsuki himself has more ShipTease with Kaede's sister, Sakura, whom he asks about during this encounter.
41	* Parodied and discussed in ''Manga/LoveLab'', where Maki has embroidered her contact info and a sob story about her grandmother onto a massive handkerchief in hopes of picking up boys.
42	%%* Occurs in ''Manga/LuckyStar'' between Yutaka and Minami. As Minami was the Girl B, this trope was {{inverted}}.
43	%%* This is how Ikki and Karin meet in ''Anime/{{Medabots}}''.
44	* [[LoveFreak Momochi]] [[HighlyVisibleNinja Yuka]] in ''Manga/MyMonsterSecret'' tries to {{Invoke\|dTrope}} this with Asahi, but at the last moment she realizes she forgot her handkerchief. So instead, she drops ''{{caltrops}} and [[FlechetteStorm kunai]]'' at his feet.
45	* [[GenderInvertedTrope Gender-inverted]] in ''Anime/PokemonTheSeriesXY''. Ash left Serena with a handkerchief years ago and [[ForgottenFirstMeeting completely forgot about her]]. When she sees him on TV, she starts her own journey to find him and return it. She joins his crew afterwards.
46	%%* Occurs in episode 12 of ''Anime/RevolutionaryGirlUtena'' between [[LesYay Utena and Anthy]].
47	* Ultimately subverted by ''Anime/RideYourWave''. When they first meet, Hinako loans Wasabi her towel and Wasabi starts to develop feelings for her. However, she ends up with Minato instead. Even after Minato's death, Wasabi's attempt to romantically return the towel to her ends in failure, and Wasabi ends up going out with Yoko instead.
48	* Occurs in ''Anime/{{Shenmue}}: The Animation'' between Ryo and Nozomi, although their budding relationship is put on hold as Ryo pursues Lan Di in his quest to clear his late father Iwao's name.
49	%%* Done by DoggedNiceGuy Takahara in ''Literature/TaishoBaseballGirls''.
50	* A variant of it in ''Manga/TeasingMasterTakagiSan'': On his first day of middle school, Nishikata arrived late in class, grumbling it was the fault of a "Takagi". The girl who sits next to him, says she can guess why he's late. He dares her to do so, and she retorts [[WhatYouAreInTheDark he was returning a lost handkerchief he found to the school staff.]] How did she know? ''She's'' Takagi, and she got back her handkerchief (that had her name written on it) thanks to him. It was because of that kind act, and [[BigWhat his great reaction to the twist,]] that she started to [[SingleWomanSeeksGoodMan fall for him.]]
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54	* Desiree Dubarry from ''Film/DontLoseYourHead'' tried this to get close to Duke de Pommefrites, except he picks it up and throws it away. When she tells him she dropped her handkerchief he refers to it as a smelly old thing.
55	* The smitten courtiers in ''Film/EverAfter'' try to invoke this trope--when Prince Henry falls into the crowd during badminton, he finds ''dozens'' of handkerchiefs in his clothes, placed there by hopeful young girls.
56	* In the Czech film ''Film/{{Kristian}}'' (1939), an older guy invents yet another variant how to meet ladies in this fashion. He drops his own handkerchief, picks it up and forces it to the lady, insisting she must have dropped it. Sometimes the lady is confused, but the heroine Zuzana insists that it's most definitely not ''her'' handkerchief. At the end of the movie, the guy steps on a handkerchief that really was lost by a woman who this time is more or less of the same age as the older gentleman, and they seem to have a chance to hit it off. He's pleased that his scheme finally worked out, even though a bit differently than he had expected.
57	* ''Film/PrideAndPrejudice2005'', Lydia attempts to do this with the soldiers marching through town but it fails as they don't even notice.
58	* There's a RunningGag in ''Film/RobinHoodCzwartaStrzala'', where Robin reminds himself he has to return Marion's handkerchief. In the middle of a duel.
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62	* ''Literature/ADarkerShadeOfMagic'': Lila first gives Kell her handkerchief as a sleight of hand to rob him, which he later uses as a magical focus to find her. She then gives it to him to link them together when they travel between worlds, and he once again uses to find her when they're separated. When they part at the end of the first book, he keeps the handkerchief as a memory of her, and wonders on more than on occasion if he could use it to find her again.
63	* Walt Whitman's ''Literature/LeavesOfGrass'' collection has a poem that references the "dropping the handkerchief in hopes of Mr. Hotness noticing it" variant positing that ''Nature itself'' is the Handkerchief that {{God}} has dropped to get our attention.
64	* In ''Literature/LesMiserables'' Marius finds a handkerchief left behind on the seat where Cosette and Valjean were sitting. He assumes it was Cosette's and makes a point of showing it to her to demonstrate his feelings. However, since the handkerchief was actually Valjean's, she doesn't have any idea what he is going on about.
65	* In ''Literature/TheLionTheWitchAndTheWardrobe'' the male beaver returns Lucy's handkerchief, which he got from Tumnus, to demonstrate that he can be trusted.
66	* ''Literature/MyNextLifeAsAVillainessAllRoutesLeadToDoom'': The start of Keith's route in ''Fortune Lover'' involves him finding Maria's handkerchief and holding onto it until he meets her again. Within the story proper, he instead returns it to her immediately since Katarina conditioned him to be a gentleman.
67	* Early in ''Literature/TheThreeMusketeers'', D'Artagnan meets Aramis while the latter has his foot on a handkerchief. D'Artagnan picks it up and hands it to Aramis, accidentally revealing Aramis's relationship with a lady and creating an opportunity for a duel.
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71	* Subverted hilariously in ''Series/ChicagoPD'' by Lt. Kelly Severide, crossing over from ''Series/ChicagoFire''. Wanting to see Lindsay again but not having a reason once his police business concludes, Severide steals a paperweight from her desk, then shows up at her apartment, claiming it fell into his pocket.
72	* ''Series/LegendOfTheSeeker'': In the episode "Princess", Richard is forced to impersonate a [[TheCasanova notorious womanizer]] with an incredible reputation for being [[SexGod really good in bed]], and he complains about how many women in the Margrave's palace are dropping handkerchiefs in front of him.
73	* ''Series/{{The Office\|US}}'' subverts this in the Season 5 episode "Blood Drive"; after lightly flirting with a woman at the blood drive, he finds she left her glove behind. As the people running the blood drive are restricted from giving out personal information, Michael runs a Valentine's Day mixer at the office, advertising the missing glove in an attempt to attract her. But she never comes.
74	* ''Series/ResshaSentaiToqger'' uses a version of this, where General Schwartz drops a handkerchief of his and Greeta picks it up; she tries to return it but he tells her to keep it since he doesn't want it back. From then on, she's regularly shown clutching the handkerchief as a sign of just how bad she's crushing on him.
75	* Inverted on ''Series/{{Seinfeld}}'', when George tries leaving his keys and then his hat at a woman's apartment so as to have an excuse to call her again.
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79	* In the Music/SmashMouth music video for their cover of "I'm a Believer", the trope is subverted; the lead singer spends the video chasing after a woman who dropped her keys, only to return them without comment, even when the woman attempts to flirt with him.
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83	* ''Theatre/{{Othello}}'' may be the earliest subversion. Cassio doesn't love Desdemona, but Iago makes sure he finds and returns her handkerchief, so as to frame him for having an affair with her. (It's worth noting that early critics were appalled to see a lighthearted comedy trope used to set up multiple murders, although opinion has softened over the years as critics have become more used to the concept of PlayingWithATrope.)
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87	* In ''VideoGame/{{Ib}}'', if Ib has a high enough relationship with Garry, she can give Garry her handkerchief when he cuts his hand [[spoiler: after burning Mary's portrait]]. This is how you can get the good ending in the games' MultipleEndings [[spoiler: because the handkerchief plays a crucial role in curing Garry and Ib's WistfulAmnesia.]]
88	* In ''VideoGame/MetalGearSolid'', the character Sniper Wolf gives Hal "Otacon" Emmerich her handkerchief, which he later passes on to Solid Snake. [[spoiler:Following Solid Snake's second encounter with Sniper Wolf, where she is fatally wounded, Snake places the handkerchief over Wolf's face after she dies.]]
89	* ''VideoGame/Warhammer40000RogueTrader'': Deliberately {{invoked}} by [[ShelteredAristocrat Cassia Orsellio]], who pays a visit to the Rogue Trader in their cabin to discuss a book and then drops a handkerchief on the floor to see how they react. By passing an Awareness test, the Rogue Trader can notice that Cassia is watching them rather than fabric. Cassia is a [[CuteMonsterGirl Navigator girl]] who grew up isolated aboard a space fortress where her only experience with romance being what she read about in CourtlyLove novels.
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93	* ''VisualNovel/AceAttorneyInvestigations'' plays out what would be a StrictlyFormula version of the trope, if not for two exceptions: there are no romantic overtones whatsoever ([[ShipTease maybe]]), and the "handkerchief" is Edgeworth's ''cravat'', which he was still ''wearing'' when [[spoiler:young Kay]] blew her nose into it.
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97	* ''Webcomic/TheBugPond'': Played with. Leodegrance the assassin bug intentionally drops his handkerchief for Kid Katydid to pick up for him. She proceeds to stomp it.
98	* ''{{Webcomic/Homestuck}}'': Rose's Mom loses her pink scarf in a [[ItMakesSenseInContext meteor crash]]. John's Dad picks it up. After they were both transported to the Medium along with their respective children thirteen years later, he returns it. Romance ensues.
99	%%* Parodied as a symptom of the "Love Sim Syndrome" in [[http://www.tsunamichannel.com/index.php?date=2003-04-23&comic=ExCoKo this]] ''Webcomic/TsunamiChannel'' strip.
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103	* In the ''WesternAnimation/{{Arthur}}'' episode "[[Recap/ArthurS8E9FleaToBeYouAndMeKissAndTell Kiss and Tell]]", D.W. sets up a RescueRomance scenario with herself as the DamselInDistress to get her preschool classmate James to kiss her ([[ItMakesSenseInContext it's a long story]]) by spinning herself on a merry-go-round and yelling for James to save her. However, when James stops the merry-go-round, the sudden stop causes D.W. to fall off and drop the handkerchief she was waving in the air as part of her "DamselInDistress" act. James then picks up the handkerchief and returns it to her, but doesn't kiss her as she wanted.
104	* In ''WesternAnimation/BarbieAndTheDiamondCastle'', Jeremy and Ian find Liana's handkerchief after she and Alexa spurn their advances, and they use it as an excuse to follow after the girls.
105	* An old ''WesternAnimation/BugsBunny'' short has him advise his victim to start courting. He then dresses up as a woman, drops his handkerchief, and promptly freaks out (in his female persona, as if the guy had done something lewd) when the guy returns it and gets clobbered by a policeman.
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