The TVTropes Trope Finder is where you can come to ask questions like "Do we have this one?" and "What's the trope about...?" Trying to rediscover a long lost show or other medium but need a little help? Head to Media Finder and try your luck there. Want to propose a new trope? You should be over at the Trope Launch Pad.
jormis29
Since: Mar, 2012

Alice wants to surprise Bob - either a surprise party, dinner, gift or something. Thus, she pretends she's not doing anything special, and ignores Bob's attempts at reminding her. This drives Bob mad and he goes on a rant trashing Alice, saying their relationship is over, revealing secrets and so on... then he finds out about the surprise, but it's too late.