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This isn't really what ATT is for, but
1. Ask the work's fandom, probably.
2. There's no real problem with noticing tropes that happen in your life, but we no longer collect individual stories about it.
Suddenly I'm... still rotating Fallen London in my mind even though I've stopped actively playing it.I've seen a lot of users trope themselves on their troper page (for you, that would be Tropers.vspinjitzu). Since these pages are considered to be "fun" pages, the rules are a lot more relaxed there, so you can use tropes in ways you wouldn't normally be allowed to, such as applying No Real Life Examples, Please! tropes to yourself as a person.

1.what is the fastest/easiest method to identify what shade of conflict a story uses
2.is there anything wrong with trying to apply tropes to myself (i've taken a test to see which character aligment describes me better,multiple times, and i always get chaotic neutral...)