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So TLDR, because there's context in it, but in the Madoka spin-off Magia Record, you have a fairly visible amount of fans in the west that get up in arms over some specific age gap ships.
Yachiyo and Iroha, and Mifuyu and Alina being the main ones.
Now Japanese versus Western age differences and all that's very much off topic, but I am curious if there's a (I presume YMMV) trope for noting that this reaction is focusing on the age and ignoring some context that makes the ship of Mifuyu and Alina have very different problems. Where it's less 'the older character being paired with someone too young' and more the in-game issue of 'the younger character is not only the older one's boss, but several in-game events show her bullying her older subordinate, insulting her if she gains weight, and otherwise comes off as a abusive partner but the western fanbase can only see that said subordinate is older'.
Feel like there's a solid YMMV point to be made there about that, and curious if there's a trope that fits that.