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czhang from Canada Since: Sep, 2011 Relationship Status: THIS CONCEPT OF 'WUV' CONFUSES AND INFURIATES US!
#32126: Jan 6th 2012 at 3:11:28 PM

@erock: Was that aimed at me? I don't think T Paradox is talking about dudes tongue

Erock Proud Canadian from Toronto Since: Jul, 2009
Proud Canadian
#32127: Jan 6th 2012 at 3:20:45 PM

Oops. Yeah, that was directed at you.

If you don't like a single Frank Ocean song, you have no soul.
czhang from Canada Since: Sep, 2011 Relationship Status: THIS CONCEPT OF 'WUV' CONFUSES AND INFURIATES US!
#32128: Jan 6th 2012 at 3:21:56 PM

Might I remind you that you called him my ginger before I did? tongue

In all seriousness, I'm not one for pet names so I'd just call him Ben.

Erock Proud Canadian from Toronto Since: Jul, 2009
Proud Canadian
#32129: Jan 6th 2012 at 3:23:29 PM

That's no fun.

If you don't like a single Frank Ocean song, you have no soul.
buttercupistiny Battle Scowler from next to ponicalica Since: Nov, 2011
Battle Scowler
#32130: Jan 6th 2012 at 3:24:46 PM

Ponicalica goes back to school on Monday. The return to routine and being able to talk to him on Skype will be nice.

‎"Let your religion be less of a theory and more of a love affair."
DirectorCannon Since: Nov, 2011
#32131: Jan 6th 2012 at 5:16:42 PM

Update on my situation: Things are no where near as awkward as I thought they'd be. Still flirty texting. Thinking of going to the local mall with some friends and inviting her and some of her friends. Thoughts?

OriDoodle Mom Lady from East of West Since: Nov, 2010 Relationship Status: Consider his love an honor
#32132: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:04:39 PM

Go for it. At the least you'll get to hang out with people you like.

Doodles
randomguy321 Since: Nov, 2011
#32133: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:08:19 PM

Are teenagers allowed to ask questions here, or are we supposed to wait until we're older and "actually know what love is"? (For the record I'm 18, but still)

AnonymousUser Since: Jan, 2001
#32134: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:08:50 PM

No, it's open to all forum posters.

Haldo Indecisive pumpkin from Never never land Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Coming soon to theaters
Indecisive pumpkin
#32135: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:11:04 PM

What does it take to be a good significant other?

‽‽‽‽ ^These are interrobangs. Love them. Learn them. Use them.
Erock Proud Canadian from Toronto Since: Jul, 2009
Proud Canadian
#32136: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:11:29 PM

A nice rack.

If you don't like a single Frank Ocean song, you have no soul.
randomguy321 Since: Nov, 2011
#32137: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:12:24 PM

Well alright then. Since the other threads have died down, I'm here.

And... questions. Lots of them. Starting with one of the trickier ones. How important is self-love and self-acceptance when it comes to relationships with other people? :/ I know a girl... I loved her. A lot. Not bothering with the details, but... basically she got a boyfriend, then got sick of me. She said I need to love myself before I can ever really love someone else. Personally I don't believe that... I don't see why I need to like myself at all. I don't. I hate myself. I feel like I've never been good enough for anyone (and her rejection just reinforced that). So... basically, was she right and I'm wrong?

Edit. [up], that's not funny.

edited 6th Jan '12 7:12:52 PM by randomguy321

MarkVonLewis Since: Jun, 2010
#32138: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:13:29 PM

I found Erock's statement to be funny.

Haldo Indecisive pumpkin from Never never land Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Coming soon to theaters
Indecisive pumpkin
#32139: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:14:57 PM

@random I'm gonna reiterate what we say to everybody who steps foot in this thread... Don't get to thinking you're in love with somebody before you've even started dating.

‽‽‽‽ ^These are interrobangs. Love them. Learn them. Use them.
Fusionman Since: Nov, 2009
#32140: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:16:27 PM

I learned that very well...

I admit it's still very awkward and painful around Helen but...I'm living my life so far...

Annoyingly I'm starting to get crushes on other girls both online and IRL...

randomguy321 Since: Nov, 2011
#32141: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:16:57 PM

[up][up] And to that, I say (edit, NVM). I've known her for months now. I was closer to her than I've ever been to a girl. Closer than I was with my ex, even. You can't tell me that.

edited 6th Jan '12 7:26:11 PM by randomguy321

AirofMystery Since: Jan, 2001
#32142: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:19:09 PM

Haldo: Bearing in mind that we don't actually know the entire situation of Random, maybe we should request more information.

Random: Calm down, you won't get helped that way.

Haldo Indecisive pumpkin from Never never land Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Coming soon to theaters
Indecisive pumpkin
#32143: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:19:10 PM

Months? That's all?

And it's not like I'm the one who came up with that bit of advise; The people much more experienced than me did.

‽‽‽‽ ^These are interrobangs. Love them. Learn them. Use them.
KCK Can I KCK it? from In your closet Since: Jul, 2010
Can I KCK it?
#32144: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:19:56 PM

@randomguy U MAD, BRO?

There's no justice in the world and there never was~
MrAHR Ahr river from ಠ_ಠ Since: Oct, 2010 Relationship Status: A cockroach, nothing can kill it.
Ahr river
#32145: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:21:22 PM

Haldo: If you want to be a good SO, just try and always make sure that if someone complains about something, you don't dismiss it. Like if they say "quit judging me!" don't brush it off as "I'm not judging you, you're too sensitive!" actually try and see their view.

Of course, this only works in an ideal situation.

Read my stories!
Fusionman Since: Nov, 2009
#32146: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:21:50 PM

Dude...most of my crushes I've known for over a year.

I've seen most of them date other guys...It's just online I get crushes so much easier for some reason.

Trust me I thought I was close to Helen. I know the sense of betrayal, anger and heartbreak. But you keep moving on until the wound heals.

randomguy321 Since: Nov, 2011
#32147: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:21:52 PM

Haldo, I'm 18. My life is measured in months, not years. 4 years is still considered a large age gap to people my age. The most long-term thing I've ever been involved in is school. Meanwhile, I could go on a dating site and hook up with someone in, what- 24 hours, maybe? That isn't love...

And I wasn't criticizing you. I was criticizing the advice.

edited 6th Jan '12 7:22:58 PM by randomguy321

MrAHR Ahr river from ಠ_ಠ Since: Oct, 2010 Relationship Status: A cockroach, nothing can kill it.
Ahr river
#32148: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:23:25 PM

I'm 18 too, brah. Most people I know are 18 or older. That ain't an excuse. I mean, shoot, I've been dating my guy for about 3 years now, and it took us at least half of that time to decide, yes, we might be in this for the long haul.

Read my stories!
Haldo Indecisive pumpkin from Never never land Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Coming soon to theaters
Indecisive pumpkin
#32149: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:23:58 PM

@random Well, alright. Love does mean different things to different people, I guess.

Though, if your criticism wasn't actually aimed at me, I'll admit that I question your word choice...

‽‽‽‽ ^These are interrobangs. Love them. Learn them. Use them.
Fusionman Since: Nov, 2009
#32150: Jan 6th 2012 at 7:24:29 PM

Random. I'm 17. And still all of my friends and crushes I knew for over a year before my feelings really blossomed beyond the physical and sexual.


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