Well alright then. Since the other threads have died down, I'm here.
And... questions. Lots of them. Starting with one of the trickier ones. How important is self-love and self-acceptance when it comes to relationships with other people? :/ I know a girl... I loved her. A lot. Not bothering with the details, but... basically she got a boyfriend, then got sick of me. She said I need to love myself before I can ever really love someone else. Personally I don't believe that... I don't see why I need to like myself at all. I don't. I hate myself. I feel like I've never been good enough for anyone (and her rejection just reinforced that). So... basically, was she right and I'm wrong?
Edit.
, that's not funny.
edited 6th Jan '12 7:12:52 PM by randomguy321
Haldo: If you want to be a good SO, just try and always make sure that if someone complains about something, you don't dismiss it. Like if they say "quit judging me!" don't brush it off as "I'm not judging you, you're too sensitive!" actually try and see their view.
Of course, this only works in an ideal situation.
Read my stories!Haldo, I'm 18. My life is measured in months, not years. 4 years is still considered a large age gap to people my age. The most long-term thing I've ever been involved in is school. Meanwhile, I could go on a dating site and hook up with someone in, what- 24 hours, maybe? That isn't love...
And I wasn't criticizing you. I was criticizing the advice.
edited 6th Jan '12 7:22:58 PM by randomguy321
I'm 18 too, brah. Most people I know are 18 or older. That ain't an excuse. I mean, shoot, I've been dating my guy for about 3 years now, and it took us at least half of that time to decide, yes, we might be in this for the long haul.
Read my stories!

@erock: Was that aimed at me? I don't think T Paradox is talking about dudes