I can guarantee you that anybody who complains about "bitching" wouldn't call it that if they personally agreed with the subject.
edited 7th Nov '10 3:35:22 PM by DonZabu
"Wax on, wax off..." "But Mr. Miyagi, I don't see how this is helping me do Karate..." "Pubic hair is weakness, Daniel-san!"There's depression and there's whining. Which is more applicable to IJBM?
"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open one’s mouth and remove all doubt." - Some guy with a snazzy hat.Shouldn't being a real man be someone who isn't insecure, isn't afraid of looking after himself and is just generally a decent person? What's all this "GET SOME NUTS" shit?
Bitching: Whining constantly about small things that don't warrant the attention you give them
Complaining: Whining about things that merit attention.
Complain all you want, just quit bitching. Now that I think about it, this goes for women too.
edited 7th Nov '10 3:37:15 PM by LolipodDistortion
Underneath the bridge The tarp has sprung a leak And the animals I've trapped have all become my petsLet us appoint Scrye to decide what is and is not worth complaining about. Problem solved.
IJBM lives on here! Sign up!Post 30: I think that's what is the root of what Kino is trying to say. Stop being so damn insecure, take responsibility for yourself, fix your own damn problems, or at least be open to advice that requires work and takes you out of your comfort zone. Things will still bother you, but you won't be so inclined to bitch about it. Have initiative and try to fix your problem before you cry "It's hopeless! Somebody please feel sorry for me!"
edited 7th Nov '10 3:41:50 PM by Scrye
"True story, I came when I read Scrye's story, and so did everyone within five miles." —OOZE^^Doesn't that apply to women as well? Oh, hold on! Only women are allowed to have a good cry about things, sorry!
edited 7th Nov '10 3:45:39 PM by emeriin
edited 7th Nov '10 3:45:12 PM by DonZabu
"Wax on, wax off..." "But Mr. Miyagi, I don't see how this is helping me do Karate..." "Pubic hair is weakness, Daniel-san!"

So... if I didn't complain ever... would that make my boyfriend gay?