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This is a thread for people who will not be or have not been on the site for a while, whether due to real life or to resist an internet addiction, the latter of which is encouraged within reason. Also, talk about the benefits/whatever of taking a day or a weekend off, or things to do when not online. TV Tropes ruining your life is nothing to be proud of.

Generally, expect the following from this thread:

  1. People announcing their departure or return.
  2. Moderators announcing a significant forum ban — not trolls or vandals, but someone people will notice and miss.
  3. Inquiries about an absent troper.
  4. Responses to inquiries about an absent troper.

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Not that I'm going anywhere, but this is a thread for people who will not be on the forums for a while, whether due to real life or to resist an internet addiction, the latter of which is encouraged within reason. Also, talk about the benefits/whatever of taking a day or a weekend off, or things to do when not online. TV Tropes ruining your life is nothing to be proud of.

Edited by GastonRabbit on Feb 10th 2023 at 3:48:36 AM

Ultimatum Disasturbator from The Wiggle Room (Old as dirt) Relationship Status: Who needs love when you have waffles?
Disasturbator
#23251: Sep 21st 2021 at 1:36:05 PM

Good luck dude!

have a listen and have a link to my discord server
alnair20aug93 🍊orange fursona🧡 from 🐾Furrypines 🇵🇭 (Long Runner) Relationship Status: Chocolate!
🍊orange fursona🧡
#23252: Sep 30th 2021 at 6:42:17 AM

[up][up]Keep Safe, dude.


I might have a limited activity this October due to my participation with one or more art prompts. This year though, I won't participate in Inktober. Not just with the controversies that happened from last year, but I should also broaden myself with the mediums that I use.

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alnair20aug93 🍊orange fursona🧡 from 🐾Furrypines 🇵🇭 (Long Runner) Relationship Status: Chocolate!
🍊orange fursona🧡
#23253: Oct 8th 2021 at 11:36:28 AM

By the way, on lurking on the original Trope Report newsletters, who was Some Guy, the original creator of the newsletters, and how did he get banned?

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Ultimatum Disasturbator from The Wiggle Room (Old as dirt) Relationship Status: Who needs love when you have waffles?
Disasturbator
#23254: Oct 8th 2021 at 11:58:09 AM

Knocked heads with Fast Eddie too many times as I recall

have a listen and have a link to my discord server
alnair20aug93 🍊orange fursona🧡 from 🐾Furrypines 🇵🇭 (Long Runner) Relationship Status: Chocolate!
🍊orange fursona🧡
#23255: Oct 8th 2021 at 12:11:19 PM

Aww, what a shame. sad

I don't know how he'd react to the modern day newsletters?

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SilverCrown (Private) Relationship Status: Singularity
#23256: Oct 9th 2021 at 9:50:13 PM

For what it's worth, Fast Eddie personally cut his page with the description: "Finally too much to put up with" (until the cut reason got replaced), and he's been banned since

checks notes

January 4, 2011. So he probably has no intention of coming back to TV Tropes.

Edited by SilverCrown on Oct 9th 2021 at 10:21:17 PM

Ultimatum Disasturbator from The Wiggle Room (Old as dirt) Relationship Status: Who needs love when you have waffles?
Disasturbator
#23257: Oct 10th 2021 at 4:12:52 AM

If he wanted to he could appeal his ban just like anyone else

have a listen and have a link to my discord server
ThatAsianInTheCorner the biggest hair of all from the corner. read the username, dummy. (Y2: Electric Boogaloo) Relationship Status: Tweaking my holographic boyfriend
the biggest hair of all
#23258: Oct 10th 2021 at 6:14:34 AM

haha didn't see this until now

would've been nice to message on this before i went on brief hiatus

"...This is too much information for a brain that just wants to visit Planet Tensuns..."
themayorofsimpleton Short-Term Projects Herald | he/him from the Island of Koridai (Captain) Relationship Status: I won't say I'm in love
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#23259: Oct 24th 2021 at 4:42:28 AM

Hey everyone, I'm just posting to let everyone know I'll probably remain on hiatus for a bit longer. I still don't trust myself with my anger issues to post here without potentially creating problems, so I'll be gone a bit longer. Someday I'll return though, don't worry.

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alnair20aug93 🍊orange fursona🧡 from 🐾Furrypines 🇵🇭 (Long Runner) Relationship Status: Chocolate!
🍊orange fursona🧡
#23260: Oct 24th 2021 at 8:23:04 AM

Best wishes on your break.

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themayorofsimpleton Short-Term Projects Herald | he/him from the Island of Koridai (Captain) Relationship Status: I won't say I'm in love
Short-Term Projects Herald | he/him
#23261: Oct 25th 2021 at 12:48:37 PM

Alright, I've been thinking it over and fighting with myself about this, and I have decided I am semi-retiring from this site for now. I think I owe everyone an explanation as to what that means and why I'm doing it as well.

This site had become too important to me. When I was called out in the ATT thread that inspired my decision, it came as a gut punch to me. I had been called out before, but this was the first time I really took it to heart. And that was a good thing, and the troper who called me out was absolutely right. I was taking the site way too seriously. Tellingly, when I left the site, my anxiety went way up, which I took as a sign that I needed a break.

This happened because I had/have nothing else to do with my time. I was most active on the site in the throes of COVID, and at the time I was not attending any classes, working any jobs, or doing anything. This made the site more important, too important to me. I was investing massive, unhealthy amounts of hours into the site, and it was mentally rubbing off on me. My anger at site drama increased with this as well.

Furthermore, I said I was getting angrier IRL when I wrote my initial announcement of my hiatus. That was true at the time, and it has only gotten worse since. Thank God I'm receiving professional help, because I've been too angry in general lately. I don't trust myself not to get angry and blow up again on this site given my history and patterns of IRL behavior.

Part of the problem was that this site was filling in a social hole of my own life. I do not have any IRL friends, and I am no longer active on social media, so this site was literally my only social route for some time, which created its own set of problems and contributed to my anger. I'm back in college now and I think/hope things will get better soon, so this may not be as much of a concern heading into the future, but it certainly fueled my problems then, would still fuel problems now, and would probably fuel problems in the future as well.

I initially wanted to come back to this site, but to be less active. Unfortunately I literally can't see that happening. I have poor impulse control, and I could absolutely see myself becoming as unhealthily active as I was before I left. Furthermore, I fear that the site would detrimentally interfere with my schoolwork and home life, which is not something I want to risk.

I will still browse the site, read articles, potentially even read the forums. I may even occasionally post. However, the days of my active involvement in the site are probably finished, at least until I can get my anger and other problems under control. I apologize to everyone I hurt or created problems with while I was here. I don't want to hurt anyone. That's why I'm semi-retiring for now. If I can change my behavior in the future and trust myself again, maybe I'll return, but even then I would have to familiarize myself with all that has happened and would happen since I left. That's why I'm semi-retiring. Best of luck to all you tropers, and may the site continue to grow in the coming years. Thanks for everything. See you space cowboys.

-Tmos

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WarJay77 It's NaNo, Bay-beeee! (8,356/50,000) from My Writing Cave (Troper Knight) Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
It's NaNo, Bay-beeee! (8,356/50,000)
#23262: Oct 25th 2021 at 12:52:18 PM

Sad to see you go Mayor, but I understand. Take care!

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BaronVonFistcrunch Since: Sep, 2014 Relationship Status: Non-Canon
#23264: Oct 28th 2021 at 12:23:37 PM

For all the years I have been editing the wiki, I never engaged with the forums until recently, and I have made several controversial posts since I began posting here. My passionate nature about certain topics — diversity and politics in the entertainment industry — has led me to speak out of turn without thought to the consequences. It has led me to make confrontational posts that were poorly informed and disruptive to discussions.

I have let myself be drawn into a zealous, toxic mentality that has affected my mental health and ability to enjoy works of fiction. My life has become clouded by a negative atmosphere I became addicted to. Addition to negativity is real, and it took the effects of my own addiction to believe it. I found myself rejecting the notion of good faith and assuming the worst intentions in every person I met or even heard of. The fear and anger I hold against the entertainment industry from the barrage of worker abuse, toxic fanbases, and allegations against celebrities made me unable to trust anyone or enjoy fictional works. Fighting against happiness is not the way a human being should live, yet it was becoming my default mental state, unable to enjoy anything out of fear I would support an abuser or be labeled an abuser myself.

Changes need to be made to improve my mental health, and one of those changes is stepping away from this site for the foreseeable future. Perhaps I will return, but I would prefer to keep myself to the wiki if I do. I would like to think my edits were overall helpful to the wiki, unlike my contributions to discussions here. If any persons were hurt or offended by my posts, I sincerely apologize.

AyyItsMidnight Look, just be decent to one another ok? Since: Oct, 2018
Look, just be decent to one another ok?
#23265: Oct 28th 2021 at 3:09:32 PM

[up]Hey man, no shame. I can definitely relate to a lot of those feelings. I know I had a longer post planned out but I forgot a lot of it. But anyway, take care!

Self-serious autistic trans gal who loves rock/metal and animation with all her heart. (she/her)
MerryMikael Since: Oct, 2013
#23266: Oct 28th 2021 at 4:54:20 PM

[up][up] That's the side of entertainment industry that's so rarely occurred to me. I mean, kinda thought a few times it would be cool to work, say, doing some animation, but... maybe it's not all it's cracked up to be. Can't say, even, I'd have passion, per se, for such things, so... so much for that. You just confirmed my hunch unwittingly what crud that whole thing must be. Thanks.

Cutegirl920fire Player 222 from the Squid Games (Five Long Years) Relationship Status: Paris holds the key to my heart
Player 222
#23267: Oct 28th 2021 at 8:00:31 PM

[up][up][up] That's the type of stuff you need therapy for. If it's available near you, please take it. If you still want to enjoy fictional works, go on websites like Wattpad and Webtoon or stop worrying about shit that happens with the artists. After all, separate the art from the artist.

Edited by Cutegirl920fire on Oct 28th 2021 at 8:03:29 AM

CG for short
fredhot16 Don't want to leave but cannot pretend from Baton Rogue, Louisiana. Since: Jan, 2015 Relationship Status: Too sexy for my shirt
Don't want to leave but cannot pretend
#23268: Nov 1st 2021 at 6:07:31 PM

[up][up][up][up]It's a real shame to see you go. I hope you'll come back in time, I didn't have many problems with what you said. Otherwise, no worry, come back when you feel like it.

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ChicoTheParakeet Since: Oct, 2019 Relationship Status: [TOP SECRET]
#23269: Nov 2nd 2021 at 12:54:59 AM

I feel the same way. Between the stupidity and negativity, I don't know how to spend my time.

Delibirda from Splatsville Since: Sep, 2020 Relationship Status: I wanna be your dog
#23270: Nov 2nd 2021 at 3:48:59 AM

Thinkin' 'bout a break.

"Listen up, Marina, because this is SUPER important. Whatever you do, don't eat th“ “DON'T EAT WHAT?! Your text box ran out of space!”
alnair20aug93 🍊orange fursona🧡 from 🐾Furrypines 🇵🇭 (Long Runner) Relationship Status: Chocolate!
🍊orange fursona🧡
#23271: Nov 3rd 2021 at 8:53:46 AM

[up]If you're feeling stressed and exhausted, then do so, even for just a week.

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DivineFlame100 Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Above such petty unnecessities
#23272: Nov 10th 2021 at 12:14:36 PM

Alright, I'm going back on break. I have a bad habit of mini-modding and I need to get that under control before I end up getting in trouble for it. Perhaps I took my goal to help out the staff with issues way too far.

I deeply apologize if I came off as unpleasant. That was never my intention, but I tend to make more mistakes than I realize.

themayorofsimpleton Short-Term Projects Herald | he/him from the Island of Koridai (Captain) Relationship Status: I won't say I'm in love
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#23273: Nov 10th 2021 at 1:31:47 PM

EDIT: No I still need more time.

Edited by themayorofsimpleton on Nov 10th 2021 at 4:36:09 AM

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DivineFlame100 Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Above such petty unnecessities
#23274: Nov 11th 2021 at 3:56:48 AM

Ok, so after a day break to ease myself, here's what I'll be doing from here on out.

I'll be limiting my interactions with the staff and other prolific contributors on the forums and ATT, especially on the moderation thread. I notice that my issues tend to be social in nature and I tend to overstep my boundaries as a regular user without realizing it. The only exceptions are when I need to make urgent reports on ongoing issues like Edit Warring, but I'll just leave ATT reports and call it a day (only bumping if no action is taken yet). As usual, I'll go back to solitary editing and helping out at TLP.

I'll also stay away from the Genshin Impact thread on the Video Game sub-forum because any discussion there that is meta-related has become my Berserk Button, and yesterday, I was barely able to contain my anger there when news about the upcoming patch came. When a thread legit makes me angry, that's a clear sign that I need to steer clear of it. Period.

fredhot16 Don't want to leave but cannot pretend from Baton Rogue, Louisiana. Since: Jan, 2015 Relationship Status: Too sexy for my shirt
Don't want to leave but cannot pretend
#23275: Nov 14th 2021 at 5:43:55 PM

~Tropers/archonspeaks, are you still around?

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