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ChrissieMcNapkins bruhonetta from the traphouse Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: Hoping Senpai notices me
bruhonetta
#322327: Sep 26th 2014 at 4:35:16 AM

sorry about how shit it looks

class was about to start

I live in a constant state of fear and misery.
Trip Since: Mar, 2012
#322328: Sep 26th 2014 at 4:35:36 AM

it's k i can edit it at a better computer soon

AH A COMPUTER WHERE I CAN DO SHIT

veddy gud

edited 26th Sep '14 4:43:22 AM by trip

ChrissieMcNapkins bruhonetta from the traphouse Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: Hoping Senpai notices me
bruhonetta
#322329: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:28:15 AM

yay

I live in a constant state of fear and misery.
SR3NORMANDY Problem Child from N/A - In constant flux Since: Jul, 2012
ChrissieMcNapkins bruhonetta from the traphouse Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: Hoping Senpai notices me
bruhonetta
#322332: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:38:28 AM

trip what the shit

I live in a constant state of fear and misery.
Lilqueendaisy A chill feller from Not Earth Since: Jun, 2011 Relationship Status: In love with love
A chill feller
#322334: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:41:48 AM

Dang it I fell asleep again and missed more stuff!

LOVE IS STORED IN THE AXOLOTL!
ChrissieMcNapkins bruhonetta from the traphouse Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: Hoping Senpai notices me
bruhonetta
#322335: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:43:30 AM

why you copy me

I live in a constant state of fear and misery.
trip Since: Mar, 2012
#322336: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:44:21 AM

i will live gorgeously forever with your body

Lilqueendaisy A chill feller from Not Earth Since: Jun, 2011 Relationship Status: In love with love
A chill feller
#322337: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:47:19 AM

I thought Chrissy stole from trip since he usually plays little girls.

edited 26th Sep '14 5:47:44 AM by Lilqueendaisy

LOVE IS STORED IN THE AXOLOTL!
trip Since: Mar, 2012
#322338: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:52:03 AM

this girl is at least 600 daisy

Boxen whatever he can Since: Jan, 2013
whatever he can
#322339: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:52:24 AM

same avvie

dead devotion
ChrissieMcNapkins bruhonetta from the traphouse Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: Hoping Senpai notices me
bruhonetta
#322340: Sep 26th 2014 at 5:53:06 AM

why would trip have "far from over"

i put that cause i always had "something over" during the Vampire arc

I live in a constant state of fear and misery.
trip Since: Mar, 2012
ChrissieMcNapkins bruhonetta from the traphouse Since: Nov, 2012 Relationship Status: Hoping Senpai notices me
bruhonetta
#322342: Sep 26th 2014 at 6:00:48 AM

wouldn't the shadow of Von be Dio

I live in a constant state of fear and misery.
trip Since: Mar, 2012
ramuf Electric Heart from the Shining Throne Since: Jan, 2013
Electric Heart
#322344: Sep 26th 2014 at 6:07:50 AM

Just because your character is not being interacted with does not mean we don't like you.

I did address that. I don't think that people don't like me because I'm not being interacted with. That'd be if someone disliked my writing, which is separate from myself.

The important part of the dislike part is the part where I ridiculous, lazy, and vindictive.

When people say things to that effect when I'm trying to explain myself, it does not lead to anything good.

Boxen whatever he can Since: Jan, 2013
whatever he can
#322345: Sep 26th 2014 at 6:15:31 AM

Actually, I probably haven't made things any better by saying that.

edited 26th Sep '14 6:23:58 AM by Boxen

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MobileLeprechaun (: from Grayrock, TX Since: Aug, 2009 Relationship Status: Yes, I'm alone, but I'm alone and free
(:
#322346: Sep 26th 2014 at 6:36:05 AM

Popping on briefly before my exam.

As far as I know, only two people here have said such things about you, and that was because they completely misinterpreted you. I will try to level with them once they're on, because it's clear that there have been no reparations for that, and there need to be. The old maxim about not going to bed hating your brother comes to mind. Lack of communication and willingness to understand others is a big part of this, I think.

Just my two cents on a bit of what you said last night, and I don't want to take attention away from what you're saying up there. You can skip over it if you'd like, because it's mainly my opinion, and it's secondary to the above.


I have, in the past, been rather doggedly pursued by some people for interaction. And I did not want to interact with them because I just didn't find it to be all that enjoyable. But I still sucked it up and interacted with them. But then it kept happening and each time, it made me feel backed into a corner and imposed upon. It sapped my will to post. And I really, really don't want to end up inflicting that on someone else.

It's possible to try for involvement without outright forcing your way in. I've seen you do that successfully in the past, likely before the unwanted pursuits you mentioned, and it seemed to me like you were easily getting interaction in. I understand why you would be afraid to subject others to being pressured, and that's very compassionate of you.

However, I don't think I'm too trusting when I say that that most (if not everyone) here would let you know if you were forcing something or making anyone uncomfortable. If I want in something, and I'm not sure if it's okay, I try to get in and just say in spoiler text something like "Let me know if this isn't okay".

You don't have to feel like merely edging in on something will make someone quietly upset with you, because it won't, not anymore than anyone's upset with me for shooping into last night's fun. If they have any objections, I think they'll let you know.

Likewise, if someone's pressuring you into something you'd rather not do, there's nothing mean about saying "Sorry, but I'd rather not". I'm habitually afraid about coming off as bitchy or petty or whatever if I vocally object, but really, sometimes you just don't want to or can't, and that's perfectly okay.

You're a human with needs, and you shouldn't feel guilty about trying to have your needs met, not in the slightest.


If anything I said was out of place, let me know. I want to get this sorted out for real, and I don't want there to be further animosity or hostility fed from misunderstandings.

make it through this year if it kills you yet | 2001-2019
trip Since: Mar, 2012
#322347: Sep 26th 2014 at 6:40:01 AM

The only reason why I didn't say anything, is because I didn't want to end up saying things that could be interpreted or poorly worded, since I'm bad at making large, informative posts.

LatverianBadger Calamity is a housewife from gacha hell Since: Jan, 2012 Relationship Status: I'm just a poor boy, nobody loves me
Calamity is a housewife
#322348: Sep 26th 2014 at 6:44:26 AM

Seeing as I'm not an FG regular, I don't know if I have the right to comment on this, but I'll have to show up and back up Mobile's post at least.

Try not to worry too much. Not with us. If something's wrong, as Mobile said, we'd let you know.

"Shake the dust." - Anis Mojgani
MobileLeprechaun (: from Grayrock, TX Since: Aug, 2009 Relationship Status: Yes, I'm alone, but I'm alone and free
(:
#322349: Sep 26th 2014 at 6:50:43 AM

A'ight, it's exam time now, so I'll be off for a while. I'll let you know when I'm back.

make it through this year if it kills you yet | 2001-2019
eldritchseer all the loose ends from Cocytus Since: Mar, 2019
all the loose ends
#322350: Sep 26th 2014 at 7:24:10 AM

you know whenever i got involved i make things worse

And, I'll be honest.

I'm just sick of this whole thing.

It's high-time I put things in the open.

I am getting furstrated, and sad, and stressed.

What do you want?


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