As of the graces thing... people shouldn't force their rituals on others. In my Zen dojo, they prostrate themselves before the Budha at regular intervals *. For a Muslim, prostration is a big deal. You don't prostrate yourself before anyone but God. I am not a Muslim anymore, but I still refuse to prostrate myself, especially before a sculpture man who just happened to have been very wise. And it's totally fine.
And as for religion... luckily over here religious people are extremely rare. In fact I am seen as weirder for caring about atheism and for my exceptionally (to my surprise) forward views on matters of morality, sexuality, society and gender. At least when I was a Muslim they had me pegged under a label, but right now I am a Humanoid Abomination, something they have never seen before.
It's unnerving.
"Sweets are good. Sweets are justice."I think there are scriptural provisions in the New Testament for relationships between Christians and atheists. Unfortunately, I can't remember the facts precisely, and I wouldn't want to misrepresent them by posting what I think might be said. I must leave it to some one more knowledgable about Biblical references to locate the exact chapter and verse.
Of course, if one partner should prove intractable in the matter, the other should leave and move on to somebody better. Quite simple to solve.
Assuming the person considering said proposition isn't incredibly shallow? It wouldn't.
But you're assuming that the philosophical proposition in question really is all that unattractive, and not merely something which the person considering said proposition hadn't previously considered.
Welcome To TV Tropes | How To Write An Example | Text Formatting Rules | List Of Shows That Need Summary | TV Tropes Forum | Know The StaffI know a couple consisting of an atheist/agnostic and a Christian, and they've been together five years now. Especially impressive given her insistence on "no sex before marriage".
So it's not impossible, but it's a big commitment.
With cannon shot and gun blast smash the alien. With laser beam and searing plasma scatter the alien to the stars.Aww... that's sweet. In a sad kinda way, but sweet nonetheless.
A True Lady's Quest - A Jojo is You!Why? They're in love with each other. He's willing to hold off having sex until they get married. They do everything else a couple in a relationship does other than sex. What's pointless about that?
With cannon shot and gun blast smash the alien. With laser beam and searing plasma scatter the alien to the stars.It's pointless to want to be with somebody you love (and therefore presumably care deeply about)?
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Welcome To TV Tropes | How To Write An Example | Text Formatting Rules | List Of Shows That Need Summary | TV Tropes Forum | Know The StaffMy father is an atheist and my mother is... I dunno... generically spiritual? Maybe Buddhist? It's hard to tell, because she doesn't talk about it much, so whenever she says something spiritual it comes out of nowhere and confuses me.
Anyway, they've been married for decades, so it doesn't seem to be a problem.
I wouldn't have any problem at all being with someone who's religious, as long as they don't constantly try to convert me or try to "save me from Hell" or something like that.
I'm as tolerant of the next guy, but that kind of thing is just disrespectful. If I was in a relationship with a Christian, I wouldn't be trying to prove to them that God doesnt exist, after all. As long as we can respect each other's beliefs, that would be enough for me.
Point.
I guess it would depend on how it was handled. If it was a constant thing, I feel like that could be a strain on the relationship if the differences in our spiritual beliefs were made such a big deal, even if it comes with the best intentions. If it's a problem that just comes up now and then, though, it wouldn't be a relationship killer.
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That would depend upon the extent of their beliefs, though (not to mention the particular religion)... there seem to be a lot of agnostics who nevertheless have decided either atheism or religion makes sense for whatever reason.
I might get along with an agnostic theist. I would probably have many more problems with someone who was absolutely sure of their religion. For one thing, I would have to believe that their starting axioms are significantly different than mine.
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Don't see any basis for a relationship there.
Enjoy the Inferno...If I was in a relationship and my SO wanted to drown I'd be pretty fucking concerned.
I assume most atheists don't actually plan on going to Hell, of course.
Welcome To TV Tropes | How To Write An Example | Text Formatting Rules | List Of Shows That Need Summary | TV Tropes Forum | Know The StaffPossibly. I just find the logic that we should all respect each other's freedom of religious choice somewhat confusing. If you seriously believe in something, shouldn't you act on it? Most people believe that they should not respect someone's right to commit suicide and ruin their family's lives, so why should religion behave differently? If you believe something is true, then act as if it is true.
I agree with Clarste, though I'm glad the religious don't act on much of what they believe.
Two people with fundamentally differing philosophies: a bad idea as a long-term investment, methinks.
I think Depeche Mode generally have the right idea on this one.

On a more serious note, why would an unattractive philosophical proposition suddenly become appealing when proposed by an attractive messenger?
Enjoy the Inferno...