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The Art Of Manliness is a weblog dedicated to giving and sharing advice on how to live up to traditional ideals of manliness. It could be summed up as a perpetually evolving manual on how to be a Gentleman and a Scholar.

This site includes examples of the following:

  • All Girls Want Bad Boys: Explored, deconstructed, and ultimately debunked. The idea that women only want bad boys or "assholes" has a few articles dedicated to such a notion, all of which paint the mindset as thoroughly toxic and self-destructive.
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  • Badass Beard: Includes advice on how to grow and groom those.
  • Badass Bookworm: The site encourages being well-read and intelligent. There are many book reviews, lists, and passages.
  • Badass in a Nice Suit: The site promotes wearing suits and looking as fashionable as possible.
  • Cigar Chomper: A number of articles extol the manliness of cigar smoking.
  • Cultured Badass: Encouraged. The website promotes masculine values like intelligence, both academic and emotional, as well as advice on how a man can paint himself as a badass, mostly by reading and indulging in culture.
  • Distinguished Gentleman's Pipe: In addition to cigars, pipe smoking is often praised.
  • Dogged Nice Guy: Discouraged. The self-described "nice guy" (complete with air quotes) is portrayed frequently as a self-hating, passive-aggressive loser who isn't as nice as he thinks he is. There are several articles arguing this point, as well as several more telling such "nice guys" how to escape from this mindset.
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  • Genius Bruiser: The site encourages men to train both athletically and intellectually.
  • Heterosexual Life-Partners: The site has several articles encouraging men to form close, personal friendships with other men and lament that close, modern male friends are often seen in a negative light.
  • I Just Want to Be Badass: It gives advice to advance towards that goal, sometimes as satire and sometimes as real advice.
  • Manly Tears: There is an article detailing when a man should cry and when he shouldn't.
  • Masculinity Tropes: It's right there in the site's name. It examines masculinity from every which way by highlighting the good and bad points of being a man, as well as how to develop the former and avoid the latter.
  • Men Are Better Than Women: Averted. While it is chock full of advice towards men on how to live up to the traditional ideals of proactiveness, wisdom, personal strength, independence, elegance, and chivalry, it doesn't assert the superiority of men over women in any way, explicit or implicit. It should be noted that one of the site's owners and main contributors is a woman.
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  • Men Are Uncultured: The entire site could be seen as a guide to subvert this trope. Besides being a proper gentleman, it encourages the indulgence of culture.
  • Nice Guys Finish Last: Averted. The site promotes honesty, integrity, and proper manners. In a few podcasts and articles, it debunks the notion of the Dogged Nice Guy, who they say is often not nearly as nice as he thinks but is rather passive-aggressive and often too insecure to be honest. This gives the illusion that girls will go for the bad boys. In reality, it's all about confidence; the site argues that a respectable, confident man will almost always succeed.
  • Real Men Love Jesus: Downplayed. It is a secular website, but many of the contributors are Christian, so they mention their faith from time to time. Faith is not in and of itself painted as a masculine ideal, but there are a few articles on the subject of faith and manliness all the same.
  • Real Men Wear Pink: One of their many fashion guides gives pointers on how to do so in style.
  • Right Way/Wrong Way Pair: Dim and Dash showcase the differences between being a gentleman and being a brute. Dash would always use proper etiquette at the gym, on a date, etc. while Dim was always a doofus to those around him.
  • Rated M for Manly: Oh yeah. Note that this refers to the classic definition of manliness (being a good husband and father, being honest and hard-working, protecting the weak, taking responsibilty for your own decisions, etc.), not to be confused with the exaggerated machismo the internet has turned the concept into.
  • Sharp-Dressed Man: Not only does the site encourage this look but gives several tips on how to be one.
  • Smart People Play Chess: A frequently recommended hobby to pick up.
  • Smokingis Cool: Though they usually warn about its risks.
  • Übermensch: Nietzschie's life and philosophy are concisely analyzed in a two part series which praises his life-affirming outlook.
  • Wine Is Classy: A couple articles provide guides on drinking wine.


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