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Viewer Gender Confusion in Real Life.

  • Seiyuu Hiro Yuki looks, sounds, and acts like a 12-year-old girl despite being over 40 years old. Getting his sex right the first time is probably rarer than mistaking it. Also, another seiyuu, Kōki Miyata, says he's been frequently mistaken for a woman because of his high, effeminate voice.
  • Perhaps the most famous male seiyuu example, Shouta Aoi a seiyuu and singer, is often mistaken for a girl both by audiences and about his daily life. This is largely due to his “female” angelic singing voice as well as his effeminate looks and mannerisms.
  • Two female seiyuu examples: Romi Paku is often mistaken for a "New-Half" because of her "husky voice". Also, Wakako "Kujira" Matsumoto plays completely convincing older males (including Orochimaru, who also has his own entry in this page) because she sounds exactly like a guy. Whenever a female character has a suspiciously masculine voice, it's probably her.
  • Hyenas. The females are more dominant, aggressive, and "masculine" than the males. And the females have certain external characteristics that convinced Greek and medieval researchers that hyenas were hermaphroditic.
  • A lot of birds.
    • We humans are so used to the idea of human females being pretty that when one first encounters the world of birds, it can be rather jarring. You see, among many birds, the males tend to be pretty while the females are actually rather drab. This actually makes sense; if the female is the one caring for the young, you don't want her to be the one that's all eye-catching. Leave that to the male, who can draw a predator's eye away from the nest.
      • This is actually invoked in the narrative of Ed Wood's transvestite confession piece Glen or Glenda.
      • With Phalaropes, it's the females who are the more brightly colored ones while the males take sole care of the young. This fact can confuse those who are fully aware of the usual differences between the sexes in birds.
    • And with birds that color-wise look more or less the same regardless of gender — thinking of raptors here — it's usually the female that's bigger.
    • Then there are Chickens. Hens and Roosters are easy to tell apart when full grown but as chicks are indistinguishable. There's an actual job with training involved to be able to distinguish them as chicks.
    • This was invoked in Pet Shop of Horrors, where Count D invites a group of young society women and young society drag queens to tea at his shop. They watch a pair of feminine-looking dancers — who are in reality, male peacocks.
    • Parrots, on the other hand, look pretty much the same, and have to be DNA-tested to find out their sex. If your breeding pair aren't, it's often because they're both the same sex.
    • It's very difficult to tell male and female pigeons apart at first glance, unless the birds are courting each other. This isn't helped by the fact that they have many different color variations regardless of gender.
    • Ratites, the family of large flightless birds. Female ratites tend to be the dominant gender, being larger and more aggressive while males take care of young. Averted with ostriches, who are fairly easy to tell apart.
  • Because his Author Avatar is genderless and one of the female characters carried the same name as his, Kagami Yoshimizu, the creator of Lucky Star, was wrongly thought as female by many — he lampshaded one when a male proposed to him at a Taiwanese convention, and now it seemed that even the American DVD release also confused his gender, calling him Ms. Yoshimizu...
  • Before Discworld became such a success, many assumed Terry Pratchett was a woman due to the Gender-Blender Name and the overtly feminist Equal Rites.
  • Author Tracy Hickman has gotten so used to Viewer Gender Confusion that he sometimes introduces himself at fantasy conventions by saying "Tracy couldn't come, so she sent me".
  • Lady Gaga is often mistaken for a Drag Queen due to her androgynous facial structure, Uncanny Valley Makeup and outlandish style. It also doesn't help that her haters started rumors claiming that she was either a hermaphrodite or transgender (which were eventually disproven).
    • Christina Aguilera was accused of stealing Lady Gaga's style, and she even admits she didn't immediately know if Lady Gaga was a he or a she.
  • MAD once ran an article about all the plus-sides to the NBA mandating formal attire for public appearances. One of them was "You can now tell the difference between the NBA and WNBA players." The accompanying picture showed a confused autograph-seeker trying to choose between two tall, muscular, short-haired, earring-sporting b-ball players. However, you could just barely make out breasts on the one on the right.
  • Take a look at this picture of Contemporary Christian Music singer and American Idol alum Jason Castro in the picture from this Christian Post article.
  • As one story goes, the California police were looking for a man who had stolen a motorcycle. They found a man and bike matching the description and pulled him over... only for it to turn out to be 3rd Rock from the Sun actress Kristen Johnston, who is quite tall and broad-shouldered for a woman (though not particularly masculine otherwise).
  • The new adverts for confused.com feature the logo as a woman while it was often assumed she was male. Apparently the logo was modelled after the founder of the website, Kate Armstrong, and was always meant to be a woman.
    • It seems fitting that confused.com would live up to its name in such a way, though.
  • Youtube guitarist makmakmakochan has pages and pages of comments debating their gender.
  • Australian singer/performer Courtney Act. Singer of the Top 30 (Australia) hit "Rub Me Wrong". Once made FHM's Top 100 Sexiest Women. Made the finals of the first season of Australian Idol, and even got a record deal out of it. He's a guy. Granted he is a drag queen, so it isn't too surprising he would create this kind of reaction. But even as a drag queen, Courtney is famous for looking extremely "fishy".
  • Justin Bieber has been mistaken by many, including Daniel Radcliffe, for a girl. In fact, there is even a Tumblr for it, "Lesbians Who Look Like Justin Bieber".
  • If you're over 30, you've probably heard the theme song to The Never Ending Story, sung by Limahl. Even if you knew the (seemingly gender neutral, in fact seemingly made up) name of the singer, it's very likely you assumed he was a woman. Even watching the video doesn't help. He looks like a guy but sounds so much like a woman that you assume he's lip-synching. Seriously, listen to the song and try to find anything masculine about that voice. For the curious, the singer's real name is Christopher Hamill, and "Limahl" is an anagram of his surname. Adding to the confusion is the fact that the main backup singer, Beth Anderson, is a woman, and it's sometimes hard to tell which one of them is singing at different points in the song.
  • According to Natalie Imbruglia, when she and Daniel Johns were romantically attached, a local paper ran a photo of the two holding hands in public, mistaking it for evidence of her being a lesbian. If you look at older pictures of Daniel Johns, this is sort of understandable, especially ones from when he was clean-shaven with long hair.
  • Brony musician WoodenToaster and his Original Character Glaze. Many people were confused with the gender of Glaze. The reason for this was that Glaze has a female but without eyelashes and sporting a robotic male voice. The issue only got worse when the remix Love Me Cherilee came out, which showed a filly Glaze with eyelashes. WoodenToaster later explained in a video that the reason his OC is female is that he didn't like the "blocky" bases of the male ponies. It all became very clear to the ones who watched the video, but there are still many newcomers who don't know about the whole issue. Just go on any video having to do with the WoodenToaster and there will be at least twenty comments on the page asking if WoodenToaster is a girl or boy.
  • TV host Wendy Williams is often mistaken for a Drag Queen because of her height (she's 5'11"), relatively manly features, and over the top wigs and make up. She is in fact a cis woman.
  • Ralphie, the live mascot for the University of Colorado Buffaloes football team, is a female bison. Every bison used to play Ralphie has been female, since the females only weigh 990-1100 pounds; the males weigh 1100-2100 pounds. The females are also more docile. With her masculine name, association with the football team, and the fact that she's a huge charging beast, most people assume she's male.
  • This blog, which is dedicated to pictures of men who look like stereotypical old lesbians.
  • Most small organisms in general, as it's simply hard to thoroughly describe something so small. It doesn't help that many of these organisms are hermaphrodites or some, like clownfish, can even change gender.
  • The viral video "Sittin' on tha Toilet" involves a woman named Elonia, but due to her chubbiness concealing her breasts, her short hair, and her alto voice, some viewers have mistaken her for a man.
  • It's often hard to tell the gender of a baby, so some people see a baby and guess wrong. Due to the trope Pink Girl, Blue Boy being so common in baby clothes, it's common to mistake a baby boy in pink for a girl, or a baby girl in blue for a boy.
  • This is a common problem for Non-Binary people. It can be very easy for strangers to get their genders wrong, which may offend them. While there are they/them pronouns, many people don’t know how to address them instead of “sir” or “ma’am.”


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