Snarky loser hero meets snarky haughty heroine. They either fall in love, or they snark. Usually both.
This is essentially a satire of the standard Magical Girlfriend, which describes a beautiful, classy, good-mannered, loyal girl—the logical result being she should be somewhat critical of her loser boyfriend. She makes no attempt to ignore the fact that he is the Loser Protagonist, and frequently calls him on it, criticizes him, and rarely if ever fawns over him like some Fangirl. She expects better from him and pushes him to improve, while still expecting to be taken care of. However, the guy usually takes it in stride, mocks her in return, or just says the trope title.
Expect a generous helping of Aww, Look! They Really Do Love Each Other moments, to let the audience know why they should be supporting this couple. The idea is that the snarky loser will help the princess loosen up and be friendlier, while the princess constantly holding the loser to a higher standard will eventually make him improve himself. Often appears in Love Comedies, depending on how satirical the story is.
- Lum from Urusei Yatsura is the Trope Codifier for this character type in anime and manga, with her repeated electrocuting of the perverted Ataru.
- True to a degree of Asuka and Shinji's relationship in Neon Genesis Evangelion. Asuka is often quite the Jerkass towards Shinji, but it is clear at least some of her meanness stems from the fact that she is attracted to him (not that she would ever admit it), but views his passiveness, social ineptitude, and tendency to apologise a lot as undesirable traits. It doesn't help that she views their guardian, Misato, as enabling these traits in Shinji by often telling him that he is good enough as he is.
- Shinku in Rozen Maiden, partly because she believes Jun is her servant, partly because she has the attitude of an Ojou and Jun is a Hikikomori.
- Ai Amano of Video Girl Ai twists this trope in that she acted like this despite not being supposed to be the "princess" or girlfriend, but still fell for the lovable loser Youta, whom she was trying to improve.
- The Goddess Pandora, the "heroine" of the manga Because I'M the Goddess!, has that kind of attitude in her dealings with Aoi.
- Nagi and Princess Arika in Mahou Sensei Negima!, with some serious slaps thrown in for his uppitiness. He was kind of asking for them.
- William and Miyako in Private Prince genderflip this, as he is the prince and she's the commoner with low patience.
- Louie and Melissa in Rune Soldier Louie, as Melissa constantly criticizes Louie and tries to turn him into a 'champion'.
- This sums up Kouji Kabuto and Maria Grace Fleed's relationship in UFO Robo Grendizer, which might be one of the (if not the) earliest examples in anime. Considering that Koji is being himself, Maria's behavior is understandable.
- In My Teen Romantic Comedy SNAFU, its a notable element of the chemistry between Hachiman Hikigaya and Yukino Yukinoshita. Although compared to the average person, it's debatable if Hachiman is a loser. Still with Hachiman compared to Yukino this trope is likely to apply. Yukino is described as incredibly beautiful, a strong first academically and, in Hachiman's words (LN), the "epitome of nobility". On the other hand, Hachiman is described as having an unpleasant appearance, academically variable at best and socially awkward.
- Sayoko from Tentai Senshi Sunred is the girlfriend of Sunred, an ex-sentai hero who's unemployed. Despite being the one of them not capable of punching holes in concrete and running at the speed of sound, she's the one who does everything around the house, owns their apartment and stationary, earns a steady paycheck, and (with her limited spare time) tries to get Sunred to apply himself.
- In Touch, Minami constantly criticizes Tatsuya's laziness and immaturity and tries to coax him to give his best.
- This is Adam Strange's attitude towards Starfire when they're stranded in space in 52. Animal Man tries to act as a mediator.
- Sabretooth shows this toward Monet, with whom he shares a Belligerent Sexual Tension in UXM. The first chapter has Creed making a joke after scaring a man to the point of soiling himself. Monet says toilet humor is expected from someone of his pedigree, before asking if the enemy is impressed by his everyman wit or enamored by her awesomeness. Creed responds that nobody's as impressed by her as she is with herself.
- Another instance occurs during a Hellfire Club meeting.
Psylocke: These people may look like elitist snobs but they'll chew you up, spit you out, and feed you to their young.
Creed: Speaking of snobs, why isn't Monet with us on this?
- Another instance occurs during a Hellfire Club meeting.
- A Crown of Stars: Asuka often expresses annoyance and dissatisfaction with Shinji behaving like a wimpy pushover who will not stand up for himself, will not push back when pushed and apologises for anything when she knows he can be better than that. Shinji is not a good snarker and usually he ignores or lets her criticisms go, but sometimes he will retort.
- Chapter 50 provides an example of this. Asuka complains about his lack of self-esteem and declares that she will turn him into a hero, and Shinji scowls: So do I have no said on it?
- Chapter 21 provides an example of Asuka playing her part:
Asuka:We travel to another world, hopscotch all over space and time, raise the dead, rocket around in the hottest mecha in the universe, and still all you say is Im sorry. I despair of improving you, Third. Am I going have to throw you in the lagoon like I said earlier?
- Evangelion 303: Asuka and Shinji's relationship played like this during the first chapters before getting together. She would snark and he would snark back, usually in a milder way. Or she would insist that he was now part of the elite so that he should act like it, and he would snark. Or she would be rude due to be upset, and he would snark.
- Lukas Kristiansen from The Mean Spirited Princessof Heldig is often talking this way to Princess Egna, until she had a HeelFace Turn.
- Princess Eilonwy in the Disney animated version of The Black Cauldron, who patronizes Taran when she learns that he's not a warrior or a lord, but an Assistant Pig Keeper. When Taran pats himself on the back for enabling their castle escape, she takes him down a few notches by reminding him not only that her knowledge of the dungeon passageways allowed him to break out of there, but that Taran's magic sword did most of the work.
- Jasmine of Aladdin is a plucky rebellious princess who very quick to deflate pomposity and tell those who appear interested in her only for her beauty and kingdom exactly what she thinks of them, such as Prince Ali Abahbawa (Aladdin's disguise). After his ruse is exposed and they are engaged, she continues encouraging him to act less like a street thief and more like a man who will become sultan.
- Tiana in The Princess and the Frog. True, Naveen is a lot more competent than he lets on - he's just lazy, which is enough to set a workaholic like her off.
- Han Solo's initial relationship with Princess Leia in the Star Wars films. Namely the first two, because by the third film they've softened to each other, and when they do snark, it's more in jest.
- For a while after Star Wars, Harrison Ford was typecast for this kind of storyline. The number of movies with the premise "Harrison Ford is forced together with haughty woman and they hate each other but eventually fall in love" is considerable.
- Since it's a parody of Star Wars, Spaceballs has a generous helping of this dynamic with Princess Vespa (of the planet Druidia) and Lone Starr. Mel Brooks said he named the planet Druidia so he could use this one joke:
Princess: I am Princess Vespa, daughter of Roland. King of the Druids!
Lone Starr: (groans) That's all we needed: a Druish princess.
Barf: Funny. She doesn't look Druish.
- Prince of Persia: The Sands of Time with Dastan and Tamina since Dastan (as the adopted son of the King of Persia) should be higher ranked than Tamina (as princess of a smallish city state). Sure Dastan was born an urchin but after spending most of his life as a prince the interaction comes across as odd. He defers to her (when he's not selling her to bandits) because he's a gentleman, she's overbearing and holds a grudge because he is the main reason that Persia was able to conquer her small city-state. The overbearing attitude was more or less an act because she nearly escapes (and kills) Dastan because of it.
- The Wizard: Corey and Haley follow this trope to the tee. He even compares her to Zelda (someone who always needs to be rescued and is the Trope Namer) and she takes that as sexist.
- The Cutting Edge has a hell of a lot of this trope going on until the very last possible moment.
- In David Eddings' The Belgariad, this is Garion and Ce'Nedra's relationship condensed down to four words. Unsurprisingly, she's pissed when she finds out that he isn't just a farm boy, but the long-lost heir to the Rivan Throne and hereditary Overlord of the West... in other words, more royal than she is. Belgarion has the foresight to find a way to make them equal in status to preserve his own sanity after the marriage.
- Aravis to Shasta in C. S. Lewis's The Horse and His Boy. This defines their relationship from the very beginning. Their first words to each other: "Why, you're only a girl." "And you're only a boy. A rude, common little boy. A slave probably who's stolen his master's horse!" The Lemony Narrator even jokes about this at the end, when he tells the readers that they continued to affectionately bicker and eventually decided to get married so they could continue to do so more conveniently.
- The relationship between Taran and Eilonwy in The Chronicles of Prydain, although the series is peppered liberally with Aww, Look! They Really Do Love Each Other moments, mitigating this somewhat. She initially found him "fascinating" for being an Assistant Pig Keeper in the original Chronicles of Prydain because she had never met an Assistant Pig Keeper before. In fact, she held a persistently casual attitude towards most everything. Though there was an element of the stated trope present, she didn't judge him less for his station. Except when she is Brainwashed and Crazy.
- Lloyd Alexander seems to have liked this trope, as we also see it from Joy-in-the-Dance toward Lucian in The Arkadians. The idea that her treatment of him masks romantic feelings seems absurd to him at first, but to the other characters it's obvious.
- The titular heroine of Daisy Miller:
Winterbourne: I wish you would flirt with me, and me only.
Daisy: Ah! thank youthank you very much; you are the last man I should think of flirting with. As I have had the pleasure of informing you, you are too stiff.
Winterbourne: You say that too often.
Daisy: If I could have the sweet hope of making you angry, I should say it again.
- Christine of The Phantom of the Opera (the original novel by Gaston Leroux) never lets Raoul push her around and has no problem telling him to mind his own business.
- Marguerite Blakeney and her husband, Lord Percy Blakeney, of The Scarlet Pimpernel fame. She fell in love with him and agreed to marry him despite his foppish ways because she could sense there was some depth there. But after their marriage, those depths have apparently evaporated, and she's married to a complete airhead whose most pressing concern is fashion. (Or so she thinks...) She doesn't hold him to a high standard anymore — she just mocks him openly to their friends. Percy doesn't fight back in his own defense, because he loves her, but does not trust her.
- Carline in The Riftwar Cycle acts like this towards Pug, then later in the series, towards Laurie.
- Ysabelle the squirrel maiden acts this way toward Vesper the bat during the first half of Robin Jarvis' The Oaken Throne. Their species are sworn enemies, and she finds him repulsive. He sees her as nothing but an "uppity tree worshipper". As they get to know each other, however, they fall in love.
- In the Discworld novel Mort, the titular character has this sort of relationship with Ysabel, Death's adopted daughter.
- Kitai of the Codex Alera. She wanted to bond with a horse, and continues to remind Tavi at relatively regular intervals. She doesn't just look down at him for personal reasons, but also detests his species. She snarks it up with some of the best and, yes, they do eventually fall in love. She gets a Quip to Black to end out the series that doubles as this trope. It's also a mild genderflip: Tavi's royalty, Kitai's just the daughter of the head of one tribe, and her people's diplomat (appointed by Tavi).
- Precious Stone is this to James Bond at the start of the Young Bond novel Hurricane Gold. But as the hardships that she and him have to endure accumulate, she gets better and becomes a valuable ally.
- Arya of the Inheritance Cycle tries to do this to keep Eragon at bay, because even though he's an adult by human standards, by the standards of the semi-immortal Elves and Dragon Riders he's the youngest of kids. She's the child of the queen, groomed for leadership, her people's diplomat, a warrior, and he's a moonstruck fledgling rider who is their only hope and doesn't need the distraction. In retrospect, she's right and he's still finishing puberty.
- Priscilla in Henry Wadsworth Longfellow's Narrative Poem "The Courtship of Miles Standish". Her snarky, "Why don't you speak for yourself, John?" has even achieved meme status.
- Canderous refers to Bastila specifically as "You spoiled little Jedi princess." Because of this, Canderous/Bastila is an ascended Crack Ship, popularized when a fanfic writer (who writes romance novels professionally) took a whack at it.
- In The Underland Chronicles, Gregor seems to love mocking Luxa's stiff conduct and all that. Has some pretty funny moments.
- Subverted (and gender-flipped) in Pride and Prejudice. Darcy thinks this is what's going on with him and Elizabeth when she makes "lively" comments in response to his haughty opinions and thinks there's a growing attraction between them. Turns out it's all on his side; she really does think he's a total prat. (Which, once she spells it out, motivates him to be nicer.)
- In The Witchlands, Safi is rather more elegant and aristocratic, whereas Merik is a sailor, so when they're not fighting or kissing, this is what their interactions look like.
- In the 2006 BBC Robin Hood series
- Robin notes that everything Marian says to him sounds like a criticism.
- Allan-a-Dale's priceless reaction◊ to Kate snapping: "My NAME is KATE!" by way of an introduction. His expression qualifies.
- Buffy the Vampire Slayer: Both of Xander Harris' girlfriends, Cordelia and Anya, had a strong tendency in this direction. By the time he's going with Anya, he's more competent at arguing back, and so the trope is lampshaded in dialogue.
- Angel had more of Cordelia in this kind of relationship with Doyle. She soon gets enough Character Development to outgrow it.
- Star Trek:
- The Daughter of the Fifth House, Holder of the Sacred Chalice of Rixx, Heir to the Holy Rings of Betazed! For non-Trekkies, that's Lwaxana Troi, Deanna's mom. She marched around the Enterprise and Deep Space Nine like she owned the place, and looked awesome doing it. At least once per appearance, she would say her full title when letting some unfortunate schmo know who they were dealing with, in a way that would evoke the local equivalent of "Well, excuuuuse me, Princess!" if not for the diplomatic incident it would cause. She wanted to be Picard's Love Interest, but he wasn't interested... though she claims otherwise, and she would know. It's made all the more hilarious that Lwaxana was played by Majel Barrett Roddenberry, and therefore literally owned the place (the idea, anyway). Later appearances had her blow through the titles like she was sick of saying it, generally when she honestly expected people to not be impressed. Her introduction to a certain constable springs to mind...
- Kaitama the First Monarch in the Star Trek: Enterprise episode "Precious Cargo". She starts off as a kidnapping victim Girl in a Box. When she is removed by Trip Tucker, she spends the episode being this to him while they escape from the kidnappers, leading to the inevitable squabbling, torn clothing, and passionate clinching.
- Cheers: Diane often acts like this, much to Sam's chagrin. Most of their clashes tend to stem from Diane needling Sam for his Book Dumb status—and his typical predilection for women that Diane deems airheads/floozies.
Diane: You're a rapidly aging adolescent!Sam: Well, I would rather be that than a snob!Diane: And I would rather be a snob.Sam: Well, good!—because you are!
- Caleb and Hanna from Pretty Little Liars dynamic as a couple fit this trope at the beginning of their relationship. caleb even calls her princess. She thinks it's pretty hilarious.
- In Gossip Girl, during their short-lived, but tumultuous romance arc Blair treats Dan Humphrey this way. Bonus points for her being an actual princess part of that time.
- Roxane of Cyrano de Bergerac is an intellectual who needs a guy with eloquence and creative genius, and if you can't deliver, she'll show you the door.
- Fire Emblem
- Clarine of Reglay in Sword of Seals, especially in regards to Rutger the myrmidon and Lance the cavalier. She eventually warms up to them and to the female Archer Dorothy, not always putting status before everything. (Rutger admits in their A support that he likes her better like this. Awwww.)
- Serra from Fire Emblem: Blazing Sword, who is very similar to Clarine, but is actually quite more straightforward and blunt. She's also not a noblewoman, her personality stems more from years of loneliness and Parental Abandonment.
- L'Arachel from Fire Emblem: The Sacred Stones, her very... "special" interactions with people like Ephraim, Innes, and Rennac.
- Fire Emblem Awakening has Maribelle, the daughter of a count and the local Lonely Rich Kid. She has a good heart and quite the pride, so several of her supports are made of this. Specially those with Lon'qu.
- The eponymous Prince of Persia (in his 3-D incarnations) has this sort of a relationship with the various female sidekicks he works with.
Farah: WHY DID YOU PUT YOUR SWORD AWAY?!
- Almost every girl Jimmy from Bully takes interest in, with the exception of Zoe, though she is definitely snarky.
- The Legend of Zelda
- The Legend of Zelda: Twilight Princess: Link always makes a face at Midna and even growls at her as a wolf. It crosses into Vitriolic Best Buds later in the game.
- The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time: Princess Ruto starts berating Link as soon as they meet, and forces him to literally carry her out of Jabu-Jabu's belly. Then she gets both huffy and blushy about how the Third Elemental Stone is also the Zora Engagement Ring.
- The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild: This incarnation of Zelda is much like her cartoon counterpart, being aloof and haughty towards Link with a dose of Inferiority Superiority Complex replacing the snark. This is for two reasons. First, Link was assigned to be her guard and knight and was ordered to stay at her side at all times, and Zelda views herself as independent enough to not need someone to protect her. Second, she is (at first) unable to tap into the power of her Royal bloodline while Link was able to tap into the powers of the Hero incarnation much sooner than her. To her eyes, Link was a constant reminder of her failures. After Link saves her from Yiga ninjas, she has a Jerkass Realization and warms up to him.
- Blazblue: Rachel Alucard is a firm believer of Tough Love it seems, and acts out this trope towards the entire cast, but especially Ragna the Bloodedge. There is almost no conversation between the two that doesn't devolve into Snark-to-Snark Combat. While Rachel does care about him, she absolutely refuses to admit to such and implying she does is a Berserk Button for her. For his part, Ragna does have a few issues he needs to get over as well.
- In Lost Horizon, Kim isn't as impressed with Fenton as he is with himself, often snarking at his unusual strategies and complaining about the problems she's had as a result of leaving Hong Kong with him. He, for his part, keeps trying to offload her as if she's a helpless liability. They get together in the end anyway.
- Amaltea from Sword Princess Amaltea sometimes gets in troubles for being so arrogant and Ossian has to call her out.
- The Trope Namer is Link in The Legend of Zelda cartoon, in his most lackadaisical and loser guy iteration. Zelda was a good mix of both this and the Magical Girlfriend tropes.
- Kim Possible attempting to fix best friend Ron Stoppable. Considering how pathetic he was through Season 1 and 2, she didn't go far enough.
Kim: Last night he had to take off his shoes to count to 12; now he's taking a genius aptitude test.
- Thomas the Tank Engine was likely thinking this exact quote when Emily began trying to "advise" him in one episode. Then there was that time she took over Gordon's express and began throwing her weight around. Not to mention that one time when she visited an old castle and proclaimed her Queen Emily.
- Mai of Avatar: The Last Airbender Grey DeLisle (Azula) commented Mai had Zuko "totally whipped."
- The Legend of Korra
- Deconstructed: Eska treats Bolin like a flunky, and he quickly wants out. And then, she tries to force him to marry her. By the end of the season, it turns out Bolin really did love her, but her insanely overbearing, borderline sociopathic ways terrified him (as they did everyone but her own brother and father). She really did love him too, in her own... unique way. After some character development and both coming to terms with their own issues and each others', it looks like they can be together happily... Except now the twins have to go back to the North Pole to explain to their mother what a mess their father made.
- Prince Wu and Bolin's older brother Mako arguably fit in as a Ho Yay version: Wu is a Keet with a heart of gold but quite the lack of common sense whereas Mako is a textbook Socially Awkward Hero.
- It's defied by Daria since most of the guys don't want to have any sort of relationship with her and they either didn't mind her snarkiness or didn't notice it. This was later justified as part of Daria's defenses against being emotionally hurt - she'd hit them, so they couldn't get close enough to get a chance to hurt her.
- Daria's parents, however, play this completely straight. Helen often gets frustrated with Jake and isn't afraid to lampshade how ridiculous he's acting; he in turn isn't afraid to snark at her or voice his frustration; they make out soon, however. It's even lampshaded by Helen's sister Amy, who congratulates Jake for putting up with someone as "high manteinance" as Helen.
- Stickin' Around has Bradley and Stacy involved in this, especially considering Bradley's air headed nature and Stacy's witty sensibility.
- While they aren't in a love relationship (remove the Shipping Goggles and you'll see it) Gwen Tennyson often would have this attitude toward her cousin Ben in the original Ben 10 series. This happens often in the sequel series.
- Sonic Sat AM has Sonic the Hedgehog, a Smug Super with little patience and Princess Sally Acorn, the bossy tomboyish Deadpan Snarker.
- In the Dungeons & Dragons series, Eric pulls this on Bobby after informing the pint-sized Barbarian that his pet unicorn, Uni, is hanging out with hot new guy Kosar.